Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in New York, NY
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Andrea Wainer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW-R, R
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Andrea Wainer has worked with people impacted by
narcissistic
spectrum disorders for her entire career. She provides support and coaching to victims of
narcissistic
abuse. She has worked and lived abroad (New York, Hong Kong, London, Singapore and Tokyo) with people divorcing narcissists. Andrea researches, trains, supervises, coaches and opines in judicial process involving character disordered individuals. She is equipped to identify and coach you to thrive during and after; smear campaigns, blame shifting, gas-lighting, PTSD, forum shopping, victim playing, projecting and other tactics used by character disordered people.

Kristine Danback
Psychologist, PhD, MA
Verified
Verified
WWW.KRISTINEDANBACKPHD.COM I am a clinical psychologist/therapist in NY-- CT, a divorce coach/mediator, psy evaluator, expert witness, and offer co-parenting for anyone in the U.S., focusing on high conflict divorces. Our work will strengthen your resilience, ability to cope and adjust. Areas of focus are: relationships,
narcissistic
abuse, parenting, loss, care taking. Psychotherapy allows for gaining awareness of how your history, biology, and emotions came together to create who you are, as well as, learning how to regulate your emotions, to have a healthier and more fulfilling life, work and love.

Ami B. Kaplan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
Specialties: Relationships, Assertion, Gender Issues, Difficult or
narcissistic
parents or partners. I help people feel more comfortable with their own agenda, deal with difficult individuals and change entrenched roles in relationships.

Millet Israeli
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, JD, LMSW
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
I focus on ruptured relationships (toxic/
NPD
relationships, cut-offs, contentious divorce, custody battles) and grief.
Every one of us is losing something precious to us. Lost opportunities, lost possibilities, feelings we can never get back again. That's part of what it means to be alive. (Murakami). Losses are part of the fabric of life - of loved ones, jobs, hopes and dreams, relationships, good health, a sense of safety. Loss comes in many forms, ambiguous and concrete. If you’ve lost your sense of self, I can help you return to yourself. I provide a holding space for you and help you integrate your losses into your life so you can move forward with strength and optimism, and eventually find meaning, growth and a renewed sense of purpose.

Alana Barlia
Counselor, LMHC, MA , EdM
Verified
4 Endorsed
Verified
4 Endorsed
I specialize in attachment, relational dynamics, codependency,
narcissistic
abuse, and emotional dysregulation.
Hi! I am an NYC-based therapist providing warm, inviting, and effective therapy for adults and adolescents. My clients find solace and relief through our work together by gaining insights into themselves, addressing their stressors, and moving through their challenges. It is through these insights that you too will begin to see growth and change within yourself and ultimately begin to feel better. Taking steps toward change takes bravery, and I commend you for taking the first step.

Andrea Costa
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified
Verified
Specialties include:
Narcissistic
relationships with romantic partners, parents and children; Dating; FOMO; Imposter syndrome; Family dynamics; Career changes; Working in Corporate America; Parenting; Learning Differences.
My Approach to therapy is non-judgmental, collaborative and individualized, in that each person is unique and has their own strengths and challenges. My Expertise is being authentic and relatable in forming trusting relationships with individuals who are feeling overwhelmed, scared, anxious, depressed, grief, loss, sad, hurt, neglected, abused, deceived, dismissed as the result of life events. Small talk makes me nervous, so I actively work to make sure everything I do and say comes from a place of authenticity. I hope to be part of your journey and share this with you.

Vanessa Reiser Narcissism Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
Vanessa is a solution-focused psychotherapist licensed in NY, NJ, MA and FL specializing in
NARCISSISTIC
ABUSE, whose mission is to help individuals uncover their true potential and move forward toward all of their goals. Her team specializes in working with individuals, couples and groups focusing on the treatment of trauma, anxiety, depression, PTSD, grief/loss, eating disorders, marriage or interpersonal relationship problems, alcohol or drug abuse, low self-esteem, or anyone in need of developing new ways to cope with life’s every day challenges. Go to tellatherapist.net or Insta: @vanessareiserlcsw TikTok:@vanessareiser

Jessica Knight
MA, CPCC, NICC
It's okay if you need healing and a way forward and have no idea of where to start. Maybe you’ve tried individual or couples therapy but it’s been more harmful than helpful because your therapist didn’t understand emotional abuse and toxic relationship dynamics. Applying tools intended for two healthy people doesn’t work when there’s a Narcissist and/or abuse present in the relationship. Working with someone who understands patterns of abuse can help you make the right decision for yourself. I am trained in
Narcissistic
Abuse and High Conflict Divorce Coaching. - I also work with Millennial Women on life transitions (website below)

Karen Arluck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
My specialties include: personality disorders (specifically
narcissistic
personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, schizoid personality disorder), anxiety disorders, eating disorders (including emotional eating and binge eating/food addiction), improving relationships and other interpersonal issues, self-esteem, and others.
My approach is warm, empathic, and creative, and I utilize a collaborative therapeutic process informed by Psychodynamic, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Gestalt, and Masterson's psychotherapy theories. There are many reasons to come to therapy, and usually a person begins because something is bothering them, and they may be feeling "stuck". In therapy, you can work towards feeling better, improving the areas you are struggling in, and addressing the life obstacles that you may be facing. I believe each person brings their unique strengths to the process as well as issues they would like to resolve.
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Mark Ettensohn
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
7 Endorsed
Verified
7 Endorsed
I specialize in treating vulnerable
narcissistic
issues that involve low self-esteem, illness anxiety, depressive thoughts and feelings, emotional conflict, self-defeating behaviors, anxiety, alienation, and difficulties with trust.

Marina Lenderman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I am also an expert contributor on the subjects of
Narcissistic
Personality Disorder and Parenting.
Are you experiencing new emotional distress - like the discovery of a mood disorder, career transition or relationships stressors? Are you interested in learning about your response to these changes and developing tools to help you cope? My goal is to provide a collaborative atmosphere in which people can openly explore their feelings, better understand their personalities, and reach new resolutions. Using a combination of psychodynamic, cognitive-behavioral and strengths-based approaches, I can help you identify solutions that will help you lead a more meaningful and fulfilling life.

Massimo Balestri
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
I treat a wide spectrum of conditions including mood and anxiety disorders (e.g., bipolar and depressive disorders, panic and phobias), ADHD, marital issues and PTSD. My niche is in personality disorders (e.g., borderline and
narcissistic
personality disorder). I have extensive experience treating trauma sequelas, dissociative disorders and helping individuals overcome grief. My practice also includes treatment of eating disorders in adults (e.g., bulimia) and parasuicidal behaviour. Although my practice is mainly guided by empirical modalities, I tend to approach each client in an eclectic manner to customize treatment as needed.

Alan Lehman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified
Verified
My areas of specialization include: Depression and Anxiety, Relationship Conflict-Resolution, Stress Management, Drug Abuse, Gambling/Investment Addiction; Trauma/PTSD; Self-Esteem and Self-Acceptance; Couples Counseling & Separation/Divorce; Adult Children of Highly Successful (often
Narcissistic
) parents.
I'm a results-oriented, solution-focused psychologist who, over 25 years in practice, have honed my own active, directive therapeutic approach to deliver results in a time-efficient, step-wise manner. After an initial chronological overview, in which we track the origins and development of your presenting symptoms/challenges, we establish clear, achievable goals and map out steps for reaching these goals. Utilizing goal-focused, cognitive-behavioral techniques, I’ll guide and assist you in identifying and overcoming past hindrances to meeting your desired goals, and provide you with skills for maintaining your achieved goals.

Jim Stangarone
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CP
Verified
Verified
This experience includes, but is not limited to mental health and addictions, Complex PTSD, and survivors of trauma and/or
Narcissistic
abuse.
Whether you are deciding begin therapy or looking to continue, I consider this decision to be a tremendous act of courage. To be in therapy is to admit to yourself and another person that you are tired of your current situation, and you want change.

Alana Carvalho
Counselor, LMHC, LPC, CASAC-T
Verified
8 Endorsed
Verified
8 Endorsed
My favorite areas to work on include codependency, perfectionism and
narcissistic
relationships.
Hi and welcome! I'm an experienced couples counselor and individual therapist who is passionate about working with people on relationships. I assist couples looking to work on their communication, understand the difficulties in their relationships and find ways to heal. Through our work together you should expect to gain greater clarity on what it is that is impacting you and your relationships as well as how to move forward. I also specialize in helping individuals heal that have had a
narcissistic
parent or partner.

MDRN Talk: Modern Talk Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified
Verified
Our therapists have a variety of specialties, including: relationships, anxiety, marriage/divorce, depression, trauma, navigating the current dating landscape,
narcissistic
, difficult and/or alcoholic family members and loved ones, career issues/transitions, family dynamics, transitions to/from college, parenting, and grief.
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming & intimidating. MDRN Talk is a collective of licensed, expert & reliable therapists who specialize in the unique issues of modern living & who care deeply about their clients & their lives. Please call or email us to tell us a bit more about what you’re looking for in your therapy & we will connect you with the therapist that is the best fit for your personality, goals, & scheduling needs. There’s never pressure to schedule- we want you to get the best referral possible, and if we think your needs would best be met with an outside provider, we will connect you with that as well!
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Leon Garber
Counselor, LMHC
Verified
Verified
My final area of focus is psychological trauma and
narcissistic
abuse.
My practice consists of helping my clients become more effective actors in their lives. In the service of these goals, I teach them how to become better critical thinkers, (working together on creating healthy beliefs about themselves, others, and their environments), providing the mental tools required for emotional regulation and a fulfilling life. Additionally, we work together on understanding the past and present sources of troublesome behaviors and reducing them; this approach is called Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. And, I specialize in a form of CBT called Exposure Response Prevention (ERP), used to treat OCD.

Karen Greenberg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, Couples, Therapy
Verified
4 Endorsed
Verified
4 Endorsed
Having relationship problems? Feeling stuck or in a downward spiral? I work in a confidential setting where you find solutions and make changes to live a more satisfying and meaningful life. I work with individuals and couples experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma/recovery, grief, difficult relationships, and major life transitions. I also treat borderline,
narcissistic
personality and mood disorders. A combination of advanced training in various modalities and experience allows me to custom treatment to your needs and concerns. A strong connection to the therapist is the most important factor in a successful therapy.
Waitlist for new clients

Mary Lynn McDermott
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, JD, PsychAn
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Narcissistic
abuse and betrayal trauma, are areas in which I am trained and practice.
Welcome. I am honored to join you in prioritizing your well-being. Therapy is a life hack, in a way; such that any of us can make use of it when difficult circumstances arise or we find ourselves stuck or in crisis. The work we do is a process, and yours will be unique to you. Initial interventions will aim to increase your sense of internal safety, reduce distress and highlight your innate strengths. Our work will help clarify immediate needs and pressing symptoms. Part exploration, part creation, therapy is a process of joining, rebuilding, finding growth and hope. We start where you are, in the here and now!

Lucienne Despota
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, FIPA, CLC
Verified
Verified
I am a very experienced trauma therapist, specializing in treating young adults suffering from PTSD, abuse in
narcissistic
relationships, codependency, break ups, anxiety, depression, LGBTQ issues, divorce, and work place problems, using cognitive behavioral work, EMDR and IFS. My approach is eclectic and interactive, blending a combination of techniques. Non-judgment and warmth in a holistic frame describes my style. I also am trained in ADHD coaching, NLP, hypnosis, and other modalities designed for you to develop better coping skills. This is not a cookie cutter approach. It is a treatment custom made to meet your needs.
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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists
What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.
How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.
Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.
How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.