Sex Therapy in Shirley, NY

Life is a series of transitions. We often need help in moving from a place of discomfort to a place of calmness, safety, and satisfaction. The process of psychotherapy can help you get to that better place. I work with individuals, couples, and families with a focus on achieving self-understanding for the purpose of changing situations which are stressful and unpleasant. My practice is all inclusive, treating those seemingly well adjusted yet with nagging underlying dissatisfactions to those experiencing extreme distress, alienation, and shame.

I have nearly 15 years of experience treating individuals (children and adults), couples, families, and groups. My treatment approach is rooted in reducing emotional distress, restoring life balance, improving self-awareness and helping to create more meaningful relationships in your life. I will provide you tools to help reduce and reframe unhealthy and potentially damaging thoughts, resulting in improved comfort with yourself and within your relationships. We may develop a conflict resolution plan to reduce relationship distress and to learn to use your bodily cues as a tool in understanding your own habitual responses.

Let’s walk through the beach, the woods. Take a sip of tea with fresh mint, and enter a world of imagination, creativity, become one with the river, no judgment, safety, healing, serenity, grounding, love, solace, and always meeting you where you’re at. I take a holistic approach and focus on the mind body connection. I believe guided imagery meditation, motivational interviewing, dbt, creativity, psychodynamic, trauma informed care, emdr, and person centered approaches are ideal. I prefer to assist anyone who has felt demoralized or ostracized because of who they are. I believe we can impact the world together one smile at a time.

We are a team of licensed clinical Psychotherapists and Mental Health Counselors. We provide individual psychotherapy, couples, family, and group counseling. Our goal is to provide the most effective success for all clients. We use a client-centered, cognitive behavior approach, in concert with a wide range of treatment modalities. This provides each client with a supportive environment for the exploration of feelings and self-awareness. In doing so, they are able to identify their strengths and bolster their defenses when facing a variety of challenges.

I work from a systemic perspective, so I believe that our relationships with those around us affect us greatly. I work with individuals, couples and families using various different techniques to help break cycles of pain and trauma. I have experience working with clients presenting with a variety of different challenges, such as: anxiety, depression, domestic violence, sexual assault, family life cycle issues and more. A special interest of mine is working with immigrants, people of color, and marginalized populations. As an Arabic-speaking therapist, I have successfully worked with many Arab-American families as well.

Having a deeper understanding and skill set through my 10+ years of experience, professional training and personal life, I am able to help you overcome various obstacles that have been impacting your life. I specialize in working with individuals dealing with anxiety, depression and addiction. I utilize many effective evidence-based practices such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Motivational Interviewing (MI) and Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR). I strongly believe that no two people are identical and customize each treatment plan uniquely with each individual, Step By Step!

Kyle is the Founder and President of Collaborative, a multidisciplinary clinical community focused on establishing effective, evidence-based treatment founded on an adaptive mentalization-based treatment model. He holds advanced training in mentalization-based and adaptive mentalization-based integrative treatment through the Anna Freud Centre for Children and Families. He specializes in complex attachment and identity-related disorders such as borderline, avoidant, antisocial, dependent, and obsessive-compulsive personalities, along with gender-diverse individuals.

*Open-minded, non-judgmental treatment is at the core of my practice*. As a solution- focused psychotherapist, my goal is to help you to uncover the obstacles that are preventing you from living a life of happiness and fulfillment. By applying complementary therapy approaches we will work together to address non-beneficial behavioral and thought patterns that are holding you back. Whether your concerns apply to personal issues, relationship concerns, family troubles, employment/school difficulties, or social woes we will collaborate to customize a treatment plan that will best help you reach your individual goals. Support animal assessments also offered*.

Our sessions will be a safe place to release your anxieties, stress and depression. Connecting with your therapist is the key to success. I take an active role in reaching therapeutic goals that move you forward in life-changing ways. Talking with an experienced, caring, and non-judgemental listener helps my clients heal, change and make a difference in their lives. Individuals and couples uncover strategies to recognize and change self-defeating thoughts and behaviors that result in negativity.

A highly intelligent, sensitive and responsive psychotherapist, Julia Pema will help you decipher the meaning of life and being, figure out how to realize your dreams, overcome challenges, and heal your wounds, and will sit with you in moments of despair and indescribable grief. Whether you want to grow better and deeper or survive and just function, she will uphold your safe space.

I believe we long to be ourselves in a society that socializes us to feel and internalize inadequacy. We often find ourselves recreating patterns as a means to cope. Perhaps you have done some self-reflection and are seeking a deeper understanding or have not yet had the opportunity to explore and bring these patterns into awareness at all. In joining with you wherever you may be, I aim to help you strengthen your emotional awareness and develop a greater sense of introspection. I work with adolescents, adults, and couples around various interrelated concerns including anxiety, depression, trauma, self-worth, sexuality ,

I work with adults experiencing a range of issues including depression, anxiety, trauma, OCD, and issues related to attachment, as well as those seeking to explore their sexuality , gender identity, and relationship structures. I am especially dedicated to creating a safe and affirming space for members of the poly/CNM, kink, and sex worker communities, and I am an aspiring ally to the LGBTQ+ community. I have had specialized training in working with survivors of various forms of violence, including IPV and SA. I also see couples and those in other intimate relationship configurations.

Sometimes the bravest and most important thing you can do is just show up and ask for help. Individual and couple/partner(s) therapy can provide a safe and supportive space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, and relationships, and develop the skills and insights you need to lead a more fulfilling life. I have extensive experience working with clients facing a variety of challenges related to relationships, sex /intimacy, personal growth, self-esteem, life changes, and stress management. I received my training at New York University, and I have a passion for helping clients achieve happiness and connectedness in their lives.

People look for a therapist when they are experiencing anxiety,difficulties in relationships, confusion around issues related to sexuality and/or identity. Others feel depressed,struggle with addiction, or have a sense that something is not right in their lives. Often people are trying to cope with old hurts or injuries, and find that their old ways of coping with them are no longer successful,or that these strategies are the very thing that brings them pain or frustration.Often these symptoms and problems are connected with early painful experiences,or from ideas and beliefs which have been formed in rigid, or dysfunctional family systems.