Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists in Amherst, NY

Photo of Michaela Wilber, Counselor in Amherst, NY
Michaela Wilber
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Amherst, NY 14228
It’s never too late or too early to be whoever you want to be. You can start whenever you want. You can make the best of things or the worst of things. You can live a life that you are proud of and if not, there is help to start over. You just need to take the first step.
It’s never too late or too early to be whoever you want to be. You can start whenever you want. You can make the best of things or the worst of things. You can live a life that you are proud of and if not, there is help to start over. You just need to take the first step.
(716) 356-3271 View (716) 356-3271
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Mary Gatchell
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Amherst, NY 14226
I have been working as a mental health counselor for adults, adolescents, and couples for five years. I have spent the majority of this in community mental health, providing therapy for issues related to anxiety, depression, trauma, women’s and LGBTQ+ issues, as well as day-to-day stressors such as finances, life transitions, and relationships.
I have been working as a mental health counselor for adults, adolescents, and couples for five years. I have spent the majority of this in community mental health, providing therapy for issues related to anxiety, depression, trauma, women’s and LGBTQ+ issues, as well as day-to-day stressors such as finances, life transitions, and relationships.
(716) 466-5047 View (716) 466-5047
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Miranda Galligan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Amherst, NY 14226
The human experience can be filled with joy but also suffering, this chapter of your life is causing turmoil but you are resilient. Bouts of depression, negative self talk, daily anxieties and struggling with low self esteem no longer serve you, allow yourself to work alongside a trained professional to guide you through the process of healing. Therapy can help you increase confidence, empower you to create boundaries and aid in your conscious understanding of the interconnectedness of your mind, body and spirit.
The human experience can be filled with joy but also suffering, this chapter of your life is causing turmoil but you are resilient. Bouts of depression, negative self talk, daily anxieties and struggling with low self esteem no longer serve you, allow yourself to work alongside a trained professional to guide you through the process of healing. Therapy can help you increase confidence, empower you to create boundaries and aid in your conscious understanding of the interconnectedness of your mind, body and spirit.
(716) 302-0337 View (716) 302-0337
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Dr. Kathryn (Katie) Diebold
Licensed Master Social Worker, DSW, LMSW
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14228
NOT Currently Accepting New Clients. Are you feeling stuck or unable to move on from events that happened in your past? Do you feel like you keep repeating the same cycles over and over again? I have worked with many clients from diverse backgrounds to move froward from past traumas and to find peace. I serve as a guide to help clients navigate their own unique road to healing and truth through the use of EMDR, an evidence based intervention for trauma. I am a licensed social worker with over 15 years of human service experience and I have a doctorate degree in social work. I also use humor and laughter to bring joy to our sessions.
NOT Currently Accepting New Clients. Are you feeling stuck or unable to move on from events that happened in your past? Do you feel like you keep repeating the same cycles over and over again? I have worked with many clients from diverse backgrounds to move froward from past traumas and to find peace. I serve as a guide to help clients navigate their own unique road to healing and truth through the use of EMDR, an evidence based intervention for trauma. I am a licensed social worker with over 15 years of human service experience and I have a doctorate degree in social work. I also use humor and laughter to bring joy to our sessions.
(716) 321-5392 x101 View (716) 321-5392 x101
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Anna Caflisch
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14228
I have had the opportunity to experience working with most age groups and diagnosis/life issues, in a wide variety of settings including behavioral health hospitals, schools, in-home, and clinics. I enjoy working with diverse populations and have experience working with clients from different cultures, clients from the LGBTQIA+ community, and the military community. I am especially interested in helping young adults build self-esteem and work through life transitions.
I have had the opportunity to experience working with most age groups and diagnosis/life issues, in a wide variety of settings including behavioral health hospitals, schools, in-home, and clinics. I enjoy working with diverse populations and have experience working with clients from different cultures, clients from the LGBTQIA+ community, and the military community. I am especially interested in helping young adults build self-esteem and work through life transitions.
(716) 457-7763 View (716) 457-7763
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Alissa DeFini
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14226
Do you find it difficult to control your worry and anxiety or do you find that you are worried all the time? Do you experience thoughts that you find are difficult to control? Are you often overwhelmed by intense emotions and feel like you’re on a roller coaster? Do you find yourself feeling depressed and having a hard time enjoying the things that you once enjoyed? You are not alone and therapy can help.
Do you find it difficult to control your worry and anxiety or do you find that you are worried all the time? Do you experience thoughts that you find are difficult to control? Are you often overwhelmed by intense emotions and feel like you’re on a roller coaster? Do you find yourself feeling depressed and having a hard time enjoying the things that you once enjoyed? You are not alone and therapy can help.
(716) 245-6378 View (716) 245-6378
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Jaclyn Butts
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14226
I enjoy working with people from all backgrounds. I love helping people who are motivated and have a goal in mind of what they want to work towards in their life. Whether it is relationship issues, anxiety, trauma or something else; There are always things we can learn from each other.
I enjoy working with people from all backgrounds. I love helping people who are motivated and have a goal in mind of what they want to work towards in their life. Whether it is relationship issues, anxiety, trauma or something else; There are always things we can learn from each other.
(716) 869-6492 View (716) 869-6492
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Jennifer Szopinski
LMSW
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14228
I acknowledge that shifts, losses, and unforeseen challenges can have a profound impact on one's life, sometimes leading to feelings of despair. Recognizing the potential pain and the potential for these experiences to be overwhelming, my aim is to establish a sanctuary of safety, trust, and support for every client, fostering a journey of healing and personal development.
I acknowledge that shifts, losses, and unforeseen challenges can have a profound impact on one's life, sometimes leading to feelings of despair. Recognizing the potential pain and the potential for these experiences to be overwhelming, my aim is to establish a sanctuary of safety, trust, and support for every client, fostering a journey of healing and personal development.
(716) 222-8168 View (716) 222-8168
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Adam Giancarlo, LCSW-R
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Amherst, NY 14228
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and have been providing therapy to various client populations in several different settings for over 14 years. I have assisted clients in overcoming many obstacles and issues, including mental health problems like anxiety, depression, and trauma; substance abuse and chemical dependency; domestic violence; as well as relationship problems. I work with individuals and couples. My approach is person-centered/client-directed; strengths-based; outcome-informed, feedback-informed, and trauma-informed; as well as solution-focused. I am continuing professional development through training.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and have been providing therapy to various client populations in several different settings for over 14 years. I have assisted clients in overcoming many obstacles and issues, including mental health problems like anxiety, depression, and trauma; substance abuse and chemical dependency; domestic violence; as well as relationship problems. I work with individuals and couples. My approach is person-centered/client-directed; strengths-based; outcome-informed, feedback-informed, and trauma-informed; as well as solution-focused. I am continuing professional development through training.
(716) 229-5540 View (716) 229-5540
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Bonnie Parkot
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Amherst, NY 14226
How do you start? It starts with a conversation. The idea that therapy is is about giving advice, a one sided conversation, couldn’t be farther from the truth. Therapy is for you, to let out what’s been holding you back, to figure out how to cope with situations so that you can wake up tomorrow feeling like a better version of you. I want you to achieve your goals through use of talk therapy where we can process your thoughts, feeling and behaviors together.
How do you start? It starts with a conversation. The idea that therapy is is about giving advice, a one sided conversation, couldn’t be farther from the truth. Therapy is for you, to let out what’s been holding you back, to figure out how to cope with situations so that you can wake up tomorrow feeling like a better version of you. I want you to achieve your goals through use of talk therapy where we can process your thoughts, feeling and behaviors together.
(716) 229-4142 View (716) 229-4142
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Carla R Kuhl
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Amherst, NY 14228
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Buffalo, practicing as a therapist and life-style coach. I work with my clients to provide them with tailored treatment plans that can be integrated into their daily lives. I have extensive experience and training in empirically-based treatments, such as DBT, ACT, EMDR, Schema therapy, IFS and have worked in a complex trauma clinic getting experience in many areas impacting the adult community. My practice provides treatment to adults 18 or older. Offering TELEHEALTH (PHONE and/or WEBCAM SESSIONS).
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Buffalo, practicing as a therapist and life-style coach. I work with my clients to provide them with tailored treatment plans that can be integrated into their daily lives. I have extensive experience and training in empirically-based treatments, such as DBT, ACT, EMDR, Schema therapy, IFS and have worked in a complex trauma clinic getting experience in many areas impacting the adult community. My practice provides treatment to adults 18 or older. Offering TELEHEALTH (PHONE and/or WEBCAM SESSIONS).
(716) 953-3570 View (716) 953-3570
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Wood Psychology Services
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14226
At Wood Psychology Services, our approach is to provide a supportive and encouraging environment to facilitate change and to offer alternative ways of coping. Our goal is to encourage each client's personal growth, help decrease problematic symptoms and behaviors, and increase self-esteem and the ability to resolve life's challenges. We also offer diagnostic assessments to assist in treatment as well as eligibility evaluations for the identification of developmental disabilities, including autism.
At Wood Psychology Services, our approach is to provide a supportive and encouraging environment to facilitate change and to offer alternative ways of coping. Our goal is to encourage each client's personal growth, help decrease problematic symptoms and behaviors, and increase self-esteem and the ability to resolve life's challenges. We also offer diagnostic assessments to assist in treatment as well as eligibility evaluations for the identification of developmental disabilities, including autism.
(716) 451-2636 View (716) 451-2636
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Nancy Robin Krtek
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, ND, LCSW, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14226
Therapeutic interventions include integrative approaches along with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Schema Therapy, Psycho-Education, as well as Eastern philosophical tenets, and EMDR. If you deal with Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Addiction issues, a Trauma history, Dissociative Disorders or Personality Disorders, you will receive competent, compassionate and empathic care. Treatment needs can be met through individual therapy, family therapy, couples therapy and/or group therapy. Other issues that I can help you with are Eating Disorders, Weight management, Pain management/somatic issues. as well as Grief/Loss issues. Check out my Facebook page "Nancy Krtek Mind/Body Practitioner."
Therapeutic interventions include integrative approaches along with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Schema Therapy, Psycho-Education, as well as Eastern philosophical tenets, and EMDR. If you deal with Mood Disorders, Anxiety Disorders, Addiction issues, a Trauma history, Dissociative Disorders or Personality Disorders, you will receive competent, compassionate and empathic care. Treatment needs can be met through individual therapy, family therapy, couples therapy and/or group therapy. Other issues that I can help you with are Eating Disorders, Weight management, Pain management/somatic issues. as well as Grief/Loss issues. Check out my Facebook page "Nancy Krtek Mind/Body Practitioner."
(630) 282-6959 View (630) 282-6959
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Evolving Roots Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LMSW
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14226
My ideal clients are individuals who are open to seeking help and gaining a deeper understanding of themselves and their interactions with others. Throughout my career, I’ve worked with diverse groups of people, assisting them in achieving their goals. I particularly enjoy working with those who want to explore their past experiences and understand how these events have shaped them. Additionally, I support individuals in healing from significant life events.
My ideal clients are individuals who are open to seeking help and gaining a deeper understanding of themselves and their interactions with others. Throughout my career, I’ve worked with diverse groups of people, assisting them in achieving their goals. I particularly enjoy working with those who want to explore their past experiences and understand how these events have shaped them. Additionally, I support individuals in healing from significant life events.
(716) 217-6905 View (716) 217-6905
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Allan E Jones
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MSEd, MS, SEP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Amherst, NY 14226
I admire & appreciate the courage it takes to initiate & maintain therapy. Indivduals & couples call because they are stuck in unhealthy patterns & do not know how to do something different. I assist them in creating & maintaining healthy patterns. Anxiety & panic are struggles for many people. They learn to control the anxiety as opposed the anxiety controlling them. Miscommunication happens because people often listen to talk as opposed to understand. I teach clients how to communicate in the therapy room so they leave knowing how to do it. Clients regain trust so they can reconnect emotionally & sexually.
I admire & appreciate the courage it takes to initiate & maintain therapy. Indivduals & couples call because they are stuck in unhealthy patterns & do not know how to do something different. I assist them in creating & maintaining healthy patterns. Anxiety & panic are struggles for many people. They learn to control the anxiety as opposed the anxiety controlling them. Miscommunication happens because people often listen to talk as opposed to understand. I teach clients how to communicate in the therapy room so they leave knowing how to do it. Clients regain trust so they can reconnect emotionally & sexually.
(716) 638-2369 View (716) 638-2369
Photo of Kim Leiker,LMHC, Counselor in Amherst, NY
Kim Leiker,LMHC
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14228
For several years, a whirlwind of events have altered the normalities of life and challenged one’s sense of safe, stable, and secure. I've dedicated the past 20 years to helping people achieve overall wellness and evolve as individuals. People learn how to navigate through the twists and turns of their wellness journey. With self-awareness, self-acceptance, and inner control over our lives, we can attain inner freedom, growth, and the tools to continue on our paths. Your situation can't change unless you choose to change it.
For several years, a whirlwind of events have altered the normalities of life and challenged one’s sense of safe, stable, and secure. I've dedicated the past 20 years to helping people achieve overall wellness and evolve as individuals. People learn how to navigate through the twists and turns of their wellness journey. With self-awareness, self-acceptance, and inner control over our lives, we can attain inner freedom, growth, and the tools to continue on our paths. Your situation can't change unless you choose to change it.
(716) 608-3956 View (716) 608-3956
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Matthew Couch
Counselor, MS, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Amherst, NY 14221
Worry, sadness, and uncertainty are natural responses to feeling you can't control parts of your life. Often regaining control feels like it requires giving up something else, whether it is time with family and friends, your passions, or last night's sleep. While dark humor, caffeine, and willpower may get you far, you shouldn’t have to give up the best parts of your life to just survive. No matter how you got here, you are the expert on yourself. My responsibility is to create a supportive and attentive space where you can gain perspective and resume growth.
Worry, sadness, and uncertainty are natural responses to feeling you can't control parts of your life. Often regaining control feels like it requires giving up something else, whether it is time with family and friends, your passions, or last night's sleep. While dark humor, caffeine, and willpower may get you far, you shouldn’t have to give up the best parts of your life to just survive. No matter how you got here, you are the expert on yourself. My responsibility is to create a supportive and attentive space where you can gain perspective and resume growth.
(716) 296-4352 View (716) 296-4352
Photo of Nat Kiser-Negron, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Amherst, NY
Nat Kiser-Negron
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Amherst, NY 14226
Do you feel uneasy, tense, or unsafe in your own body? Trapped by your own thoughts and emotions, or a nagging feeling or muscular tension that seem unrelated to your emotional state? I know that feeling; that sensation that we try to ignore but just won’t go away. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, the stress of everyday life or the aftermath of trauma, your body is the container that holds it all—thoughts, feelings, sensations—all our lived experiences that make us who we are. Some of these experiences can help us thrive, feel safe and connected and some can make us feel stuck, uncertain, and reactive.
Do you feel uneasy, tense, or unsafe in your own body? Trapped by your own thoughts and emotions, or a nagging feeling or muscular tension that seem unrelated to your emotional state? I know that feeling; that sensation that we try to ignore but just won’t go away. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, the stress of everyday life or the aftermath of trauma, your body is the container that holds it all—thoughts, feelings, sensations—all our lived experiences that make us who we are. Some of these experiences can help us thrive, feel safe and connected and some can make us feel stuck, uncertain, and reactive.
(917) 746-4044 View (917) 746-4044
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Nathan Chau
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14226
Feeling overwhelmed, unheard or like you're barely keeping afloat? I offer clients a wide variety experience working with patients struggling through Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Bipolar disorder and various forms of addiction. These concerns can be difficult to work through on our own, so I strive to create a safe and non-judgmental space where we can work on your goals at your own pace.
Feeling overwhelmed, unheard or like you're barely keeping afloat? I offer clients a wide variety experience working with patients struggling through Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Bipolar disorder and various forms of addiction. These concerns can be difficult to work through on our own, so I strive to create a safe and non-judgmental space where we can work on your goals at your own pace.
(716) 899-5152 View (716) 899-5152
Photo of Sara Kathleen Lis, Counselor in Amherst, NY
Sara Kathleen Lis
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Amherst, NY 14226
Sigmund Freud once said, “Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength.” For me, this quote has always encapsulated one of the most important aspects of mental health. I believe that our ability to grow comes from our ability to heal; and for us to heal we need to be able to cope with our deepest struggles. It is in the act of opening up that we make our day-to-day existence an opportunity to develop as people; it’s how we become more resilient, and in the process of being vulnerable with others, we learn to love ourselves.
Sigmund Freud once said, “Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strength.” For me, this quote has always encapsulated one of the most important aspects of mental health. I believe that our ability to grow comes from our ability to heal; and for us to heal we need to be able to cope with our deepest struggles. It is in the act of opening up that we make our day-to-day existence an opportunity to develop as people; it’s how we become more resilient, and in the process of being vulnerable with others, we learn to love ourselves.
(716) 271-9628 View (716) 271-9628

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Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists

Why might an individual want to see a therapist specializing in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?

A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialize in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.

When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counseling?

Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?

No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counseling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.

How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?

Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.