Infidelity Therapists in Fairmount, Eugene, OR

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Dan Schmitt
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403
Accepting new clients. I work with both individuals and couples. Areas of individual focus include coping with depression/anxiety, sleep issues, family or relationship struggles, addiction and recovery, life and career transitions, sexuality, mid-life issues, and emerging adults struggling with academics or early adulthood issues. In my work with couples I work on issues ranging from communication/conflict, intimacy, life transitions, rebuilding connection, family dynamics, and relational betrayals/infidelity. I draw from the Gottman’s work, Esther Perel’s work, Narrative Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy among others.
Accepting new clients. I work with both individuals and couples. Areas of individual focus include coping with depression/anxiety, sleep issues, family or relationship struggles, addiction and recovery, life and career transitions, sexuality, mid-life issues, and emerging adults struggling with academics or early adulthood issues. In my work with couples I work on issues ranging from communication/conflict, intimacy, life transitions, rebuilding connection, family dynamics, and relational betrayals/infidelity. I draw from the Gottman’s work, Esther Perel’s work, Narrative Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy among others.
(458) 214-8903 View (458) 214-8903
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Dani Remiro
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403
Waitlist for new clients
I am looking for a few highly motivated clients, with flexibility in their schedule, to add to my waitlist. Please contact me via email to see if we're a good fit. Ideally, you are motivated to make changes because you want to see a difference in your life and behaviors. Aside from treating common anxiety and depression symptoms, I have over a decade of experience working with eating disorders and trauma. I also have more recent experience working with ADHD symptoms. I am an LGBTQ accomplice and have experience supporting clients in various stages of their queer journey.
I am looking for a few highly motivated clients, with flexibility in their schedule, to add to my waitlist. Please contact me via email to see if we're a good fit. Ideally, you are motivated to make changes because you want to see a difference in your life and behaviors. Aside from treating common anxiety and depression symptoms, I have over a decade of experience working with eating disorders and trauma. I also have more recent experience working with ADHD symptoms. I am an LGBTQ accomplice and have experience supporting clients in various stages of their queer journey.
(541) 329-7562 View (541) 329-7562
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Don Sellers LCSW - - - Blue Heron Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403
Waitlist for new clients
Human connection is the first constant in any therapeutic change. Therefore, my work is aimed at first creating a collaborative process focused on building a therapeutic relationship with the shared goals of achieving your vision for a meaningful life. It is my job to work with you to build on your considerable strengths and assets to create new ways of coping and growing. Often, traumatic experiences and difficulties have left us struggling to realize that vision. We will explore the effects that experiences have on your life today, and work toward a present and future that keeps
Human connection is the first constant in any therapeutic change. Therefore, my work is aimed at first creating a collaborative process focused on building a therapeutic relationship with the shared goals of achieving your vision for a meaningful life. It is my job to work with you to build on your considerable strengths and assets to create new ways of coping and growing. Often, traumatic experiences and difficulties have left us struggling to realize that vision. We will explore the effects that experiences have on your life today, and work toward a present and future that keeps
(541) 636-2471 View (541) 636-2471
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Be Well Family Counseling/ Huiying Jessica Tull
Professional Counselor Associate, MA, LPC-A
Verified Verified
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403
Waitlist for new clients
I am deeply passionate about what I do with children and their families. It's a privilege to sit in a room or play with another human being and have them share with you their suffering, their joy, their anger, their confusion, their sorrow, and their successes. I strongly believe that mental health is essential to a person’s well-being, a healthy family, interpersonal relationships, and the ability and possibility to live a full and productive life.
I am deeply passionate about what I do with children and their families. It's a privilege to sit in a room or play with another human being and have them share with you their suffering, their joy, their anger, their confusion, their sorrow, and their successes. I strongly believe that mental health is essential to a person’s well-being, a healthy family, interpersonal relationships, and the ability and possibility to live a full and productive life.
(541) 283-0807 View (541) 283-0807
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Willamette Sky Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MS, MFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403
Welcome. Willamette Sky Counseling is a small private practice committed to making your health and well-being a priority. My team and I are a group of client centered, trauma informed masters level therapists and psychotherapists providing compassionate mental health care throughout Oregon. Our therapists provide therapy in English, Spanish and ASL. We welcome diverse people, ideas and perspectives.
Welcome. Willamette Sky Counseling is a small private practice committed to making your health and well-being a priority. My team and I are a group of client centered, trauma informed masters level therapists and psychotherapists providing compassionate mental health care throughout Oregon. Our therapists provide therapy in English, Spanish and ASL. We welcome diverse people, ideas and perspectives.
(541) 203-4662 View (541) 203-4662
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Mimi Dvorson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MEd, LMFT, RYT 200
Verified Verified
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I believe in my client's inherent ability to heal and join with them to form a creative and collaborative relationship which promotes growth and transformation. My therapy practice integrates strength based disciplines including Emotionally Focused Therapy, mindfulness based techniques, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
I believe in my client's inherent ability to heal and join with them to form a creative and collaborative relationship which promotes growth and transformation. My therapy practice integrates strength based disciplines including Emotionally Focused Therapy, mindfulness based techniques, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
(541) 731-7072 View (541) 731-7072
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Stephanie Bauer
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403
Immediate openings available (please note I am only taking commercial Pacific Source (not OHP) and Out of Network/cash pay.) I have a compassion for working with people who are ready to see change in their life. I have a passion for working with therapists and therapists in training. I enjoy working with women and finding boundaries, issues with hormonal imbalances, confidence, and anxiety to help find your best self. I think it is important to find a trusting connection in therapy that combines new challenges with growth and change. Penelope, my therapy dog, is excited to join our virtual sessions and in person on occasion!
Immediate openings available (please note I am only taking commercial Pacific Source (not OHP) and Out of Network/cash pay.) I have a compassion for working with people who are ready to see change in their life. I have a passion for working with therapists and therapists in training. I enjoy working with women and finding boundaries, issues with hormonal imbalances, confidence, and anxiety to help find your best self. I think it is important to find a trusting connection in therapy that combines new challenges with growth and change. Penelope, my therapy dog, is excited to join our virtual sessions and in person on occasion!
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Heather Leilani Simpson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LMFT-A
Verified Verified
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403  (Online Only)
Whether you are struggling with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or any other concerns, you deserve a therapist who will be open and supportive yet willing to challenge you gently when needed.  With an approach that combines connection and boundaries, we can work together to help you find the agency you need to move through life with pleasure. I specialize in working with BIPOC, LGTBQIA, Polyamory/Non-Monogamous, and Kink/BDSM communities to provide comprehensive, evidence based, trauma informed, sex positive therapy, that meets the needs of sexual marginalized populations.
Whether you are struggling with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or any other concerns, you deserve a therapist who will be open and supportive yet willing to challenge you gently when needed.  With an approach that combines connection and boundaries, we can work together to help you find the agency you need to move through life with pleasure. I specialize in working with BIPOC, LGTBQIA, Polyamory/Non-Monogamous, and Kink/BDSM communities to provide comprehensive, evidence based, trauma informed, sex positive therapy, that meets the needs of sexual marginalized populations.
(503) 994-9547 View (503) 994-9547
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Laurel Becker
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403
I am currently accepting new clients! I work with teens, adults, and couples. I believe that counseling can provide a safe place to explore ourselves and our world in new and positive ways. The struggles of life can feel overwhelming at times, and having someone to journey through these challenges with allows for hope and growth, ultimately building a roadmap toward a more content and fulfilling life. It is an honor to be a part of each client's personal journey of restoration and freedom.
I am currently accepting new clients! I work with teens, adults, and couples. I believe that counseling can provide a safe place to explore ourselves and our world in new and positive ways. The struggles of life can feel overwhelming at times, and having someone to journey through these challenges with allows for hope and growth, ultimately building a roadmap toward a more content and fulfilling life. It is an honor to be a part of each client's personal journey of restoration and freedom.
(458) 235-4741 View (458) 235-4741
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Andie Whittaker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BSW , MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403  (Online Only)
Calling neurodivergent people, weirdos, feelers, people who speak to the wind, the ones who are also very logical, people who speak in noises and movement. The ones who seek to understand the wildest and hardest parts of being a human, the philosophers, the ones who speak to plants, etc. AND also humans who just wanna talk to someone who is also a human. I welcome you to reach out.
Calling neurodivergent people, weirdos, feelers, people who speak to the wind, the ones who are also very logical, people who speak in noises and movement. The ones who seek to understand the wildest and hardest parts of being a human, the philosophers, the ones who speak to plants, etc. AND also humans who just wanna talk to someone who is also a human. I welcome you to reach out.
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Ashley Higgins
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, LMFT-A
Verified Verified
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403  (Online Only)
People often begin counseling when it's too hard to stay the same. Even though seeking help can seem like a sign of weakness, it’s not an indicator of failure. Whatever the reason you’re searching for a therapist today, it takes courage to notice that reason within yourself and reach out for support. Maybe you’re ready to shift patterns in close relationships, or you’re ready to build a better relationship with yourself. Acknowledging distress is a chance to create meaningful change in your life.
People often begin counseling when it's too hard to stay the same. Even though seeking help can seem like a sign of weakness, it’s not an indicator of failure. Whatever the reason you’re searching for a therapist today, it takes courage to notice that reason within yourself and reach out for support. Maybe you’re ready to shift patterns in close relationships, or you’re ready to build a better relationship with yourself. Acknowledging distress is a chance to create meaningful change in your life.
(541) 229-0933 View (541) 229-0933
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Alison Austin
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, CRC
Verified Verified
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403
I specialize in working with people experiencing difficult life transitions. These may be adjusting to a disability, the death of a loved one, changes in family structure or employment among other things. I consider difficult life transitions to include times when we experience increased stress requiring changing coping skills. I create a safe and affirming environment for you to begin recognizing that you are not on this journey alone. By seeking counseling you have the opportunity to learn new information and patterns that no longer serve to move you in the direction you want to go.
I specialize in working with people experiencing difficult life transitions. These may be adjusting to a disability, the death of a loved one, changes in family structure or employment among other things. I consider difficult life transitions to include times when we experience increased stress requiring changing coping skills. I create a safe and affirming environment for you to begin recognizing that you are not on this journey alone. By seeking counseling you have the opportunity to learn new information and patterns that no longer serve to move you in the direction you want to go.
(458) 203-1683 View (458) 203-1683
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Sandra Caroompas Psychotherapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LLC
Verified Verified
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403
CURRENT OPENING Life is a journey! Do you feel overwhelmed, distressed, disconnected or lost, is your life hard to navigate. I believe that compassionate, reflective therapy can help restore vitality and renew hope. Individuals, couples, children/families, experience emotional struggles and challenging behaviors because of the impact of a variety of past and present variables, not because of weakness. Symptoms/Behaviors are simply indicators of need, and actually illuminate innate strength that guides healing. I'mabout collaborating with you to build strengths, explore barriers to enjoyment of life, and create a joyful resilience.
CURRENT OPENING Life is a journey! Do you feel overwhelmed, distressed, disconnected or lost, is your life hard to navigate. I believe that compassionate, reflective therapy can help restore vitality and renew hope. Individuals, couples, children/families, experience emotional struggles and challenging behaviors because of the impact of a variety of past and present variables, not because of weakness. Symptoms/Behaviors are simply indicators of need, and actually illuminate innate strength that guides healing. I'mabout collaborating with you to build strengths, explore barriers to enjoyment of life, and create a joyful resilience.
(541) 216-6743 View (541) 216-6743
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Cady Kintner
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403
Not accepting new clients
Feeling stuck? Burned out or always overwhelmed? Not enjoying life the way everyone else seems to? Perhaps the coping strategies and/or relationships you've turned to for support in the past are no longer accessible or just not enough on their own. Most people starting or restarting therapy are looking for a change in some way. I believe that therapy is a place for reconnection, supportive challenge; a place to show up as your full self. We may be a good fit if you are looking for support with depression, trauma/PTSD, anxiety, toxic relationships, and/or LGBTQ2+ identity/gender affirmation.
Feeling stuck? Burned out or always overwhelmed? Not enjoying life the way everyone else seems to? Perhaps the coping strategies and/or relationships you've turned to for support in the past are no longer accessible or just not enough on their own. Most people starting or restarting therapy are looking for a change in some way. I believe that therapy is a place for reconnection, supportive challenge; a place to show up as your full self. We may be a good fit if you are looking for support with depression, trauma/PTSD, anxiety, toxic relationships, and/or LGBTQ2+ identity/gender affirmation.
(541) 246-7423 View (541) 246-7423
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Zanne Pauline Miller
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403
Not accepting new clients
***Please note: My practice is full. Please feel free to send me an email if you would like to be added to a waitlist*** All of us have an amazing capacity for resilience and joy. It IS possible to mend a relationship or overcome significant setbacks or losses, manage symptoms, and live well. I have experience working with adolescents and young adults, adults, couples and families in times of crisis or change as well as those seeking a more fulfilling path in life. I employ a strengths-based, trauma-informed approach to my work as a therapist and work closely with my clients to determine the best course of therapy.
***Please note: My practice is full. Please feel free to send me an email if you would like to be added to a waitlist*** All of us have an amazing capacity for resilience and joy. It IS possible to mend a relationship or overcome significant setbacks or losses, manage symptoms, and live well. I have experience working with adolescents and young adults, adults, couples and families in times of crisis or change as well as those seeking a more fulfilling path in life. I employ a strengths-based, trauma-informed approach to my work as a therapist and work closely with my clients to determine the best course of therapy.
(541) 230-9394 View (541) 230-9394
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Suzanne M Ponsioen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403
Not accepting new clients
***MY PRACTICE IS FULL; I am not accepting new clients*** Hello! I am a couples & family therapist, as well as a sexuality therapist. My treatment approaches include IFS (Internal Family Systems) and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing) modalities. I help people heal from sexuality issues, trauma, anxiety & OCD, as well as relationship challenges. I aim to get a deep understanding of how your life is for you and how you prefer it to be. The therapy process is unique for each person or couple. I will support & empower you, and I aspire to meet you with great respect, openness and transparency.
***MY PRACTICE IS FULL; I am not accepting new clients*** Hello! I am a couples & family therapist, as well as a sexuality therapist. My treatment approaches include IFS (Internal Family Systems) and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing) modalities. I help people heal from sexuality issues, trauma, anxiety & OCD, as well as relationship challenges. I aim to get a deep understanding of how your life is for you and how you prefer it to be. The therapy process is unique for each person or couple. I will support & empower you, and I aspire to meet you with great respect, openness and transparency.
(541) 326-4510 View (541) 326-4510
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Ben Moltman
Licensed Professional Counselor, Counsel, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Fairmount, Eugene, OR 97403
Not accepting new clients
This may be a time in your life when you are feeling stuck or confused with no clear path forward. Whether you are struggling with chronic worry, problems expressing anger constructively, depressed moods, unresolved loss, relationship difficulties or with self-defeating behaviors, finding a skilled and caring therapist can make all the difference. Good therapy can provide you with the time and the freedom needed to explore your concerns more deeply, with the goal of finding new and effective ways to move forward in life. Having the chance to talk about these issues can also feel tremendously unburdening and relieving.
This may be a time in your life when you are feeling stuck or confused with no clear path forward. Whether you are struggling with chronic worry, problems expressing anger constructively, depressed moods, unresolved loss, relationship difficulties or with self-defeating behaviors, finding a skilled and caring therapist can make all the difference. Good therapy can provide you with the time and the freedom needed to explore your concerns more deeply, with the goal of finding new and effective ways to move forward in life. Having the chance to talk about these issues can also feel tremendously unburdening and relieving.
(541) 207-0311 View (541) 207-0311

Online Therapists

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Suzanne Gascoyne, Ph.D., LLC
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eugene, OR 97405
Waitlist for new clients
I have a practical approach and do insight and emotionally based psychotherapy. I like a variety of issues and personalities. My work frequently includes self-esteem and relationship issues, transitions, anxiety, depression, and mood disorders, gender and sexual issues, multicultural issues, acute and chronic trauma issues, and loss. I deeply value the therapeutic relationship and see it as the cornerstone to most of what happens in psychotherapy. I have a growth oriented rather than pathology based paradigm and I tend to really like and enjoy the people that I work with.
I have a practical approach and do insight and emotionally based psychotherapy. I like a variety of issues and personalities. My work frequently includes self-esteem and relationship issues, transitions, anxiety, depression, and mood disorders, gender and sexual issues, multicultural issues, acute and chronic trauma issues, and loss. I deeply value the therapeutic relationship and see it as the cornerstone to most of what happens in psychotherapy. I have a growth oriented rather than pathology based paradigm and I tend to really like and enjoy the people that I work with.
(541) 378-6781 View (541) 378-6781
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Janese Olalde
Marriage & Family Therapist, MEd, CADC, II, CGAC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Eugene, OR 97401
Tengo muchos años trabajando en español y me siento muy conectada con gente de la comunidad Latina. Todos necesitamos alguien que nos comprendan, valoren y apoyen. Yo pienso que cada persona tiene la capacidad para recuperarse de experiencias y situaciones difíciles. My philosophy of therapy includes helping you appreciate the inner wisdom, resiliency, courage and strengths that you already have. I have the hope of a better life for you enjoying a fulfilling, joyous and satisfying life until you can envision that reality for yourself.
Tengo muchos años trabajando en español y me siento muy conectada con gente de la comunidad Latina. Todos necesitamos alguien que nos comprendan, valoren y apoyen. Yo pienso que cada persona tiene la capacidad para recuperarse de experiencias y situaciones difíciles. My philosophy of therapy includes helping you appreciate the inner wisdom, resiliency, courage and strengths that you already have. I have the hope of a better life for you enjoying a fulfilling, joyous and satisfying life until you can envision that reality for yourself.
(541) 233-0262 View (541) 233-0262
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Ryan S. Smith
Marriage & Family Therapist, MEd, LMFT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Eugene, OR 97401
Do you struggle to say "no" to people? Do you feel guilty when you do? Do you feel pressure to make others happy while never getting what you need? Do you stay in bad relationships for too long? Do you feel stuck relationally, emotionally, or in your career path? There are explanations for this behavior and ways to change it. I love helping people learn how to have healthy boundaries with others, their work, or some other habit they are concerned about. If you want to understand yourself better and possibly learn to make healthier choices based on your values, I would love to work with you.
Do you struggle to say "no" to people? Do you feel guilty when you do? Do you feel pressure to make others happy while never getting what you need? Do you stay in bad relationships for too long? Do you feel stuck relationally, emotionally, or in your career path? There are explanations for this behavior and ways to change it. I love helping people learn how to have healthy boundaries with others, their work, or some other habit they are concerned about. If you want to understand yourself better and possibly learn to make healthier choices based on your values, I would love to work with you.
(541) 623-2933 View (541) 623-2933

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Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.