Infidelity Therapists in New York, NY

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Gotham Wellness ONLINE
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Online Only
Anxiety can be overwhelming, ruining important events. If you suffer from anxiety, panic attacks, obsessions, compulsions, phobias - there IS help. You can learn ways to stress less and enjoy more. Gotham Wellness specializes in Solutions. Focusing on Anxiety/Stress Management, Adult ADHD, Navigating Difficult Relationships, & Couples Counseling. The ideal client is one willing to get to know themselves in a fresh way. Our clinicians are Pierre Desir, MA, LMFT, and Cynthia Giocomarra, PsyD., LMFT.
Anxiety can be overwhelming, ruining important events. If you suffer from anxiety, panic attacks, obsessions, compulsions, phobias - there IS help. You can learn ways to stress less and enjoy more. Gotham Wellness specializes in Solutions. Focusing on Anxiety/Stress Management, Adult ADHD, Navigating Difficult Relationships, & Couples Counseling. The ideal client is one willing to get to know themselves in a fresh way. Our clinicians are Pierre Desir, MA, LMFT, and Cynthia Giocomarra, PsyD., LMFT.
(631) 405-4925 View (631) 405-4925
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Rob M. Fierstein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PLLC
16 Endorsed
New York, NY 10003
I am a New York State Licensed Clinical Social Worker and psychotherapist who works in a neutral, nonjudgmental, and collaborative way. I help adults, couples, and adolescents develop a deeper understanding of their internal experiences, navigate life’s challenges, and move toward greater ease and personal fulfillment. My approach is trauma-informed and integrates psychodynamic understanding with mindfulness-based practices to support insight, emotional regulation, and meaningful, lasting change.
I am a New York State Licensed Clinical Social Worker and psychotherapist who works in a neutral, nonjudgmental, and collaborative way. I help adults, couples, and adolescents develop a deeper understanding of their internal experiences, navigate life’s challenges, and move toward greater ease and personal fulfillment. My approach is trauma-informed and integrates psychodynamic understanding with mindfulness-based practices to support insight, emotional regulation, and meaningful, lasting change.
(917) 512-5721 View (917) 512-5721
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Scott Gillet
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LMFT, CNT
New York, NY 10022
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
Are you missing appreciation? Does he stonewall? Does she not stop criticizing? Anxious and having trust issues? Do you feel a lack of sexual desire? Fighting over sexual frequency? I can help you stop the negative cycle. Feel love again. Feel intimate again. Trained explicitly as a marriage and family therapist, I am a highly trained and experienced couples therapist. I believe in a collaborative approach and skilled at creating tools to foster healthy connections between couples and families. Together, we repair your relationship by introducing new methods of communication to increase empathy and flexibility.
(347) 527-4721 View (347) 527-4721
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Paula Leech
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST, CST-S
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I work with individuals and relationships around a wide variety of sexual and relational concerns/experiences including: Common Sexual Dysfunctions (Erectile Dysfunction, Early Ejaculation, Delayed Ejaculation, Sexual Pain, Vaginismus, Difficulty with Orgasm), as well as Low/No Desire, Desire Mismatch in couples, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Sexual Trauma, Gender Identity, Infidelity, Sexual Orientation, Pornography or Sex "Addiction," and Kink.
I help my clients understand and befriend their sexuality, facilitating greater ease in sexual relationships and comfort within themselves. My goal is that every client leave therapy having found a sense of freedom and vitality within their sexual life, as we all deserve to receive and express love without shame, anxiety, and fear.
I work with individuals and relationships around a wide variety of sexual and relational concerns/experiences including: Common Sexual Dysfunctions (Erectile Dysfunction, Early Ejaculation, Delayed Ejaculation, Sexual Pain, Vaginismus, Difficulty with Orgasm), as well as Low/No Desire, Desire Mismatch in couples, Ethical Non-Monogamy, Sexual Trauma, Gender Identity, Infidelity, Sexual Orientation, Pornography or Sex "Addiction," and Kink.
I help my clients understand and befriend their sexuality, facilitating greater ease in sexual relationships and comfort within themselves. My goal is that every client leave therapy having found a sense of freedom and vitality within their sexual life, as we all deserve to receive and express love without shame, anxiety, and fear.
(971) 259-7797 View (971) 259-7797
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Lisa Lavelle
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
New York, NY 10016
Couples therapy for infidelity, chronic conflict, emotional distance, and roommate marriages.
Something is wrong, and you both know it. Maybe there was an affair. Maybe you fight about the same thing on repeat and nothing changes. Maybe you've stopped fighting altogether, which somehow feels worse. Or maybe you're just roommates now, sharing a home, sharing kids, but not really sharing a life. I work with couples who are stuck. Surviving an affair. Drowning in conflict. Or quietly drifting apart. My approach is shaped by the work of Esther Perel, Terry Real and the Ackerman Institute.
Couples therapy for infidelity, chronic conflict, emotional distance, and roommate marriages.
Something is wrong, and you both know it. Maybe there was an affair. Maybe you fight about the same thing on repeat and nothing changes. Maybe you've stopped fighting altogether, which somehow feels worse. Or maybe you're just roommates now, sharing a home, sharing kids, but not really sharing a life. I work with couples who are stuck. Surviving an affair. Drowning in conflict. Or quietly drifting apart. My approach is shaped by the work of Esther Perel, Terry Real and the Ackerman Institute.
(646) 729-2458 View (646) 729-2458
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Linda G Beeler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Do you want to improve your relationship? Are you feeling anxious? Do you feel sad, alone, isolated? ? I have helped many clients resolve their struggles in a safe supportive environment. Are you going through a transition? I can help with the adjustment. I am trained as a psychodynamic psychotherapist. I have been practicing for over 25 years with patients who have a wide range of life issues. My specialty is focused on assisting clients to overcome interpersonal conflicts, adjust to a new situations and improve communication. I can help you reach your fullest potential and enhance as well as enrich their lives.
Do you want to improve your relationship? Are you feeling anxious? Do you feel sad, alone, isolated? ? I have helped many clients resolve their struggles in a safe supportive environment. Are you going through a transition? I can help with the adjustment. I am trained as a psychodynamic psychotherapist. I have been practicing for over 25 years with patients who have a wide range of life issues. My specialty is focused on assisting clients to overcome interpersonal conflicts, adjust to a new situations and improve communication. I can help you reach your fullest potential and enhance as well as enrich their lives.
(212) 595-6747 View (212) 595-6747
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Sex Porn Infidelity Expert - Yale Columbia Graduate - Brad Salzman Csat
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MS, CSAT, EMDR
3 Endorsed
Online Only
I have helped thousands of men and women struggling with sex addiction, porn addiction, infidelity, and relationship problems to rebuild their lives and relationships.
I was trained and certified by Dr. Patrick Carnes, the world's leading authority in sex addiction treatment, and I received my Certified Sex Addiction Therapist certification in 2011. My team of therapists and coaches offer therapy for addicts and partners. We also treat depression, anxiety, ADHD, and many other mental health disorders.
I have helped thousands of men and women struggling with sex addiction, porn addiction, infidelity, and relationship problems to rebuild their lives and relationships.
I was trained and certified by Dr. Patrick Carnes, the world's leading authority in sex addiction treatment, and I received my Certified Sex Addiction Therapist certification in 2011. My team of therapists and coaches offer therapy for addicts and partners. We also treat depression, anxiety, ADHD, and many other mental health disorders.
(917) 791-1255 View (917) 791-1255
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spiral2grow
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
New York, NY 10016
Are you facing infidelity or trust issue and wonder how to you can overcome the betrayal?
My clients describe my sessions as peaceful, nurturing and guiding place to promote wisdom that leads to a greater balance and happiness to their life. As a relationship expert, my approach is holistic, proactive and solution oriented. It is designed to gain insight and empower you to take actions.
Are you facing infidelity or trust issue and wonder how to you can overcome the betrayal?
My clients describe my sessions as peaceful, nurturing and guiding place to promote wisdom that leads to a greater balance and happiness to their life. As a relationship expert, my approach is holistic, proactive and solution oriented. It is designed to gain insight and empower you to take actions.
(917) 983-1287 View (917) 983-1287
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spiral2grow Marriage Family Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MBA, MS, MFT, LMFT
New York, NY 10016
Are you facing infidelity or trust issue and wonder how to you can overcome the betrayal?
My clients describe my sessions as peaceful, nurturing and guiding place to promote wisdom that leads to a greater balance and happiness to their life. As a relationship expert, my approach is holistic, proactive and solution oriented. It is designed to gain insight and empower you to take actions.
Are you facing infidelity or trust issue and wonder how to you can overcome the betrayal?
My clients describe my sessions as peaceful, nurturing and guiding place to promote wisdom that leads to a greater balance and happiness to their life. As a relationship expert, my approach is holistic, proactive and solution oriented. It is designed to gain insight and empower you to take actions.
(917) 688-4491 View (917) 688-4491
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Chanan Reifen
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT-LP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Therapy is a powerful space for uncovering who we are beneath the noise, beneath the roles we play, the wounds we carry, and the pressures we absorb. Whether you're navigating anxiety, relationship challenges, cultural identity, or simply feeling stuck, therapy offers the chance to be seen, heard, and understood. My approach is integrative and collaborative, rooted in the belief that curiosity and compassion are the cornerstones of growth. I work to create a space where vulnerability is welcomed and where each client can explore the deeper patterns shaping their inner and relational lives.
Therapy is a powerful space for uncovering who we are beneath the noise, beneath the roles we play, the wounds we carry, and the pressures we absorb. Whether you're navigating anxiety, relationship challenges, cultural identity, or simply feeling stuck, therapy offers the chance to be seen, heard, and understood. My approach is integrative and collaborative, rooted in the belief that curiosity and compassion are the cornerstones of growth. I work to create a space where vulnerability is welcomed and where each client can explore the deeper patterns shaping their inner and relational lives.
(332) 249-3495 View (332) 249-3495
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Nicole Otis
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
Online Only
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
(208) 266-2907 View (208) 266-2907
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Chris Samuels
Psychologist, PhD
New York, NY 10005
Although I specialise in sex and porn addiction treatment, my work encompasses more than just helping my clients stop their self-destructive behaviours. Of course, sexual sobriety is crucial for therapeutic progress, but I have found that healing the childhood neglect and abuse that--without exception--underlie the development of a sexual addiction is also essential if the individual is to have the truly transformative recovery he or she deserves. I aspire to offer patience, empathy, expertise, and loving, respectful care to my clients, which I hope they experience from me in our work together.
Although I specialise in sex and porn addiction treatment, my work encompasses more than just helping my clients stop their self-destructive behaviours. Of course, sexual sobriety is crucial for therapeutic progress, but I have found that healing the childhood neglect and abuse that--without exception--underlie the development of a sexual addiction is also essential if the individual is to have the truly transformative recovery he or she deserves. I aspire to offer patience, empathy, expertise, and loving, respectful care to my clients, which I hope they experience from me in our work together.
(646) 941-7691 View (646) 941-7691
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Common Ground Counseling Marriage & Family Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Online Only
My role isn't to fix you. Instead, I'm here to help you understand yourself more deeply within the context of your relationships and systems. Over the past two decades, I've learned that most of what we struggle with isn't a character flaw—it's a pattern that once made sense for you, perhaps protecting you or helping you survive a particular situation. My job is to help you recognize these patterns, understand where they came from, and most importantly, help you break the cycles that no longer serve you. Together, we'll work toward sustainable change—not just symptom relief, but genuine transformation.
My role isn't to fix you. Instead, I'm here to help you understand yourself more deeply within the context of your relationships and systems. Over the past two decades, I've learned that most of what we struggle with isn't a character flaw—it's a pattern that once made sense for you, perhaps protecting you or helping you survive a particular situation. My job is to help you recognize these patterns, understand where they came from, and most importantly, help you break the cycles that no longer serve you. Together, we'll work toward sustainable change—not just symptom relief, but genuine transformation.
(347) 830-7962 View (347) 830-7962
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Stephen Mcfadden
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
My commitment is to help you feel better and learn ways to change problematic patterns within the first few sessions. I combine different methods (talk therapy, hypnosis, EMDR and Somatic Experiencing) to help people make positive changes in their lives. I have 30+ years experience, with specialization in relationship problems, sexuality issues, and recovery from childhood and adult trauma. My approach is highly interactive. Sessions involve feedback and teaching of methods and skills to help you get your life back on track.
My commitment is to help you feel better and learn ways to change problematic patterns within the first few sessions. I combine different methods (talk therapy, hypnosis, EMDR and Somatic Experiencing) to help people make positive changes in their lives. I have 30+ years experience, with specialization in relationship problems, sexuality issues, and recovery from childhood and adult trauma. My approach is highly interactive. Sessions involve feedback and teaching of methods and skills to help you get your life back on track.
(646) 699-3926 View (646) 699-3926
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Aarian Punter
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BS, MS, LCSW
Online Only
Thank you for finding value in my profile. The therapeutic relationship is a sacred interpersonal bond built on trust. Together, we’ll co-create a space to overcome obstacles, shift lifestyle or behavioral patterns, and tap into your innate capacity for resilience. I view my work through an anti-oppressive social justice lens, which will deepen your understanding of how your environment, family, and community can affect you. We may explore anything from the trickle-down effect of workplace stress to the impact of media violence on children or anything else that may be on your mind.
Thank you for finding value in my profile. The therapeutic relationship is a sacred interpersonal bond built on trust. Together, we’ll co-create a space to overcome obstacles, shift lifestyle or behavioral patterns, and tap into your innate capacity for resilience. I view my work through an anti-oppressive social justice lens, which will deepen your understanding of how your environment, family, and community can affect you. We may explore anything from the trickle-down effect of workplace stress to the impact of media violence on children or anything else that may be on your mind.
(347) 759-0196 View (347) 759-0196
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Eugene Lee
Counselor, LMHC, LPCC, MDiv
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I work with individuals and couples navigating relationship challenges, anxiety, depression, trauma, infidelity, and religious trauma.
Are you trying to hold it together while everything inside feels like it’s falling apart? After a relationship rupture, ongoing stress, or emotional disconnection, you may feel stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure who to trust. You may look “fine” on the outside—managing responsibilities and showing up for others—while inside struggling with anxiety, depression, or the weight of trauma or PTSD. You don’t have to go through this alone, and it can begin to feel lighter with the right support.
I work with individuals and couples navigating relationship challenges, anxiety, depression, trauma, infidelity, and religious trauma.
Are you trying to hold it together while everything inside feels like it’s falling apart? After a relationship rupture, ongoing stress, or emotional disconnection, you may feel stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure who to trust. You may look “fine” on the outside—managing responsibilities and showing up for others—while inside struggling with anxiety, depression, or the weight of trauma or PTSD. You don’t have to go through this alone, and it can begin to feel lighter with the right support.
(914) 342-7684 View (914) 342-7684
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Glenn Marron
Psychologist, PhD, PLLC
New York, NY 10016
As a solution-focused, mindfulness based cognitive/behavioral psychologist, I work by collaborating with you to identify problem areas and devise manageable strategies in the service of gradual, stepwise change. Our work looks at perceptions, thoughts, feelings and behavior and helps you alter and manage these. The fact that you are indeed able to make change becomes surprisingly clear to you, and it is done at a pace that feels workable.
As a solution-focused, mindfulness based cognitive/behavioral psychologist, I work by collaborating with you to identify problem areas and devise manageable strategies in the service of gradual, stepwise change. Our work looks at perceptions, thoughts, feelings and behavior and helps you alter and manage these. The fact that you are indeed able to make change becomes surprisingly clear to you, and it is done at a pace that feels workable.
(917) 477-3016 View (917) 477-3016
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Fresh Start Marriage and Family Therapy, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
At Fresh Start Marriage and Family Therapy in NYC, we specialize in evidence-based couples therapy that helps partners restore connection, rebuild trust after infidelity, and improve communication — whether you’re dating, premarital, or long-term.
Our therapists bring a unique background and therapeutic style, but we share a common goal: to help couples heal, grow, and reconnect in meaningful, lasting ways. Our work is grounded in proven approaches such as Emotionally Focused Therapy and Gottman-couples therapy, helping partners better understand one another and create healthier relationship patterns.
At Fresh Start Marriage and Family Therapy in NYC, we specialize in evidence-based couples therapy that helps partners restore connection, rebuild trust after infidelity, and improve communication — whether you’re dating, premarital, or long-term.
Our therapists bring a unique background and therapeutic style, but we share a common goal: to help couples heal, grow, and reconnect in meaningful, lasting ways. Our work is grounded in proven approaches such as Emotionally Focused Therapy and Gottman-couples therapy, helping partners better understand one another and create healthier relationship patterns.
(332) 239-6533 View (332) 239-6533
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Jean Fitzpatrick
Licensed Psychoanalyst, LP
45 Endorsed
New York, NY 10028
You remember how your relationship started out. You felt so lucky to finally find someone to share your hopes and dreams. You just knew you’d be together forever. But lately those fairy-tale days feel like a distant memory. Now you sit at mealtimes close enough to touch…but worlds apart. There’s so much you want to say to your partner if only you could find the words. The silence between you is cold and stony, but you just can’t face another exhausting fight. So you’ve gone into hiding. You’ve always been that person who makes things happen, but not this time. You feel hopeless. Worse than lonely.
You remember how your relationship started out. You felt so lucky to finally find someone to share your hopes and dreams. You just knew you’d be together forever. But lately those fairy-tale days feel like a distant memory. Now you sit at mealtimes close enough to touch…but worlds apart. There’s so much you want to say to your partner if only you could find the words. The silence between you is cold and stony, but you just can’t face another exhausting fight. So you’ve gone into hiding. You’ve always been that person who makes things happen, but not this time. You feel hopeless. Worse than lonely.
(646) 801-8550 View (646) 801-8550
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Anthony Preischel
Counselor, LMHC, PhD(c), CSAT(c)
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10010
I specialize in helping individuals with sex/porn addiction stop addictive behavior, and helping couples heal from affairs.
Clients often come to me struggling with: Compulsive pornography use or difficulty stopping Erectile dysfunction or performance anxiety (including porn-induced ED) Low desire or difficulty connecting with a partner Shame, secrecy, or feeling “stuck in a cycle” Relationship strain related to intimacy, trust, or sexual concerns
I specialize in helping individuals with sex/porn addiction stop addictive behavior, and helping couples heal from affairs.
Clients often come to me struggling with: Compulsive pornography use or difficulty stopping Erectile dysfunction or performance anxiety (including porn-induced ED) Low desire or difficulty connecting with a partner Shame, secrecy, or feeling “stuck in a cycle” Relationship strain related to intimacy, trust, or sexual concerns
(929) 405-1933 View (929) 405-1933

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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.