Personality Disorders Therapists in Tonawanda, NY

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Alexis Pena
Counselor, MS, LMHC-D
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Just another PT profile, right? Let's look closer...I know you've been trying to find a therapist & someone you can connect with. I understand this can be overwhelming, especially with what you're already going through. I'm a licensed therapist that happens to be a flawed human. While there is a wide array of issues that I treat, I'm most interested in helping other humans address issues with complex/chronic trauma, substance use, & chronic pain/illness. I also have a passion for working with other therapists who are wanting to find the best match for their unique needs while appreciating the nuance of therapists in therapy.
Just another PT profile, right? Let's look closer...I know you've been trying to find a therapist & someone you can connect with. I understand this can be overwhelming, especially with what you're already going through. I'm a licensed therapist that happens to be a flawed human. While there is a wide array of issues that I treat, I'm most interested in helping other humans address issues with complex/chronic trauma, substance use, & chronic pain/illness. I also have a passion for working with other therapists who are wanting to find the best match for their unique needs while appreciating the nuance of therapists in therapy.
(716) 489-8988 View (716) 489-8988
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Carlos Cappiello
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Life can feel exhausting when you’re trying to keep everything together, balancing work, relationships, and personal expectations, yet still feeling weighed down by sadness, worry, or a sense of emptiness. Whether you’re a young adult finding your way, or someone further along who feels stuck or burnt out, you deserve a space to slow down and be heard without judgment. In our sessions, my goal is to create that space, one that feels safe, supportive, and understanding. Together, we’ll work to untangle the thoughts and emotions that keep you feeling anxious, disconnected, or defeated.
Life can feel exhausting when you’re trying to keep everything together, balancing work, relationships, and personal expectations, yet still feeling weighed down by sadness, worry, or a sense of emptiness. Whether you’re a young adult finding your way, or someone further along who feels stuck or burnt out, you deserve a space to slow down and be heard without judgment. In our sessions, my goal is to create that space, one that feels safe, supportive, and understanding. Together, we’ll work to untangle the thoughts and emotions that keep you feeling anxious, disconnected, or defeated.
(716) 271-1484 View (716) 271-1484
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Family Counseling Associates
Psychologist, PhD
Tonawanda, NY 14150
Family Counseling Associates is a group of seasoned, knowledgeable, mental health professionals who provide mental health care services for children, adolescents, adults and their families in private-practice settings. Psychologists, Psychiatrists, Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioners, Licensed Clinical Social Workers, and Licensed Mental Health Counselors provide the full range of outpatient mental health care services necessary to help children, adolescents, adults and their families feel and function at their best. We currently provide services from offices in Orchard Park and Tonawanda in WNY.
Family Counseling Associates is a group of seasoned, knowledgeable, mental health professionals who provide mental health care services for children, adolescents, adults and their families in private-practice settings. Psychologists, Psychiatrists, Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioners, Licensed Clinical Social Workers, and Licensed Mental Health Counselors provide the full range of outpatient mental health care services necessary to help children, adolescents, adults and their families feel and function at their best. We currently provide services from offices in Orchard Park and Tonawanda in WNY.
(716) 245-7142 View (716) 245-7142
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Shana Lee Henderson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Life can feel overwhelming, especially when anxiety, depression, OCD, or relationship challenges take center stage. You might feel stuck, alone, or uncertain about how to move forward. No matter where you are in your journey, you deserve a safe, supportive space to heal and grow. Together, we’ll address the challenges holding you back and uncover your inner strengths to help you build a more balanced and fulfilling life. Whether you’re navigating postpartum struggles, overcoming the impact of domestic violence, or coping with mood disorders, you don’t have to face it alone.
Life can feel overwhelming, especially when anxiety, depression, OCD, or relationship challenges take center stage. You might feel stuck, alone, or uncertain about how to move forward. No matter where you are in your journey, you deserve a safe, supportive space to heal and grow. Together, we’ll address the challenges holding you back and uncover your inner strengths to help you build a more balanced and fulfilling life. Whether you’re navigating postpartum struggles, overcoming the impact of domestic violence, or coping with mood disorders, you don’t have to face it alone.
(716) 293-1818 View (716) 293-1818
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Ethan Chase
Counselor, LMHC
Tonawanda, NY 14150
Our minds are incredible tools for experiencing life- and yet , the mind can so easily slip into anxiety and overthinking. Our memories can bring us joy and a sense of identity, but we can also get "stuck" in past patterns & hurts. Therapy is a unique type of relationship focused on your empowerment and growth. We'll work together to create awareness around those mental, emotional, and behavioral patterns. From here, we'll seek ways to implement positive, conscious changes, based on your personal values and desires.
Our minds are incredible tools for experiencing life- and yet , the mind can so easily slip into anxiety and overthinking. Our memories can bring us joy and a sense of identity, but we can also get "stuck" in past patterns & hurts. Therapy is a unique type of relationship focused on your empowerment and growth. We'll work together to create awareness around those mental, emotional, and behavioral patterns. From here, we'll seek ways to implement positive, conscious changes, based on your personal values and desires.
(716) 281-1552 View (716) 281-1552
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Gail Holler-Kennedy
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Online Only
I have been working in the field of mental health for over 20 years. My experience includes working in the group home setting, private school settings, crisis outreach, outpatient mental health and inpatient psychiatric. I have provided assessments for the Erie County and Domestic Violence Court System and completed risks assessment in the hospital emergency room to determine the need for acute psychiatric hospitalization. In addition to knowledge and experience, I value the therapeutic relationship and utilize a strength based approach. I will help you reach your goal, if you ready to make change, I am ready to help.
I have been working in the field of mental health for over 20 years. My experience includes working in the group home setting, private school settings, crisis outreach, outpatient mental health and inpatient psychiatric. I have provided assessments for the Erie County and Domestic Violence Court System and completed risks assessment in the hospital emergency room to determine the need for acute psychiatric hospitalization. In addition to knowledge and experience, I value the therapeutic relationship and utilize a strength based approach. I will help you reach your goal, if you ready to make change, I am ready to help.
(716) 219-0516 View (716) 219-0516
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Kaitlin Incorvia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Tonawanda, NY 14150
Waitlist for new clients
Do seemingly simple things in your life cause you to react very strongly? Or have you ever felt stuck in a cycle of relationships that you are not proud of? Or maybe you just can’t let things go? Trauma therapy can help! Therapy is hard work, but the commitment to yourself and living a life you are proud of is life-changing!
Do seemingly simple things in your life cause you to react very strongly? Or have you ever felt stuck in a cycle of relationships that you are not proud of? Or maybe you just can’t let things go? Trauma therapy can help! Therapy is hard work, but the commitment to yourself and living a life you are proud of is life-changing!
(716) 281-1623 View (716) 281-1623
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Jennifer L Prell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
Life can feel overwhelming at times, whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, grief and loss, substance use concerns, relationship challenges, or major life transitions. I work with adolescents and adults who may be feeling stuck, emotionally exhausted, or unsure of their next steps. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I have experience supporting individuals through a wide range of mental health and substance use challenges, helping them navigate difficult circumstances while building resilience and hope.
Life can feel overwhelming at times, whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, grief and loss, substance use concerns, relationship challenges, or major life transitions. I work with adolescents and adults who may be feeling stuck, emotionally exhausted, or unsure of their next steps. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I have experience supporting individuals through a wide range of mental health and substance use challenges, helping them navigate difficult circumstances while building resilience and hope.
(716) 221-0636 View (716) 221-0636
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Casey Irwin Kutnyak
Verified Verified
Tonawanda, NY 14217
You don’t need to figure everything out on your own.
You don’t need to figure everything out on your own.
(929) 661-6244 View (929) 661-6244
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Monica Linseman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Serves Area
Life presents us with many different challenges and stressors that make it difficult to manage our daily living. People may experience various traumas that impact their goals, relationships, mindsets, worries, fears and negative beliefs about themselves. I believe in helping others restore their balance in life and giving them space to heal.
Life presents us with many different challenges and stressors that make it difficult to manage our daily living. People may experience various traumas that impact their goals, relationships, mindsets, worries, fears and negative beliefs about themselves. I believe in helping others restore their balance in life and giving them space to heal.
(716) 621-2882 View (716) 621-2882
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Kathleen Calabrese
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, BCN
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hi, this is Dr. Kathy Calabrese. Perhaps you have found your way to me because you know that the symptoms you are experiencing CAN improve. The combination of therapy, neurofeedback and interaction with a number of technology driven interventions will support your brain-body's ability to move from a state of dysregulation to balance. Symptoms resolve without the use of pharmaceuticals. Pain is reduced without pharmaceuticals. My overall focus includes consideration of the integration of mind/body and spirit, and a deep commitment to partnering with my clients as they embark on their healing journey.
Hi, this is Dr. Kathy Calabrese. Perhaps you have found your way to me because you know that the symptoms you are experiencing CAN improve. The combination of therapy, neurofeedback and interaction with a number of technology driven interventions will support your brain-body's ability to move from a state of dysregulation to balance. Symptoms resolve without the use of pharmaceuticals. Pain is reduced without pharmaceuticals. My overall focus includes consideration of the integration of mind/body and spirit, and a deep commitment to partnering with my clients as they embark on their healing journey.
(716) 335-9850 View (716) 335-9850
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Alyssa Pepe-Johnson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
4 Endorsed
Serves Area
Welcome! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker located within the village of Kenmore. I have experience in working with teenagers, college-aged young adults, and adults. I understand that seeking help can be difficult initially or even fear-inducing. I strive to make it a priority to create a comfortable environment to explore stressors that may be related to anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder, depression, grief and loss, or other life adjustments. I utilize a client-centered approach to provide psychotherapy incorporating skills of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Exposure and Response Prevention and Solution-Focused Therapy.
Welcome! I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker located within the village of Kenmore. I have experience in working with teenagers, college-aged young adults, and adults. I understand that seeking help can be difficult initially or even fear-inducing. I strive to make it a priority to create a comfortable environment to explore stressors that may be related to anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder, depression, grief and loss, or other life adjustments. I utilize a client-centered approach to provide psychotherapy incorporating skills of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Exposure and Response Prevention and Solution-Focused Therapy.
(716) 453-0124 View (716) 453-0124
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Cassie Guagliano
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CASAC
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
If you're feeling anxious, stuck, or weighed down by daily life, you're not alone - and you don't have to figure it out by yourself. Maybe you're tired of repeating old patterns or feeling like you're constantly in survival mode. Therapy can be a place to slow down, get curious, and begin to feel more connected to yourself and others. I'm here to help you navigate the healing process together, and at your own pace. Along with my work treating anxiety, trauma, and attachment concerns, I am especially passionate about supporting military service members, veterans, and their families.
If you're feeling anxious, stuck, or weighed down by daily life, you're not alone - and you don't have to figure it out by yourself. Maybe you're tired of repeating old patterns or feeling like you're constantly in survival mode. Therapy can be a place to slow down, get curious, and begin to feel more connected to yourself and others. I'm here to help you navigate the healing process together, and at your own pace. Along with my work treating anxiety, trauma, and attachment concerns, I am especially passionate about supporting military service members, veterans, and their families.
(716) 281-1522 View (716) 281-1522
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Jackie Rogers
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSWR
Online Only
Life doesn’t always go the way we planned. Sometimes we get stuck and find ourselves feeling hopeless. You are not alone. Many people I work with have had negative experiences in their lives that continue to affect them in different ways; such as, having meaningful relationships with others. Some people say that fear and worry run their lives. Whatever it may be, I will help you gain insight into your problems and learn new ways to resolve conflicts, develop more confidence, and begin to live the life you want.
Life doesn’t always go the way we planned. Sometimes we get stuck and find ourselves feeling hopeless. You are not alone. Many people I work with have had negative experiences in their lives that continue to affect them in different ways; such as, having meaningful relationships with others. Some people say that fear and worry run their lives. Whatever it may be, I will help you gain insight into your problems and learn new ways to resolve conflicts, develop more confidence, and begin to live the life you want.
(716) 219-2686 View (716) 219-2686
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Carol Meer
Counselor, LMHC
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Taking the first step towards positive change can be overwhelming and intimidating. It is easy to second guess yourself when feeling alone and disconnected. Having support along the way makes all the difference. I provide a warm, compassionate and judgment-free space for you to start your journey. As you work in session towards self-acceptance, balancing emotions and life stressors, you will create the foundation and tools you need to overcome life’s challenges. You will be given opportunities to recognize your strengths, build empowerment and learn tools to navigate through difficult times.
Taking the first step towards positive change can be overwhelming and intimidating. It is easy to second guess yourself when feeling alone and disconnected. Having support along the way makes all the difference. I provide a warm, compassionate and judgment-free space for you to start your journey. As you work in session towards self-acceptance, balancing emotions and life stressors, you will create the foundation and tools you need to overcome life’s challenges. You will be given opportunities to recognize your strengths, build empowerment and learn tools to navigate through difficult times.
(716) 707-9159 View (716) 707-9159
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Alexandra Garcia-Olyer
Counselor, LMHC-D, NCC, PMH-C
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Feeling uneasy? Noticing a change in how you have been feeling? Are you finding yourself unhappy in your relationships, with work, or just struggling to find yourself happy overall? Maybe you are somewhere along the prenatal or postpartum journey and need some additional support. Maybe you have gone through an experience in your life that you notice affects you in your relationships with friends, family, work colleagues, or romantic relationships. Maybe you are unsure what you want to change, but you know something just is not right.
Feeling uneasy? Noticing a change in how you have been feeling? Are you finding yourself unhappy in your relationships, with work, or just struggling to find yourself happy overall? Maybe you are somewhere along the prenatal or postpartum journey and need some additional support. Maybe you have gone through an experience in your life that you notice affects you in your relationships with friends, family, work colleagues, or romantic relationships. Maybe you are unsure what you want to change, but you know something just is not right.
(716) 272-1601 View (716) 272-1601
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Michael Guerin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
6 Endorsed
Serves Area
We all view the world through a lens shaped by our personal history, environment, and expectations. But life’s challenges such as trauma, grief, or chronic stress can cloud or distort that lens, leaving us feeling stuck or overwhelmed. I believe we each have an innate resilience, even when our perspective feels foggy, scratched, or shattered. My therapeutic work is grounded in a holistic, integrative approach, helping you explore how you’ve navigated life so far and what strengths you can build on to move forward with clarity and purpose. I specialize in helping clients reclaim clarity, confidence, and connection at their own pace.
We all view the world through a lens shaped by our personal history, environment, and expectations. But life’s challenges such as trauma, grief, or chronic stress can cloud or distort that lens, leaving us feeling stuck or overwhelmed. I believe we each have an innate resilience, even when our perspective feels foggy, scratched, or shattered. My therapeutic work is grounded in a holistic, integrative approach, helping you explore how you’ve navigated life so far and what strengths you can build on to move forward with clarity and purpose. I specialize in helping clients reclaim clarity, confidence, and connection at their own pace.
(716) 320-9240 View (716) 320-9240
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Dr. Kristin L. Keller
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Therapy is a tool to help a person become the best version of themselves. Trauma, stress, unhealthy relationships, poor coping skills, emotional dys-regulation are all factors that contribute to being unwell. Counseling allows a person to work through those barriers and improve the way that they manage stress, find healthy ways to express emotions, work through trauma that has caused you harm, build tools to have healthy, productive, relationships with others and ultimately find alternate ways to cope with distressing events within our lives. A counselor is not only a therapist, but a guide and facilitator of growth.
Therapy is a tool to help a person become the best version of themselves. Trauma, stress, unhealthy relationships, poor coping skills, emotional dys-regulation are all factors that contribute to being unwell. Counseling allows a person to work through those barriers and improve the way that they manage stress, find healthy ways to express emotions, work through trauma that has caused you harm, build tools to have healthy, productive, relationships with others and ultimately find alternate ways to cope with distressing events within our lives. A counselor is not only a therapist, but a guide and facilitator of growth.
(716) 272-1282 View (716) 272-1282
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Jessie Shelhamer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
I offer an open, supportive, and individualized approach, meeting each person where they are. Fostering a therapeutic relationship involves building trust as we navigate through distressing emotions, situations, and overcoming barriers. My style is down to earth with open and honest communication, along with a bit of humor.
I offer an open, supportive, and individualized approach, meeting each person where they are. Fostering a therapeutic relationship involves building trust as we navigate through distressing emotions, situations, and overcoming barriers. My style is down to earth with open and honest communication, along with a bit of humor.
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Jennifer Wysocki
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Welcome—I’m so glad you’re here and taking this step toward caring for yourself and your mental health. I believe therapy works best when grounded in kindness, curiosity, respect for your unique experiences, and honest communication. I strive to be compassionate and supportive while also clear and direct, because growth often comes from gently naming what’s happening and working through it together. We’ll collaborate to understand patterns and automatic thoughts linked to anxiety, depression, and relationship challenges, building awareness and healthier coping strategies.
Welcome—I’m so glad you’re here and taking this step toward caring for yourself and your mental health. I believe therapy works best when grounded in kindness, curiosity, respect for your unique experiences, and honest communication. I strive to be compassionate and supportive while also clear and direct, because growth often comes from gently naming what’s happening and working through it together. We’ll collaborate to understand patterns and automatic thoughts linked to anxiety, depression, and relationship challenges, building awareness and healthier coping strategies.
(716) 350-2618 View (716) 350-2618

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Personality Disorders Therapists
What are the common treatment options for personality disorders?
Personality disorders are typically treated with psychotherapy, sometimes in conjunction with medication. Therapy can help people with personality disorders develop skills to tolerate difficult emotions, navigate interpersonal relationships, and solidify their sense of self. Medications can treat symptoms that co-occur with the disorder, such as depression, anger, aggression, and impulsivity.

When to seek treatment for personality disorders?
Even though treatment for personality disorders can be an uphill battle, it’s best to seek help if you suspect that you or a loved one is struggling with one, because personality disorders can create substantial problems in life. Symptoms depend on the specific disorder, but overall signs of personality disorders include consistent difficulty maintaining close relationships, dramatic variations in self-esteem, and an unstable sense of identity.

How long does therapy take for personality disorders?
The timeline for treating personality disorders isn’t as clear-cut as it is for other disorders. Change can be difficult, taking from around one year to five, 10, or more. The key is finding a therapist who has extensive experience treating the relevant disorder. For example, a psychologist who specializes in narcissistic personality disorder has specific communication strategies that allow them to sustain the relationship and be more effective with narcissistic patients.

Can therapy help people with personality disorders?
Research suggests that for those who are motivated to address concerns or interpersonal conflict related to a personality disorder, therapy is far more effective than no treatment, and that most people in therapy see improvements. However, since personality disorders involve entrenched elements of identity, they are less responsive to treatment than are other mental health conditions. Finding an expert who has extensive experience working with a given personality disorder is one factor that increases the likelihood of successful treatment.