Male Therapists in Milwaukie, OR
I work with people who may be struggling to feel present in their life, or feel unable to enact their values to live the life they envision. Often these struggles stem from things outside our control like past traumatic experiences or systemic oppression. In my collaborative approach to therapy, we will refocus on the experiences, decisions, and actions within your control to move your life in the direction you want it to go. My experiences includes working with symptoms of depression, anxiety, grief, trauma, anger, ADHD, addictions, and life transitions.
I work with people who may be struggling to feel present in their life, or feel unable to enact their values to live the life they envision. Often these struggles stem from things outside our control like past traumatic experiences or systemic oppression. In my collaborative approach to therapy, we will refocus on the experiences, decisions, and actions within your control to move your life in the direction you want it to go. My experiences includes working with symptoms of depression, anxiety, grief, trauma, anger, ADHD, addictions, and life transitions.
Sometimes life can be incredibly difficult, painful and confusing, leaving us feeling distant from ourselves, and others. Whether you are experiencing overwhelming anxiety, depression, and anger, trauma responses, relationship conflicts, life/career transitions, or ADHD, I am here to meet you where you are, and help you navigate your emotions in a way that makes sense to you. My practice is client-centered, and built on the belief that every individual has the potential to heal, grow, and thrive when they have the necessary tools and support. Please reach out for a free consultation!
Sometimes life can be incredibly difficult, painful and confusing, leaving us feeling distant from ourselves, and others. Whether you are experiencing overwhelming anxiety, depression, and anger, trauma responses, relationship conflicts, life/career transitions, or ADHD, I am here to meet you where you are, and help you navigate your emotions in a way that makes sense to you. My practice is client-centered, and built on the belief that every individual has the potential to heal, grow, and thrive when they have the necessary tools and support. Please reach out for a free consultation!
Well, hello! Looking to make some changes? Let's talk. I enjoy working with people on topics of adjustment and change, work life balance, mental health symptoms and substance use. I also enjoy supporting clients in long-term recovery to reclaim their lives. Whether you want to address mental health symptoms that are impacting your daily life or struggle with substance abuse, I have a very supportive, goal-directed and non-judgmental approach to help you identify and reach your goals.
Well, hello! Looking to make some changes? Let's talk. I enjoy working with people on topics of adjustment and change, work life balance, mental health symptoms and substance use. I also enjoy supporting clients in long-term recovery to reclaim their lives. Whether you want to address mental health symptoms that are impacting your daily life or struggle with substance abuse, I have a very supportive, goal-directed and non-judgmental approach to help you identify and reach your goals.
Trauma, anxiety, grief, and relationship stress can leave you feeling disconnected from the life you want. With the right support, healing and meaningful change are possible. I help individuals and couples reconnect with themselves, their relationships, and what matters most.
Some of the concerns I work well with include trauma, anxiety and depression, grief and loss, life transitions, relationship building communication and trust, self-esteem and identity concerns, LGBTQI2S+ experiences, creative blocks, career and purpose exploration, climate anxiety and grief, burnout or spiritual exhaustion.
Trauma, anxiety, grief, and relationship stress can leave you feeling disconnected from the life you want. With the right support, healing and meaningful change are possible. I help individuals and couples reconnect with themselves, their relationships, and what matters most.
Some of the concerns I work well with include trauma, anxiety and depression, grief and loss, life transitions, relationship building communication and trust, self-esteem and identity concerns, LGBTQI2S+ experiences, creative blocks, career and purpose exploration, climate anxiety and grief, burnout or spiritual exhaustion.
I specialize in interventions, so my ideal client is the family member or friend of an addict. This "concerned other" is usually out of options and has lost hope. My job is to either re-instill hope or enhance the hope, so that the addict can be helped. With intervention, I use both the Johnson model and the ARISE model. With 16 years of experience conducting interventions, I have encountered most things that happen in an intervention, and can prepare the addict's family members and/or friends so they can walk through the intervention process with the least amount of anxiety.
I specialize in interventions, so my ideal client is the family member or friend of an addict. This "concerned other" is usually out of options and has lost hope. My job is to either re-instill hope or enhance the hope, so that the addict can be helped. With intervention, I use both the Johnson model and the ARISE model. With 16 years of experience conducting interventions, I have encountered most things that happen in an intervention, and can prepare the addict's family members and/or friends so they can walk through the intervention process with the least amount of anxiety.
Steven Ruiz Bettencourt
Licensed Professional Counselor, PsyD, LPC, CHT, EMDR
2 Endorsed
Milwaukie, OR 97222
I am a compassionate and intuitive licensed psychotherapist & hypnotist. I have been practicing for 42 years. I specialize in anger management, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties/couples counseling, motivation, personality disorders, EMDR and hypnosis for a variety of issues. I am a member of the Oregon Counseling Association, American Counseling Association, National Anger Management Association, Oregon Mediation Association, Oregon Society of Clinical Hypnosis, I am a board member of the Oregon Hypnotherapy Association, and President of World Musado Federation. I am familiar with Spanish language and culture.
I am a compassionate and intuitive licensed psychotherapist & hypnotist. I have been practicing for 42 years. I specialize in anger management, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties/couples counseling, motivation, personality disorders, EMDR and hypnosis for a variety of issues. I am a member of the Oregon Counseling Association, American Counseling Association, National Anger Management Association, Oregon Mediation Association, Oregon Society of Clinical Hypnosis, I am a board member of the Oregon Hypnotherapy Association, and President of World Musado Federation. I am familiar with Spanish language and culture.
As a therapist I believe that a comfortable and safe connection between client and therapist is critical. One of the most important facets of healing. I am dedicated to working with people from all walks of life. My goal is to help clients explore how their unique experiences influence the whole of their lives and to find personalized solutions to whatever hurdles you may face. Working together we will explore the nature of your struggles and come up with an evidence-based plan to help you walk the path to healing. I believe that where there is a want and will to change, healing and fulfillment can be found.
As a therapist I believe that a comfortable and safe connection between client and therapist is critical. One of the most important facets of healing. I am dedicated to working with people from all walks of life. My goal is to help clients explore how their unique experiences influence the whole of their lives and to find personalized solutions to whatever hurdles you may face. Working together we will explore the nature of your struggles and come up with an evidence-based plan to help you walk the path to healing. I believe that where there is a want and will to change, healing and fulfillment can be found.
Whether it is issues with mental health, substance use, trauma, anger, relationships, families, anxiety, depression, stress, etc. I believe that the path to recovery is only a perspective change away. Through a compassionate and person-centered approach to counseling, I can help guide you to better understand the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and help you to live to your fullest potential. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor II (CADC) I have worked with so many people in the process of living a life of wellness.
Whether it is issues with mental health, substance use, trauma, anger, relationships, families, anxiety, depression, stress, etc. I believe that the path to recovery is only a perspective change away. Through a compassionate and person-centered approach to counseling, I can help guide you to better understand the connection between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and help you to live to your fullest potential. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and a Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor II (CADC) I have worked with so many people in the process of living a life of wellness.
Even in the darkest hours there is hope that healing and wholeness is possible. Do you suffer with the effects of depression, anxiety, addiction, self-loathing or lack of self-esteem? Do you have trouble with anger, communication or setting boundaries? There is hope! You are the author of your own story, and a skilled, caring counselor can help you find the tools you need to navigate through the hard times and be able to feel empowered to continue writing your story.
Even in the darkest hours there is hope that healing and wholeness is possible. Do you suffer with the effects of depression, anxiety, addiction, self-loathing or lack of self-esteem? Do you have trouble with anger, communication or setting boundaries? There is hope! You are the author of your own story, and a skilled, caring counselor can help you find the tools you need to navigate through the hard times and be able to feel empowered to continue writing your story.
Overwhelming symptoms—such as persistent anxiety, irritability, emotional exhaustion, feeling on edge, loss of joy, and pervasive frustration in relationships or family interactions—often make therapy or counseling a highly recommended first step. I am a licensed professional counselor with a strong background in mental health and allopathic medicine, and with extensive expertise spanning many years. I strive to bring my broad knowledge, training, and skill set to my professional counseling. My counseling/psychotherapy expertise includes working with children, adolescents, and adults with various mental health & addictive issues.
Overwhelming symptoms—such as persistent anxiety, irritability, emotional exhaustion, feeling on edge, loss of joy, and pervasive frustration in relationships or family interactions—often make therapy or counseling a highly recommended first step. I am a licensed professional counselor with a strong background in mental health and allopathic medicine, and with extensive expertise spanning many years. I strive to bring my broad knowledge, training, and skill set to my professional counseling. My counseling/psychotherapy expertise includes working with children, adolescents, and adults with various mental health & addictive issues.
Hello, my name is Dean, and I am currently accepting new clients in Oregon. I am passionate about supporting individuals in achieving healing and growth. My aim is to provide a safe, compassionate space where you can explore challenges, develop insights, and build resilience. With over 15 years of experience across diverse settings, including crisis response, outpatient therapy, and case management, I bring a wealth of knowledge and empathy to my practice.
Hello, my name is Dean, and I am currently accepting new clients in Oregon. I am passionate about supporting individuals in achieving healing and growth. My aim is to provide a safe, compassionate space where you can explore challenges, develop insights, and build resilience. With over 15 years of experience across diverse settings, including crisis response, outpatient therapy, and case management, I bring a wealth of knowledge and empathy to my practice.
My ideal client is someone who is struggling with one or many aspects of life. I enjoy being able to help people struggle through some of the big questions of life, or puzzle through how to make improvements.
My ideal client is someone who is struggling with one or many aspects of life. I enjoy being able to help people struggle through some of the big questions of life, or puzzle through how to make improvements.
I've been in practice for 20+ years and I'm passionate about helping people move forward in their lives. My approach to therapy is collaborative, supportive, and goal oriented. Together we can discover how to break your maladaptive patterns, build on your strengths, and begin your journey to heal. In my practice, you will find openness without judgement and an environment where you can heal the wounds that may be causing low self-esteem, relationship issues, problems at work; or depression and anxiety. Together we can create the changes you want in your life.
I've been in practice for 20+ years and I'm passionate about helping people move forward in their lives. My approach to therapy is collaborative, supportive, and goal oriented. Together we can discover how to break your maladaptive patterns, build on your strengths, and begin your journey to heal. In my practice, you will find openness without judgement and an environment where you can heal the wounds that may be causing low self-esteem, relationship issues, problems at work; or depression and anxiety. Together we can create the changes you want in your life.
It is my belief that even though people seem to differ in their inborn ability to handle life's stresses, their resiliency and sense of mastery can be cultivated. My therapeutic approach is to help my clients live a more hopeful and meaningful life. Being the oldest child of a Dutch family of Holocaust survivors, I "learned" how trauma and resiliency gets transmitted from one generation to the next. My fascination of learning how the body keeps the score, my interest in helping people be securely attached and engaged with each other all brought me to this exciting calling.
It is my belief that even though people seem to differ in their inborn ability to handle life's stresses, their resiliency and sense of mastery can be cultivated. My therapeutic approach is to help my clients live a more hopeful and meaningful life. Being the oldest child of a Dutch family of Holocaust survivors, I "learned" how trauma and resiliency gets transmitted from one generation to the next. My fascination of learning how the body keeps the score, my interest in helping people be securely attached and engaged with each other all brought me to this exciting calling.
Life is complex, often confusing and conflicted. Distress can come with the territory. When we're distressed, and we've tried everything we know, we need outside counsel. A counselor provides an "auxiliary mind," so to speak. An alter ego. Someone to bring to bear, on your behalf, a range of knowledge that you simply haven't had occasion to acquire. Someone to provide emotional balance and an objective eye on your circumstances. Someone to help you sort out your experience.
Life is complex, often confusing and conflicted. Distress can come with the territory. When we're distressed, and we've tried everything we know, we need outside counsel. A counselor provides an "auxiliary mind," so to speak. An alter ego. Someone to bring to bear, on your behalf, a range of knowledge that you simply haven't had occasion to acquire. Someone to provide emotional balance and an objective eye on your circumstances. Someone to help you sort out your experience.
Psychotherapy can be a tremendously helpful and rewarding experience for those seeking assistance. It can serve to alleviate anxiety and depression as well as help individuals to feel less conflicted and better able to reach their potential in work and relationships. As a psychoanalytic psychotherapist, I believe it is important to form a safe and reliable alliance from which we can collaboratively work on achieving your objectives.
Psychotherapy can be a tremendously helpful and rewarding experience for those seeking assistance. It can serve to alleviate anxiety and depression as well as help individuals to feel less conflicted and better able to reach their potential in work and relationships. As a psychoanalytic psychotherapist, I believe it is important to form a safe and reliable alliance from which we can collaboratively work on achieving your objectives.
Trying to be a happy, healthy, creative human in today’s world requires new skills to face new challenges. Overwhelming anxiety, depression, and relationship instability are often products of our ancient nervous system struggling to adapt to an environment with new rules, new pressures, and old wounds. As a species we are subjected to increasing pressure to perform, produce, and project a life that is at once effortless and perfect. The reality is far from this however, and humans need support, love, and patience in the face of failure in order to thrive.
Trying to be a happy, healthy, creative human in today’s world requires new skills to face new challenges. Overwhelming anxiety, depression, and relationship instability are often products of our ancient nervous system struggling to adapt to an environment with new rules, new pressures, and old wounds. As a species we are subjected to increasing pressure to perform, produce, and project a life that is at once effortless and perfect. The reality is far from this however, and humans need support, love, and patience in the face of failure in order to thrive.
I create a comfortable environment in my office where people feel safe to share. It is my belief that each of us is unique in our histories and in the strengths that we bring to a situation. Part of the experience of therapy is to identify the strengths and successes we have had in our lives and to discover how these things can impact the current concerns we are facing. Often through the experience of talking with a therapist people are able to figure out how to take the steps that will make their life situation and relationships work better.
I create a comfortable environment in my office where people feel safe to share. It is my belief that each of us is unique in our histories and in the strengths that we bring to a situation. Part of the experience of therapy is to identify the strengths and successes we have had in our lives and to discover how these things can impact the current concerns we are facing. Often through the experience of talking with a therapist people are able to figure out how to take the steps that will make their life situation and relationships work better.
Life's experiences, or our story, can shape how we see ourselves and the world, often leaving behind anxiety, depression, or struggles with addiction and relationships. You may feel overwhelmed or stuck, but healing is possible. In a safe and supportive space, we’ll explore your story with compassion and care. Through an integrative approach that combines narrative therapy and CBT, we’ll work to understand your story. With this new understanding we will reveal what truly lies beneath the pain, anxiety or confusion which will help you reconnect with you and what you really want out of life.
Life's experiences, or our story, can shape how we see ourselves and the world, often leaving behind anxiety, depression, or struggles with addiction and relationships. You may feel overwhelmed or stuck, but healing is possible. In a safe and supportive space, we’ll explore your story with compassion and care. Through an integrative approach that combines narrative therapy and CBT, we’ll work to understand your story. With this new understanding we will reveal what truly lies beneath the pain, anxiety or confusion which will help you reconnect with you and what you really want out of life.
I am accepting new clients. I help clients who seek to increase their strengths, awareness, openness, flexibility, intelligence (IQ and EQ), resiliency, create empowering processes and solutions leading to meaningful life engagement, and improving quality of life. I have worked with all ages, backgrounds and issues, individuals, couples and families. I have found the best predictor of effective therapy is how well the client connects with the therapist. I am open to working with all people, cultures and conditions.
I am accepting new clients. I help clients who seek to increase their strengths, awareness, openness, flexibility, intelligence (IQ and EQ), resiliency, create empowering processes and solutions leading to meaningful life engagement, and improving quality of life. I have worked with all ages, backgrounds and issues, individuals, couples and families. I have found the best predictor of effective therapy is how well the client connects with the therapist. I am open to working with all people, cultures and conditions.
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Male Therapists
As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?
There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.
How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?
Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?
Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with therapists of a specific gender. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.
Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?
Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.


