Oxford Therapists in South Setauket, NY
I believe the most important aspect of therapy is the relationship you build with your therapist. A good therapeutic relationship is one in which you not only gain insight into your thoughts and behaviors, but you also feel accepted and supported as you work toward making positive changes in your life. My main goal as a therapist is to build a therapeutic alliance with each person I work with that is based on acceptance, trust and support, from which it is possible to reach a level of awareness that opens the door to life altering changes and transformations.
I believe the most important aspect of therapy is the relationship you build with your therapist. A good therapeutic relationship is one in which you not only gain insight into your thoughts and behaviors, but you also feel accepted and supported as you work toward making positive changes in your life. My main goal as a therapist is to build a therapeutic alliance with each person I work with that is based on acceptance, trust and support, from which it is possible to reach a level of awareness that opens the door to life altering changes and transformations.
Flexible schedule - Night/Weekend Availability - Remote Only - Aetna/BCBS/Cigna/UHC (OSCAR/ Oxford/Optum)/Medicare - Self pay rates available
Welcome! Taking the first step towards seeking therapy is a courageous decision, and I commend you for considering it. I am dedicated to providing a safe, compassionate, and nonjudgmental space where individuals can explore their emotions, thoughts, and experiences. Together, we will work towards gaining insight, developing coping skills, and ultimately, achieving a greater sense of well-being and fulfillment in your life while using a patient-centered approach.
Flexible schedule - Night/Weekend Availability - Remote Only - Aetna/BCBS/Cigna/UHC (OSCAR/ Oxford/Optum)/Medicare - Self pay rates available
Welcome! Taking the first step towards seeking therapy is a courageous decision, and I commend you for considering it. I am dedicated to providing a safe, compassionate, and nonjudgmental space where individuals can explore their emotions, thoughts, and experiences. Together, we will work towards gaining insight, developing coping skills, and ultimately, achieving a greater sense of well-being and fulfillment in your life while using a patient-centered approach.
I believe one of the bravest things you can do is begin to understand your own story. By searching for a therapist you have taken the first step to exploring your story. My approach to therapy is a wholistic and systemic approach. I work with individuals from the understanding that we are all impacted greatly by our families and the environment in which we live. I also focus on working with families and couples to improve a healthy relationship that is mutually beneficial. I work with my clients on enhancing their strengths and working through challenges to live the life that they deserve.
I believe one of the bravest things you can do is begin to understand your own story. By searching for a therapist you have taken the first step to exploring your story. My approach to therapy is a wholistic and systemic approach. I work with individuals from the understanding that we are all impacted greatly by our families and the environment in which we live. I also focus on working with families and couples to improve a healthy relationship that is mutually beneficial. I work with my clients on enhancing their strengths and working through challenges to live the life that they deserve.
I’m committed to supporting you with the concerns you bring to therapy. I work from a systemic perspective, looking closely at the meaningful relationships you have with yourself and with others. I understand that no two individuals or relationships are the same, and a one-size-fits-all approach rarely works. Together, we’ll explore your experiences, uncover patterns, and develop practical strategies that help you improve your well-being, strengthen your relationships, and create positive change in your life. My goal is to help you feel more empowered, understood, and supported on your unique journey.
I’m committed to supporting you with the concerns you bring to therapy. I work from a systemic perspective, looking closely at the meaningful relationships you have with yourself and with others. I understand that no two individuals or relationships are the same, and a one-size-fits-all approach rarely works. Together, we’ll explore your experiences, uncover patterns, and develop practical strategies that help you improve your well-being, strengthen your relationships, and create positive change in your life. My goal is to help you feel more empowered, understood, and supported on your unique journey.
There are many times in life where we just feel "stuck." Whether that be at work, in our relationships, or just finding the motivation to get through the day, sometimes it can feel insurmountable. Together we can work to push forward and find ways to become "unstuck" in your life. I strive to work collaboratively with my clients to identify your goals and the pathways to get to them. Additionally, we will learn ways to adjust your perspective which can be a powerful means to change your way of thinking, and mood, for the better.
There are many times in life where we just feel "stuck." Whether that be at work, in our relationships, or just finding the motivation to get through the day, sometimes it can feel insurmountable. Together we can work to push forward and find ways to become "unstuck" in your life. I strive to work collaboratively with my clients to identify your goals and the pathways to get to them. Additionally, we will learn ways to adjust your perspective which can be a powerful means to change your way of thinking, and mood, for the better.
Life can feel confusing or overwhelming, whether you’re struggling with conflicting emotions, relationship challenges, or navigating major life changes. You may feel stuck, uncertain, or pulled in different directions, and you’re looking for clarity, support, and a way forward. I’m here to help you make sense of your experiences, explore your feelings, and discover strategies to cope and grow. Together, we can work toward understanding, balance, and the positive changes you’re seeking.
Life can feel confusing or overwhelming, whether you’re struggling with conflicting emotions, relationship challenges, or navigating major life changes. You may feel stuck, uncertain, or pulled in different directions, and you’re looking for clarity, support, and a way forward. I’m here to help you make sense of your experiences, explore your feelings, and discover strategies to cope and grow. Together, we can work toward understanding, balance, and the positive changes you’re seeking.
Life can feel overwhelming at times—whether you’re carrying the weight of anxiety or depression, working through past trauma, adjusting to major life changes, or feeling stuck in your relationships. You may be longing for relief, clarity, and a sense of peace, but not quite sure how to get there. My role as a Marriage and Family Therapist is to walk alongside you with compassion and understanding. I draw from a toolbox of therapeutic modalities, including Solution-Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy, and Narrative Therapy, to provide a holistic and personalized experience.
Life can feel overwhelming at times—whether you’re carrying the weight of anxiety or depression, working through past trauma, adjusting to major life changes, or feeling stuck in your relationships. You may be longing for relief, clarity, and a sense of peace, but not quite sure how to get there. My role as a Marriage and Family Therapist is to walk alongside you with compassion and understanding. I draw from a toolbox of therapeutic modalities, including Solution-Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Emotionally-Focused Therapy, and Narrative Therapy, to provide a holistic and personalized experience.
My approach to therapy is a holistic and systemic approach. I work with individuals from the understanding that we are all impacted greatly by our families and the environment in which we live. I also focus on working with families and couples to improve a healthy relationship that is mutually beneficial. I work with my clients on enhancing their strengths and working through challenges to live the life that they deserve.
My approach to therapy is a holistic and systemic approach. I work with individuals from the understanding that we are all impacted greatly by our families and the environment in which we live. I also focus on working with families and couples to improve a healthy relationship that is mutually beneficial. I work with my clients on enhancing their strengths and working through challenges to live the life that they deserve.
Life is to be enjoyed....not endured.
Every person deserves the opportunity to grow and develop, and to achieve their full potential. Emotional issues often deprive the individual of the opportunity to make informed choices about their lives. When an individual is suffering from emotional pain it may seem like there is no hope. I listen to you and help restore hope. I help you to break free from problems/symptoms causing emotional pain.
I help support you toward making healthy changes in your life. I have been providing these services for over twenty years.
Life is to be enjoyed....not endured.
Every person deserves the opportunity to grow and develop, and to achieve their full potential. Emotional issues often deprive the individual of the opportunity to make informed choices about their lives. When an individual is suffering from emotional pain it may seem like there is no hope. I listen to you and help restore hope. I help you to break free from problems/symptoms causing emotional pain.
I help support you toward making healthy changes in your life. I have been providing these services for over twenty years.
Life can be hard…therapy helps. We experience many changes in our lifetime and all of them - whether positive or negative changes - can cause stress. As a society we are not great at acknowledging the negative or the stress that accompanies these life changes. Social media has only amplified this ever present pressure for the “perfect life.” The reality is that life can be hard and the world is not always perfect or kind. Therapy can help us to better understand the stressors in our life and develop a plan to cope with those stressors.
Life can be hard…therapy helps. We experience many changes in our lifetime and all of them - whether positive or negative changes - can cause stress. As a society we are not great at acknowledging the negative or the stress that accompanies these life changes. Social media has only amplified this ever present pressure for the “perfect life.” The reality is that life can be hard and the world is not always perfect or kind. Therapy can help us to better understand the stressors in our life and develop a plan to cope with those stressors.
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Life can feel overwhelming. Whether you’re managing anxiety, facing tough decisions, or navigating emotional pain, you don’t have to go through it alone. With over 25 years of experience, I offer a safe, compassionate space where you can feel heard, understood, and supported.
Together, we’ll explore your challenges, create clarity, and develop practical tools to help you feel more empowered, grounded, and in control of your life. You deserve support that is patient, kind, and rooted in deep professional experience.
Life can feel overwhelming. Whether you’re managing anxiety, facing tough decisions, or navigating emotional pain, you don’t have to go through it alone. With over 25 years of experience, I offer a safe, compassionate space where you can feel heard, understood, and supported.
Together, we’ll explore your challenges, create clarity, and develop practical tools to help you feel more empowered, grounded, and in control of your life. You deserve support that is patient, kind, and rooted in deep professional experience.
Insurances accepted: 1199, Oxford, United, Aetna, Blue Cross, MHN, Cigna, Multiplan, HIP, GHI, Empire, Magnacare, APS, Verizon, Healthnet.
Having been a practicing psychologist for 23 years, my style is cognitive behavior therapy. This involves changing the irrational beliefs behind stress, anxiety and depression. Specialties include women's issues, teens, children with behavioral problems, divorce, and drug and alcohol related issues. Office hours weekdays 1 to 9. Weekend appointments available.
Insurances accepted: 1199, Oxford, United, Aetna, Blue Cross, MHN, Cigna, Multiplan, HIP, GHI, Empire, Magnacare, APS, Verizon, Healthnet.
Having been a practicing psychologist for 23 years, my style is cognitive behavior therapy. This involves changing the irrational beliefs behind stress, anxiety and depression. Specialties include women's issues, teens, children with behavioral problems, divorce, and drug and alcohol related issues. Office hours weekdays 1 to 9. Weekend appointments available.
Many of the adults I work with feel overwhelmed, burned out, or stuck second guessing themselves. They may be navigating anxiety, relationship stress, dating challenges, breakups, or major life transitions and wondering why things feel harder than they should. From the outside things may look fine, but internally you may feel mentally overloaded, stuck in overthinking, or constantly juggling too many thoughts or responsibilities. Some clients come in knowing they have ADHD or identify as neurodivergent, while others are beginning to wonder if ADHD might explain what they are experiencing.
Many of the adults I work with feel overwhelmed, burned out, or stuck second guessing themselves. They may be navigating anxiety, relationship stress, dating challenges, breakups, or major life transitions and wondering why things feel harder than they should. From the outside things may look fine, but internally you may feel mentally overloaded, stuck in overthinking, or constantly juggling too many thoughts or responsibilities. Some clients come in knowing they have ADHD or identify as neurodivergent, while others are beginning to wonder if ADHD might explain what they are experiencing.
I’m an experienced therapist who helps individuals take active steps toward healing from trauma, navigating life transitions, and managing everyday stressors. Therapy is a journey of self-discovery and change—one that begins with deciding to show up for yourself. There’s no perfect time to start; the most effective time to begin learning about yourself and creating meaningful change is now. I provide a supportive, grounded space where you can feel heard, understood, and safe doing this work.
I’m an experienced therapist who helps individuals take active steps toward healing from trauma, navigating life transitions, and managing everyday stressors. Therapy is a journey of self-discovery and change—one that begins with deciding to show up for yourself. There’s no perfect time to start; the most effective time to begin learning about yourself and creating meaningful change is now. I provide a supportive, grounded space where you can feel heard, understood, and safe doing this work.
Life's journey often presents us with daunting obstacles like anxiety, depression, and addiction, making daily tasks feel unmanageable. However, there is a path forward through these challenges. I am here to help you process and grow through life's trials and tribulations, assisting you in rediscovering self-love and building a healthier relationship with yourself and others. The foundation of my practice is my dream to create a positive therapeutic relationship that genuinely aids those grappling with mental health challenges.
Life's journey often presents us with daunting obstacles like anxiety, depression, and addiction, making daily tasks feel unmanageable. However, there is a path forward through these challenges. I am here to help you process and grow through life's trials and tribulations, assisting you in rediscovering self-love and building a healthier relationship with yourself and others. The foundation of my practice is my dream to create a positive therapeutic relationship that genuinely aids those grappling with mental health challenges.
With three decades of dedicated experience, both personal and professional, I offer proven guidance for navigating life's challenges. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, facing career hurdles, or dealing with day-to-day obstacles, I'm here to equip you with the tools you need to thrive.
My extensive experience spans working with both young adults and adults, helping them unlock their potential and move forward with confidence.
With three decades of dedicated experience, both personal and professional, I offer proven guidance for navigating life's challenges. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, facing career hurdles, or dealing with day-to-day obstacles, I'm here to equip you with the tools you need to thrive.
My extensive experience spans working with both young adults and adults, helping them unlock their potential and move forward with confidence.
My clients are done with surface talk. They’re dealing with uncertainty, anxiety, anger, burnout, or just feeling stuck. Whether it’s time management, life balance, or relationship stress, they want real tools. Here at Cunningham Counseling, I work with individuals and couples ready to face things head-on. Through honest, direct therapy and coaching, I help them cut through the noise, take control, and create lasting change they can feel. I meet people where they are, with compassion, truth, and a focus on what actually works. If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and start making real change, you are in the right place.
My clients are done with surface talk. They’re dealing with uncertainty, anxiety, anger, burnout, or just feeling stuck. Whether it’s time management, life balance, or relationship stress, they want real tools. Here at Cunningham Counseling, I work with individuals and couples ready to face things head-on. Through honest, direct therapy and coaching, I help them cut through the noise, take control, and create lasting change they can feel. I meet people where they are, with compassion, truth, and a focus on what actually works. If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and start making real change, you are in the right place.
Now serving clients in New York and Connecticut!
Helping change lives is one of the greatest privileges in life. I am a fully licensed clinical mental health counselor providing psychotherapy services. I can assist with those struggling with depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, negative thoughts, illness, loss and letting go of old patterns to promote a healthier lifestyle.
Now serving clients in New York and Connecticut!
Helping change lives is one of the greatest privileges in life. I am a fully licensed clinical mental health counselor providing psychotherapy services. I can assist with those struggling with depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, negative thoughts, illness, loss and letting go of old patterns to promote a healthier lifestyle.
Hi, I'm Ruth, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with a deep passion for helping individuals navigate anxiety and relationship struggles.I specialize in support helping individuals manage depression, low self-esteem, and anger. I support adults who feel overwhelmed, stuck, or uncertain about the future—whether it’s balancing career and personal life, processing difficult emotions, or building self-worth. I’m dedicated to helping you identify and challenge negative thought patterns that affect your emotions and behaviors. Together, we’ll work on creating healthier coping strategies and building resilience to improve your well-being.
Hi, I'm Ruth, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with a deep passion for helping individuals navigate anxiety and relationship struggles.I specialize in support helping individuals manage depression, low self-esteem, and anger. I support adults who feel overwhelmed, stuck, or uncertain about the future—whether it’s balancing career and personal life, processing difficult emotions, or building self-worth. I’m dedicated to helping you identify and challenge negative thought patterns that affect your emotions and behaviors. Together, we’ll work on creating healthier coping strategies and building resilience to improve your well-being.
Life can feel like a lot sometimes, and it's normal for both kids and adults to have trouble managing stress, anxiety, or motivation. If you or your child are finding it hard to stay focused, calm, or in control of emotions, I am here to support you. Let's work together to create practical strategies and coping tools that can make everyday life feel more manageable, helping you or your child feel more balanced and in control.
Life can feel like a lot sometimes, and it's normal for both kids and adults to have trouble managing stress, anxiety, or motivation. If you or your child are finding it hard to stay focused, calm, or in control of emotions, I am here to support you. Let's work together to create practical strategies and coping tools that can make everyday life feel more manageable, helping you or your child feel more balanced and in control.
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Oxford Therapists
Does insurance cover therapy, prescriptions and other behavioral health services?
In general, yes. Laws in the U.S. require insurers to cover essential behavioral health care at the same level as other health care services. Most health plans require a medical diagnosis and treatments that are evidence based and medically essential. This means that life coaching and alternative therapies are not covered, nor is therapy without a diagnosis. Call the number on the back or your insurance card or visit your insurance company's website to review your Summary of Benefits. If you have insurance through your employer, your Human Resources department may also be able to answer questions.
How much does therapy cost with insurance?
The cost of therapy depends on your region, how much training and experience your therapist has, and the type of treatment. The rate for talk therapy generally falls between $100 and $250. For a client seeing an in-network provider, the cost of therapy is often similar to the cost of other health care services. Clients pay co-pays and may need to satisfy a plan’s deductible before benefits kick in.
What is the difference between In-Network and Out-of-Network insurance coverage?
An in-network provider has contracted with an insurer to get paid directly for services, and to accept the insurer’s rate of compensation. Clients are responsible for deductibles and copays. If a therapist is out of network, that means that the client pays the therapist directly for services at the therapist’s regular fee. Out-of-Network providers often give clients a receipt so that they can file for partial reimbursement with their insurance company.
Is it difficult to find an In-Network therapist?
It is not unusual for therapists to limit the number of insurance patients in their practice, so it’s important to check in-network availability when you schedule your first appointment. In regions and times where therapy is in high demand it may take longer to get scheduled with an in-network therapist.
What is the difference between HMO and PPO insurance plans?
HMO health plans only cover in-network services, there is no reimbursement for out-of-network providers. PPO plans often cover both in- and out-of-network services, though the client may pay more for out-of-network services.
What is a Superbill?
A superbill is a receipt for therapy services. It provides all the information required by insurance companies to reimburse you for out-of-network services, including the diagnostic codes for your care, the amount paid, and the dates and duration of care.
Does insurance cover Online therapy?
Many therapists who shifted their practice to online therapy during the pandemic have kept that arrangement. And most insurers continue to cover telehealth services, with a few exceptions. Preventive care (such as an annual depression screening) is often required to be in-person to be covered, and some states require prescribers of controlled substances to see those patients in person.
Does insurance cover Group therapy?
Many insurance plans provide coverage for group therapy provided there is a medical diagnosis for group members, but there are some noteworthy exceptions. For example, Medicare does not always cover group therapy. Group therapy tends to cost less than individual therapy.
Does insurance cover Couples therapy?
Most insurance companies do not cover the cost of couples therapy because there is no medical diagnosis or medically necessary treatment. However, a few plans will offer a limited benefit, so it is still worth checking with your insurance company. Sometimes therapy is covered for a couple when one person has a diagnosis and another family member joins them for joint therapy, but it is considered therapy for the medical condition that includes a family member as a listener or helper, not couples counseling. Without insurance, most clients pay between $100-300 per 60-90 min session for couples therapy. Often clients can find classes or workshops that make it more affordable to work on their relationship. And some employers offer benefit plans that help defray the cost of couples therapy. Learn more about Insurance Coverage and Finding Affordable Therapy

