Infidelity Therapists in Snyder, NY
I am also versed in working with sexual trauma, betrayal trauma, sexual dysfunction, and loss of libido.
Searching for a therapy practice that aligns with your values and protects your privacy? Welcome to Whole Stories Therapy. We are a woman-owned small business on the West Side of Buffalo committed to providing client-centered care to clients across New York State. We have in-person availability as well as telehealth availability to clients based in New York. We provide culturally competent, identity affirming care on a sliding scale.
It is our mission to create positive change in the community through continued outreach and presence. We continually collect food for local food banks and supply a free library of books.
I am also versed in working with sexual trauma, betrayal trauma, sexual dysfunction, and loss of libido.
Searching for a therapy practice that aligns with your values and protects your privacy? Welcome to Whole Stories Therapy. We are a woman-owned small business on the West Side of Buffalo committed to providing client-centered care to clients across New York State. We have in-person availability as well as telehealth availability to clients based in New York. We provide culturally competent, identity affirming care on a sliding scale.
It is our mission to create positive change in the community through continued outreach and presence. We continually collect food for local food banks and supply a free library of books.

Lauren Alexandra Kranz
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hi! I’m Lauren. I’ve been practicing therapy for over 14 years and I am so grateful for the opportunity to work with so many amazing clients. Seeing the growth and awareness that happens in this process is truly remarkable and rewarding for everyone involved. My clients most often come to therapy repeating patterns that they realize are no longer working for them. Both individually and in relationships. My job is to help you identify patterns, to better understand yourself and to give you ways to adjust while staying true to who you are. There are a variety of ways to do this, and each session is geared exactly to your needs.
Hi! I’m Lauren. I’ve been practicing therapy for over 14 years and I am so grateful for the opportunity to work with so many amazing clients. Seeing the growth and awareness that happens in this process is truly remarkable and rewarding for everyone involved. My clients most often come to therapy repeating patterns that they realize are no longer working for them. Both individually and in relationships. My job is to help you identify patterns, to better understand yourself and to give you ways to adjust while staying true to who you are. There are a variety of ways to do this, and each session is geared exactly to your needs.
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Thomas Livernois
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA, Veteran, Video
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14226
Other specialties: Grief and loss, infidelity, Substance Use Disorder, and other diagnosed disorders.
I specialize in couple's therapy. Married, engaged, dating, living together...and others. I also see individuals looking for help with life's issues or seeking personal growth. Whatever challenges you face, I may be able to help. The first step is yours. I look forward to your call. You can also visit my website at livernoisrelationshiptherapy.com
Other specialties: Grief and loss, infidelity, Substance Use Disorder, and other diagnosed disorders.
I specialize in couple's therapy. Married, engaged, dating, living together...and others. I also see individuals looking for help with life's issues or seeking personal growth. Whatever challenges you face, I may be able to help. The first step is yours. I look forward to your call. You can also visit my website at livernoisrelationshiptherapy.com

Couples work included, but was not limited to, these critical issues: emotionally focused communication, destructive conflict patterns, emotional and physical intimacy, infidelity and trust repair, pre-marital assessment, commitment, and discernment of ultimate relationship habitability.
Individual counseling involved, but was not limited to, relationship issues, treatment of anxiety and/or depression, thought patterns related to anxiety or depression, setting boundaries, loss and grief, co-dependency, autonomy within committed relationships and anger management (below abuse threshold)
Couples work included, but was not limited to, these critical issues: emotionally focused communication, destructive conflict patterns, emotional and physical intimacy, infidelity and trust repair, pre-marital assessment, commitment, and discernment of ultimate relationship habitability.
Individual counseling involved, but was not limited to, relationship issues, treatment of anxiety and/or depression, thought patterns related to anxiety or depression, setting boundaries, loss and grief, co-dependency, autonomy within committed relationships and anger management (below abuse threshold)

Couple & Relationship Therapy: An MFT Practice
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14226
We specializing in treating couples who are struggling with communication challenges, sexual concerns, sexual dysfunction, parenting, recovering from affairs (emotional & physical).
One of the benefits of choosing Couple & Relationship Therapy, is that our therapists receive supervision & use their experiences to assist each other. Some specialties are: Affairs (Emotional/Physical); Anger Management, Anxiety; Child/Adolescent Anxiety & School Pressures; Eating Disorders; Sex Addiction;Sex Dysfunctions; Sexual Identity; Trauma.
We specializing in treating couples who are struggling with communication challenges, sexual concerns, sexual dysfunction, parenting, recovering from affairs (emotional & physical).
One of the benefits of choosing Couple & Relationship Therapy, is that our therapists receive supervision & use their experiences to assist each other. Some specialties are: Affairs (Emotional/Physical); Anger Management, Anxiety; Child/Adolescent Anxiety & School Pressures; Eating Disorders; Sex Addiction;Sex Dysfunctions; Sexual Identity; Trauma.

James D Thauer
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Williamsville, NY 14221
I specialize in working with couples to improve communication, conflict resolution, connection, and infidelity.
I received my Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from the University at Buffalo and my Master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Medaille College. I'm the owner of Therapeutic Insights. I’ve worked in private practice for over five years and utilize my experience in working with clients to tailor therapy in a way that makes clients comfortable.
I specialize in working with couples to improve communication, conflict resolution, connection, and infidelity.
I received my Bachelor of Arts in Psychology from the University at Buffalo and my Master's degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Medaille College. I'm the owner of Therapeutic Insights. I’ve worked in private practice for over five years and utilize my experience in working with clients to tailor therapy in a way that makes clients comfortable.

Affairs are painful and complicated to recover from and I understand how to assist clients.
Hello - I have been practicing relationship therapy since 1999 and opened my practice in 2001. In my years of working with couples and individuals, I have learned that change is possible even when it seems hopeless. I understand the courage it takes to share your personal life with a stranger. I am honored to assist couples and individuals who are struggling with relationship issues, sexual concerns, sexual identity and chronic illness. My goal is to assist client(s) in attaining their goals in a healthy way. I invite you to browse my web site: www.couplescounseling.biz
Affairs are painful and complicated to recover from and I understand how to assist clients.
Hello - I have been practicing relationship therapy since 1999 and opened my practice in 2001. In my years of working with couples and individuals, I have learned that change is possible even when it seems hopeless. I understand the courage it takes to share your personal life with a stranger. I am honored to assist couples and individuals who are struggling with relationship issues, sexual concerns, sexual identity and chronic illness. My goal is to assist client(s) in attaining their goals in a healthy way. I invite you to browse my web site: www.couplescounseling.biz

Mitch PsyD & Lisa Couples Relationship Life Coach, Specialize in Marriage/Couples, Alcohol, Infidelity & Parenting Workshops.
Gaslighting: Psychological manipulation that makes the recipient question their feeling, instincts & their sanity. One of the worst forms of dirty fighting which includes: Pretending not to understand someone when they do, Labeling your partners thoughts as crazy or imagined, Questioning the other person's memory, Pretending to forget what actually occurred
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Couples Relationship Life Coach, Specialize in Marriage/Couples, Alcohol, Infidelity & Parenting Workshops.
Gaslighting: Psychological manipulation that makes the recipient question their feeling, instincts & their sanity. One of the worst forms of dirty fighting which includes: Pretending not to understand someone when they do, Labeling your partners thoughts as crazy or imagined, Questioning the other person's memory, Pretending to forget what actually occurred

Expertise includes: Communication Skills, Sexual Dysfunction, Sexuality & Cancer, Sexual Orientation and Gender Variance, Infidelity, and mixed orientation or open relationships.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist who is highly experienced in treating adults with marital/relationship problems and problems related to sexuality and gender identity. I also specialize in treatment of emotional distress and sexual dysfunction in cancer survivors. My orientation is insight oriented and attachment based, and is focused on developmental issues in the individual and in the couple. I am particularly interested in assisting with existential crises that may affect intimate partnerships. In addition to my private practice I am available as an expert speaker on cancer survivorship and sexuality and cancer.
Expertise includes: Communication Skills, Sexual Dysfunction, Sexuality & Cancer, Sexual Orientation and Gender Variance, Infidelity, and mixed orientation or open relationships.
I am a Licensed Clinical Psychologist who is highly experienced in treating adults with marital/relationship problems and problems related to sexuality and gender identity. I also specialize in treatment of emotional distress and sexual dysfunction in cancer survivors. My orientation is insight oriented and attachment based, and is focused on developmental issues in the individual and in the couple. I am particularly interested in assisting with existential crises that may affect intimate partnerships. In addition to my private practice I am available as an expert speaker on cancer survivorship and sexuality and cancer.

My expertise includes relationship issues, betrayal trauma, racial identity issues, and mood disorders.
I adhere to the philosophy that relationships are at the core of the human experience, yet there are times when healing can't be done alone. My work is fundamentally relational. I help people overcome trauma, anxiety, depression, and relationship issues, with an understanding that these issues can overlap or involve additional problems impacting other areas of life. I am warm, relatable, active, and flexible, balancing exploratory work with directness. I have over 15 years of experience with a diverse body of clients. I divide my time between clinical work, teaching, and research.
My expertise includes relationship issues, betrayal trauma, racial identity issues, and mood disorders.
I adhere to the philosophy that relationships are at the core of the human experience, yet there are times when healing can't be done alone. My work is fundamentally relational. I help people overcome trauma, anxiety, depression, and relationship issues, with an understanding that these issues can overlap or involve additional problems impacting other areas of life. I am warm, relatable, active, and flexible, balancing exploratory work with directness. I have over 15 years of experience with a diverse body of clients. I divide my time between clinical work, teaching, and research.

Patrick Cayouette
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CSAT
Verified Verified
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I assist couples with general communication, infidelity, separation reunification, and general marital stress.
I've worked in the mental health field since 2000 with various populations (individuals, couples and families), however, my specialties include men's studies, pornography/sexual addiction, relationship health for married couples & EMDR. I especially find men experience challenges in life and lack the means or opportunities to be supported, validated heard. I strive to be practical and direct, yet effective in fostering change. Whether guiding couples in marriage prep or in marital strain, I develop understanding of relationships, creating an open, honest and safe communication style which fosters intimacy through challenges.
I assist couples with general communication, infidelity, separation reunification, and general marital stress.
I've worked in the mental health field since 2000 with various populations (individuals, couples and families), however, my specialties include men's studies, pornography/sexual addiction, relationship health for married couples & EMDR. I especially find men experience challenges in life and lack the means or opportunities to be supported, validated heard. I strive to be practical and direct, yet effective in fostering change. Whether guiding couples in marriage prep or in marital strain, I develop understanding of relationships, creating an open, honest and safe communication style which fosters intimacy through challenges.

I have spent years supporting individuals, couples & families navigating interpersonal challenges, anxiety, depression, infidelity, trauma, stress, self-esteem, work challenges, and life transitions.
My style is collaborative and affirming. As a social justice-oriented therapist, I use an anti-oppressive, strengths-based, and trauma-informed lens. I incorporate solution-focused, affirmations-based, cognitive behavior therapy, and more depending on the client's needs. Sessions with me are a judgment-free zone. We work together to help you meet your goals.
I have spent years supporting individuals, couples & families navigating interpersonal challenges, anxiety, depression, infidelity, trauma, stress, self-esteem, work challenges, and life transitions.
My style is collaborative and affirming. As a social justice-oriented therapist, I use an anti-oppressive, strengths-based, and trauma-informed lens. I incorporate solution-focused, affirmations-based, cognitive behavior therapy, and more depending on the client's needs. Sessions with me are a judgment-free zone. We work together to help you meet your goals.

Leah M Eagan
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MSW, MBA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Williamsville, NY 14221
I work with couples dealing with issues including communication, betrayal, infidelity, and conflict resolution.
Relationships are complicated. People often find themselves knowing that they want to be happier without knowing how or where to begin. I invite you to discover what is possible. I work with couples addressing issues including conflict resolution, communication challenges, betrayal, and intimacy issues. I also work with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, stress management and self esteem. I have a client-centered approach that puts emphasis on empowering people to address patterns of behavior that may be outdated, ineffective or unhealthy. Please be advised, I do not accept insurance at this time.
I work with couples dealing with issues including communication, betrayal, infidelity, and conflict resolution.
Relationships are complicated. People often find themselves knowing that they want to be happier without knowing how or where to begin. I invite you to discover what is possible. I work with couples addressing issues including conflict resolution, communication challenges, betrayal, and intimacy issues. I also work with individuals struggling with anxiety, depression, stress management and self esteem. I have a client-centered approach that puts emphasis on empowering people to address patterns of behavior that may be outdated, ineffective or unhealthy. Please be advised, I do not accept insurance at this time.

Jodie McCarthy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA, MSEd
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Orchard Park, NY 14127
- Infidelity recovery and rebuilding trust
I put emphasis on slowing clients down to process and reflect on what is being felt and said in the therapy room. My therapy services foster healthier relationships by guiding clients toward personal growth and improved relational dynamics. Discover the supportive and understanding approach I provide, to help you achieve your therapeutic goals.
- Infidelity recovery and rebuilding trust
I put emphasis on slowing clients down to process and reflect on what is being felt and said in the therapy room. My therapy services foster healthier relationships by guiding clients toward personal growth and improved relational dynamics. Discover the supportive and understanding approach I provide, to help you achieve your therapeutic goals.

Together, we can explore life balance issues such as, trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, life transitions, panic, relationship issues, betrayal trauma and/or coping with family conflict.
I utilize various modalities, including Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), which has shown to be effective in reducing symptoms of PTSD, anxiety, depression, addiction, panic, eating disorders, and self-esteem issues. I also utilize techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Positive Psychology.
Together, we can explore life balance issues such as, trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, life transitions, panic, relationship issues, betrayal trauma and/or coping with family conflict.
I utilize various modalities, including Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), which has shown to be effective in reducing symptoms of PTSD, anxiety, depression, addiction, panic, eating disorders, and self-esteem issues. I also utilize techniques from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Positive Psychology.

Erin M Ruston
Counselor, MSEd, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Alden, NY 14004
Waitlist for new clients
I can help you explore the barriers within your relationship and how to improve communication, fair fighting, work through infidelity, and heighten sex/intimacy, both physically and emotionally.
History of untreated trauma? I can help you work through any traumatic experiences and help you improve your daily living, along with your relationships with others.
I can help you explore the barriers within your relationship and how to improve communication, fair fighting, work through infidelity, and heighten sex/intimacy, both physically and emotionally.
History of untreated trauma? I can help you work through any traumatic experiences and help you improve your daily living, along with your relationships with others.

Dr. Jennifer Coppola
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-D
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
My areas of clinical focus are a broad range of presenting issues such as: anxiety, depression, relationship adjustments, communication, building stronger bonds, healing from infidelity, parenting and parent/child relationships and identity development.
I own Coppola Marriage and Family Therapy, PLLC which provides compassionate and supportive individual, couple and family therapy to people of all ages and identities. As a social justice oriented clinician, I focus on culturally sensitive interventions. My specialty areas include but are not limited to couples therapy as well as supporting LGBTQIA+ communities. I am uniquely positioned to walk with you on your journey to improved mental health and well-being. To learn more, please visit my website.
My areas of clinical focus are a broad range of presenting issues such as: anxiety, depression, relationship adjustments, communication, building stronger bonds, healing from infidelity, parenting and parent/child relationships and identity development.
I own Coppola Marriage and Family Therapy, PLLC which provides compassionate and supportive individual, couple and family therapy to people of all ages and identities. As a social justice oriented clinician, I focus on culturally sensitive interventions. My specialty areas include but are not limited to couples therapy as well as supporting LGBTQIA+ communities. I am uniquely positioned to walk with you on your journey to improved mental health and well-being. To learn more, please visit my website.

Allan E Jones
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MSEd, MS, SEP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
I have skillfully assisted couples, individuals, teens, and families dealing with communication issues, emotional and physical trauma, financial concerns and financial planning, self-esteem, parenting, conflict resolution, infidelity, anxiety, and anger management.
I admire & appreciate the courage it takes to initiate & maintain therapy. Indivduals & couples call because they are stuck in unhealthy patterns & do not know how to do something different. I assist them in creating & maintaining healthy patterns. Anxiety & panic are struggles for many people. They learn to control the anxiety as opposed the anxiety controlling them. Miscommunication happens because people often listen to talk as opposed to understand. I teach clients how to communicate in the therapy room so they leave knowing how to do it. Clients regain trust so they can reconnect emotionally & sexually.
I have skillfully assisted couples, individuals, teens, and families dealing with communication issues, emotional and physical trauma, financial concerns and financial planning, self-esteem, parenting, conflict resolution, infidelity, anxiety, and anger management.
I admire & appreciate the courage it takes to initiate & maintain therapy. Indivduals & couples call because they are stuck in unhealthy patterns & do not know how to do something different. I assist them in creating & maintaining healthy patterns. Anxiety & panic are struggles for many people. They learn to control the anxiety as opposed the anxiety controlling them. Miscommunication happens because people often listen to talk as opposed to understand. I teach clients how to communicate in the therapy room so they leave knowing how to do it. Clients regain trust so they can reconnect emotionally & sexually.

My private practice focuses on helping couples restore passion in their relationships, recover from infidelity, and navigate life transitions.
I am passionate about empowering individuals whose needs are often overlooked due to sociocultural issues. I particularly enjoy working with interracial relationships, men from BIPOC communities, and members of the diaspora community as they explore the intersections of culture, identity, and relationships.
My private practice focuses on helping couples restore passion in their relationships, recover from infidelity, and navigate life transitions.
I am passionate about empowering individuals whose needs are often overlooked due to sociocultural issues. I particularly enjoy working with interracial relationships, men from BIPOC communities, and members of the diaspora community as they explore the intersections of culture, identity, and relationships.

Together, we’ll navigate the complexities of relational and personal experiences—whether facing trauma, overcoming betrayal, addressing attachment wounds, struggling with paraphilias, or discovering your personal needs and desires.
We all deserve a space to truly be ourselves free from judgment or fear. I'm dedicated to providing that for you through vulnerability, curiosity, and compassion. With 10 years of experience in clinical sexology and coaching, I bring unique perspectives to the therapeutic setting providing a gentle yet direct framework from which to collaborate. As a Latina therapist, I understand the necessity of a trauma-informed multicultural lens and the power it has to ignite great change. I aim to support you in developing healthy boundaries while expanding tolerance for discomfort. Because after all, pain is essential, suffering is a choice.
Together, we’ll navigate the complexities of relational and personal experiences—whether facing trauma, overcoming betrayal, addressing attachment wounds, struggling with paraphilias, or discovering your personal needs and desires.
We all deserve a space to truly be ourselves free from judgment or fear. I'm dedicated to providing that for you through vulnerability, curiosity, and compassion. With 10 years of experience in clinical sexology and coaching, I bring unique perspectives to the therapeutic setting providing a gentle yet direct framework from which to collaborate. As a Latina therapist, I understand the necessity of a trauma-informed multicultural lens and the power it has to ignite great change. I aim to support you in developing healthy boundaries while expanding tolerance for discomfort. Because after all, pain is essential, suffering is a choice.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.