Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists in Ashburn, VA
Diana Santos
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW, JD
Verified Verified
Ashburn, VA 20147
I am an LGBTQ+ affirming, polyamory friendly therapist with a focus on navigating relationship issues with individuals and couples.
I take a warm, empathic approach and create a safe space to explore whatever may be holding you back from achieving more joy, connection, and authenticity in your life. I use evidence-based techniques to help you recognize patterns that are no longer serving you and to develop more adaptive coping skills. In addition to issues surrounding romantic relationships, I focus on individuals struggling with body image, perfectionism, feelings of imposter syndrome and addiction and the underlying shame. Therapy is a collaboration; together we'll set treatment goals, work toward those goals and evaluate our progress.
I am an LGBTQ+ affirming, polyamory friendly therapist with a focus on navigating relationship issues with individuals and couples.
I take a warm, empathic approach and create a safe space to explore whatever may be holding you back from achieving more joy, connection, and authenticity in your life. I use evidence-based techniques to help you recognize patterns that are no longer serving you and to develop more adaptive coping skills. In addition to issues surrounding romantic relationships, I focus on individuals struggling with body image, perfectionism, feelings of imposter syndrome and addiction and the underlying shame. Therapy is a collaboration; together we'll set treatment goals, work toward those goals and evaluate our progress.
Alexis Logan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ashburn, VA 20147
My specialties are: exploring/navigating the world of kink/BDSM, the world of ethical non-monogamy/polyamory (in the dating space, opening relationship, and in established ENM/poly relationships, communicating about sexual needs and wants, expanding and exploring your spectrum of sex and pleasure, low libido/desire discrepancy.
Are you experiencing challenges with sex and pleasure, feeling connected in your relationship(s)/dating experiences, or finding your way back to sex + connection in your marriage? I work with individuals and couples (monogamous, polyamorous, and ENM - vanilla & kink) to help you grow, repair, or cultivate deeply connected relationships, marriages, and dating experiences. Using effective therapy models, we'll collaboratively address your relationship goals. My client-centered approach ensures support tailored to your unique needs.
My specialties are: exploring/navigating the world of kink/BDSM, the world of ethical non-monogamy/polyamory (in the dating space, opening relationship, and in established ENM/poly relationships, communicating about sexual needs and wants, expanding and exploring your spectrum of sex and pleasure, low libido/desire discrepancy.
Are you experiencing challenges with sex and pleasure, feeling connected in your relationship(s)/dating experiences, or finding your way back to sex + connection in your marriage? I work with individuals and couples (monogamous, polyamorous, and ENM - vanilla & kink) to help you grow, repair, or cultivate deeply connected relationships, marriages, and dating experiences. Using effective therapy models, we'll collaboratively address your relationship goals. My client-centered approach ensures support tailored to your unique needs.
Victoria Yeboah
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, LGSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Ashburn, VA 20147 (Online Only)
Adolescence is a transitional period where teens navigate biological and cognitive changes, independence and relationships with peers, parents and other authority figures. This can lead to behavioural issues, mood changes and cognitive challenges that cause anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, PTSD, ADHD, ASD and more. We'll explore the experiences, patterns and relationships that either cause, maintain or worsen these patterns and collaboratively identify appropriate strategies to alleviate or eliminate these difficulties.
Adolescence is a transitional period where teens navigate biological and cognitive changes, independence and relationships with peers, parents and other authority figures. This can lead to behavioural issues, mood changes and cognitive challenges that cause anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, PTSD, ADHD, ASD and more. We'll explore the experiences, patterns and relationships that either cause, maintain or worsen these patterns and collaboratively identify appropriate strategies to alleviate or eliminate these difficulties.
Vee Fuhriman (Mayhem And Tranquility Therapy)
Resident in Counseling, MA, LPC-R
Verified Verified
Ashburn, VA 20147
Have you ever wanted a queer, neurodivergent therapist that just understands what you're going through without having to be looked at like you have a third eyeball? I meet you where you are with a trauma-informed, LGBTQIA+ safe place with professional and personal knowledge to draw from to help you on your journey to healing from your masking and from your deep wounds. Living doesn't have to be so painful and you don't need to hide in the shadows and from yourself, you can thrive and be the best version of yourself when trauma wounds are healed and you learn to love yourself where you are at today and for who you will be tomorrow.
Have you ever wanted a queer, neurodivergent therapist that just understands what you're going through without having to be looked at like you have a third eyeball? I meet you where you are with a trauma-informed, LGBTQIA+ safe place with professional and personal knowledge to draw from to help you on your journey to healing from your masking and from your deep wounds. Living doesn't have to be so painful and you don't need to hide in the shadows and from yourself, you can thrive and be the best version of yourself when trauma wounds are healed and you learn to love yourself where you are at today and for who you will be tomorrow.
Caroline Sahr
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Ashburn, VA 20147 (Online Only)
Ever since I was young, I knew I wanted to pursue a career path that would make a difference in people’s lives. This interest led me to study psychological science, social work, and social justice. I care deeply about human rights, cultural humility, and integrating anti-oppressive practices. As a LCSW, I am committed to the well-being of all my clients to cater to their holistic needs. I have worked with children, adolescents, and adults regarding various issues, including: anxiety, depression, stress, complex trauma, oppression, relationships and intimacy, sexual assault and domestic violence, and LGBTQ+ dynamics.
Ever since I was young, I knew I wanted to pursue a career path that would make a difference in people’s lives. This interest led me to study psychological science, social work, and social justice. I care deeply about human rights, cultural humility, and integrating anti-oppressive practices. As a LCSW, I am committed to the well-being of all my clients to cater to their holistic needs. I have worked with children, adolescents, and adults regarding various issues, including: anxiety, depression, stress, complex trauma, oppression, relationships and intimacy, sexual assault and domestic violence, and LGBTQ+ dynamics.
Ohana Life Solutions, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Ashburn, VA 20148 (Online Only)
Hello, my friends, are you feeling a little down, or feeling overwhelmed? Are you a teen or young adult who feels lost or in need of guidance. I have some openings and am looking to fill them. Sorry, I am an ONLINE therapist only, I find once people give it a try they don't mind it. If you want to try it, I offer a free 15 minute trial session. I work well with people who like to talk and find that is a part of their process. Do you find therapy too clinical and would like a little humor? I do my best to find that balance. If you just don't know what you need, I hope you will let me guide you to the right answer.
Hello, my friends, are you feeling a little down, or feeling overwhelmed? Are you a teen or young adult who feels lost or in need of guidance. I have some openings and am looking to fill them. Sorry, I am an ONLINE therapist only, I find once people give it a try they don't mind it. If you want to try it, I offer a free 15 minute trial session. I work well with people who like to talk and find that is a part of their process. Do you find therapy too clinical and would like a little humor? I do my best to find that balance. If you just don't know what you need, I hope you will let me guide you to the right answer.
Kyle Stephan
Pre-Licensed Professional, MSW
Verified Verified
Ashburn, VA 20148
The building blocks of your identity are rooted in the relational experiences you had as a child, the world you lived in, the resources available, and the challenges life sent your way. You may have learned that some emotions or needs were not acceptable or tolerable, some needs would need to be met indirectly through adaptations (such as perfectionism, people pleasing, playing small or withdrawing), or that some needs might not be met at all and would need to be abandoned or minimized. My role is to help you make sense of who you are, how you got here, your patterns of relating, and how to create the relationships you long for.
The building blocks of your identity are rooted in the relational experiences you had as a child, the world you lived in, the resources available, and the challenges life sent your way. You may have learned that some emotions or needs were not acceptable or tolerable, some needs would need to be met indirectly through adaptations (such as perfectionism, people pleasing, playing small or withdrawing), or that some needs might not be met at all and would need to be abandoned or minimized. My role is to help you make sense of who you are, how you got here, your patterns of relating, and how to create the relationships you long for.
Cynthia Turner
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, LCSW, LSATP, MAC
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Ashburn, VA 20147
I love what I do! I get to help you turn your insights into action for addictions, anxiety, depression, and life transitions. We may use individual, family, or group therapy, relapse prevention, education, medication, or MAT/MOUD. Our Dual Diagnosis Recovery Program is for people struggling with both a mental health and drug/alcohol issue. We know that recovery does not always mean abstinence. Take the Alcohol Moderation Assessment to help you determine your relationship with alcohol and learn how to get your life back in balance.
I love what I do! I get to help you turn your insights into action for addictions, anxiety, depression, and life transitions. We may use individual, family, or group therapy, relapse prevention, education, medication, or MAT/MOUD. Our Dual Diagnosis Recovery Program is for people struggling with both a mental health and drug/alcohol issue. We know that recovery does not always mean abstinence. Take the Alcohol Moderation Assessment to help you determine your relationship with alcohol and learn how to get your life back in balance.
Madeleine E. Bertin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Ashburn, VA 20147 (Online Only)
I believe that the therapeutic relationship is the central component to successful psychotherapy and I bring special attention to the ongoing process of relational safety. I also believe that self-harmful behaviors always have roots in past experiences of threat and it can be life-changing to discover these connections. I work to help individuals establish goals, explore their experiences, gain self-awareness, develop resources and skills, cultivate self-compassion, and find greater self-empowerment so they can create a more fulfilling and meaningful life for themselves.
I believe that the therapeutic relationship is the central component to successful psychotherapy and I bring special attention to the ongoing process of relational safety. I also believe that self-harmful behaviors always have roots in past experiences of threat and it can be life-changing to discover these connections. I work to help individuals establish goals, explore their experiences, gain self-awareness, develop resources and skills, cultivate self-compassion, and find greater self-empowerment so they can create a more fulfilling and meaningful life for themselves.
Siria Minaya
Resident in Counseling, MA, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ashburn, VA 20147
Everyone has the strength and capacity to change. As humans, we occasionally get stuck in unhelpful ways of thinking or behavioral patterns. As a counselor, my goal is to create a safe space for reflection and help you develop skills so that you can be better equipped when confronted with life’s difficulties.
Everyone has the strength and capacity to change. As humans, we occasionally get stuck in unhelpful ways of thinking or behavioral patterns. As a counselor, my goal is to create a safe space for reflection and help you develop skills so that you can be better equipped when confronted with life’s difficulties.
Lily Spinelli (Ellie Mental Health Ashburn)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Ashburn, VA 20147
Congratulations on taking the first steps in your journey to recovery! I believe that our strengths come from our individuality, which is why I have a passion for working with a variety of clients, particularly adolescents and young adults struggling with depression, anxiety, ADHD, anger management, family conflict, and school issues. Other areas of expertise include the LGBTQ+ population, nontraditional relationships, and parenting struggles. It is my priority to create a safe and welcoming space for you to receive the nonjudgemental and compassionate care you deserve.
Congratulations on taking the first steps in your journey to recovery! I believe that our strengths come from our individuality, which is why I have a passion for working with a variety of clients, particularly adolescents and young adults struggling with depression, anxiety, ADHD, anger management, family conflict, and school issues. Other areas of expertise include the LGBTQ+ population, nontraditional relationships, and parenting struggles. It is my priority to create a safe and welcoming space for you to receive the nonjudgemental and compassionate care you deserve.
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Family-of-origin issues may cause adults to experience anxiety, depression, or other mood or personality disorders. Individuals who grow up with difficult family relationships may find dating, working relationships, friendships and even relationships with themselves to be difficult. Lack of safety may result in infidelity, mistrust, validation seeking, lack of boundaries, conflict (causing or avoidance), anger, eating disorders or addiction. These challenges can be passed down for generations. Therapy can help resolve these issues by providing space to process, gain insight and learn new patterns.
Family-of-origin issues may cause adults to experience anxiety, depression, or other mood or personality disorders. Individuals who grow up with difficult family relationships may find dating, working relationships, friendships and even relationships with themselves to be difficult. Lack of safety may result in infidelity, mistrust, validation seeking, lack of boundaries, conflict (causing or avoidance), anger, eating disorders or addiction. These challenges can be passed down for generations. Therapy can help resolve these issues by providing space to process, gain insight and learn new patterns.
Ayrielle Williams
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ashburn, VA 20147
The Sex Therapist you never knew you needed! When client’s come to my office to seek therapy, the one part of themselves that is most often neglected is sexuality! Most people don’t even mention sexual beliefs, curiosities, behaviors, or attitudes until I ask. I believe that sexuality is so much a part of who we are, there is no way to fully heal and truly be at peace if our sexuality is not explored! As well as specializing in Sex Therapy, I’m also a clinical trauma therapist!
The Sex Therapist you never knew you needed! When client’s come to my office to seek therapy, the one part of themselves that is most often neglected is sexuality! Most people don’t even mention sexual beliefs, curiosities, behaviors, or attitudes until I ask. I believe that sexuality is so much a part of who we are, there is no way to fully heal and truly be at peace if our sexuality is not explored! As well as specializing in Sex Therapy, I’m also a clinical trauma therapist!
Melissa Crespo
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Ashburn, VA 20147 (Online Only)
Hi there! Opening up to someone about what is causing you pain can be a challenge. You don’t have to be alone in the process. By working through a collaborative approach, together we will identify skills that will bring about positive change to help reach your goals. I am here to partner with you as you work towards healing. My goal is to provide a warm and supportive environment in which you will feel heard and foster self-growth. I support youth and adults during life transitions, social anxiety, self-esteem, and emotional or behavioral concerns.
Hi there! Opening up to someone about what is causing you pain can be a challenge. You don’t have to be alone in the process. By working through a collaborative approach, together we will identify skills that will bring about positive change to help reach your goals. I am here to partner with you as you work towards healing. My goal is to provide a warm and supportive environment in which you will feel heard and foster self-growth. I support youth and adults during life transitions, social anxiety, self-esteem, and emotional or behavioral concerns.
Evolve: A Behavioral Health Center
Pre-Licensed Professional, LPC
Verified Verified
Ashburn, VA 20148 (Online Only)
Does part of your life feel out of control? When our emotions, thoughts, or events happen to us feel out of our control, we can oftentimes turn to negative coping skills if we’re not equipped with the necessary tools to overcome life's challenges. When this happens, life can feel terrifying, overwhelming, and unpredictable. We can blame ourselves and become anxious, depressed, or abuse substances. I work with my clients to empower them to handle life’s curveballs by walking alongside them through challenges with grace and intuition. Indeed, we are capable of coming through the other side of life’s challenges with joy and gratitude.
Does part of your life feel out of control? When our emotions, thoughts, or events happen to us feel out of our control, we can oftentimes turn to negative coping skills if we’re not equipped with the necessary tools to overcome life's challenges. When this happens, life can feel terrifying, overwhelming, and unpredictable. We can blame ourselves and become anxious, depressed, or abuse substances. I work with my clients to empower them to handle life’s curveballs by walking alongside them through challenges with grace and intuition. Indeed, we are capable of coming through the other side of life’s challenges with joy and gratitude.
Emilie Ferran
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, ATR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ashburn, VA 20147
Accepting New Patients! Book at: Staffordholisticcounseling.com Here’s the thing: when you’re feeling unmotivated, find that you’ve been procrastinating on almost every task, and/or wondering, “How did I end up here?” it’s a surefire sign that overwhelm has set in. Without having the proper tools to identify triggers and learn to help your brain out preemptively, you’re having meltdowns at embarrassing times, picking fights with friends and family, and finding yourself stuck in habits that you know are harmful or unhelpful. This can lead to immeasurable emotional and physical exhaustion.
Accepting New Patients! Book at: Staffordholisticcounseling.com Here’s the thing: when you’re feeling unmotivated, find that you’ve been procrastinating on almost every task, and/or wondering, “How did I end up here?” it’s a surefire sign that overwhelm has set in. Without having the proper tools to identify triggers and learn to help your brain out preemptively, you’re having meltdowns at embarrassing times, picking fights with friends and family, and finding yourself stuck in habits that you know are harmful or unhelpful. This can lead to immeasurable emotional and physical exhaustion.
Kayla Rieck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Ashburn, VA 20147
Do you feel that living in this world can sometimes feel overwhelming, confusing, and challenging? I believe that even the strongest people need support and guidance to navigate life's ups and downs. You are the expert in your life and I am here to support you. I work with you (and/or your loved ones) to identify goals and map paths for improvement so that you can move forward. Whether this is your first time seeking therapy or you are looking to restart services, I am so glad that you are here.
Do you feel that living in this world can sometimes feel overwhelming, confusing, and challenging? I believe that even the strongest people need support and guidance to navigate life's ups and downs. You are the expert in your life and I am here to support you. I work with you (and/or your loved ones) to identify goals and map paths for improvement so that you can move forward. Whether this is your first time seeking therapy or you are looking to restart services, I am so glad that you are here.
Family Therapy Center of Northern Virginia, LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ashburn, VA 20147
You try! You are doing the best that you can for yourself and your family and yet STILL someone is struggling. Sometimes love and researching helpful information isn’t enough to keep everyone afloat. We specialize in helping children, teens and adults calm the anxiety and stress and heal the trauma and depression from the ROOT.
You try! You are doing the best that you can for yourself and your family and yet STILL someone is struggling. Sometimes love and researching helpful information isn’t enough to keep everyone afloat. We specialize in helping children, teens and adults calm the anxiety and stress and heal the trauma and depression from the ROOT.
Hannah G Lindsay
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ashburn, VA 20147
Are you looking for a therapist that is compassionate, warm, uplifting, and supportive? My strength as a counselor is connecting with my clients and helping them access their strengths and resources. I have experience with individuals of all ages from diverse backgrounds. The clients I have worked with have primarily experienced the effects of trauma, grief, and loss. For more than 16 years I have worked with individuals effected by domestic violence, sexual assault, and childhood sexual abuse. I enjoy working with parents who are navigating the challenges of raising children, especially those who have not had positive examples.
Are you looking for a therapist that is compassionate, warm, uplifting, and supportive? My strength as a counselor is connecting with my clients and helping them access their strengths and resources. I have experience with individuals of all ages from diverse backgrounds. The clients I have worked with have primarily experienced the effects of trauma, grief, and loss. For more than 16 years I have worked with individuals effected by domestic violence, sexual assault, and childhood sexual abuse. I enjoy working with parents who are navigating the challenges of raising children, especially those who have not had positive examples.
Noelle Castoro
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Ashburn, VA 20148
I work with adolescents and adults experiencing disordered eating and people seeking to make peace with food and their body. My work also includes people in relationships and individuals experiencing sexual problems, separation and divorce, infidelity, and co-parenting. I use a nonjudgemental, collaborative, person-centered approach to address the individual's needs. I work with individuals to help them recognize their own strengths and incorporate positive coping strategies as they move forward. I believe that creating trust and a little bit of humor go a long way in working through the struggles we face in life.
I work with adolescents and adults experiencing disordered eating and people seeking to make peace with food and their body. My work also includes people in relationships and individuals experiencing sexual problems, separation and divorce, infidelity, and co-parenting. I use a nonjudgemental, collaborative, person-centered approach to address the individual's needs. I work with individuals to help them recognize their own strengths and incorporate positive coping strategies as they move forward. I believe that creating trust and a little bit of humor go a long way in working through the struggles we face in life.
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Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specializing in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialize in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.
When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counseling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counseling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.
How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.