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Lily Ostler
Lily Ostler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
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Lily Ostler

Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW (she, her)

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
4 Endorsed
Brooklyn, NY 11238
Let's Connect (332) 239-1712
My goal is to support you in improving your relationship with yourself and others; exploring and understanding your sexuality, gender, and relationship styles; and enhancing your experience of and relationship to sex. Whether you’re facing struggles in these areas or just want to better understand who you are and how you’re feeling, I am here to work collaboratively with you to build the life that you want. I tailor my approach to each unique individual and system to support you in understanding how past experiences, shame, and your mental health are impacting your interpersonal relationships and quality of life.
I am a queer therapist that utilizes a casual and honest style with the hope of engaging you in open, supportive, & challenging conversations. I am a sex work/worker positive, LGBTQIA+, kinky, & poly-affirming therapist. I will use a trauma-informed, anti-oppressive, and eclectic approach to collaboratively build a healing space for you.
Together, we will use your unique perspective and experiences to support you (and/or your partner/s) in answering questions about yourself/your life, finding self-acceptance & self-worth, exploring relationship & dating problems, defining boundaries & values, and developing long-term coping strategies through shared empathy, kindness, and some humor.
Call or Lily Ostler now for a free 15 minute consultation - (332) 239-1712

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Wise Therapy

Brooklyn, NY 11238

(332) 239-1712

Wise Therapy

New York, NY 10001

Offering Telehealth online sessions using HIPPA compliant software. Email me to schedule a session. I am here to support you.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, LGBTQ+ and Sex Therapy 
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
a very quick intro to me! reach out today and we can set up a quick consultation call to find out how to best support you.
Lily Ostler
Let's Connect (332) 239-1712

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Wise Therapy

Brooklyn, NY 11238

(332) 239-1712

Wise Therapy

New York, NY 10001

Offering Telehealth online sessions using HIPPA compliant software. Email me to schedule a session. I am here to support you.
I specialize in Relationship Issues, LGBTQ+ and Sex Therapy 
$200 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
a very quick intro to me! reach out today and we can set up a quick consultation call to find out how to best support you.
Lily Ostler

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $275
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
  • Pay by ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Out of Network
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I offer sliding scale fees and provide superbills to submit for out of network insurance reimbursement. Reach out today!
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712
Lily Ostler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
"
I offer sliding scale fees and provide superbills to submit for out of network insurance reimbursement. Reach out today!
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712
Lily Ostler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of New York / 113145 Lily Ostler
  • Attended New York University Silver School of Social Work, Master's of Social Work
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I am in the process of becoming a Certified Sex Therapist through Modern Sex Therapy Institutes and AASECT.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712
Lily Ostler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
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I am in the process of becoming a Certified Sex Therapist through Modern Sex Therapy Institutes and AASECT.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712
Lily Ostler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • LGBTQ+
  • Sex Therapy

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Behavioral Issues
  • Bisexual
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Mood Disorders
  • Peer Relationships
  • Perfectionism
  • Self Esteem
  • Shame
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Transgender
  • Women's Issues
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Therapy is a collaborative space where we will work together to identify goals and define progress. That being said, most of my clients express a sense of relief and comfort following the first few sessions. As our work continues to progress, my clients note ongoing and sustained improvement!
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712
Lily Ostler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
"
Therapy is a collaborative space where we will work together to identify goals and define progress. That being said, most of my clients express a sense of relief and comfort following the first few sessions. As our work continues to progress, my clients note ongoing and sustained improvement!
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (332) 239-1712
Lily Ostler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW

4 Endorsements

Lindsey Schafer
Lindsey Schafer
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLMSW
Lily is a compassionate, intellectual, warm therapist providing affirming care to couples and individuals. As a colleague, I have learned a lot from Lily and felt comfortable approaching her with a variety of topics and challenges!
Rachel Gordon
Rachel Gordon
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLMSW
Lily is a wonderful therapist who compassionately cares for her clients!
Gabriella L Giachin
Gabriella L Giachin
Clinical Social Work/TherapistLMSW
Lily is an excellent therapist and co-worker!

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Body Positivity
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Body Positivity
Gay Allied
HIV / AIDS Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • Emotionally Focused
  • Feminist
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Person-Centered
  • Positive Psychology
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (332) 239-1712
Lily Ostler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (332) 239-1712
Lily Ostler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW

Location

Primary Location

Wise Therapy

Brooklyn, NY 11238

(332) 239-1712

Additional Location

Wise Therapy

New York, NY 10001

(332) 239-1712
"
Offering Telehealth online sessions using HIPPA compliant software. Email me to schedule a session. I am here to support you.
Call for a free consultation now - (332) 239-1712
Lily Ostler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
"
Offering Telehealth online sessions using HIPPA compliant software. Email me to schedule a session. I am here to support you.
Call for a free consultation now - (332) 239-1712
Lily Ostler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Last Modified: 4 Mar 2024