Emotionally Focused Therapists in Snyder, NY

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Lauren Alexandra Kranz
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hi! I’m Lauren. I’ve been practicing therapy for over 14 years and I am so grateful for the opportunity to work with so many amazing clients. Seeing the growth and awareness that happens in this process is truly remarkable and rewarding for everyone involved. My clients most often come to therapy repeating patterns that they realize are no longer working for them. Both individually and in relationships. My job is to help you identify patterns, to better understand yourself and to give you ways to adjust while staying true to who you are. There are a variety of ways to do this, and each session is geared exactly to your needs.
Hi! I’m Lauren. I’ve been practicing therapy for over 14 years and I am so grateful for the opportunity to work with so many amazing clients. Seeing the growth and awareness that happens in this process is truly remarkable and rewarding for everyone involved. My clients most often come to therapy repeating patterns that they realize are no longer working for them. Both individually and in relationships. My job is to help you identify patterns, to better understand yourself and to give you ways to adjust while staying true to who you are. There are a variety of ways to do this, and each session is geared exactly to your needs.
(716) 281-1829 View (716) 281-1829
Whole Stories Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Searching for a therapy practice that aligns with your values and protects your privacy? Welcome to Whole Stories Therapy. We are a woman-owned small business on the West Side of Buffalo committed to providing client-centered care to clients across New York State. We have in-person availability as well as telehealth availability to clients based in New York. We provide culturally competent, identity affirming care on a sliding scale. It is our mission to create positive change in the community through continued outreach and presence. We continually collect food for local food banks and supply a free library of books.
Searching for a therapy practice that aligns with your values and protects your privacy? Welcome to Whole Stories Therapy. We are a woman-owned small business on the West Side of Buffalo committed to providing client-centered care to clients across New York State. We have in-person availability as well as telehealth availability to clients based in New York. We provide culturally competent, identity affirming care on a sliding scale. It is our mission to create positive change in the community through continued outreach and presence. We continually collect food for local food banks and supply a free library of books.
(716) 466-5509 View (716) 466-5509
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Melissa Collins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I believe everyone needs therapy at least once in their life, as there is no way to be prepared for every situation that life may throw at you. If you're experiencing challenges with anxiety, depression, trauma reactions, parent-child strains, school stress, recovering from an abusive relationship, navigating narcissistic relationships, life transitions/adjustments, family conflicts, low self-esteem, body image concerns, and disordered eating, then I can help.
I believe everyone needs therapy at least once in their life, as there is no way to be prepared for every situation that life may throw at you. If you're experiencing challenges with anxiety, depression, trauma reactions, parent-child strains, school stress, recovering from an abusive relationship, navigating narcissistic relationships, life transitions/adjustments, family conflicts, low self-esteem, body image concerns, and disordered eating, then I can help.
(716) 271-7721 View (716) 271-7721

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Karen Knab
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Online Only
I have additional training in Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Are you feeling anxious, overwhelmed, and struggling in certain areas of your life? Do you have a hard time expressing your needs in relationships? Do you struggle with perfectionism, a lot of internal pressure, and responsibility? I would love to offer guidance to help you to have more balance and a greater ability to manage your life.
I have additional training in Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) and Internal Family Systems (IFS).
Are you feeling anxious, overwhelmed, and struggling in certain areas of your life? Do you have a hard time expressing your needs in relationships? Do you struggle with perfectionism, a lot of internal pressure, and responsibility? I would love to offer guidance to help you to have more balance and a greater ability to manage your life.
(716) 995-4418 View (716) 995-4418
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Claudette E Dones
Pre-Licensed Professional, BS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14226
I'm a Masters of Arts candidate in Marriage and Family Therapy at National University and experienced in research based methods such as Gottman Methods and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Are communication barriers standing in the way of your relationship? As a passionate student therapist specializing in marriage and family therapy, I bring over 20 years of experience in human services to the table. I’m here to help you strengthen your bond and navigate challenges with compassion. Together, we’ll create a safe space to explore your relationship dynamics and develop effective strategies for lasting change.
I'm a Masters of Arts candidate in Marriage and Family Therapy at National University and experienced in research based methods such as Gottman Methods and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Are communication barriers standing in the way of your relationship? As a passionate student therapist specializing in marriage and family therapy, I bring over 20 years of experience in human services to the table. I’m here to help you strengthen your bond and navigate challenges with compassion. Together, we’ll create a safe space to explore your relationship dynamics and develop effective strategies for lasting change.
(716) 641-2470 View (716) 641-2470
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Peter Meglin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14226
Couples work included, but was not limited to, these critical issues: emotionally focused communication, destructive conflict patterns, emotional and physical intimacy, infidelity and trust repair, pre-marital assessment, commitment, and discernment of ultimate relationship habitability.
Individual counseling involved, but was not limited to, relationship issues, treatment of anxiety and/or depression, thought patterns related to anxiety or depression, setting boundaries, loss and grief, co-dependency, autonomy within committed relationships and anger management (below abuse threshold)
Couples work included, but was not limited to, these critical issues: emotionally focused communication, destructive conflict patterns, emotional and physical intimacy, infidelity and trust repair, pre-marital assessment, commitment, and discernment of ultimate relationship habitability.
Individual counseling involved, but was not limited to, relationship issues, treatment of anxiety and/or depression, thought patterns related to anxiety or depression, setting boundaries, loss and grief, co-dependency, autonomy within committed relationships and anger management (below abuse threshold)
(716) 638-2185 View (716) 638-2185
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James D Thauer
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Williamsville, NY 14221
My approach is client centered and I draw from a variety of theories including Emotionally Focused, Strategic, and Structural Therapy.
Hi, I'm James and I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I specialize in working with couples to improve communication, conflict resolution, connection, and infidelity. I also work with individuals who have concerns such as anxiety, depression, divorce, navigating family dynamics, loss, self-esteem, and a variety of other intra-personal concerns. I work collaboratively with clients to set goals, identify problematic patterns, increase awareness of patterns, and change or break those patterns. I have a down to earth approach and avoid the use of jargon. I make therapy approachable for even the biggest of skeptics.
My approach is client centered and I draw from a variety of theories including Emotionally Focused, Strategic, and Structural Therapy.
Hi, I'm James and I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I specialize in working with couples to improve communication, conflict resolution, connection, and infidelity. I also work with individuals who have concerns such as anxiety, depression, divorce, navigating family dynamics, loss, self-esteem, and a variety of other intra-personal concerns. I work collaboratively with clients to set goals, identify problematic patterns, increase awareness of patterns, and change or break those patterns. I have a down to earth approach and avoid the use of jargon. I make therapy approachable for even the biggest of skeptics.
(716) 466-5358 View (716) 466-5358
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Paul Cartone
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14226
I developed a paradigm to do so utilizing CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy) and Emotional Freedom Technique ( EFT).
You are a gift. A miracle. You were born a champion! You were born and brought into this world in pure love. As we experience our life, things happen that cause us to shift from that pure love to emotional discord. As a result, we grow apart from our true self, that pure love. For some, emotional disturbances or conditions develop such as anxiety, depression, anger, negative thinking or self-doubt. I have 25 years experience working with children, adolescents and adults using traditional therapy and cutting edge non-traditional techniques that will help you get you to your goal.
I developed a paradigm to do so utilizing CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), DBT (Dialectical Behavioral Therapy) and Emotional Freedom Technique ( EFT).
You are a gift. A miracle. You were born a champion! You were born and brought into this world in pure love. As we experience our life, things happen that cause us to shift from that pure love to emotional discord. As a result, we grow apart from our true self, that pure love. For some, emotional disturbances or conditions develop such as anxiety, depression, anger, negative thinking or self-doubt. I have 25 years experience working with children, adolescents and adults using traditional therapy and cutting edge non-traditional techniques that will help you get you to your goal.
(716) 245-7499 View (716) 245-7499
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Rachel Pancake
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
While I use evidence-based CBT techniques, I also integrate an emotionally focused, attachment-based approach, helping clients explore their emotions and deepen their connections with themselves and others.
I’m constantly inspired by the growth people experience when they’re open to self-exploration. In one-on-one therapy, I help clients uncover their strengths, navigate challenges, and develop deeper self-awareness. Couples therapy is one of my greatest passions, and I specialize in helping partners rebuild trust, improve intimacy, and resolve conflicts—ultimately deepening their emotional bond and fostering lasting change. With a PhD in psychology research and a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology, I take a compassionate, direct approach to healing, informed by over 10 years of clinical experience.
While I use evidence-based CBT techniques, I also integrate an emotionally focused, attachment-based approach, helping clients explore their emotions and deepen their connections with themselves and others.
I’m constantly inspired by the growth people experience when they’re open to self-exploration. In one-on-one therapy, I help clients uncover their strengths, navigate challenges, and develop deeper self-awareness. Couples therapy is one of my greatest passions, and I specialize in helping partners rebuild trust, improve intimacy, and resolve conflicts—ultimately deepening their emotional bond and fostering lasting change. With a PhD in psychology research and a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology, I take a compassionate, direct approach to healing, informed by over 10 years of clinical experience.
(929) 205-4734 View (929) 205-4734
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Thriveworks Counseling & Therapy Williamsville
Counselor
Verified Verified
Williamsville, NY 14221
Popular approaches include CBT, DBT, EMDR, Christian Counseling, PCT, Motivational Interviewing, EFT, Positive Psychology, Psychodynamic therapy, Relational therapy, Narrative therapy, and more.
At Thriveworks, we're dedicated to providing top-tier mental health services that are easily accessible to everyone. With over 340 locations nationwide and flexible online therapy options, our professional therapists are equipped to assist you through any stress, life transitions, or ongoing mental health concerns. We prioritize your convenience and needs by offering flexible scheduling, including evening and weekend appointments, ensuring that you can start your therapy journey as early as this week. Plus, we accept most major insurance plans, making your path to mental health support smoother and more affordable.
Popular approaches include CBT, DBT, EMDR, Christian Counseling, PCT, Motivational Interviewing, EFT, Positive Psychology, Psychodynamic therapy, Relational therapy, Narrative therapy, and more.
At Thriveworks, we're dedicated to providing top-tier mental health services that are easily accessible to everyone. With over 340 locations nationwide and flexible online therapy options, our professional therapists are equipped to assist you through any stress, life transitions, or ongoing mental health concerns. We prioritize your convenience and needs by offering flexible scheduling, including evening and weekend appointments, ensuring that you can start your therapy journey as early as this week. Plus, we accept most major insurance plans, making your path to mental health support smoother and more affordable.
(716) 409-4334 View (716) 409-4334
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Aaron Garmon
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, MHC-LP, CRC
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Orchard Park, NY 14127
I have a decade of career guidance experience and advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.
Hi. I help with conflict in relationships. I believe meaningful relationships, at home, school or work, are the key to living a healthier and happier life. My clients include students, individuals, couples and families. I help people with emotional issues, ADHD, anxiety, and other disabilities to feel centered, focused and empowered. My clients develop meaningful insight and awareness that leads to academic success, professional growth and healthy relationships. My approach is down to earth, engaging and personalized to what you need and want. My goal is to strengthen relationships through better support and communication.
I have a decade of career guidance experience and advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy.
Hi. I help with conflict in relationships. I believe meaningful relationships, at home, school or work, are the key to living a healthier and happier life. My clients include students, individuals, couples and families. I help people with emotional issues, ADHD, anxiety, and other disabilities to feel centered, focused and empowered. My clients develop meaningful insight and awareness that leads to academic success, professional growth and healthy relationships. My approach is down to earth, engaging and personalized to what you need and want. My goal is to strengthen relationships through better support and communication.
(716) 706-4626 View (716) 706-4626
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Elizabeth Ericksen
Pre-Licensed Professional, MAMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I use evidence-based techniques like Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) and narrative therapy to address communication issues, conflict resolution, and personal growth.
I assist individuals & couples experiencing life transitions. Whether you're engaged, navigating relationship challenges, or adjusting to changes like career shifts or parenthood, I will help you build stronger connections & feel more confident during these important moments in your life.
I use evidence-based techniques like Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) and narrative therapy to address communication issues, conflict resolution, and personal growth.
I assist individuals & couples experiencing life transitions. Whether you're engaged, navigating relationship challenges, or adjusting to changes like career shifts or parenthood, I will help you build stronger connections & feel more confident during these important moments in your life.
(716) 455-2084 View (716) 455-2084
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Amie Martinez
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC, ADHD-, CCSP
Verified Verified
Kenmore, NY 14217
Waitlist for new clients
I am trained in motivational interviewing (MI), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Emotional Freedom Technique ( EFT/tapping), and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR).
In life’s journey, we are all met with obstacles to overcome. Sometimes they are small ant hills that we can step over, sometimes they are small hills that we struggle to get over, and sometimes they can feel like insurmountable mountains. For each of us, our hills and mountains (and how they feel) might be different. Sometimes those ant hills can feel like a mountain as well. It may feel like you do not have the tools to get over those obstacles safely and securely. If you are ready to get those tools, then this may be the next step on your journey to healing.
I am trained in motivational interviewing (MI), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Emotional Freedom Technique ( EFT/tapping), and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR).
In life’s journey, we are all met with obstacles to overcome. Sometimes they are small ant hills that we can step over, sometimes they are small hills that we struggle to get over, and sometimes they can feel like insurmountable mountains. For each of us, our hills and mountains (and how they feel) might be different. Sometimes those ant hills can feel like a mountain as well. It may feel like you do not have the tools to get over those obstacles safely and securely. If you are ready to get those tools, then this may be the next step on your journey to healing.
(716) 592-6670 View (716) 592-6670
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Claire Johnson
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I am licensed in both NY and FL and hold additional training in AEDP and EFT for couples
Welcome! I know the search for a therapist can be daunting, but it is a sign of hopefulness that you are here today and ready for change! Often clients come in feeling stuck in a pattern that's no longer serving them—or maybe struggling in their careers or relationships. Imagine if you could work through some of your past experiences that may be hindering you. You can start to feel lighter, and more connected to yourself and the ones you love. Whatever is bringing you in, we will work together to build upon your strengths and work towards your goals.
I am licensed in both NY and FL and hold additional training in AEDP and EFT for couples
Welcome! I know the search for a therapist can be daunting, but it is a sign of hopefulness that you are here today and ready for change! Often clients come in feeling stuck in a pattern that's no longer serving them—or maybe struggling in their careers or relationships. Imagine if you could work through some of your past experiences that may be hindering you. You can start to feel lighter, and more connected to yourself and the ones you love. Whatever is bringing you in, we will work together to build upon your strengths and work towards your goals.
(929) 543-5844 View (929) 543-5844
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Lauren Ryan
MHC-P
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kenmore, NY 14217
I blend proven tools like CBT, DBT, EFT, and Exposure Therapy with a down-to-earth, supportive vibe.
Currently accepting new clients for in-person and virtual appointments! Life isn’t always easy—and if you're feeling stuck, anxious, overwhelmed, or disconnected, you're not alone. I help kids, teens, adults, and couples move through life’s challenges with clarity and confidence. Whether you're navigating big emotions, tough relationships, or past trauma, I’ll meet you with kindness and zero judgment. Together, we’ll figure out what matters most to you and create a path toward healing, growth, and real change.
I blend proven tools like CBT, DBT, EFT, and Exposure Therapy with a down-to-earth, supportive vibe.
Currently accepting new clients for in-person and virtual appointments! Life isn’t always easy—and if you're feeling stuck, anxious, overwhelmed, or disconnected, you're not alone. I help kids, teens, adults, and couples move through life’s challenges with clarity and confidence. Whether you're navigating big emotions, tough relationships, or past trauma, I’ll meet you with kindness and zero judgment. Together, we’ll figure out what matters most to you and create a path toward healing, growth, and real change.
(716) 209-3695 View (716) 209-3695
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Rosa Guillen Gonzalez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I used emotionally focused therapy for couples.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I have dedicated my career to supporting individuals through some of the most challenging and transformative moments of their lives.I believe that therapy is a collaborative process where both the therapist and the client work together to achieve the client's goals. My approach is rooted in the belief that every individual has the capacity to grow, heal, and transform.
I used emotionally focused therapy for couples.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I have dedicated my career to supporting individuals through some of the most challenging and transformative moments of their lives.I believe that therapy is a collaborative process where both the therapist and the client work together to achieve the client's goals. My approach is rooted in the belief that every individual has the capacity to grow, heal, and transform.
(929) 930-3877 View (929) 930-3877
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Nicole Cali
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Are you struggling with overwhelming emotions, relationship difficulties, or low self-esteem? Maybe you feel like you have a hard time getting out of your own head or feel “stuck” in your negative thoughts. As a licensed therapist with over 8 years of experience, I specialize in helping individuals, both adults and adolescents, manage mood disorders, navigate interpersonal challenges, and build self-esteem. Therapy with me is empowering, nonjudgmental, and evidence-based. Therapy is a collaborative process in which we can work together to see what works for you, in my opinion, there is no "one shoe fits all" approach.
Are you struggling with overwhelming emotions, relationship difficulties, or low self-esteem? Maybe you feel like you have a hard time getting out of your own head or feel “stuck” in your negative thoughts. As a licensed therapist with over 8 years of experience, I specialize in helping individuals, both adults and adolescents, manage mood disorders, navigate interpersonal challenges, and build self-esteem. Therapy with me is empowering, nonjudgmental, and evidence-based. Therapy is a collaborative process in which we can work together to see what works for you, in my opinion, there is no "one shoe fits all" approach.
(347) 344-6842 View (347) 344-6842
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Kate Keating Maleski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Amherst, NY 14228
Do you ever feel alone or that you are the only one to feel this way? There is no reason for you to suffer. Everyone experiences troubles in their life and I want to help you! My passion is in understanding where you are today and guiding you to where you want to be next. You may be angry, sad, confused, indifferent, or just "numb." You may even believe that you will never feel safe and happy again. But you can and you will. Whatever you bring to me we can work together to find the right solution for you.
Do you ever feel alone or that you are the only one to feel this way? There is no reason for you to suffer. Everyone experiences troubles in their life and I want to help you! My passion is in understanding where you are today and guiding you to where you want to be next. You may be angry, sad, confused, indifferent, or just "numb." You may even believe that you will never feel safe and happy again. But you can and you will. Whatever you bring to me we can work together to find the right solution for you.
(716) 800-4354 View (716) 800-4354
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Dr. Kelly Yu
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Online Only
I specialize in trauma, stress, depression, anxiety, and couples therapy with partners who identify within the BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ community. Taking into account the full context of your personal experiences and multdimentional identity, we will navigate the impact of societal stress and discover new ways for you to feel your feelings, be fully you, heal from past wounds, and to thrive - even in the face of complex and challenging societal developments. I work to provide a holistic approach that will help each of my clients achieve their personal goals.
I specialize in trauma, stress, depression, anxiety, and couples therapy with partners who identify within the BIPOC and LGBTQIA+ community. Taking into account the full context of your personal experiences and multdimentional identity, we will navigate the impact of societal stress and discover new ways for you to feel your feelings, be fully you, heal from past wounds, and to thrive - even in the face of complex and challenging societal developments. I work to provide a holistic approach that will help each of my clients achieve their personal goals.
(929) 930-3500 View (929) 930-3500
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John Catalino
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Amherst, NY 14226
Feeling overwhelmed and feel your thoughts and moods run your life? And do you feel this prevents you from living life to its fullest? I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (R), and have been a therapist since 2008. I can begin therapy within 1 week of your initial call! Often through sharing our thoughts and struggles with a skilled, empathetic professional, hope can be restored. Also, by learning a few key thinking strategies and other simple mental techniques, together we can reduce and eliminate the feelings of being powerless over how our minds automatically can work against us. NOTE: Couples sessions are cash only - $150.
Feeling overwhelmed and feel your thoughts and moods run your life? And do you feel this prevents you from living life to its fullest? I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (R), and have been a therapist since 2008. I can begin therapy within 1 week of your initial call! Often through sharing our thoughts and struggles with a skilled, empathetic professional, hope can be restored. Also, by learning a few key thinking strategies and other simple mental techniques, together we can reduce and eliminate the feelings of being powerless over how our minds automatically can work against us. NOTE: Couples sessions are cash only - $150.
(716) 221-8728 View (716) 221-8728
Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.