Divorce Therapists in Portland, OR

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Avvy Mar
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97239
My specialties include: trauma and post traumatic stress, anxiety and depression, divorce and co-parenting, relationship difficulties, and stress related to medical issues in adults and children.
My work involves helping you find what is most valuable to you and how you can live more in tune with your values and goals. By helping explore your feelings and relationships, we can discover together what patterns and obstacles can be shifted to bring you into the life you want. I am experienced in helping people improve their relationships, professional lives and sense of personal identity.
My specialties include: trauma and post traumatic stress, anxiety and depression, divorce and co-parenting, relationship difficulties, and stress related to medical issues in adults and children.
My work involves helping you find what is most valuable to you and how you can live more in tune with your values and goals. By helping explore your feelings and relationships, we can discover together what patterns and obstacles can be shifted to bring you into the life you want. I am experienced in helping people improve their relationships, professional lives and sense of personal identity.
(503) 406-4227 View (503) 406-4227
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Robin L Magdahlen
Licensed Professional Counselor, MFT, RDT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97239
Positive Aging, Senior Life Transitions, Caregivers/Adult Children, Families - Adoption/ Divorce/Blended Families, Divorce Coaching, Adult Adoptee/Birth Parent Reunification, Pre-Marital Counseling, EMDR, Depression, Anxiety, Grief/Loss, Crisis Intervention and Stabilization, Substance Abuse, Self Esteem/Personal Growth, Individual and Group Drama Therapy.
My intention for you is to gently but dynamically create opportunities for growth and healing through flexible and creative alternatives to break through old patterns. I like to collaborate with motivated clients who are willing to work to change their lives. My goal is to help you discover your own solutions to your problems and concerns in an environment that is welcoming, empathetic and non-judgmental. I do that by carefully attending to your thoughts and feelings. Although I will offer specific "interventions" I believe that change occurs during therapy when there is strong motivation combined with the quality of our connection.
Positive Aging, Senior Life Transitions, Caregivers/Adult Children, Families - Adoption/ Divorce/Blended Families, Divorce Coaching, Adult Adoptee/Birth Parent Reunification, Pre-Marital Counseling, EMDR, Depression, Anxiety, Grief/Loss, Crisis Intervention and Stabilization, Substance Abuse, Self Esteem/Personal Growth, Individual and Group Drama Therapy.
My intention for you is to gently but dynamically create opportunities for growth and healing through flexible and creative alternatives to break through old patterns. I like to collaborate with motivated clients who are willing to work to change their lives. My goal is to help you discover your own solutions to your problems and concerns in an environment that is welcoming, empathetic and non-judgmental. I do that by carefully attending to your thoughts and feelings. Although I will offer specific "interventions" I believe that change occurs during therapy when there is strong motivation combined with the quality of our connection.
(503) 766-5714 View (503) 766-5714
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Gabriel V Trees
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97215
Relationship issues? Is divorce or breaking up a possibility? Relationships can provide the most meaningful and inspiring experiences of our lives - they can also be the most painful and confusing moments we ever endure.
As a level-3 Gottman therapist, I offer a wide range of experience and a compassionate path forward. I specialize in helping people resolve relationship issues that can lead to communication breakdowns, betrayal, and divorce. We'll work together to rebuild trust, ease confusion, navigate differences, and bring joy & intimacy to your relationship.
Relationship issues? Is divorce or breaking up a possibility? Relationships can provide the most meaningful and inspiring experiences of our lives - they can also be the most painful and confusing moments we ever endure.
As a level-3 Gottman therapist, I offer a wide range of experience and a compassionate path forward. I specialize in helping people resolve relationship issues that can lead to communication breakdowns, betrayal, and divorce. We'll work together to rebuild trust, ease confusion, navigate differences, and bring joy & intimacy to your relationship.
(503) 647-6597 View (503) 647-6597
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Nancy F Nasser-Marsh
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97232
I have two specialties, working with children and parents through adoption issues and working with children whose parents are experiencing separation and divorce.
My other specialty is working with children who are affected by their parents' separation or divorce. I help children move beyond their wall of silence or anger. As a result, children have a clearer understanding of their emotions and can adapt to this adjustment in their lives.
I have two specialties, working with children and parents through adoption issues and working with children whose parents are experiencing separation and divorce.
My other specialty is working with children who are affected by their parents' separation or divorce. I help children move beyond their wall of silence or anger. As a result, children have a clearer understanding of their emotions and can adapt to this adjustment in their lives.
(971) 270-0961 View (971) 270-0961
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Tamara Ellis
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MFT
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97211
I specialize in helping people with life transitions (separation, divorce ) and provide Co-parenting mediation services for families living in bi-nuclear households.
I have had the honor of helping people heal and grow for over 25 years. I train every year to improve my skills so that what I have to offer clients is relevant and based on current research. I am careful to ensure that my clients and I are always a "good match" and will help you find the right clinician if our fit isn't correct.
I specialize in helping people with life transitions (separation, divorce ) and provide Co-parenting mediation services for families living in bi-nuclear households.
I have had the honor of helping people heal and grow for over 25 years. I train every year to improve my skills so that what I have to offer clients is relevant and based on current research. I am careful to ensure that my clients and I are always a "good match" and will help you find the right clinician if our fit isn't correct.
(971) 231-2660 View (971) 231-2660
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Lacy Lowry
Art Therapist, MA, ATR, LAT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97219
I work collaboratively with teens and adults ages 13 and up on issues such as anxiety, depression, life transitions, and divorce.
I use creative methods to explore emotions and thought patterns that present in your life. Though verbal inquiry and art-making, we will use non-judgmental curiosity to better understand your story and your needs. My work is trauma-informed, mindfulness based, and highly relational. I follow your lead, while offering pause, perspective and support.
I work collaboratively with teens and adults ages 13 and up on issues such as anxiety, depression, life transitions, and divorce.
I use creative methods to explore emotions and thought patterns that present in your life. Though verbal inquiry and art-making, we will use non-judgmental curiosity to better understand your story and your needs. My work is trauma-informed, mindfulness based, and highly relational. I follow your lead, while offering pause, perspective and support.
(971) 318-1826 View (971) 318-1826
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Alli Santa
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, LPCA
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97204
I specialize in grief counseling, anxiety management and divorce guidance for individuals and couples.
I practice from a place of empathy and genuine understanding as I've known what it's like to experience tragedy. My passion is working with each client who wants help and is ready to work with me in their journey towards strong and positive mental health. I've also been known to incorporate a little humor throughout the healing process. I look forward to working with clients who are committed to the work we do and will continue to attend counseling even when the work seems very challenging. In order for counseling to be successful, there must be a mutual respect, and honesty is crucial to the therapeutic relationship.
I specialize in grief counseling, anxiety management and divorce guidance for individuals and couples.
I practice from a place of empathy and genuine understanding as I've known what it's like to experience tragedy. My passion is working with each client who wants help and is ready to work with me in their journey towards strong and positive mental health. I've also been known to incorporate a little humor throughout the healing process. I look forward to working with clients who are committed to the work we do and will continue to attend counseling even when the work seems very challenging. In order for counseling to be successful, there must be a mutual respect, and honesty is crucial to the therapeutic relationship.
(503) 210-5805 View (503) 210-5805
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Dr. Darin Bergen
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97215
You've been suffering on your own for far too long, pushing away the pain until it feels like you have nothing left. You're exhausted. You feel alone but you put on a mask, smiling on the outside while you're in so much pain inside. Because you pull it together for the people around you, nobody realizes what is going on. You've lost interest in everything. You can't concentrate. Sometimes you hate yourself and wonder if you deserve to feel good ever again. You feel weak and you are so tired of this pain. It's time for a change.
You've been suffering on your own for far too long, pushing away the pain until it feels like you have nothing left. You're exhausted. You feel alone but you put on a mask, smiling on the outside while you're in so much pain inside. Because you pull it together for the people around you, nobody realizes what is going on. You've lost interest in everything. You can't concentrate. Sometimes you hate yourself and wonder if you deserve to feel good ever again. You feel weak and you are so tired of this pain. It's time for a change.
(503) 308-6146 View (503) 308-6146
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Jason Scriven
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSc, BA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Divorce, work pressures, anxiety, depression have all been part of my life and I'd love to share what I've learned with you.
You will enjoy working with me if you are seeking a calm, safe space to discuss the challenges that you are facing. I approach each new person without judgment or expectations.
Divorce, work pressures, anxiety, depression have all been part of my life and I'd love to share what I've learned with you.
You will enjoy working with me if you are seeking a calm, safe space to discuss the challenges that you are facing. I approach each new person without judgment or expectations.
(425) 321-3143 View (425) 321-3143
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Dr. Nadia Delshad
Counselor, PsyD, MSc, BAHons, ClinHyp
Verified Verified
Online Only
Board-endorsed clinical forensic psychologist (Australia); completed certifications in clinical hypnosis, Yoga, MBSR teacher training, and advanced evidence-based treatments for couples, family mediation, divorce mediation in the United States.
When things go wrong we develop “secondary” strategies as humans. We may become hyperactivated, deactivated, or anxious and avoidant. Emotion allows us vital information about how we experience ourselves, our interpersonal relationships, and our world. It also mobilizes us into action in our attachment relationships. These strategies, the wisest responses you had for survival at that time, may not be serving you well now.
Board-endorsed clinical forensic psychologist (Australia); completed certifications in clinical hypnosis, Yoga, MBSR teacher training, and advanced evidence-based treatments for couples, family mediation, divorce mediation in the United States.
When things go wrong we develop “secondary” strategies as humans. We may become hyperactivated, deactivated, or anxious and avoidant. Emotion allows us vital information about how we experience ourselves, our interpersonal relationships, and our world. It also mobilizes us into action in our attachment relationships. These strategies, the wisest responses you had for survival at that time, may not be serving you well now.
(603) 522-7811 View (603) 522-7811
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Holly K Severson Herzog
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you in the midst of a major life transition, like a divorce or job loss, and feel confused about how to move forward? Do you struggle with relationship issues like how to communicate better with a loved one, have trouble navigating conflicts, or have a desire to have more joy-filled relationships? Not only do I have book knowledge about these issues, I have lived many of them, just like you.
I work with individuals and couples and specialize in relationship issues. I am a certified Relational Life Therapist and I use a variety of resources (EFT, Gottman, somatic, Couples Institute). I have training in sex therapy as well. If you and your partner want to work intensively in person (4-18 hours), reach out.
Are you in the midst of a major life transition, like a divorce or job loss, and feel confused about how to move forward? Do you struggle with relationship issues like how to communicate better with a loved one, have trouble navigating conflicts, or have a desire to have more joy-filled relationships? Not only do I have book knowledge about these issues, I have lived many of them, just like you.
I work with individuals and couples and specialize in relationship issues. I am a certified Relational Life Therapist and I use a variety of resources (EFT, Gottman, somatic, Couples Institute). I have training in sex therapy as well. If you and your partner want to work intensively in person (4-18 hours), reach out.
(971) 407-5253 View (971) 407-5253
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Lisa Gabardi, PhD, LLC
Psychologist, PhD, LLC
Verified Verified
Serves Area
My main areas of expertise include relationships, marriage, divorce, anxiety, depression, stress, loss/grief, women's issues, and self esteem.
I provide a supportive, compassionate environment combined with practical guidance to promote your strengths, clarify your values and goals, and develop flexible thinking and new habits. Because I believe that when life challenges are met with compassion and practical guidance, the challenges become a catalyst for healing, resilience, and developing your best self. I consider psychotherapy to be a collaborative process, utilizing my expertise and your strengths to meet your goals. I actively participate in the therapy process, supporting your efforts toward sustainable change in your life.
My main areas of expertise include relationships, marriage, divorce, anxiety, depression, stress, loss/grief, women's issues, and self esteem.
I provide a supportive, compassionate environment combined with practical guidance to promote your strengths, clarify your values and goals, and develop flexible thinking and new habits. Because I believe that when life challenges are met with compassion and practical guidance, the challenges become a catalyst for healing, resilience, and developing your best self. I consider psychotherapy to be a collaborative process, utilizing my expertise and your strengths to meet your goals. I actively participate in the therapy process, supporting your efforts toward sustainable change in your life.
(503) 831-9614 View (503) 831-9614
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Kimberly Dudley Counseling, LLC
Counselor, LPC, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am passionate about the care and recovery of those who have faced trauma caused by domestic violence, sexual assault, generational harm, emotional neglect, attachment wounds, divorce, singleness, and more.
Together we will help you discover healthier coping skills, boundaries to keep your relationships healthy and happy, mindful body awareness, and decision-making skills. We all make decisions based on the information available to us, my goal is to give you a wider perspective and learn about you through a holistic, scientifically based way of thinking.
I am passionate about the care and recovery of those who have faced trauma caused by domestic violence, sexual assault, generational harm, emotional neglect, attachment wounds, divorce, singleness, and more.
Together we will help you discover healthier coping skills, boundaries to keep your relationships healthy and happy, mindful body awareness, and decision-making skills. We all make decisions based on the information available to us, my goal is to give you a wider perspective and learn about you through a holistic, scientifically based way of thinking.
(360) 837-5140 View (360) 837-5140
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Sabrina Hadeed
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LMHC, LPC, ACS
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I specialize in traditional talk therapy (EMDR & narrative therapy), Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy, co-parenting mediation, Conscious Uncoupling, divorce ceremonies & nature-based therapy.
Expert in working with: Couples, Adult Families, Break-ups, Conscious Uncoupling, Anxiety, PTSD, First Responders, people-pleasing tendencies, and codependency. I teach you how to shift your internal narratives so you can feel empowered and anchored in your life stories free from shame.
I specialize in traditional talk therapy (EMDR & narrative therapy), Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy, co-parenting mediation, Conscious Uncoupling, divorce ceremonies & nature-based therapy.
Expert in working with: Couples, Adult Families, Break-ups, Conscious Uncoupling, Anxiety, PTSD, First Responders, people-pleasing tendencies, and codependency. I teach you how to shift your internal narratives so you can feel empowered and anchored in your life stories free from shame.
(458) 230-5895 View (458) 230-5895
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Kimberly Alford
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Online Only
As a stay-at-home mom, I carefully planned my divorce, hired a PI to locate all assets, money, and hired the right attorney.
“The challenging birth of my twins, marked by 23 hours of labor and subsequent colic issues that required expensive specialized formula, inspired my career as a DONA-certified postpartum doula and perinatal therapist. Through supporting mothers with breastfeeding, baby schedules, and sleep training, I encountered numerous cases of postpartum depression, prompting me to specialize in helping mothers through various perinatal challenges, including depression, anxiety, high-risk pregnancies, and traumatic births. Helping mothers extended out into all stages of children fostering positive emotional attachments from birth into adulthood
As a stay-at-home mom, I carefully planned my divorce, hired a PI to locate all assets, money, and hired the right attorney.
“The challenging birth of my twins, marked by 23 hours of labor and subsequent colic issues that required expensive specialized formula, inspired my career as a DONA-certified postpartum doula and perinatal therapist. Through supporting mothers with breastfeeding, baby schedules, and sleep training, I encountered numerous cases of postpartum depression, prompting me to specialize in helping mothers through various perinatal challenges, including depression, anxiety, high-risk pregnancies, and traumatic births. Helping mothers extended out into all stages of children fostering positive emotional attachments from birth into adulthood
(949) 996-0632 View (949) 996-0632
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Jay Darien
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, EMDR
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97224
I specialize in trauma therapy using EMDR, divorce, infidelity, shame, self-esteem, and relationship issues.
It is important the therapist and the client are well suited. I encourage you to reach out to several therapists and get a feel for their style to ensure a good fit. I offer a 15 minute phone consultation to determine if we are compatible.
I specialize in trauma therapy using EMDR, divorce, infidelity, shame, self-esteem, and relationship issues.
It is important the therapist and the client are well suited. I encourage you to reach out to several therapists and get a feel for their style to ensure a good fit. I offer a 15 minute phone consultation to determine if we are compatible.
(435) 466-5514 View (435) 466-5514
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Marjorie Scheer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MFA, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I work with adults who are moving through significant life transitions: divorce or separation, loss, work or higher education transitions, relational conflicts, to name just a few issues.
I have extensive post graduate training and experience in psychodynamic therapy and a strong interest in how mindfulness practices can improve our everyday lives and hasten healing. My background in the arts also influences the way I think and see the world.
I work with adults who are moving through significant life transitions: divorce or separation, loss, work or higher education transitions, relational conflicts, to name just a few issues.
I have extensive post graduate training and experience in psychodynamic therapy and a strong interest in how mindfulness practices can improve our everyday lives and hasten healing. My background in the arts also influences the way I think and see the world.
(984) 355-9104 View (984) 355-9104
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Kim Conrow
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Portland, OR 97232
My work has centered on eating disorders, addiction, depression/anxiety and divorce/relationship recovery.
With more than twenty years in the counseling field, I utilize DBT, Core Values and Stages of Change in my work. As a poet and writer, I appreciate the importance of journaling and creative expression. I'm especially interested in the synchronistic experiences in clients' fictional narratives and their realities.
My work has centered on eating disorders, addiction, depression/anxiety and divorce/relationship recovery.
With more than twenty years in the counseling field, I utilize DBT, Core Values and Stages of Change in my work. As a poet and writer, I appreciate the importance of journaling and creative expression. I'm especially interested in the synchronistic experiences in clients' fictional narratives and their realities.
(503) 917-3524 View (503) 917-3524
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Anne Sikora
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PsyD, LCSW
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97202
I have experience working with a wide range of issues including: depression, anxiety and panic attacks, infertility, divorce, parenting teens and LGBTQ issues.
I am comfortable working with people where they are: whether in a moment of crisis or seeking long-standing characterological change. I encourage people to talk about the difficult things that are holding them back.
I have experience working with a wide range of issues including: depression, anxiety and panic attacks, infertility, divorce, parenting teens and LGBTQ issues.
I am comfortable working with people where they are: whether in a moment of crisis or seeking long-standing characterological change. I encourage people to talk about the difficult things that are holding them back.
(646) 583-3251 View (646) 583-3251
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Andrea M Frasca
Professional Counselor Associate, MA
Verified Verified
Portland, OR 97204
Hello! I am a professional counselor associate who works with adults struggling with depression, and anxiety, and those navigating stressful life changes and circumstances (relationships, parenting, divorce, death of a loved one, financial issues, etc.
I am currently being supervised and trained in RO DBT, and work within other modalities as well. I am a careful listener and empath; I believe everyone views life through their own unique lens. I endeavor to develop a trusting, honest relationship with my clients and assist them in achieving emotional wellness with some lightness and humor.
Hello! I am a professional counselor associate who works with adults struggling with depression, and anxiety, and those navigating stressful life changes and circumstances (relationships, parenting, divorce, death of a loved one, financial issues, etc.
I am currently being supervised and trained in RO DBT, and work within other modalities as well. I am a careful listener and empath; I believe everyone views life through their own unique lens. I endeavor to develop a trusting, honest relationship with my clients and assist them in achieving emotional wellness with some lightness and humor.
(971) 626-4383 View (971) 626-4383
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Divorce Therapists

How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?

Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?

There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioral, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?

When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?

It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.