Therapists in Southold, NY

Whatever your reasons for seeking therapy, I assure you that no issue is too big or too small to put it out there on the table. Going over it again in your own head can leave you feeling isolated and stuck. Through interaction there can be movement. I approach clients from a strengths perspective - everything you need is already there; it's never, ever, too late to gain the clarity you seek and the life you want. As a Therapist with 25 years of experience, I have specialties in couples counseling and Family Systems Theory. I also specialize in treating anxiety, panic attacks and phobias with my 16-week program.
Whatever your reasons for seeking therapy, I assure you that no issue is too big or too small to put it out there on the table. Going over it again in your own head can leave you feeling isolated and stuck. Through interaction there can be movement. I approach clients from a strengths perspective - everything you need is already there; it's never, ever, too late to gain the clarity you seek and the life you want. As a Therapist with 25 years of experience, I have specialties in couples counseling and Family Systems Theory. I also specialize in treating anxiety, panic attacks and phobias with my 16-week program.

Desiree I. Reese, LCSW, PLLC.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CCTS-TA, LICSW
Verified Verified
Southold, NY 11971
My goal as a social worker is to help individuals, of all ages, in need improve the quality of their lives and their well-being. Problems that I might help people with may include behavioral, health, and social issues. As a clinical social worker I offer counseling services to those individuals in need. Social workers who specialize in mental health issues work with clients battling mental illness, substance misuse, interpersonal relationship problems, among other challenges. I can provide clients with individual or group therapy, as well as referral opportunities for social rehabilitation and crisis intervention.
My goal as a social worker is to help individuals, of all ages, in need improve the quality of their lives and their well-being. Problems that I might help people with may include behavioral, health, and social issues. As a clinical social worker I offer counseling services to those individuals in need. Social workers who specialize in mental health issues work with clients battling mental illness, substance misuse, interpersonal relationship problems, among other challenges. I can provide clients with individual or group therapy, as well as referral opportunities for social rehabilitation and crisis intervention.

I work with adults and seniors, who find themselves "stuck" in dysfunctional patterns, and who need help finding new approaches which are more effective, satisfying and sustainable.
I work with adults and seniors, who find themselves "stuck" in dysfunctional patterns, and who need help finding new approaches which are more effective, satisfying and sustainable.

I know that psychotherapy can help you to feel free and more open to life's opportunities. We can explore your problems and work towards helping you feel more fulfilled. My specialties are relationship concerns, anxiety, depression, parenting issues, work place gratification and addictions and I have extensive experience with couple’s therapy. My focus is on your efforts to move forward. I offer insight oriented feedback and believe in the power of therapy to help growth.
I know that psychotherapy can help you to feel free and more open to life's opportunities. We can explore your problems and work towards helping you feel more fulfilled. My specialties are relationship concerns, anxiety, depression, parenting issues, work place gratification and addictions and I have extensive experience with couple’s therapy. My focus is on your efforts to move forward. I offer insight oriented feedback and believe in the power of therapy to help growth.

"Healing is a fresh start to the life you deserve to live with joy and fulfillment. My approach is to help you learn to recognize your own strengths and live freely to pursue your dreams- relationship, career, or otherwise. My goal is to help you process past traumautic or other painful experiences that may interfere with your goals, relationships or self esteem. I can help you to cope with the past and live in a place where old memories and experiences no longer control your feelings or behaviors. Everyone deserves a fresh start."
"Healing is a fresh start to the life you deserve to live with joy and fulfillment. My approach is to help you learn to recognize your own strengths and live freely to pursue your dreams- relationship, career, or otherwise. My goal is to help you process past traumautic or other painful experiences that may interfere with your goals, relationships or self esteem. I can help you to cope with the past and live in a place where old memories and experiences no longer control your feelings or behaviors. Everyone deserves a fresh start."

It can be hard to be a person in the world sometimes; especially if you have experienced grief, survived trauma or learned that something terrible will happen if you are not "perfect." Despite being “put together” on the outside, you find yourself spending so much energy trying to stay that way that you are burning out. You want to feel better but you are getting so overwhelmed that you shut down before you even know where to start. Many of my people have these concerns when we first meet but together we are able to practice actionable steps to access joy and security in the present and reconnect with hope for the future.
It can be hard to be a person in the world sometimes; especially if you have experienced grief, survived trauma or learned that something terrible will happen if you are not "perfect." Despite being “put together” on the outside, you find yourself spending so much energy trying to stay that way that you are burning out. You want to feel better but you are getting so overwhelmed that you shut down before you even know where to start. Many of my people have these concerns when we first meet but together we are able to practice actionable steps to access joy and security in the present and reconnect with hope for the future.

Life can be a constant struggle filled with challenges and difficult times. Therapy can help in navigating through the peaks and valleys of life. I strive to work with my clients to create a plan to live a happier and healthier life. Through processing emotions, focusing on the positive while exploring the negative, and utilizing positive coping techniques, a healthier, stronger mind can be formed.
Life can be a constant struggle filled with challenges and difficult times. Therapy can help in navigating through the peaks and valleys of life. I strive to work with my clients to create a plan to live a happier and healthier life. Through processing emotions, focusing on the positive while exploring the negative, and utilizing positive coping techniques, a healthier, stronger mind can be formed.

Bruce E Saul, LCSW-R
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I have over twenty-five years of experience working with individuals, couples and families. The initial consultation is an opportunity for clients to relax and feel safe to experience a full range of emotions as they explore and discuss the issues that brought them into therapy. I greet each client with courtesy and respect, establishing a therapeutic relationship. I see clients in my Shelter Island office. I also offer video sessions via a confidential video platform.
I have over twenty-five years of experience working with individuals, couples and families. The initial consultation is an opportunity for clients to relax and feel safe to experience a full range of emotions as they explore and discuss the issues that brought them into therapy. I greet each client with courtesy and respect, establishing a therapeutic relationship. I see clients in my Shelter Island office. I also offer video sessions via a confidential video platform.

Let me help you regain a sense of balance, hope and positivity. Feeling stressed and overwhelmed can interfere with your ability to be present and engaged. Stress about getting everyday tasks completed, worry that you are not good enough, anxiety about what might happen, consumed by what has happened in the past, and overwhelmed with handling and juggling everything. What you really want is to feel accomplished, proud, calm, and steady. You want to enjoy the little things and savor the big things in life; enjoy the moments, embrace the events, and end each day with hope and enthusiasm for the next.
Let me help you regain a sense of balance, hope and positivity. Feeling stressed and overwhelmed can interfere with your ability to be present and engaged. Stress about getting everyday tasks completed, worry that you are not good enough, anxiety about what might happen, consumed by what has happened in the past, and overwhelmed with handling and juggling everything. What you really want is to feel accomplished, proud, calm, and steady. You want to enjoy the little things and savor the big things in life; enjoy the moments, embrace the events, and end each day with hope and enthusiasm for the next.
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Finding the right therapist can be overwhelming, but I invite you to explore my approach and see if we're a good fit. As a Person-Centered Therapist, I create a warm, supportive, and non-judgmental space where you can feel empowered to explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Together, we'll work to understand your concerns, identify achievable goals, and develop strategies for growth and improvement. Our counseling sessions will focus on enhancing your emotional regulation, fostering empowerment, and increasing your sense of control and confidence in your life and decisions.
Finding the right therapist can be overwhelming, but I invite you to explore my approach and see if we're a good fit. As a Person-Centered Therapist, I create a warm, supportive, and non-judgmental space where you can feel empowered to explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Together, we'll work to understand your concerns, identify achievable goals, and develop strategies for growth and improvement. Our counseling sessions will focus on enhancing your emotional regulation, fostering empowerment, and increasing your sense of control and confidence in your life and decisions.

Is your relationship suffering? Are you or your partner having problems communicating? Are there feelings of anger or frustration? Are you just going through the motions or feeling disconnected? Have you been betrayed? Do you feel seen and not heard? Are you stressed out and overwhelmed? Do you lack focus and direction? Feel like you just CAN'T take it anymore? Let's turn I CAN'T into I CAN! As a Life & Relationship Coach & NYS Board Certified Addiction Recovery Coach Specialist, I work with people that WANT to get their relationship or their life on track. That is WILLING, READY, and COMMITTED to doing the work. I CAN help you.
Is your relationship suffering? Are you or your partner having problems communicating? Are there feelings of anger or frustration? Are you just going through the motions or feeling disconnected? Have you been betrayed? Do you feel seen and not heard? Are you stressed out and overwhelmed? Do you lack focus and direction? Feel like you just CAN'T take it anymore? Let's turn I CAN'T into I CAN! As a Life & Relationship Coach & NYS Board Certified Addiction Recovery Coach Specialist, I work with people that WANT to get their relationship or their life on track. That is WILLING, READY, and COMMITTED to doing the work. I CAN help you.

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My ideal client is someone who feels stuck in patterns of emotional disconnection, relationship struggles, or unresolved trauma. They may have difficulty expressing their needs, managing stress, or forming meaningful connections. They want to better understand themselves, communicate more effectively, and heal from past experiences. They're seeking a safe, supportive space to reflect, grow, and build the emotional tools needed to create lasting change.
Book with me now by clicking on my website!
My ideal client is someone who feels stuck in patterns of emotional disconnection, relationship struggles, or unresolved trauma. They may have difficulty expressing their needs, managing stress, or forming meaningful connections. They want to better understand themselves, communicate more effectively, and heal from past experiences. They're seeking a safe, supportive space to reflect, grow, and build the emotional tools needed to create lasting change.

Jennifer Della Valle Psychotherapist
Art Therapist, LCAT, ATR-BC
Verified Verified
Center Moriches, NY 11934
I aim to provide exceptional psychotherapy services and reach individuals in a unique way. Many times, it can be difficult to put into words what is bothering us or find the root cause of our difficult feelings. Art making in sessions is used as a vessel, and not always necessary during sessions. When words fail us, we can explore art together to see what comes up for you. I am now offering yoga and art therapy sessions to offer a full embodied experience, opening with yoga asana, meditation, art creation and finally process your experience together. Please refer to my website for more information if interested!
I aim to provide exceptional psychotherapy services and reach individuals in a unique way. Many times, it can be difficult to put into words what is bothering us or find the root cause of our difficult feelings. Art making in sessions is used as a vessel, and not always necessary during sessions. When words fail us, we can explore art together to see what comes up for you. I am now offering yoga and art therapy sessions to offer a full embodied experience, opening with yoga asana, meditation, art creation and finally process your experience together. Please refer to my website for more information if interested!

Life is full of challenges, and sometimes, we need a space to be heard, understood, and supported. As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I provide compassionate, client-centered approach to help individuals, couples and families navigating life’s transitions, relationship struggles, and personal growth.
Life is full of challenges, and sometimes, we need a space to be heard, understood, and supported. As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I provide compassionate, client-centered approach to help individuals, couples and families navigating life’s transitions, relationship struggles, and personal growth.

Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or like you’ve lost your sense of self? Maybe you struggle with intense emotions, feel emotionally drained in your relationships, or carry a deep sense of emptiness that you can’t explain. You’re not alone—and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or like you’ve lost your sense of self? Maybe you struggle with intense emotions, feel emotionally drained in your relationships, or carry a deep sense of emptiness that you can’t explain. You’re not alone—and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself.
I work with young adults and adults individually and with couples, who are eager to resolve internal/external conflicts and understand themselves better. My clients typically struggle with depression, anxiety, relationship or personality issues, low self esteem. During therapy, we explore how you process your life experiences and the ways that you might be creating obstacles to your personal growth. Together we look at patterns of behavior that are maladaptive and focus on how to make changes. I encourage you to express creativity. A therapy session with me is an active conversation: direct, focused, and compassionate.
I work with young adults and adults individually and with couples, who are eager to resolve internal/external conflicts and understand themselves better. My clients typically struggle with depression, anxiety, relationship or personality issues, low self esteem. During therapy, we explore how you process your life experiences and the ways that you might be creating obstacles to your personal growth. Together we look at patterns of behavior that are maladaptive and focus on how to make changes. I encourage you to express creativity. A therapy session with me is an active conversation: direct, focused, and compassionate.

My goal is to create a space where you feel heard, supported, and truly understood. Together, we’ll work on untangling overwhelming thoughts and building tools to help you feel more grounded and confident. I believe therapy works best when it feels like a real, trusting relationship — not just a clinical process. Whether you're facing anxiety, relationship challenges, self-esteem struggles, or life transitions, I’ll meet you where you are and support you at your pace.
My goal is to create a space where you feel heard, supported, and truly understood. Together, we’ll work on untangling overwhelming thoughts and building tools to help you feel more grounded and confident. I believe therapy works best when it feels like a real, trusting relationship — not just a clinical process. Whether you're facing anxiety, relationship challenges, self-esteem struggles, or life transitions, I’ll meet you where you are and support you at your pace.

I believe in the inherent strength of each individual and work with clients to find the best path to personal growth, acceptance and empowerment. As a therapist I don't believe in "one size fits all " and tailor client's sessions to meet the unique needs of each client by using a strength based, person centered approach. I offer a safe, non judgmental space to explore those areas of your life that are blocking you from being the person you want to be.
I believe in the inherent strength of each individual and work with clients to find the best path to personal growth, acceptance and empowerment. As a therapist I don't believe in "one size fits all " and tailor client's sessions to meet the unique needs of each client by using a strength based, person centered approach. I offer a safe, non judgmental space to explore those areas of your life that are blocking you from being the person you want to be.
Heart and Soul Counseling, LCSW, PC is a progressive, comprehensive mental health center that offers psychotherapy, medication management, genetic testing and drama workshops in office. We offer individual, couples and family counseling to all populations including veterans, trauma victims, LGBTQI, older adults, teens and children. We take most insurances, Medicaid managed plans and Medicare. Some providers are Spanish speaking. We are pet friendly. We offer three office locations in Babylon, Wantagh and East Quogue, NY. We have over 30 years experience in the field of mental health.
Heart and Soul Counseling, LCSW, PC is a progressive, comprehensive mental health center that offers psychotherapy, medication management, genetic testing and drama workshops in office. We offer individual, couples and family counseling to all populations including veterans, trauma victims, LGBTQI, older adults, teens and children. We take most insurances, Medicaid managed plans and Medicare. Some providers are Spanish speaking. We are pet friendly. We offer three office locations in Babylon, Wantagh and East Quogue, NY. We have over 30 years experience in the field of mental health.

Welcome! I have been a relationship therapist for both Individuals and couples for 16 years. This therapy/coaching will help you understand what you’re fighting about and how to repair. From infidelity recovery, sexless marriage to dating and all relationship concerns, this is my life’s passion to uncover and help you have a meaningful relationship and sex life. Uneven sexual desire, mismatched libidos, and various sexual challenges is very common in relationships, we offer this kind of help. I offer online Men's Groups and Women's Support Groups for sex and relationship concerns.
Welcome! I have been a relationship therapist for both Individuals and couples for 16 years. This therapy/coaching will help you understand what you’re fighting about and how to repair. From infidelity recovery, sexless marriage to dating and all relationship concerns, this is my life’s passion to uncover and help you have a meaningful relationship and sex life. Uneven sexual desire, mismatched libidos, and various sexual challenges is very common in relationships, we offer this kind of help. I offer online Men's Groups and Women's Support Groups for sex and relationship concerns.
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How does your Therapist compare?
Number of Therapists in Southold, NY
< 10
Therapists in Southold, NY who prioritize treating:
100% | Depression |
100% | Anxiety |
89% | Relationship Issues |
89% | Coping Skills |
78% | Grief |
78% | Self Esteem |
67% | Parenting |
Average years in practice
29 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
100% | Aetna |
100% | BlueCross and BlueShield |
100% | Anthem |
How Therapists in Southold, NY see their clients
78% | In Person and Online | |
22% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
63% | Female | |
37% | Male |
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.