Male Therapists in New York, NY

Adam Reynolds
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, RDT/BCT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10016
I work primarily with families, adolescents, children, and young adults who have had very difficult experiences and need a safe, playful, and steady partner to explore the impact of these events on their lives. As an out queer clinician I also work regularly with LGBTQIA+ clients who seek a therapist aware of the complexity of those identities in the world, as well as with parents looking to better develop skills to support trans or queer-identified children. I recognize racism and white supremacy as forms of social oppression that provoke traumatic responses and work accordingly with clients who have been harmed by these systems.
I work primarily with families, adolescents, children, and young adults who have had very difficult experiences and need a safe, playful, and steady partner to explore the impact of these events on their lives. As an out queer clinician I also work regularly with LGBTQIA+ clients who seek a therapist aware of the complexity of those identities in the world, as well as with parents looking to better develop skills to support trans or queer-identified children. I recognize racism and white supremacy as forms of social oppression that provoke traumatic responses and work accordingly with clients who have been harmed by these systems.

Do any of the following statements feel like you? 1: I can't seem to fulfill my short or long term goals. 2: I'm often anxious, even panicky. 3: I'm often depressed. 4: I often feel unappreciated. 5: I'm uncomfortable around people. 6: I pull away when feeling close to someone. 7: My wife/lover & i are not doing well. 8: I have family, friends, a good job, & feel empty and alone. 9: I have difficulty expressing my feelings, & thoughts, to others. 10: I tend to put everyone's feelings before mine, then feel resentful & angry. You are the expert on you let me be your guide on your journey to self-fulfillment and self-realization.
Do any of the following statements feel like you? 1: I can't seem to fulfill my short or long term goals. 2: I'm often anxious, even panicky. 3: I'm often depressed. 4: I often feel unappreciated. 5: I'm uncomfortable around people. 6: I pull away when feeling close to someone. 7: My wife/lover & i are not doing well. 8: I have family, friends, a good job, & feel empty and alone. 9: I have difficulty expressing my feelings, & thoughts, to others. 10: I tend to put everyone's feelings before mine, then feel resentful & angry. You are the expert on you let me be your guide on your journey to self-fulfillment and self-realization.

Are you experiencing emotional and relational difficulties, betrayal trauma, religious trauma, anxiety, depression, or struggling to process traumatic experiences or challenging relationships? Do you feel like you are lost or that your life is stuck and you are not able to experience the joy of life? Are you feeling that your world has been turned upside down and are having difficulty finding stability? If so, I would like to offer you a safe, non-judgmental, collaborative, therapeutic, and supportive space to help you overcome these issues and move towards a state of relational, emotional, mental, spiritual, and behavioral health.
Are you experiencing emotional and relational difficulties, betrayal trauma, religious trauma, anxiety, depression, or struggling to process traumatic experiences or challenging relationships? Do you feel like you are lost or that your life is stuck and you are not able to experience the joy of life? Are you feeling that your world has been turned upside down and are having difficulty finding stability? If so, I would like to offer you a safe, non-judgmental, collaborative, therapeutic, and supportive space to help you overcome these issues and move towards a state of relational, emotional, mental, spiritual, and behavioral health.

Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or lost can be incredibly challenging, but you don’t have to navigate these feelings alone. In a safe and empathetic space, we will explore your challenges together and develop strategies for achieving a balanced, fulfilling life. Let’s take this journey together. Reach out when you’re ready to begin your healing journey.
Feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or lost can be incredibly challenging, but you don’t have to navigate these feelings alone. In a safe and empathetic space, we will explore your challenges together and develop strategies for achieving a balanced, fulfilling life. Let’s take this journey together. Reach out when you’re ready to begin your healing journey.

I am a Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R. I am a licensed clinician in NY with over 26 years of experience in anxiety, depression, stress, OCD, career and life transitions, relationship concerns, and grief/loss. Working with individuals, couples, and groups to reach their fullest potential. I have extensive experience directing therapy offices in New York. People struggling with work or family life, adjusting to change and work situations. Extensive work with military and their families on and off base, community agencies, crisis response, groups, and adults and elderly
I am a Clinical Social Worker, LCSW-R. I am a licensed clinician in NY with over 26 years of experience in anxiety, depression, stress, OCD, career and life transitions, relationship concerns, and grief/loss. Working with individuals, couples, and groups to reach their fullest potential. I have extensive experience directing therapy offices in New York. People struggling with work or family life, adjusting to change and work situations. Extensive work with military and their families on and off base, community agencies, crisis response, groups, and adults and elderly

As a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, I believe clients hold answers within yet often feel they have lost touch with themselves. I strive to provide a safe and validating space for clients, allowing them to discover intuitive answers to incorporate into a purposeful and fulfilling life.
As a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, I believe clients hold answers within yet often feel they have lost touch with themselves. I strive to provide a safe and validating space for clients, allowing them to discover intuitive answers to incorporate into a purposeful and fulfilling life.

I am a licensed clinical psychologist who specializes in individual and couples therapy. I have over twenty years of experience working with a wide variety of clinical problems. I am most interested in working with individuals who are curious about themselves and who believe that they may find some relief from their struggles by examining their thoughts and feelings in the context of their relational history. I work by listening deeply and reflecting with you on the meanings of the narrative you produce. I am very focused on collaboration and will check in often regarding your experience.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist who specializes in individual and couples therapy. I have over twenty years of experience working with a wide variety of clinical problems. I am most interested in working with individuals who are curious about themselves and who believe that they may find some relief from their struggles by examining their thoughts and feelings in the context of their relational history. I work by listening deeply and reflecting with you on the meanings of the narrative you produce. I am very focused on collaboration and will check in often regarding your experience.

Therapy is about healing and self growth. It is about making decisions and achieving life goals. It is about bettering relationships and building meaningful ties. It's about working through, and living without the pain of loss, depression and anxiety. In an atmosphere of safety, trust and non-judgement, I will help you navigate those difficulties which foster anxiety, depression and confusion, recognizing the often, central role of trauma in such challenges. I will assist in the process of gaining insight, while making decisions which breed personal and professional success. I will help in cultivating and improving relationships.
Therapy is about healing and self growth. It is about making decisions and achieving life goals. It is about bettering relationships and building meaningful ties. It's about working through, and living without the pain of loss, depression and anxiety. In an atmosphere of safety, trust and non-judgement, I will help you navigate those difficulties which foster anxiety, depression and confusion, recognizing the often, central role of trauma in such challenges. I will assist in the process of gaining insight, while making decisions which breed personal and professional success. I will help in cultivating and improving relationships.

I believe each person holds the key to success and therapy is a form of guiding process to achieve these goals in life. Thus, I focus on empowering individuals and gaining further insight and understanding. I believe in not just focusing on the difficulties and issues, but also building skills and capacity in preparation of future challenges. Clients describe me as authentic, compassionate and empathetic. We work collaboratively on building on solutions to move forward in life and elevate you to a more positive life style in general.
I believe each person holds the key to success and therapy is a form of guiding process to achieve these goals in life. Thus, I focus on empowering individuals and gaining further insight and understanding. I believe in not just focusing on the difficulties and issues, but also building skills and capacity in preparation of future challenges. Clients describe me as authentic, compassionate and empathetic. We work collaboratively on building on solutions to move forward in life and elevate you to a more positive life style in general.

As well as general LGBTQ and spiritual topics, I specialize in perfectionism, shame, men’s issues, autism, ADHD, relationships, sexual health, kink, nonmonogamy, substance abuse.
Self-awareness, self-compassion, self-esteem? Resilience, effective functioning, self-care? Connection, authenticity, belonging? Are these things you’ve realized you lack and want more of? These are directions of growth I hope for you and each of my clients, to be defined and directed by us collaboratively in therapy. I use an integrative, client-centered approach, weaving together CBT, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), compassion-focused, psychodynamic and relational interventions. I work best with clients who are ready to use what we explore in our sessions to take action for positive change in their lives.
As well as general LGBTQ and spiritual topics, I specialize in perfectionism, shame, men’s issues, autism, ADHD, relationships, sexual health, kink, nonmonogamy, substance abuse.
Self-awareness, self-compassion, self-esteem? Resilience, effective functioning, self-care? Connection, authenticity, belonging? Are these things you’ve realized you lack and want more of? These are directions of growth I hope for you and each of my clients, to be defined and directed by us collaboratively in therapy. I use an integrative, client-centered approach, weaving together CBT, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), compassion-focused, psychodynamic and relational interventions. I work best with clients who are ready to use what we explore in our sessions to take action for positive change in their lives.

As a clinical psychologist, I am deeply committed to helping people improve their lives. I am dedicated to helping people resolve their personal problems and alleviate personal suffering. For many people seeking professional help, my role is to facilitate: having a more enjoyable life, make better life choices, have healthier and happier relationships, and alleviate emotional pain through self-awareness and self acceptance. My practice involves psychological services to adults and adolescents. I work with individuals and couples, and I provide parent consultations and diagnostic consultations.
As a clinical psychologist, I am deeply committed to helping people improve their lives. I am dedicated to helping people resolve their personal problems and alleviate personal suffering. For many people seeking professional help, my role is to facilitate: having a more enjoyable life, make better life choices, have healthier and happier relationships, and alleviate emotional pain through self-awareness and self acceptance. My practice involves psychological services to adults and adolescents. I work with individuals and couples, and I provide parent consultations and diagnostic consultations.
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Throughout life, we all gather scrapes, bruises, and cuts. We usually do our best to clean these wounds and move on. However, sometimes we're too busy, unable, or too nervous to tend to them properly, so we cover them up quickly. In the early stages of therapy, we may need to revisit these old wounds, gently unwrapping the bandages. By discussing these challenges, we can develop coping mechanisms that promote healing. Over time, what once hurt deeply can transform into a less visible scar.
Throughout life, we all gather scrapes, bruises, and cuts. We usually do our best to clean these wounds and move on. However, sometimes we're too busy, unable, or too nervous to tend to them properly, so we cover them up quickly. In the early stages of therapy, we may need to revisit these old wounds, gently unwrapping the bandages. By discussing these challenges, we can develop coping mechanisms that promote healing. Over time, what once hurt deeply can transform into a less visible scar.

I treat ages 12 to 65 and those experiencing anxiety, depression, grief, life transitions, issues with a variety of relationship types, self-esteem issues, divorce, and infidelity. I use cognitive-behavioral therapy, person-centered therapy, EMDR, and motivational interviewing to work with my clients. During sessions with me, you can expect a supportive environment as you build on your strengths and secure space to openly share your thoughts and feelings. I believe that most of life’s problems have more to do with the way we interpret events than the actual events themselves.
I treat ages 12 to 65 and those experiencing anxiety, depression, grief, life transitions, issues with a variety of relationship types, self-esteem issues, divorce, and infidelity. I use cognitive-behavioral therapy, person-centered therapy, EMDR, and motivational interviewing to work with my clients. During sessions with me, you can expect a supportive environment as you build on your strengths and secure space to openly share your thoughts and feelings. I believe that most of life’s problems have more to do with the way we interpret events than the actual events themselves.

Dr. Seltzer is a compassionate and skilled therapist who is dedicated to helping adolescents and adults navigate life’s challenges. Dr. Seltzer received advanced training in evidence-based approaches, including CBT , DBT, ACT, and family-based interventions, with a focus on building strong therapeutic relationships and tailoring treatment to each individual’s unique needs. His commitment to his craft is reflected in his ongoing clinical supervision and training in cutting-edge therapeutic techniques. Additionally, he has contributed to the field through research and teaching on the intersection of mental health and relationships.
Dr. Seltzer is a compassionate and skilled therapist who is dedicated to helping adolescents and adults navigate life’s challenges. Dr. Seltzer received advanced training in evidence-based approaches, including CBT , DBT, ACT, and family-based interventions, with a focus on building strong therapeutic relationships and tailoring treatment to each individual’s unique needs. His commitment to his craft is reflected in his ongoing clinical supervision and training in cutting-edge therapeutic techniques. Additionally, he has contributed to the field through research and teaching on the intersection of mental health and relationships.

Matthew Cornelius Ashton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BA, MSW, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
New York, NY 10031
Are you dealing with Substance Abuse,Depression, Bi-Polar issues, Anxiety, stress, Domestic issues. Is your child truant from school, oppositional? I have been providing psychotherapy services to children, Adolescents and Adults for over 18 years. During that time, i was able to developed a myriad of experience in Individual and Family counseling. I conduct an in-debt assessment of all clients. I allow clients to verbalize their feelings. I am patient and a good listener. I show empathy and respect for religious and cultural differences. Allow me to work with you.
Are you dealing with Substance Abuse,Depression, Bi-Polar issues, Anxiety, stress, Domestic issues. Is your child truant from school, oppositional? I have been providing psychotherapy services to children, Adolescents and Adults for over 18 years. During that time, i was able to developed a myriad of experience in Individual and Family counseling. I conduct an in-debt assessment of all clients. I allow clients to verbalize their feelings. I am patient and a good listener. I show empathy and respect for religious and cultural differences. Allow me to work with you.

Psychotherapy is about change, learning how to cope with unwanted changes in life, and initiating positive changes for growth. Finding a therapist who can help you to adjust to these changes, and find new meaning in your life can make all the difference. My practice is trauma and social justice informed.
Psychotherapy is about change, learning how to cope with unwanted changes in life, and initiating positive changes for growth. Finding a therapist who can help you to adjust to these changes, and find new meaning in your life can make all the difference. My practice is trauma and social justice informed.

WE ARE NOW OFFERING IN PERSON AND TELEHEALTH SERVICES. For over 37 years, I have helped people of all ages overcome trauma, anxiety, depression and substance abuse. I am an experienced trauma therapist that utilizes a specialized technique (EMDR). I am LGBTQ affirming.
WE ARE NOW OFFERING IN PERSON AND TELEHEALTH SERVICES. For over 37 years, I have helped people of all ages overcome trauma, anxiety, depression and substance abuse. I am an experienced trauma therapist that utilizes a specialized technique (EMDR). I am LGBTQ affirming.

Stop and think about it! Do you feel anxious, unfulfilled, or have difficulty reaching your goals? Are you feeling depressed, perhaps experiencing suicide ideation? Depression is very difficult to manage on your own, and you won't have to when I am your therapist. Whether you are an adolescent or adult, you will have coping tools I will share with you during our sessions together at your disposal to help you feel more empowered and in greater control of your life. Would you like to become more self-aware? Our focus on mindfulness will facilitate your journey of self-realization.
Stop and think about it! Do you feel anxious, unfulfilled, or have difficulty reaching your goals? Are you feeling depressed, perhaps experiencing suicide ideation? Depression is very difficult to manage on your own, and you won't have to when I am your therapist. Whether you are an adolescent or adult, you will have coping tools I will share with you during our sessions together at your disposal to help you feel more empowered and in greater control of your life. Would you like to become more self-aware? Our focus on mindfulness will facilitate your journey of self-realization.

As a gay male, Frank has a particular affinity for working with the LGBTQIA+ community.
Frank additionally provides couples therapy in a kink-affirming, safe, and judgment-free environment. In his couples therapy sessions, Frank explores complex communication dynamics and sex related issues. While Frank carefully tailors his sessions to meet individual needs, his approach typically includes a combination of person-centered therapy and CBT.
As a gay male, Frank has a particular affinity for working with the LGBTQIA+ community.
Frank additionally provides couples therapy in a kink-affirming, safe, and judgment-free environment. In his couples therapy sessions, Frank explores complex communication dynamics and sex related issues. While Frank carefully tailors his sessions to meet individual needs, his approach typically includes a combination of person-centered therapy and CBT.

Hello there! As a licensed clinical social worker with dual licenses in New York and Maine, my experience extends to collaborating with high-level professionals, including Fortune 500 executives. My mission is to guide individuals on a journey of professional and personal growth while addressing stress management and anxiety.
Hello there! As a licensed clinical social worker with dual licenses in New York and Maine, my experience extends to collaborating with high-level professionals, including Fortune 500 executives. My mission is to guide individuals on a journey of professional and personal growth while addressing stress management and anxiety.
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Male Therapists
As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?
There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.
How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?
Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?
Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with therapists of a specific gender. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.
Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?
Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.