Schema Therapy in New York, NY

As a relatable clinical social worker, advocate, and human being, I believe people heal most effectively when treated as a whole person and not as their diagnosis. I'm a psychotherapist with a decade of experience using a holistic, humanistic and trauma-informed lens. My areas of focus span anxiety, men's mental health, stress management for professionals, sex and intimacy, and self-esteem. Characterized by humor, sass, curiosity, and vivacity, my therapeutic style is directive yet patient, honest, and kind.
As a relatable clinical social worker, advocate, and human being, I believe people heal most effectively when treated as a whole person and not as their diagnosis. I'm a psychotherapist with a decade of experience using a holistic, humanistic and trauma-informed lens. My areas of focus span anxiety, men's mental health, stress management for professionals, sex and intimacy, and self-esteem. Characterized by humor, sass, curiosity, and vivacity, my therapeutic style is directive yet patient, honest, and kind.

I am a compassionate and insightful Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in helping couples deepen their emotional intimacy, resolve long-standing conflicts, and strengthen their connection. My approach integrates systemic, attachment-based, and polyvagal theories with experiential and somatic methods, including mindfulness and tantric practices. This combination allows me to guide couples toward a deeper, embodied emotional experience, facilitating healing at the root of relational and personal struggles.
I am particularly skilled in identifying and addressing underlying family-of-origin dynamics that impact couples’
I am a compassionate and insightful Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in helping couples deepen their emotional intimacy, resolve long-standing conflicts, and strengthen their connection. My approach integrates systemic, attachment-based, and polyvagal theories with experiential and somatic methods, including mindfulness and tantric practices. This combination allows me to guide couples toward a deeper, embodied emotional experience, facilitating healing at the root of relational and personal struggles.
I am particularly skilled in identifying and addressing underlying family-of-origin dynamics that impact couples’

My expertise includes: Founder and executive therapy, corporate burn out, dating & relationship challenges, family and cultural stress, and chronic indecision anxiety. I work with you to deepen the understanding of the psychology that maintains your chronic frustrations and relationship issues.
For NY residents wanting to work with me in person, my office is based in Manhattan (Flatiron). I can provide teletherapy throughout New York and California.
My expertise includes: Founder and executive therapy, corporate burn out, dating & relationship challenges, family and cultural stress, and chronic indecision anxiety. I work with you to deepen the understanding of the psychology that maintains your chronic frustrations and relationship issues.
For NY residents wanting to work with me in person, my office is based in Manhattan (Flatiron). I can provide teletherapy throughout New York and California.

Hello, my name is Joseph Ramsey and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). I have 23 years of experience in the field and 16 of those 23 years has been spent providing counseling services to families, individuals, and couples. My approach is collaborative and I firmly believe in honesty and transparency. My focus areas are anxiety, depression, problems related to anxiety and depression (i.e. obsessive compulsive disorder) and trauma. I am most comfortable treating anxiety, depression, obsessive compulsive disorders, bipolar I and II, mood disorders, grief, complex trauma, and anger issues.
Hello, my name is Joseph Ramsey and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). I have 23 years of experience in the field and 16 of those 23 years has been spent providing counseling services to families, individuals, and couples. My approach is collaborative and I firmly believe in honesty and transparency. My focus areas are anxiety, depression, problems related to anxiety and depression (i.e. obsessive compulsive disorder) and trauma. I am most comfortable treating anxiety, depression, obsessive compulsive disorders, bipolar I and II, mood disorders, grief, complex trauma, and anger issues.

I specialize in working with adults with ADHD, anxiety, depression and complex trauma. Let's explore together how to improve the way you feel about yourself and your relationships with others.
I specialize in working with adults with ADHD, anxiety, depression and complex trauma. Let's explore together how to improve the way you feel about yourself and your relationships with others.

Recognizing that taking the first steps towards seeking help can be frightening, I bring a warm and compassionate presence to help create a safe and non-judgmental space for clients to feel comfortable sharing their concerns. I use a versatile and relational style to ensure clients feel heard, seen and understood. In my therapeutic work, I believe it is important to consider how political influences, societal narratives, intergenerational and genetic predispositions are interwoven to shape one’s emotional being.
Recognizing that taking the first steps towards seeking help can be frightening, I bring a warm and compassionate presence to help create a safe and non-judgmental space for clients to feel comfortable sharing their concerns. I use a versatile and relational style to ensure clients feel heard, seen and understood. In my therapeutic work, I believe it is important to consider how political influences, societal narratives, intergenerational and genetic predispositions are interwoven to shape one’s emotional being.

I support individuals and relationships (monogamous or poly) who seek a deeper understanding of their sexuality, identity, and purpose. Folks often come to me while working through intimacy challenges, processing trauma, or exploring LGBTQIA+ concerns. Some are struggling with sexual functioning, desire discrepancies, anxiety, or questions about gender and orientation. Through sex therapy alongside existential and emotionally focused approaches, I help build authentic relationships and meaningful connections while healing from past wounds that impact present lives.
I support individuals and relationships (monogamous or poly) who seek a deeper understanding of their sexuality, identity, and purpose. Folks often come to me while working through intimacy challenges, processing trauma, or exploring LGBTQIA+ concerns. Some are struggling with sexual functioning, desire discrepancies, anxiety, or questions about gender and orientation. Through sex therapy alongside existential and emotionally focused approaches, I help build authentic relationships and meaningful connections while healing from past wounds that impact present lives.

“I bring a deep curiosity to help you explore your whole self—physical, emotional, social, and spiritual — as you work toward a fuller and intersectional understanding of yourself and the relationships around you. We’ll craft a space to process your experiences, gain awareness of your thoughts, behaviors and emotions, and envision a more integrated, liberating life."
Before you’re connected with your therapist, our warm and skilled receptionist will reach out to confirm your insurance or out-of-pocket benefits. This helps us ensure a smooth and stress-free start to your care!
“I bring a deep curiosity to help you explore your whole self—physical, emotional, social, and spiritual — as you work toward a fuller and intersectional understanding of yourself and the relationships around you. We’ll craft a space to process your experiences, gain awareness of your thoughts, behaviors and emotions, and envision a more integrated, liberating life."
Before you’re connected with your therapist, our warm and skilled receptionist will reach out to confirm your insurance or out-of-pocket benefits. This helps us ensure a smooth and stress-free start to your care!

You want to seem composed and connected, but inside you feel overwhelmed, unseen, and unsure how to shift long-standing patterns. You’re introspective, and you care deeply about how you show up in your relationships. But you’re tired. You might feel stuck repeating the same painful dynamics, weighed down by past trauma or family roles, and unsure how to fully break free. You long for grounded connection—with yourself and with others—but it’s been hard to find. You’re not alone. I help individuals and couples move beyond insight into real transformation. Together, we’ll create the clarity you need to experience true change.
You want to seem composed and connected, but inside you feel overwhelmed, unseen, and unsure how to shift long-standing patterns. You’re introspective, and you care deeply about how you show up in your relationships. But you’re tired. You might feel stuck repeating the same painful dynamics, weighed down by past trauma or family roles, and unsure how to fully break free. You long for grounded connection—with yourself and with others—but it’s been hard to find. You’re not alone. I help individuals and couples move beyond insight into real transformation. Together, we’ll create the clarity you need to experience true change.

Do you feel like you’re running on fumes and lattes? Doom‑scrolling past midnight—it’s the only downtime you get? Is your brain buzzing with deadlines, group‑chat pings, and a nagging voice saying, “Do more—BE more?” On the outside, you’re the reliable overachiever who's there for everyone else and gets things done. But inside, it’s overwhelming—FOMO, and a constant reel of “not enough.” What if there's more to life than that? If your mind never pauses, even on vacation, and “no” feels impossible, maybe it’s time for a different story. If you've been "yessing" along, therapy may be the exhalation your nervous system is waiting for.
Do you feel like you’re running on fumes and lattes? Doom‑scrolling past midnight—it’s the only downtime you get? Is your brain buzzing with deadlines, group‑chat pings, and a nagging voice saying, “Do more—BE more?” On the outside, you’re the reliable overachiever who's there for everyone else and gets things done. But inside, it’s overwhelming—FOMO, and a constant reel of “not enough.” What if there's more to life than that? If your mind never pauses, even on vacation, and “no” feels impossible, maybe it’s time for a different story. If you've been "yessing" along, therapy may be the exhalation your nervous system is waiting for.

I am a first generation Iranian woman living in diaspora, which has given me thoughtful insight into the challenges of connecting to cultural identity; having come from an immigrant family has opened up my ability to connect with a broader demographic. As a writer and musician, I have a particular knowledge and understanding of other creatives, bringing a further empathetic perspective to our sessions. I am sex and body positive, and have an expansive view of sexuality, gender and relationships. My goal is to build a space where my clients can feel free to be totally themselves without fear of judgment or shame.
I am a first generation Iranian woman living in diaspora, which has given me thoughtful insight into the challenges of connecting to cultural identity; having come from an immigrant family has opened up my ability to connect with a broader demographic. As a writer and musician, I have a particular knowledge and understanding of other creatives, bringing a further empathetic perspective to our sessions. I am sex and body positive, and have an expansive view of sexuality, gender and relationships. My goal is to build a space where my clients can feel free to be totally themselves without fear of judgment or shame.

How many of us are comfortable in our skin? Were you told growing up to be tough, suck it up, get it done, & don't talk about your feelings? Do you feel stress & even sad at times because of not achieving goals or not meeting the standards of others? We rarely take the time to step back to reflect how hard "it" all is for us. You deserve the opportunity to release the pain. Imagine you have a choice. Consider your burden could be lighter. I am passionate about being side by side with you peeling back the stinky onion layers to life at your pace. The life you save is your own!
How many of us are comfortable in our skin? Were you told growing up to be tough, suck it up, get it done, & don't talk about your feelings? Do you feel stress & even sad at times because of not achieving goals or not meeting the standards of others? We rarely take the time to step back to reflect how hard "it" all is for us. You deserve the opportunity to release the pain. Imagine you have a choice. Consider your burden could be lighter. I am passionate about being side by side with you peeling back the stinky onion layers to life at your pace. The life you save is your own!

Have you ever felt unseen, even by yourself? Do you struggle to form genuine connections while battling that nagging feeling of being an imposter who never quite measures up? Maybe when you look in the mirror, you focus on every flaw, finding it hard to appreciate the reflection staring back at you. And when it comes to relationships, do you often feel stuck, misunderstood, or isolated? I understand how deeply these experiences can impact your self-worth and your ability to truly connect with others.
You don’t have to go through this alone. I am here to support you every step of the way.
Have you ever felt unseen, even by yourself? Do you struggle to form genuine connections while battling that nagging feeling of being an imposter who never quite measures up? Maybe when you look in the mirror, you focus on every flaw, finding it hard to appreciate the reflection staring back at you. And when it comes to relationships, do you often feel stuck, misunderstood, or isolated? I understand how deeply these experiences can impact your self-worth and your ability to truly connect with others.
You don’t have to go through this alone. I am here to support you every step of the way.

Addressing life's difficulties can be overwhelming, and looking for someone to talk to can be even more daunting. Taking the step to begin therapy is brave, and is one of the best ways to better understand yourself. As a therapist, my approach is empathetic, understanding, and non-judgemental. I aim to create a safe space with my clients where you can process your emotions comfortably and address any uncertainties, anxieties, and unwanted thoughts. Inside the safe space of therapy, we will work to address the things you want to- learning new coping strategies, meeting a goal, processing life changes, or discussing daily stressors.
Addressing life's difficulties can be overwhelming, and looking for someone to talk to can be even more daunting. Taking the step to begin therapy is brave, and is one of the best ways to better understand yourself. As a therapist, my approach is empathetic, understanding, and non-judgemental. I aim to create a safe space with my clients where you can process your emotions comfortably and address any uncertainties, anxieties, and unwanted thoughts. Inside the safe space of therapy, we will work to address the things you want to- learning new coping strategies, meeting a goal, processing life changes, or discussing daily stressors.

We have seasons in our lives that are filled with stress, anxiety, sadness, guilt, disappointment, grief, and even hopelessness. It can be overwhelming, getting stuck in a place where we cannot see a way forward, unable to change unwanted and repeated behaviors, where no one seems to understand or able to help, feeling frustrated, unmotivated, discouraged, alone, and even ashamed. Or you may be going through transitions, significant changes in work, family, relationships, and are understandably overwhelmed with uncertainty and feelings of loss. If this has been your experience, there is help to walk towards healing and renewal.
We have seasons in our lives that are filled with stress, anxiety, sadness, guilt, disappointment, grief, and even hopelessness. It can be overwhelming, getting stuck in a place where we cannot see a way forward, unable to change unwanted and repeated behaviors, where no one seems to understand or able to help, feeling frustrated, unmotivated, discouraged, alone, and even ashamed. Or you may be going through transitions, significant changes in work, family, relationships, and are understandably overwhelmed with uncertainty and feelings of loss. If this has been your experience, there is help to walk towards healing and renewal.

Feeling overwhelmed by the weight of grief and loss? It's understandable to feel lost in the midst of life's unpredictable challenges. In my practice, I offer a compassionate and understanding space where you can freely express your emotions. I'm here to help you navigate through the confusion, gently guiding you toward clarity by honoring your values and aspirations. Together, we'll explore coping strategies and techniques to help you manage grief in your daily life, finding moments of solace within the pain. Clients that I serve include adults navigating relationship conflicts, complex family dynamics, and loss.
Feeling overwhelmed by the weight of grief and loss? It's understandable to feel lost in the midst of life's unpredictable challenges. In my practice, I offer a compassionate and understanding space where you can freely express your emotions. I'm here to help you navigate through the confusion, gently guiding you toward clarity by honoring your values and aspirations. Together, we'll explore coping strategies and techniques to help you manage grief in your daily life, finding moments of solace within the pain. Clients that I serve include adults navigating relationship conflicts, complex family dynamics, and loss.

I am a NYC based psychotherapist who specializes in helping teens and adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, ADHD, complex trauma, attachment, sleep, identity, artistic/career blocks, and life transitions. I have extensive experience working with survivors of intimate partner violence and sexual assault, within LGBTQ+ and kink communities, and with neurodiverse clients. I adapt evidence-based therapy techniques for individual needs, including DBT mindfulness and distress tolerance skills, ACT, psychoanalysis, and arts therapies. I strive to create a compassionate environment rooted in trust, warmth, and partnership.
I am a NYC based psychotherapist who specializes in helping teens and adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, ADHD, complex trauma, attachment, sleep, identity, artistic/career blocks, and life transitions. I have extensive experience working with survivors of intimate partner violence and sexual assault, within LGBTQ+ and kink communities, and with neurodiverse clients. I adapt evidence-based therapy techniques for individual needs, including DBT mindfulness and distress tolerance skills, ACT, psychoanalysis, and arts therapies. I strive to create a compassionate environment rooted in trust, warmth, and partnership.

Seeking therapy doesn’t mean that there is “something wrong with you”. Perhaps you are looking for support in dealing with everyday stressors, are experiencing a major life crisis, seeking clarity in your life, looking to work through complex emotions or looking to address negative patterns in your life. Whatever your reason, you are taking a courageous first step and I hope to assist you in your journey.
Seeking therapy doesn’t mean that there is “something wrong with you”. Perhaps you are looking for support in dealing with everyday stressors, are experiencing a major life crisis, seeking clarity in your life, looking to work through complex emotions or looking to address negative patterns in your life. Whatever your reason, you are taking a courageous first step and I hope to assist you in your journey.

My ideal client is someone who feels overwhelmed by the weight of their emotions—whether it’s anxiety that won’t quiet down, grief that lingers longer than expected, or past trauma that still shapes the present. They might be an adolescent struggling to find their voice, a young adult navigating identity and relationships, or someone simply trying to feel whole again. They come to therapy because they want relief, understanding, and a path forward.
My ideal client is someone who feels overwhelmed by the weight of their emotions—whether it’s anxiety that won’t quiet down, grief that lingers longer than expected, or past trauma that still shapes the present. They might be an adolescent struggling to find their voice, a young adult navigating identity and relationships, or someone simply trying to feel whole again. They come to therapy because they want relief, understanding, and a path forward.

Feeling stuck and unable to resolve your emotional issues on your own? Together, we will work to achieve your goals and restore a sense of happiness and satisfaction with life, whatever that means for you. Our work together will help you clear the way for real healing, leading to deeper relationships, greater joy, and a stronger sense of self. Clients report feeling deeply accepted throughout our work while also knowing that I will be honest and encourage them to be courageous.
Feeling stuck and unable to resolve your emotional issues on your own? Together, we will work to achieve your goals and restore a sense of happiness and satisfaction with life, whatever that means for you. Our work together will help you clear the way for real healing, leading to deeper relationships, greater joy, and a stronger sense of self. Clients report feeling deeply accepted throughout our work while also knowing that I will be honest and encourage them to be courageous.
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Nearby Schema Therapy Searches for New York
- Astoria
- Bronx
- Brooklyn
- Flushing
- Forest Hills
- Great Neck
- Hastings on Hudson
- Jamaica
- Long Island City
- Ridgewood
- Staten Island
- Yonkers