Attachment-based Therapists in Tarrytown, NY

Do you have trouble sleeping or feel constantly tense? Do you feel like being strong means keeping it all in? Do you have so many responsibilities but struggle to feel appreciated? As a Columbia University trained psychologist, my expertise is helping you take up space in a new way. You'll feel relief at sharing your fullest self with me, and we'll identify how to create that kind of openness and support in your relationships. Our sessions will help you reduce overthinking and self-criticism. My style is warm, curious, and skillful at helping you reshape old patterns so you have freedom in the present to make new choices.

Hello and welcome! NOTE: I am accepting new patients. If you’re here, you’re likely considering making a change in your life to “reroute” yourself, from whatever bumps or roadblocks that might have come your way. It would be a privilege to accompany you on your journey. I don't view therapy as 'one size fits all', and I want to work collaboratively with you to meet your treatment and support goals. You are the expert on you, and I consider my role to provide you with a safe and comfortable space to be yourself. I would love to meet you where you are, and help you get to where you want to be.

I provide ongoing psychotherapy and short-term counseling for individuals struggling with a range of issues including: anxiety, depression, challenging relationship and family dynamics, parenting, dating, separation/divorce, grief, trauma, and stress management. I also work with couples and families helping to resolve conflict, increase understanding of each other and learn strategies to improve relationships.

Do you suffer from depression, relationship,or family anxieties? Do you need marriage counseling? I can help you. I am an experienced senior clinician with over 30 years of experience. My approach is: kind, sincere, nonjudgmental, accepting, creating a safe place, educational, supportive and caring. I create a soothing and comfortable environment where you can feel safe and secure. I will help you develop insight that will foster personal growth and acceptance. You will feel as if a great weight has been lifted from your shoulders, refreshed and reinvigorated. Your confidentiality is assured. Please call for a free telephone consultation.

It’s okay to have mixed feelings about starting psychotherapy. I will do my best to create a warm, safe environment for us to explore what you would like to change in your life and to accept what is beyond your control. I believe everyone has internal and external resources that they can discover and leverage to help themselves feel better.

Do you feel "stuck" and unable to find meaning, connection, and joy in your work or relationships? Are you troubled by sadness, depression, anxiety, or loneliness? Are you dealing with a chronic illness or disability? Or do you simply want to make your life better or achieve new goals or visions? Come experience the benefits of a warm, caring therapist with over 30 years of experience to help you navigate your most complex life challenges.

* DEPRESSION- ANXIETY- STRESS- TRAUMA- RELATIONSHIPS- MIDLIFE- LIFE TRANSITION - GRIEF AND LOSS - PHYSICAL ILLNESS - LIFE-PATH AND PURPOSE * I work with many individuals who feel that they have come to a crossroad, that their life situation is troubled or unfulfilling. Issues of low self esteem, anxiety, depression, feeling stuck or various stress related symptoms are common. Many tools are offered to assist the journey towards self empowerment and mastery, increased happiness and fulfillment. My approach include: in depth heart centered dialogue; mindfulness techniques, cognitive-behavioral , emotional healing; meditation and expressive arts.

I offer a safe, positive, empathetic, and productive clinical environment that emphasizes individual and family needs. My treatment approach offers hopeful solutions without stigma, judgment, or empty labels. I challenge self-deception while encouraging assertiveness, authenticity, and self awareness. My practice specialties include: 1) helping adolescents and adults who struggle with relationship issues, trauma, abuse, grief and loss, life transitions, anxiety, phobias, depression, and work/life balance; 2) couples therapy; and 3) domestic violence education and safety planning.

Are you stressed and overwhelmed? Wanting relief from unpleasant feelings? Looking to create more meaningful relationships? Do you know that something isn't right but are unsure how to fix it? Let's work to figure out the root of what is troubling you. Whether dealing with constant sadness, worry, self-doubt, or problems in relationships, even the one with yourself - with compassion and insight, I have helped many clients move out of feeling "stuck" and find their way to leading happier, more fulfilling lives.

Does your life feel limited, stress-filled, empty? Are you anxious, fearful, mourning a loss? Do you often feel like you are faking it? You can run away from your feelings for a long time. You can run away from what you know to be true. Sometimes getting help with the right person can change everything. Passionate about my work, I believe that everyone can benefit from a trained, compassionate listener. If you want to talk email me to schedule a time to talk.

I work with individuals, adolescents and adults, who want or need to find their own path to inner peace and harmony without the use of alcohol or drugs, or the use of rage or isolation, or the creation of chaos as a distraction; people who wrestle with the parts of themselves that keep getting in their way. I also work with families who are confused how to help a loved one who is abusing alcohol and other drugs.

With the overwhelming demands of life and work, we can often lose sense of who we are and feel as though we are going through the motions. Losing our sense of self, an important relationship, or even a loved one, can leave us feeling disconnected and alone. There is so much that demands our attention, it’s unclear where to start. If you are looking to heal and recover, hoping to reconnect with your inner joy, and searching for moments of peace, I might be able to help.

If you are wondering if therapy could be helpful, finding a therapist with whom you feel comfortable, safe, supported, and trust is of paramount importance. I offer a complimentary introductory phone consultation to discuss any questions you have and to help determine if we are a good fit. Drawing on my expertise with a wide range of therapeutic modalities, including cognitive behavioral therapy, art therapy, ERP, insight-oriented talk therapy, meditation, yoga, and reiki, we will work together to pinpoint and address unhelpful emotional, cognitive, and behavioral patterns that aren't working to create new healthier habits and

I am a therapist committed to developing a therapeutic relationship focused on sorting out the places you are stuck in your life-whether inside or in your connections with others. I am effective in helping you clear the way to take steps to reach your life goals and be your best self.

Dr. Holtzer has expertise with anxiety, panic attacks, adjustment difficulties, trauma, and grief. Another area of specialty for her is working with clients struggling with fertility issues, fetal loss, and unexpected or traumatic outcomes related to pregnancy and birth. Dr. Holtzer has 15+ years of experience across the human lifespan, working with individuals of varied backgrounds and cultures. She works within a scientific-based framework, while weaving in holistic principles, to help clients enrich their lives. Now In-network with Aetna insurance!