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Jack May
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT

Jack May

Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT (he, him)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
20 Endorsed
Santa Barbara, CA 93108
Let's Connect (805) 243-1170
My therapeutic philosophy is rooted in the belief that each individual possesses the strength to overcome their challenges. In my practice, I blend cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness, solution-focused strategies, and emotionally focused therapy (EFT) to support those dealing with sex addiction and anger management in a non-judgmental environment. Emphasizing empathy, integrity, and professionalism, I offer guidance and hope. I'm committed to navigating personal challenges and fostering resilience and well-being with you. Together, we'll pursue healing, self-discovery, and a fulfilling life, ensuring you feel supported.
Virtual sessions available. In person sessions are limited. I am a sex addiction and anger management specialist, primarily working with men and significant other. I have a very straight forward approach utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness, Solution Focused Therapy and Emotional Focused Therapy.
I offer Telehealth only...I will teach you how to take better care of your self!
Call or Jack May now for a free 15 minute consultation - (805) 243-1170

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Santa Barbara, CA 93108

(805) 243-1170

Los Angeles, CA 90025

All sessions are phone & video. Call or text 805-203-0717
I specialize in Anger Management, Depression and Sexual Addiction 
$175 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
I am looking forward to helping you take better care of yourself and reach your goals!
Jack May
Let's Connect (805) 243-1170

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Santa Barbara, CA 93108

(805) 243-1170

Los Angeles, CA 90025

All sessions are phone & video. Call or text 805-203-0717
I specialize in Anger Management, Depression and Sexual Addiction 
$175 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
I am looking forward to helping you take better care of yourself and reach your goals!
Jack May

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $175
  • Couple Sessions $250
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
  • Pay by American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa, Zelle

Insurance

  • Aetna
  • Anthem | Elevance
  • Blue Shield
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • CenCal
  • Cigna and Evernorth
  • First Health
  • GEHA
  • Health Net
  • MHN | Health Net
  • Modern Health
  • Optum
  • UC Ship
  • UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
  • Out of Network
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I work on a sliding scale. If you make under $100,000 per year my fee is $175. If you make over $100,000 per year my fee is $250. Additionally, I will coach you on how to find out your co-pay, in-network benefits and how to get your affordable therapy.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 243-1170
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
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I work on a sliding scale. If you make under $100,000 per year my fee is $175. If you make over $100,000 per year my fee is $250. Additionally, I will coach you on how to find out your co-pay, in-network benefits and how to get your affordable therapy.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 243-1170
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 94423 Jack May
  • In Practice for 13 Years
  • Certificate from California Association of Anger Management Providers CAAMP2017 / 2017
  • Attended Phillips Graduate Institute, Graduated 2011
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Dedicated to talk therapy primarily focusing on adult males ages 18 years to 40 years old.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 243-1170
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
"
Dedicated to talk therapy primarily focusing on adult males ages 18 years to 40 years old.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 243-1170
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Anger Management
  • Depression
  • Sexual Addiction

Expertise

  • Addiction
  • ADHD
  • Alcohol Use
  • Anxiety
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Codependency
  • Divorce
  • Drug Abuse
  • Dual Diagnosis
  • Emotional Management
  • Emotional Tolerance
  • Family Conflict
  • Infidelity
  • Internet Addiction
  • Life Coaching
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Men's Issues
  • Parenting
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Trauma and PTSD
Do these issues align with your needs? or (805) 243-1170
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Do these issues align with your needs? or (805) 243-1170
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT

20 Endorsements

Dave Fung
Dave Fung
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFT
You want someone who has the tools and skillset to navigate the challenges of sex addiction. Jack has trained for this and exemplifies a clinican who can warmly and expertly support you. See for yourself!
Fiorella Chujutalli
Fiorella Chujutalli
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateAMFTMSRNBSN
Jack is an excellent therapist. He is very easy to connect to and experienced in his field.
Emelina Bellé Couples Specialist Board-Certified Diplomate Sexology
Emelina Bellé Couples Specialist Board-Certified Diplomate Sexology
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFTCCTP-IICPTT-CCSAT-C
Jack is an outstanding therapist who has extensive experience and specialty expertise in ensuring high-quality care. I highly recommend Jack and am confident in referring clients.
Tesa Saulmon
Tesa Saulmon
Registered Mental Health Counselor InternCSAT-C
Jacks dedication to his client's well-being was evident during our training together. His insightful and empathetic approach to therapy is truly commendable.
Brandi Davis
Brandi Davis
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFTCPTCPC
Jack is the real deal. Not only is he both kind and well-educated, he is also truly committed to providing the best possible care to his clients. It's clear that his heart is in this work and that clients can expect the best with him.
Jonathan W. Thompson II
Jonathan W. Thompson II
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFTAPCC
Jack is a highly skilled mental health clinician who works with men's issues, individuals, couples and families. He utilizes an eclectic approach that is warm and inviting. He also is a compassionate supervisor who has assisted me in becoming licensed.
Erika Feely
Erika Feely
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFTAPCC
Jack is a highly skilled therapist! He genuinely cares about helping his clients.
Danielle Sharkey
Danielle Sharkey
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Jack is passionate and committed to helping his clients reach their therapeutic goals. I highly recommend him!
Kady Fleckenstein
Kady Fleckenstein
Marriage & Family Therapist AssociateMAAMFT
Jack has a magnetic personality that makes you feel instantly at ease. He listens with intent, is a terrific resource and very reliable. His straight-forward approach is always appreciated as is his passion for helping people.
Alina P. Halonen
Alina P. Halonen
Licensed Professional CounselorMSLPCCCCTP
If you are looking for a highly skilled clinician who specializes in treating men's issues or you are a couple who is seeking guidance and support, I highly recommend Jack May. He has a successful track record of helping his clients achieve their goals.
Kristi Miller, LMFT
Kristi Miller, LMFT
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFTAuthor
Jack May has an innate skill to connect with his clients and provide relevant and helpful therapeutic support. I refer clients to him often.
Karima Shamma
Karima Shamma
Marriage & Family TherapistMAMFT
Jack cares deeply for his clients and is an attentive, insightful and caring therapist with an easy-going style.
Rudi Lion
Rudi Lion
Marriage & Family TherapistMFT
Jack is a highly skilled and thoughtful therapist. Good to have on anyone's team!
Vasily Todoriko
Vasily Todoriko
Marriage & Family TherapistLMFT
Highly professional yet warm, Jack goes above and beyond when considering the needs of his clients. When working with him, rest assured you are in the hands of a highly qualified clinician.
Kristine Tye
Kristine Tye
Marriage & Family TherapistMALMFT
Jack May is a dedicated individual and therapist. He is passionate about helping his clients achieve their personal goals!

Client Focus

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Bisexual Allied
Body Positivity
Cancer
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Transgender Allied
Veterans

Ethnicity

Hispanic and Latino
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Portuguese
Spanish

Age

Adults
Elders (65+)

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Communities

Aviation Professionals
Bisexual Allied
Body Positivity
Cancer
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Transgender Allied
Veterans

Ethnicity

Hispanic and Latino
Other Racial or Ethnic Background

I also speak

Portuguese
Spanish

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Coaching
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Eclectic
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Family Systems
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Positive Psychology
  • Reality Therapy
  • Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
  • Strength-Based
  • Structural Family Therapy
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (805) 243-1170
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (805) 243-1170
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT

Location

Primary Location

Santa Barbara, CA 93108

(805) 243-1170

Additional Location

Los Angeles, CA 90025

(805) 243-1170
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All sessions are phone & video. Call or text 805-203-0717
Call for a free consultation now - (805) 243-1170
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
"
All sessions are phone & video. Call or text 805-203-0717
Call for a free consultation now - (805) 243-1170
Jack May
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CAMF, CSAT
Last Modified: 8 Apr 2024