Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists in New York, NY
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Jillian Biegel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Many of my clients are college aged or young adults exploring their sexuality, kinks, and
polyamory
.
Therapy is an ongoing collaboration that takes vulnerability. Your expertise on your experiences combined with my clinical knowledge creates a relationship where you have the space to intentionally explore yourself. Curiosity, compassion, and humor create a laid back atmosphere, where I learn about the interplay between your personal history and context within society. I work with clients facing trauma, substance abuse and misuse, relationship stress, domestic and sexual violence, as well as anxiety, depression, and life transitions.
New York, NY 10010
& Online

Mali Sicora
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I am LGBTQIA+ affirming and have worked with clients around sexuality,
polyamory
and kink.
I offer relationship therapy for couples, family members, and friends. I believe that problems occur not within people but between them. My style is warm and collaborative. I seek to help clients access their most congruent selves. By gathering insights about the relationship patterns that we inherited from our families of origin, we begin to understand how we can create something new. I aim to help you understand your cycles of interaction and thereby increase intimacy and connection.

Daniel Rich
Counselor, LMHC
Verified
Verified
I specialize in working with the LGBTQIA+ community, those with immigration-related concerns, and others who have been sidelined by systems of oppression. I have extensive experience with identity exploration, depression, anxiety, and trauma. My work is sex-positive, kink-affirming, and
polyamory
friendly. I also specialize in working with white people interested in examining their relationship to whiteness.

Kristy (Kris) LaRocca
Counselor, LMHC
Verified
6 Endorsed
Verified
6 Endorsed
I have extensive training and experience working with individuals of many various sexualities and gender expressions and with clients who practice nontraditional relationship styles (such as
polyamory
and consensual non-monogamy).
I strive to provide a therapeutic environment where clients feel not only safe and non-judged but also genuinely seen and heard. I believe that securing a trusting and sincere bond with my clients is of utmost importance before any real therapy can begin. I work collaboratively with clients to help them understand themselves more deeply and evoke meaning in their challenges so that they can live life more fully and authentically. Empowerment comes through connecting to your truth. I provide the support needed for clients to begin taking steps outside of their comfort zones and toward facilitating the changes that they wish to see.
Not accepting new clients

Neena Lall
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
Many people looking for therapy ask themselves, "Do I really need therapy?" I believe that everyone deserves therapy. You deserve a warm, welcoming, and non-judgmental space to express and explore yourself. I specialize in working with the LGBTQ community and am ethical non-monogamy/
polyamory
/open relationship affirming. Everyone has their own strengths and therapy can be a place to articulate these so you can use them more effectively and grow in new ways with support. Whether you've been feeling down or anxious, frustrated with patterns in your relationships, or just feeling "stuck," you can use therapy to reach your goals.

Kate Evans
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I am radically relational; my practice is trauma-informed, embracing anti-oppression, feminist, anti-pathology, anti-racist, body liberation,
polyamory
, and LGBTQIA+ identity affirming values.
Your mental health care is important because YOU are important. I want you to feel safe to bring your whole self to therapy, and to feel nurtured in the process. Encouraging authenticity, inclusivity, and humor, we will collaborate to establish a foundation of trust and increased awareness. Utilizing psychodynamic, cognitive-behavioral, somatic and mindfulness techniques to customize treatment to meet your needs. I know that connecting with a therapist can be a challenge, and I welcome a conversation to explore if working together feels like a good fit.

Megan C Barton
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I have extensive experience with the LGBTQIA communities, gender affirmation, relationship issues including non-monogamy,
polyamory
, and phase of life issues.
I am a psychotherapist passionate about providing individualized care to adolescents, adults, and couples. I believe therapy should feel safe and be a space where you can explore thoughts, feelings, and behaviors without judgment. I specialize in working with individuals dealing with depression, anxiety, trauma/PTSD, and concerns relating to race/ethnicity/intersectionality.
Waitlist for new clients

Rebecca Land
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified
Verified
While I believe people are multidimensional and more than a particular label, I have developed expertise in anxiety, depression, addiction/recovery, ADHD/LD, relationships (including
polyamory
), sexuality, identity, stigma, parenting concerns, conflicts between business partners, trauma and resilience, divorce/blended families, and creativity/work goals.
My goal is to foster a sense of safety for clients to speak openly about who they are and how they feel. I am interested in the way our lives and relationships are touched by our past experiences, our fears, and our desires. I provide individual psychotherapy, couple’s, and solution focused treatment. My style is direct, warm, and (dare I say) funny. I draw from clinical training in psychodynamic psychotherapy and family systems theory.

Atash Yaghmaian
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified
Verified
I focus on issues of trauma, self-esteem, healthy relationships, addiction, anxiety, LGBTQ+-issues,
polyamory
/non-monogamy, systemic oppression, immigration, and dissociation.
Thank you for visiting my page! I offer a mixture of talk therapy, hypnotherapy, EMDR, and Reiki. I take a holistic approach, see my work as a partnership, and believe that every person has the tools and wisdom within to be happy.

Cheyenne Skye Taylor
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
If you are hoping to address and explore your own personal growth relating to BDSM/Kink dynamics, consensual non monogamy &
polyamory
, sexual identity/orientation, gender identity, communication, avoidance or anxiety around sex/sexuality/ and relationships, please feel free to reach out to me via email.
I offer an affirming and non-judgmental safe space where collaboration and empowerment are central to the therapeutic process. Using integrative and holistic methods, we will work at a pace that is most comfortable for you to reflect, heal, and be heard. Although my professional and personal experience regarding LGBTQNB, poly/CNM, kink/BDSM, SW, and POC communities inform my practice, I understand the importance of recognizing and acknowledging individuality and personal experience in all its forms.
New York, NY 10013
& Online

Stephanie Nelson
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
Verified
I believe that you are the expert of your own existence, and, as a therapist, my job is to guide you in collaborative exploration of that reality. I have helped clients adapt to issues related to anxiety, depression, mood disorders, trauma, substance use, life transitions, identity struggles, relationship concerns,
polyamory
/ethical non-monogamy, loss and bereavement, end-of-life, and caregiver support. I work primarily with young adults and adults, but have extensive training and experience working with geriatric and medically compromised individuals, as well as members of the LGBTQ+ community.
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Alison L Pepper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SIFI
Verified
Verified
I am an open kink aware & ethical non-monogamy (
polyamory
/swinging/etc) friendly therapist.
Hi, if you are looking for a open minded, warm, & hard working therapist then I might be a good fit for you. I'm an English & Spanish speaking clinical social worker who works with adults, teens, and sometimes children. My practice focuses primarily on healing anxiety, depression, & trauma throughout life. I'm interested in taking an integrative approach to therapy by combining clients needs with traditional Western psychology such as: talk therapy, play therapy, art therapy, internal family systems (IFS), & nature therapy with ancient Eastern traditions such as meditation & Tibetan Buddhism.

Isabella Lemos
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Hiya! My name is Isabella (They/She) and I am a gender non conforming psychotherapist based in New York and the surrounding boroughs. I provide therapy to individuals from young adults to advanced stages of life with a focus on coping with mood disorders, alternative sexualities, and lifestyles. I am affirming of LGBTQ/queer identities, kink and D/S lifestyle relationships, sex work, and
polyamory
/consensual non-monogamy. As a gender nonconforming multicultural practitioner, my work is informed by intersectionality and motivated by personal experience with the communities I serve.

Liam Cudmore
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I provide therapy to individuals, couples/intimate partners, and families of all kinds, with a focus on alternative sexualities and lifestyles. I am affirming of LGBTQ/queer identities, kink and D/S lifestyle relationships, sex work, and
polyamory
/consensual non-monogamy. As a feminist transman, my work is informed by intersectionality and motivated by personal experience with the communities I serve.

Zachary Darr-Rodriguez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified
Verified
My areas of focus include anxiety, domestic violence, emerging adulthood, multicultural issues, parenting, and relationships (including
polyamory
and ethical non-monogamy).
Do you want to develop creative solutions for changes you wish to make? I am a cisgender, white and Latino, straight man. At the core of my philosophy is the belief that through genuine, collaborative and compassionate relationships, everyone is capable of change and growth. I will work with you to create an environment in which you feel safe to express the full spectrum of your identities. I will encourage you to reflect upon how your previous experiences impact your current thoughts, emotions and behaviors.

QuIPP: The Queer Identities Psychology Partnership
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
At QuIPP we intend to create a "brave space" to explore gender, ethnicity, class, sexuality, kinks,
polyamory
, neuro-diversity and how we can, in light of our intersecting identities and personal histories, lead meaningful and connected lives.
At QuIPP, we are queer, non-binary, depth-oriented, feminist, and trauma-informed. Our therapeutic approaches include CBT, DBT, and psychodynamic and we seek to explore the deep impacts of others (familial, peer, and social) on the minds and spirits of our clients. Our clinical areas of expertise include: gender & sexuality, trauma, transition related support, and poly/kinky & sex positivity. Given that trauma and emotional pain often originate within relationships, we take a relational (and deeply compassionate) approach to therapy.

Hali Riley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I recognize diversity in sexuality as much more than LGBTQ as I practice
polyamory
-affirmative psychotherapy, kink awareness, and sex positivity without unnecessarily making these identities the focus of treatment.
With humble beginnings as a Conflict Mediator during elementary school recess, I have over 25 years of experience helping people. My approach is warm and enthusiastic providing room for laughter and jokes as well as tears and vulnerability. While holding safe boundaries for my clients, I believe in the power of transparency and being my genuine self in my work with people. I am affirming and open-minded, while encouraging you to try new ideas or behaviors that support your healing.
New York, NY 10017
& Online

Randi Kaufman
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I have been working with gender identity and expression since 1998,
polyamory
since 2002, and the leather community since 1998.
Looking for more from your life? Trying to figure out who you truly are, or want to become? Frustrated with not being able to make change? You are not alone. Many people struggle with these life issues, and the difficult feelings that result. Therapy can help you make change that will bring greater joy and fulfillment. I work collaboratively to find creative solutions to your goals, with a focus on your strengths. We will figure out how to move beyond patterns or obstacles blocking your way.

Kevyn Rodriguez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Also, as part of my practice I support couples and individuals with relationship issues, kinks and
polyamory
.
I am a Licensed Social Worker (LMSW) specializing in individual therapy for adults and adolescents. I use client-centered, strengths-based approach to promote client’s determination. I consider clients experiences in my practice to get to know them and develop an understanding between the multiple layers of complexities in the clients life such as spirituality, race, culture, sexual/gender identity, and family background. I believe that my role is to create a safe space where a client feels comfortable and supported while addressing sensitive and difficult issues.

Restore & Renew Therapy l Jasmina Mimica, MHC
MHC-LP
Verified
Verified
I am currently working on my doctorate with the research focus on non-traditional relationship structures (consensual non-monogamy/open relationships/
polyamory
) and attachment issues.
I work with clients navigating relationships, life transitions, and intimacy issues. If you find it difficult to achieve a sense of connection and fulfillment, please reach out. I help individuals and couples who experience the impact of past trauma on their relationship with themselves and others, and/or feel stuck in a cycle of conflict and distance.
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Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specializing in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialize in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.
When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counseling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counseling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.
How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.