Sex Therapists in New York, NY
Paul Nelson Sex Therapist For Men
Counselor, LMHC, MS, Therapy
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10017
I specialize in areas of men's issues, male sexual function, and sexuality.
I help men navigate all areas around sex such as anxiety about sex, sexual function, orientation, curiosity, shame, fetishes, kinks, attractions, and taboos. Some men might be confused about pornography use, masturbation, and addiction. I am uniquely qualified to help men tackle their sexual issues in a safe, caring, and confidential setting.
I specialize in areas of men's issues, male sexual function, and sexuality.
I help men navigate all areas around sex such as anxiety about sex, sexual function, orientation, curiosity, shame, fetishes, kinks, attractions, and taboos. Some men might be confused about pornography use, masturbation, and addiction. I am uniquely qualified to help men tackle their sexual issues in a safe, caring, and confidential setting.
James Blechman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, LMFT, LP, CGP
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10003
Relationship expert/infidelity issues. AASECT certified sex therapist, licensed Marriage and Family therapist, licensed psychoanalyst, licensed clinical psychiatric social worker. I've been in practice for over 25 years and during that time I've been able to treat a wide range of emotional problems in individuals, couples, adolescents, and families. Discovering the underlying causes of symptoms is the best way to produce a lasting cure. Through our work together you will attain a resolution or reduction of symptoms, gain a deeper self understanding and acceptance, and function authentically at your best in all aspects of your life.
Relationship expert/infidelity issues. AASECT certified sex therapist, licensed Marriage and Family therapist, licensed psychoanalyst, licensed clinical psychiatric social worker. I've been in practice for over 25 years and during that time I've been able to treat a wide range of emotional problems in individuals, couples, adolescents, and families. Discovering the underlying causes of symptoms is the best way to produce a lasting cure. Through our work together you will attain a resolution or reduction of symptoms, gain a deeper self understanding and acceptance, and function authentically at your best in all aspects of your life.
Melissa Thoen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST, SIT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
New York, NY 10010
I'm a couples therapist who specializes in supporting people navigate challenging conversations regarding sex/ intimacy.
My areas of expertise include working with individuals and couples who are struggling with breakdowns in communication, low desire, arousal, orgasm, and painful intercourse, as well as helping LGTBQ people explore gender identity and sexual orientation. I also have experience in supporting couples exploring non-monogamy.
I'm a couples therapist who specializes in supporting people navigate challenging conversations regarding sex/ intimacy.
My areas of expertise include working with individuals and couples who are struggling with breakdowns in communication, low desire, arousal, orgasm, and painful intercourse, as well as helping LGTBQ people explore gender identity and sexual orientation. I also have experience in supporting couples exploring non-monogamy.
Lisa Hochberger- Brown
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, MEd, CST, SIFI
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001
AASECT certified sex therapist.
I offer affirming therapy that is grounded in my experience as a sexologist. While individuals vary in their goals of therapy, it is common for people to hit road blocks while navigating their lives. Given our techno-driven world, it is often difficult for individuals to find the space and time to work on themselves. I help my clients discover unhealthy coping mechanisms that may be filling emotional voids and contributing to dissatisfaction in various aspects of their lives. On their path to self-discovery, my clients gain control over their mind and body so they can live life authentically.
AASECT certified sex therapist.
I offer affirming therapy that is grounded in my experience as a sexologist. While individuals vary in their goals of therapy, it is common for people to hit road blocks while navigating their lives. Given our techno-driven world, it is often difficult for individuals to find the space and time to work on themselves. I help my clients discover unhealthy coping mechanisms that may be filling emotional voids and contributing to dissatisfaction in various aspects of their lives. On their path to self-discovery, my clients gain control over their mind and body so they can live life authentically.
The last thing we want to struggle with is the very thing that helps us endure the challenges of life: relationships, sex, & our bodies.
Sex therapy helps heal the wounds of sexualization - the negative feelings & experiences associated with sex. It addresses sexual dysfunction, "coming out," fantasy, gender identity, negotiating relationships, sexual identity & sexual orientation in a safe and validating environment.
The last thing we want to struggle with is the very thing that helps us endure the challenges of life: relationships, sex, & our bodies.
Sex therapy helps heal the wounds of sexualization - the negative feelings & experiences associated with sex. It addresses sexual dysfunction, "coming out," fantasy, gender identity, negotiating relationships, sexual identity & sexual orientation in a safe and validating environment.
I also specialize in sex and marital therapy, having spent over 20 years at one of the leading Human Sexuality Programs in the country.
I really enjoy working with people who want to be helped with painful feelings and experiences that have interfered with their sense of well being. All of us are limited by upsettingly negative emotions that make it harder to accomplish things that would make our lives richer, more comfortable and secure. I base my work on the principles of Mindfulnes Based Cognitive Behavior Therapy. This approach has been shown to be very successful helping anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress, phobias and many other individual and relationship issues. Like most experienced therapists, I also integrate ideas from other approaches whenever appropriate.
I also specialize in sex and marital therapy, having spent over 20 years at one of the leading Human Sexuality Programs in the country.
I really enjoy working with people who want to be helped with painful feelings and experiences that have interfered with their sense of well being. All of us are limited by upsettingly negative emotions that make it harder to accomplish things that would make our lives richer, more comfortable and secure. I base my work on the principles of Mindfulnes Based Cognitive Behavior Therapy. This approach has been shown to be very successful helping anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress, phobias and many other individual and relationship issues. Like most experienced therapists, I also integrate ideas from other approaches whenever appropriate.
I focus clinically on perinatal mental health, anxiety, relationships, and sex & intimacy.
I am a Perinatal Mental Health Certified clinician trained by Postpartum Support International, with specific training around the intersection between lactation and mental health. I also hold a certification as a Sex Therapy Informed Professional.
I focus clinically on perinatal mental health, anxiety, relationships, and sex & intimacy.
I am a Perinatal Mental Health Certified clinician trained by Postpartum Support International, with specific training around the intersection between lactation and mental health. I also hold a certification as a Sex Therapy Informed Professional.
Amber Lust
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, RSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
New York, NY 10003
My practice is affirming of all identities including, but not limited to, queer, kink, sex work, and polyamory.
I’m offering in person and virtual sessions to best suit your needs!
My practice is affirming of all identities including, but not limited to, queer, kink, sex work, and polyamory.
I’m offering in person and virtual sessions to best suit your needs!
Relationships and sex are not easy to talk about, so I create a safe, non-judgmental place for these rich and intimate conversations.
I am a psychodynamically trained psychotherapist and a University of Michigan-trained sex therapist with additional training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT). I have trained directly with Sue Johnson (EFT) and Drs Julie and John Gottman (Gottman Couples Therapy) and I am in ongoing training with Peggy Kleinplatz (Optimal Sexual Experiences).
Relationships and sex are not easy to talk about, so I create a safe, non-judgmental place for these rich and intimate conversations.
I am a psychodynamically trained psychotherapist and a University of Michigan-trained sex therapist with additional training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT). I have trained directly with Sue Johnson (EFT) and Drs Julie and John Gottman (Gottman Couples Therapy) and I am in ongoing training with Peggy Kleinplatz (Optimal Sexual Experiences).
Miracle Jade Coleman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, MPH, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I would love to help you have better sex with yourself, your partner(s), and/or complete strangers.
My focus is adults who are struggling with a sexual issue. I want to help people of all kinds; people of all genders, people of all races, people of all sexual orientations (heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual and asexual), people in all kinds of relationships (polyamorous, monogamous) and people with varied ability-levels. I consider myself to be honest, knowledgeable, wise and confident. Additionally, I identify as a deaf Black woman. It should be noted that I lost my hearing as an adult and I wear an implant, thus my communication skills are excellent, and I can hear quite well.
I would love to help you have better sex with yourself, your partner(s), and/or complete strangers.
My focus is adults who are struggling with a sexual issue. I want to help people of all kinds; people of all genders, people of all races, people of all sexual orientations (heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual and asexual), people in all kinds of relationships (polyamorous, monogamous) and people with varied ability-levels. I consider myself to be honest, knowledgeable, wise and confident. Additionally, I identify as a deaf Black woman. It should be noted that I lost my hearing as an adult and I wear an implant, thus my communication skills are excellent, and I can hear quite well.
As a sex, love, and relationship therapist, I cater to a diverse range of clients seeking guidance and support in their intimate lives.
I incorporate evidence-based methodologies, drawing from both contemporary psychological insights and ancient wisdom traditions. Through a blend of cognitive techniques, mindfulness practices, and tailored exercises, I aim to facilitate profound personal growth and transformative shifts in clients' relationships and self-perception.
As a sex, love, and relationship therapist, I cater to a diverse range of clients seeking guidance and support in their intimate lives.
I incorporate evidence-based methodologies, drawing from both contemporary psychological insights and ancient wisdom traditions. Through a blend of cognitive techniques, mindfulness practices, and tailored exercises, I aim to facilitate profound personal growth and transformative shifts in clients' relationships and self-perception.
Meet Our Sex Therapy
For those struggling with relationship issues, I integrate various sex-positive and kink-friendly techniques to help individuals/couples achieve their goals.
As a clinical social worker, I help individuals and couples who are struggling with a wide range of emotional and interpersonal problems, such as but not limited to depression, anxiety, grief, family stressors and relationship, commitment, and sexual issues. My goal is to create a safe, non-judgmental, and empowering space for people to explore the depths of their emotions, thoughts, feelings, and behaviors so that they may identify patterns and potential barriers that could inhibit their personal growth and emotional development.
For those struggling with relationship issues, I integrate various sex-positive and kink-friendly techniques to help individuals/couples achieve their goals.
As a clinical social worker, I help individuals and couples who are struggling with a wide range of emotional and interpersonal problems, such as but not limited to depression, anxiety, grief, family stressors and relationship, commitment, and sexual issues. My goal is to create a safe, non-judgmental, and empowering space for people to explore the depths of their emotions, thoughts, feelings, and behaviors so that they may identify patterns and potential barriers that could inhibit their personal growth and emotional development.
I am a Psychotherapist, a AASECT certified sex therapist, and CNS located in midtown Manhattan.
I offer a rich training background, a result-oriented focus, and a vibrant dialogue-centered approach. Many of my patients have benefitted from my training in nursing, cognitive-behavioral therapy, neuro-linguistic programming, and mindfulness. I am gratified that many of my patients have posted heartfelt and positive comments about their experiences with my practice.
I am a Psychotherapist, a AASECT certified sex therapist, and CNS located in midtown Manhattan.
I offer a rich training background, a result-oriented focus, and a vibrant dialogue-centered approach. Many of my patients have benefitted from my training in nursing, cognitive-behavioral therapy, neuro-linguistic programming, and mindfulness. I am gratified that many of my patients have posted heartfelt and positive comments about their experiences with my practice.
I am a clinical social worker with advanced post graduate training in Sex Therapy.
I work with a diverse range of clients and help identify their strengths and challenges in a safe environment. As we explore the underlying causes of key difficulties, we are able to move past beliefs that can be debilitating and adopt new outlooks and behaviors that are healthy and empowering.
I am a clinical social worker with advanced post graduate training in Sex Therapy.
I work with a diverse range of clients and help identify their strengths and challenges in a safe environment. As we explore the underlying causes of key difficulties, we are able to move past beliefs that can be debilitating and adopt new outlooks and behaviors that are healthy and empowering.
In addition to my more general work, I specialize in providing sex therapy to men and couples who may be experiencing sexual disfunction or dissatisfaction.
Therapy is about both addressing specific issues which may be getting in our way as well as cultivating a healthy curiosity about ourselves, our patterns, and our experiences. Life is wrought with transitions which can catch us off-guard, and it is common to feel unsure as to whether we are on the right path. Thankfully, these can be successfully navigated collaboratively and discreetly through a relationship with a trusted professional. Gaining an understanding of ourselves through identifying our blind spots is the first step in establishing a life that is both purposeful and fulfilling.
In addition to my more general work, I specialize in providing sex therapy to men and couples who may be experiencing sexual disfunction or dissatisfaction.
Therapy is about both addressing specific issues which may be getting in our way as well as cultivating a healthy curiosity about ourselves, our patterns, and our experiences. Life is wrought with transitions which can catch us off-guard, and it is common to feel unsure as to whether we are on the right path. Thankfully, these can be successfully navigated collaboratively and discreetly through a relationship with a trusted professional. Gaining an understanding of ourselves through identifying our blind spots is the first step in establishing a life that is both purposeful and fulfilling.
Cognitive Behavioral Psychology in the City
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10174
My fascination with relationships led me to study, from the lens of sex, the complicated and delicate dynamics that occur between and within people.
My aim is to get to know you, the origins of your concerns as well as their current impact on your life. I'd like to study your motivations for change and collaborate on a workable treatment plan. I specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, plus have intensive training in DBT, Mindfulness and Existential Therapy.
My fascination with relationships led me to study, from the lens of sex, the complicated and delicate dynamics that occur between and within people.
My aim is to get to know you, the origins of your concerns as well as their current impact on your life. I'd like to study your motivations for change and collaborate on a workable treatment plan. I specialize in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, plus have intensive training in DBT, Mindfulness and Existential Therapy.
Abby Cochran | Trauma, Chronic Pain, Sexuality
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10011
You might be reading this because you no longer want to be caught in the trap of old patterns that no longer serve you. Whether that’s seeking approval from others or distracting yourself with mindless scrolling to avoid what's bothering you, we sometimes arrive at a moment when hiding isn’t worth it anymore. Perhaps you have reached your capacity, exhausted from pretending everything is fine while feeling like something’s missing inside. Whether it’s a moment of transition or facing something from your past— you don’t have to go through it alone.
You might be reading this because you no longer want to be caught in the trap of old patterns that no longer serve you. Whether that’s seeking approval from others or distracting yourself with mindless scrolling to avoid what's bothering you, we sometimes arrive at a moment when hiding isn’t worth it anymore. Perhaps you have reached your capacity, exhausted from pretending everything is fine while feeling like something’s missing inside. Whether it’s a moment of transition or facing something from your past— you don’t have to go through it alone.
Having issues related to sex?.
I can assist with challenges related to sex education or miseducation, improving communication between partners, addressing hypersexual disorders, and healing from sexual trauma. I'm also experienced in helping individuals navigate their gender identity or sexual orientation, manage polyamory or multi-partner relationships, and practice ethical nonmonogamy.
Having issues related to sex?.
I can assist with challenges related to sex education or miseducation, improving communication between partners, addressing hypersexual disorders, and healing from sexual trauma. I'm also experienced in helping individuals navigate their gender identity or sexual orientation, manage polyamory or multi-partner relationships, and practice ethical nonmonogamy.
Russell Saunders
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001
In addition, I am an AASECT-certified sex therapist.
People often tell me they want a therapist who will both listen AND have something to say. I believe that emotional safety and good two-way communication must be established in order for therapy to be successful.
In addition, I am an AASECT-certified sex therapist.
People often tell me they want a therapist who will both listen AND have something to say. I believe that emotional safety and good two-way communication must be established in order for therapy to be successful.
I have extensive, advanced training and experience in trauma recovery, sex therapy, and transgender affirmative care.
I work well with individuals, couples+, and families who understand and appreciate therapy as a conversation. I connect with clients who march to the beat of their own drum- whether they always like it or not. And I find success with people who want to grow, who may suspect or recognize their tools for handling life aren’t working as well as they used to.
I specialize in working with the queer community and those who, regardless of identity, seek support outside of a heteronormative structure. My goal is to empower clients from all walks of life.
I have extensive, advanced training and experience in trauma recovery, sex therapy, and transgender affirmative care.
I work well with individuals, couples+, and families who understand and appreciate therapy as a conversation. I connect with clients who march to the beat of their own drum- whether they always like it or not. And I find success with people who want to grow, who may suspect or recognize their tools for handling life aren’t working as well as they used to.
I specialize in working with the queer community and those who, regardless of identity, seek support outside of a heteronormative structure. My goal is to empower clients from all walks of life.
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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.