Therapists in Southold, NY
Couples, Individuals, ages 18 and older come in with all sorts of problems seeking to better cope with typical and atypical stressful situations. While some only require brief therapy, others are painfully rooted. We all need someone from time-to-time that is an impartial listener to help sort out our choices and make difficult changes.
Couples, Individuals, ages 18 and older come in with all sorts of problems seeking to better cope with typical and atypical stressful situations. While some only require brief therapy, others are painfully rooted. We all need someone from time-to-time that is an impartial listener to help sort out our choices and make difficult changes.
Whatever your reasons for seeking therapy, I assure you that no issue is too big or small to put it out there on the table. Going over it again in your own head can leave you feeling isolated and stuck. Through dialogue comes growth. I utilize a strengths perspective - what you need is already inside of you; it's never, ever, too late to gain the clarity you seek and the life you want. As a Therapist with 25 years of experience, I specialize in couples counseling, anxiety, and panic attacks; connecting with inner wisdom, finding purpose, life transitions and those caring for a spouse or parent, and trauma.
Whatever your reasons for seeking therapy, I assure you that no issue is too big or small to put it out there on the table. Going over it again in your own head can leave you feeling isolated and stuck. Through dialogue comes growth. I utilize a strengths perspective - what you need is already inside of you; it's never, ever, too late to gain the clarity you seek and the life you want. As a Therapist with 25 years of experience, I specialize in couples counseling, anxiety, and panic attacks; connecting with inner wisdom, finding purpose, life transitions and those caring for a spouse or parent, and trauma.
Desiree I. Reese, LCSW, PLLC.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CCTS-TA, LICSW
Southold, NY 11971
My goal as a social worker is to help individuals, of all ages, in need improve the quality of their lives and their well-being. Problems that I might help people with may include behavioral, health, and social issues. As a clinical social worker I offer counseling services to those individuals in need. Social workers who specialize in mental health issues work with clients battling mental illness, substance misuse, interpersonal relationship problems, among other challenges. I can provide clients with individual or group therapy, as well as referral opportunities for social rehabilitation and crisis intervention.
My goal as a social worker is to help individuals, of all ages, in need improve the quality of their lives and their well-being. Problems that I might help people with may include behavioral, health, and social issues. As a clinical social worker I offer counseling services to those individuals in need. Social workers who specialize in mental health issues work with clients battling mental illness, substance misuse, interpersonal relationship problems, among other challenges. I can provide clients with individual or group therapy, as well as referral opportunities for social rehabilitation and crisis intervention.
"Healing is a fresh start to the life you deserve to live with joy and fulfillment. My approach is to help you learn to recognize your own strengths and live freely to pursue your dreams- relationship, career, or otherwise. My goal is to help you process past traumautic or other painful experiences that may interfere with your goals, relationships or self esteem. I can help you to cope with the past and live in a place where old memories and experiences no longer control your feelings or behaviors. Everyone deserves a fresh start."
"Healing is a fresh start to the life you deserve to live with joy and fulfillment. My approach is to help you learn to recognize your own strengths and live freely to pursue your dreams- relationship, career, or otherwise. My goal is to help you process past traumautic or other painful experiences that may interfere with your goals, relationships or self esteem. I can help you to cope with the past and live in a place where old memories and experiences no longer control your feelings or behaviors. Everyone deserves a fresh start."
I know that psychotherapy can help you to feel free and more open to life's opportunities. We can explore your problems and work towards helping you feel more fulfilled. My specialties are relationship concerns, anxiety, depression, parenting issues, work place gratification and addictions and I have extensive experience with couple’s therapy. My focus is on your efforts to move forward. I offer insight oriented feedback and believe in the power of therapy to help growth.
I know that psychotherapy can help you to feel free and more open to life's opportunities. We can explore your problems and work towards helping you feel more fulfilled. My specialties are relationship concerns, anxiety, depression, parenting issues, work place gratification and addictions and I have extensive experience with couple’s therapy. My focus is on your efforts to move forward. I offer insight oriented feedback and believe in the power of therapy to help growth.
I have twenty-nine years of experience working with individuals, couples and families. The initial consultation is an opportunity for clients to relax and feel safe to experience a full range of emotions as they explore and discuss the issues that brought them into therapy. I greet each client with courtesy and respect, establishing a therapeutic relationship. I see clients in my Shelter Island office. I also offer video sessions via a confidential video platform.
I have twenty-nine years of experience working with individuals, couples and families. The initial consultation is an opportunity for clients to relax and feel safe to experience a full range of emotions as they explore and discuss the issues that brought them into therapy. I greet each client with courtesy and respect, establishing a therapeutic relationship. I see clients in my Shelter Island office. I also offer video sessions via a confidential video platform.
You may find yourself in relationships where you give deeply but still feel unseen, anxious, or afraid of being left. Maybe you replay conversations in your head, question your worth, or wonder why certain patterns keep repeating. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. You don’t have to figure it out by yourself.
I work with adults navigating trauma, attachment wounds, anxiety, and depression. Together, we explore the parts of you that learned how to survive — the ones that protect, please, withdraw, or hold fear — while also making space for the parts that long for closeness, stability, and self-trust.
You may find yourself in relationships where you give deeply but still feel unseen, anxious, or afraid of being left. Maybe you replay conversations in your head, question your worth, or wonder why certain patterns keep repeating. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone. You don’t have to figure it out by yourself.
I work with adults navigating trauma, attachment wounds, anxiety, and depression. Together, we explore the parts of you that learned how to survive — the ones that protect, please, withdraw, or hold fear — while also making space for the parts that long for closeness, stability, and self-trust.
At times, we all face challenges that feel overwhelming or moments where we feel stuck. Many high-functioning adults carry the lasting effects of past or recent trauma, which can shape how you relate to others, handle stress at work, or experience emotions. Whether you’re navigating difficult relationships, grieving a loss, or managing intense feelings, I’m here to help you process trauma, build resilience, and reconnect with what brings meaning to your life.
At times, we all face challenges that feel overwhelming or moments where we feel stuck. Many high-functioning adults carry the lasting effects of past or recent trauma, which can shape how you relate to others, handle stress at work, or experience emotions. Whether you’re navigating difficult relationships, grieving a loss, or managing intense feelings, I’m here to help you process trauma, build resilience, and reconnect with what brings meaning to your life.
When therapy has helped you understand yourself but the same patterns keep repeating, it may be time for a more intensive experience. I help individuals and couples go beneath the surface of the current issue into the origins of stuck patterns, protective responses, and ways of relating that once made sense but now keep you from the peace and happiness you want.
After more than 20 years as a therapist, much of my work in the last 10 yrs centers on private 3-day intensives for individuals and couples, along with international therapist-led retreats for those ready for a deeper, more experiential way to move forward.
When therapy has helped you understand yourself but the same patterns keep repeating, it may be time for a more intensive experience. I help individuals and couples go beneath the surface of the current issue into the origins of stuck patterns, protective responses, and ways of relating that once made sense but now keep you from the peace and happiness you want.
After more than 20 years as a therapist, much of my work in the last 10 yrs centers on private 3-day intensives for individuals and couples, along with international therapist-led retreats for those ready for a deeper, more experiential way to move forward.
Emotional storms are a part of life. At times, these emotional storms can feel overwhelming, chaotic, and intolerable.
Stress, anxiety, and self-doubt can rob you of your ability to be present and engaged; leaving you feeling stuck worried about the future, consumed by the past, and overwhelmed by daily demands. But it doesn't have to stay that way.
Emotional storms are a part of life. At times, these emotional storms can feel overwhelming, chaotic, and intolerable.
Stress, anxiety, and self-doubt can rob you of your ability to be present and engaged; leaving you feeling stuck worried about the future, consumed by the past, and overwhelmed by daily demands. But it doesn't have to stay that way.
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I Graduated from Molloy College and Fordham University. Received Masters of Social Work from Fordham University with specialization in children and families. My private practice includes individual and family modalities which focuses on overall healing. My practice uses traditional cognitive behavioral therapies and techniques while integrating holistic methods to treat narcissistic abuse, addiction, anxiety, depression, divorce and life planning.
I Graduated from Molloy College and Fordham University. Received Masters of Social Work from Fordham University with specialization in children and families. My private practice includes individual and family modalities which focuses on overall healing. My practice uses traditional cognitive behavioral therapies and techniques while integrating holistic methods to treat narcissistic abuse, addiction, anxiety, depression, divorce and life planning.
SUCCESS COMES WHEN YOU TURN WISHING INTO DOING. As your Life Coach, I will partner with you to take the dreams you have in your head, those visions about what you want to do next in your life, and do the work to make those dreams a reality. I can work with you on Career Transition, Relationships, Parenting, Health&Wellness and Work/Life Balance. Take a minute right now to imagine what your ideal life would look like. If those images are different from the life you are living today, Life Coaching may be right for you.
SUCCESS COMES WHEN YOU TURN WISHING INTO DOING. As your Life Coach, I will partner with you to take the dreams you have in your head, those visions about what you want to do next in your life, and do the work to make those dreams a reality. I can work with you on Career Transition, Relationships, Parenting, Health&Wellness and Work/Life Balance. Take a minute right now to imagine what your ideal life would look like. If those images are different from the life you are living today, Life Coaching may be right for you.
You're here because something isn't working. Maybe anxiety is running the show. Maybe OCD is calling the shots. Maybe you can't sleep, can't focus, or can't figure out why you feel stuck. Whatever brought you here, you're ready for help that actually does something.
At The CBT Center, we specialize in CBT and ERP for anxiety, OCD, ADHD, insomnia, and more. Our team of board-certified clinicians builds a plan around your goals and tracks whether it's working.
We serve New Jersey, New York, and 40+ states via PsyPACT.
We take our tagline seriously: We work together on what matters to you.
You're here because something isn't working. Maybe anxiety is running the show. Maybe OCD is calling the shots. Maybe you can't sleep, can't focus, or can't figure out why you feel stuck. Whatever brought you here, you're ready for help that actually does something.
At The CBT Center, we specialize in CBT and ERP for anxiety, OCD, ADHD, insomnia, and more. Our team of board-certified clinicians builds a plan around your goals and tracks whether it's working.
We serve New Jersey, New York, and 40+ states via PsyPACT.
We take our tagline seriously: We work together on what matters to you.
I’m a psychotherapist in East Hampton, NY, specializing in anxiety, depression, and couples therapy. If you’re having difficulty with relationships, career stress, or overwhelming emotions, I am here to help. With over twenty years of dedicated experience working with individuals and couples, I provide a safe space for meaningful dialogue and exploration that can lead to lasting change.
I’m a psychotherapist in East Hampton, NY, specializing in anxiety, depression, and couples therapy. If you’re having difficulty with relationships, career stress, or overwhelming emotions, I am here to help. With over twenty years of dedicated experience working with individuals and couples, I provide a safe space for meaningful dialogue and exploration that can lead to lasting change.
Jenny Ketner Gillin
Psychologist, PsyD
1 Endorsed
Westhampton Beach, NY 11978
Waitlist for new clients
I am a firm believer that any person or couple can benefit greatly from therapy. There are those that are resistent to confronting their own issues, but my demeanor and personality helps put every patient at ease with themselves during their time with me.
I am a firm believer that any person or couple can benefit greatly from therapy. There are those that are resistent to confronting their own issues, but my demeanor and personality helps put every patient at ease with themselves during their time with me.
Feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, anxious, or like you’re constantly trying to keep it together for everyone else? Maybe your mind won’t slow down, your relationships feel draining, or you’re just tired of carrying everything on your own. Whatever you’re navigating, you don’t have to go through it by yourself.
I provide a warm, supportive, and nonjudgmental space where you can show up fully as yourself. My approach combines Person-Centered Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), blending empathy and connection with practical tools to help you better understand your thoughts, emotions, and behavioral patterns.
Feeling overwhelmed, burnt out, anxious, or like you’re constantly trying to keep it together for everyone else? Maybe your mind won’t slow down, your relationships feel draining, or you’re just tired of carrying everything on your own. Whatever you’re navigating, you don’t have to go through it by yourself.
I provide a warm, supportive, and nonjudgmental space where you can show up fully as yourself. My approach combines Person-Centered Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), blending empathy and connection with practical tools to help you better understand your thoughts, emotions, and behavioral patterns.
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming, but I invite you to explore my warm, person-centered approach and see if we’re a good fit. In our non-judgmental sessions, you’ll be heard, validated, and supported as you explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Together, we’ll clarify your goals and develop practical strategies to enhance emotional regulation, build confidence, and empower you to take control of your life.
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming, but I invite you to explore my warm, person-centered approach and see if we’re a good fit. In our non-judgmental sessions, you’ll be heard, validated, and supported as you explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Together, we’ll clarify your goals and develop practical strategies to enhance emotional regulation, build confidence, and empower you to take control of your life.
Sarah Post is a NYS Licensed Social Worker who earned her Master’s Degree in Social Work from Stony Brook University. With a strong background in school-based mental health and community support services, Sarah has dedicated her career to working with youth and families to foster emotional well-being, self-confidence, and personal growth. Sarah has experience supporting individuals navigating Anxiety, Depression, Adjustment Disorders, ADHD and ODD. She works with children and adolescents facing challenges such as low self-esteem, difficulty with communication, school avoidance and struggles with forming healthy peer relationships.
Sarah Post is a NYS Licensed Social Worker who earned her Master’s Degree in Social Work from Stony Brook University. With a strong background in school-based mental health and community support services, Sarah has dedicated her career to working with youth and families to foster emotional well-being, self-confidence, and personal growth. Sarah has experience supporting individuals navigating Anxiety, Depression, Adjustment Disorders, ADHD and ODD. She works with children and adolescents facing challenges such as low self-esteem, difficulty with communication, school avoidance and struggles with forming healthy peer relationships.
Currently not accepting New Clients.
It is not always easy to find the perfect therapist. I pride myself in being trustworthy, empathic and culturally competent. If you are suffering from anxiety, you want to understand why and how to control and manage the anxiety. If you are suffering from depression, you want to feel good and excited, the feeling of wanting to live and have a wonderful life. If you are victim of abuse you need assistance and a safe place, we can work on it together. If you have mental health issues such as bipolar, schizophrenia I have been trained to help you with coping skills and manage your symptom
Currently not accepting New Clients.
It is not always easy to find the perfect therapist. I pride myself in being trustworthy, empathic and culturally competent. If you are suffering from anxiety, you want to understand why and how to control and manage the anxiety. If you are suffering from depression, you want to feel good and excited, the feeling of wanting to live and have a wonderful life. If you are victim of abuse you need assistance and a safe place, we can work on it together. If you have mental health issues such as bipolar, schizophrenia I have been trained to help you with coping skills and manage your symptom
I believe that making the change you desire in your life is possible. I know it's not easy, especially if you are suffering from anxiety, depression, a disintegration of your marriage or relationship, or a loss of who you are. If you're an adolescent, I want to help you 'meet who you are'. I provide a specialized approach to develop healthy coping strategies for anxiety and depression. If you're a couple, I want to help you rebuild the trust and emotional connection in your relationship. We focus on communication strategies and building a vision for the satisfying relationship you desire.
I believe that making the change you desire in your life is possible. I know it's not easy, especially if you are suffering from anxiety, depression, a disintegration of your marriage or relationship, or a loss of who you are. If you're an adolescent, I want to help you 'meet who you are'. I provide a specialized approach to develop healthy coping strategies for anxiety and depression. If you're a couple, I want to help you rebuild the trust and emotional connection in your relationship. We focus on communication strategies and building a vision for the satisfying relationship you desire.
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Number of Therapists in Southold, NY
10+
Average cost per session
$225
Therapists in Southold, NY who prioritize treating:
| 100% | Relationship Issues |
| 100% | Depression |
| 100% | Anxiety |
| 100% | Family Conflict |
| 100% | Social Anxiety |
| 100% | Health Anxiety |
| 100% | Relationship Anxiety |
Average years in practice
30 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 75% | Aetna |
| 75% | Cigna and Evernorth |
| 75% | UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH |
How Therapists in Southold, NY see their clients
| 80% | In Person and Online | |
| 20% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 80% | Female | |
| 20% | Male |
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.

