Gottman Method Therapists in New York, NY

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Noah Clyman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, ACT
Verified
29 Endorsed
Verified
29 Endorsed
Our practice, NYC Cognitive Therapy, includes a staff of male and female therapists with intensive post-graduate training in cognitive-behavior therapy. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is the most widely researched and evidence-based form of therapy. CBT has been shown in more than one thousand studies to be effective in treating a wide range of psychological problems. CBT is active and teaches you the tools to be your own therapist. You are not alone and we are available to help you feel better. We also practice Gottman Method Couple Therapy, Prolonged Exposure (PE), and Trial-Based Cognitive Therapy (TBCT).
(347) 751-6743
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New York, NY 10001
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Joey Kaufman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
My style of therapy is based upon a client-centered approach. Together, we will develop a treatment plan that is tailored to empower your dreams. I'm a hands-on therapist that incorporates several modalities, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Gottman Method interventions, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy, and mindfulness.
(646) 970-8940
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New York, NY 10017
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Anthony Preischel
Pre-Licensed Professional, MCH, LP
Verified
Verified
I am extensively trained in CBT through the through the Beck Institute of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, REBT through the Albert Ellis Institute, EFT Couples Counseling through New York Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Couples Therapy using the Gottman Method .
Accepting new clients. Knowing where you want to be and not knowing how to get there can be one of the greatest challenges anyone can face. You don’t have to face it alone. As a psychotherapist, I work with you through this process. I have dedicated my life to helping people and have over 25 years of experience working with clients transforming their bodies and their lives.
(347) 970-8528
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New York, NY 10012
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Ethan Cohn
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
My work with couples builds emotional connection and repairs the foundations of the relationship, as well as infidelity, using Emotion Focused Therapy combined with Gottman Method Therapy.
“Close relationships, more than money or fame, are what keep people happy throughout their lives”. This is according to the Harvard Study of Adult Development, the longest study ever done on adult life. When insecurity, anxiety, and disappointment leave us feeling small, disconnected, and alone, our capacity for joy drops and our physical and mental health declines. My clients move to a position of empowerment where unhelpful reactive patterns are addressed and intentionality and security are cultivated. I am passionate in helping my clients live the authentic, abundant, and successful lives they deserve.
(929) 203-7761
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New York, NY 10024
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Johanna Stieg, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I also practice Gottman Method couples therapy.
Many of my clients come seeking clarity on why they feel the way they feel, what's getting in the way of their goals, and how they have established patterns of relating that do not serve them. Others struggle with long-term mental health issues, trauma or crisis. I work with clients to solve problems and diminish symptoms by exploring the roots of their troubles. Through my training and careful listening, I empower my clients to create lasting change in their lives through the insight we gain together while providing a safe space to connect and experience relief.
(347) 215-3175
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New York, NY 10003
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Head In The Right Direction Counseling Services
Pre-Licensed Professional, MFT
Verified
Verified
I use an integrative approach utilizing modalities such as The Gottman Method , Cognitive Behavior Therapy, and Bowen to name a few.
Have you ever felt misunderstood, judged, confused, or couldn't find the "right" words to express yourself? What about feeling lonely in a relationship? We have all encountered or experienced these feelings at one point in our lives. Let's have a conversation to explore and unpack all that you seek. I specialize in Marriage & Family dynamics as well as individual and relationship issues. Unpacking all related topics, we will explore the concepts of communication, commitment, intimacy, marriage, premarital relations, divorce, non-traditional couples, and much more.
(845) 666-3294
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New York, NY 10017
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Adrian Kwiatkowski
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, MFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Adrian utilizes a combination of evidence-based approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and the Gottman Method .
Adrian Kwiatkowski, MS, MFT, of Thriving Center of Psychology is a Marriage and Family Therapist, who specializes in individual and couples therapy. He sees clients with a variety of different presenting problems concerning anxiety, stress management, self-esteem/confidence issues, depression, ADHD, and relationship issues. As a son of immigrant parents, Adrian is also familiar with the pressures that can come from fulfilling a specific role and expectations for one's family. Adrian’s approach to treatment involves collaborating with clients to define goals and then creating a tangible plan for how to make continuous progress.
(347) 394-5046
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New York, NY 10016
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Alison Cunningham-Goldberg Psychotherapist
Counselor, MPS, LCAT, ATR-BC
Verified
4 Endorsed
Verified
4 Endorsed
Alison has postgraduate training in a variety of modalities, Psychoanalytically Informed Approach, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Authentic Movement, and Gottman Method for working with couples.
Alison's practice consists of professionals from diverse backgrounds, who are navigating careers, balancing family, friends, within increased challenges of daily living. Alison has successfully provided treatment for individuals who have had adverse childhood experiences which can manifest in adulthood as depression, anxiety, ptsd, or having trouble setting goals for the future. Alison has extensive experience working with children, adolescence and young adults that identify as neuro-diverse.
(332) 239-1529
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New York, NY 10001
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Erica Oberhand
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
4 Endorsed
Verified
4 Endorsed
CBT, IFT, relational psychodynamic, EFT, Gottman Method , etc) to your unique needs.
Whether you're exploring your identity, coping with ADHD or anxiety, regaining your footing after a traumatic event, or addressing other challenges, therapy can help. In a safe, affirming environment, I'll help you and your loved one(s) feel more secure, confident, and connected.
(740) 570-1318
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New York, NY 10024
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Christina Scalise
Counselor, LMHC, NCC
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
Additionally, I have achieved Level 1 and Level 2 in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
"When we protect ourselves so we won't feel pain, that protection becomes like armor that imprisons the softness of the heart". In therapy, rather than avoiding pain, we learn how to hold space for it. Therapy is a space to slow down, to be present and to fully connect to ourselves and our experiences. When we connect directly to our experiences, we create space to foster emotional growth, gain insight and move toward healing.
(631) 651-6206
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New York, NY 10001
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Deborah L Singer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CASAC, CEAP, SAP, CGT
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
Are you looking for a way to deepen your connection and strengthen your relationship with your partner? Look no further. As a certified Gottman therapist, I use evidence-based techniques to help couples improve their communication, increase intimacy, and resolve conflicts in a healthy and effective manner. With over 40 years of research and success, the Gottman Method has been proven to significantly improve relationships and increase relationship satisfaction. Let's work together to build a happier and healthier future for your relationship. I am licensed in CT, MA, ME, NH, NJ, NY, TX and VT.
(516) 693-2027
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New York, NY 10028
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Joy Mikles
MA
3 Endorsed
3 Endorsed
My approach encompasses Imago Therapy, Psychodynamic, Family Systems and the Gottman method to help bring wholeness and healing to my clients.
If you're looking for a way you and your partner can experience fewer arguments and more times of connection and collaboration, I'd love to help you meet those goals. Together we will work towards deeper understanding, reframing old narratives and changing unhealthy patterns to move you closer to the passionate and satisfying relationship for which you long.
(929) 447-2214 x118
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New York, NY 10017
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Kate Feiner Lorenzoni
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
7 Endorsed
Verified
7 Endorsed
Therapy is going to the gym for your emotional and relational well-being, so I give you a ton of credit for being here, exploring how to get in shape! Throughout my work, I have developed a style that is warm, direct, and actively challenges you to evolve. I have a tremendous working knowledge of evidence-based models, including CBT, DBT, MST, and ACT, as well as psychodynamic theory and the Gottman Method . My commitment to staying updated on current research and utilizing evidence-based models is a testament to my resolve to deliver therapy that actually works to help you meet your goals and experience relief.
(914) 219-6821
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New York, NY 10024
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Erin Gilbert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I'd love to be a part of the change you desire in your life, whether you want to shift troubling moods, resolve relationship difficulties, or end addictions. My expertise includes working with individuals and couples who face a broad range of challenges such as stress, low self-esteem, trauma, grief, infidelity, anxiety, depression, and addictions. I have a special interest in life transitions, such as new parenthood or divorce, career changes, and upcoming or recent high school or college graduates. I have completed level three training in the Gottman Method , and am excited to work with couples to improve their relationships.
(646) 362-1261
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New York, NY 10001
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Edlira Daljani
Counselor, LMHC, MA
Verified
Verified
In working with couples I use a combination of EFT and Gottman method .
Whether you are feeling anxious, fearful, stuck, or seeking to improve the quality of your relationships, I can offer guidance in resolving inner conflict and living authentically. Together we will work to uncover underlying causes of distress, examining old stories that keep you stuck, and moving away from unhealthy patterns, thus creating freedom and fluidity. Psychotherapy has the power to be a metamorphic experience, and my aim is to create a warm, accepting environment to help you gain insight and navigate away from behaviors that get in the way of personal fulfillment.
(929) 227-4942
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New York, NY 10017
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Nurys De La Cruz
Counselor, LMHC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Hello, I am a bilingual Licensed Mental Health Counselor who is passionate about working with individuals dealing with general mental health concerns, and couples looking to improve communication, manage conflict, and develop more satisfying connections. I received my clinical education and training at Columbia University with a Bilingual Latinx Mental Health Concentration. My treatment focus is integrative, influenced by multicultural, person-centered, and behavioral approaches. I have extensive training in behavioral therapies and trained in the The Gottman Method for working with couples.
(347) 732-5757
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New York, NY 10032
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Meredith Shirey
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
4 Endorsed
Verified
4 Endorsed
I use a combination of EFT and Gottman Method for couples.
Whether wishing to reconnect with a partner, recover from infidelity, cope with a loss, or even find ways to amicably end a relationship; I can offer assistance and guidance in not only resolving the issues that brought you and your partner to therapy, but also to gain insight into how your own life experiences may impact the relationship. My hope is that my warm but direct approach to treatment will allow you and your partner to feel welcomed, understood, and safe to speak about the issues impacting your relationship. Please visit the website to learn more about my approach.
(646) 713-0975
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New York, NY 10004
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Valeria West
MHC-LP, MS
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I also use Level 1 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy to help couples learn tools to manage conflict, deepen friendship, and increase intimacy in their relationships.
Reaching out for help can feel difficult for many of us. However, we deserve the chance to heal, grow, and thrive in a way that feels authentic to our values and dreams. I offer a modern therapeutic experience for the modern adult. I aim to be compassionate, authentic, and direct when working with clients; always prioritizing building trust and safety within our relationship. I will help you explore how both past and current experiences may be playing a role in present-day challenges. Then, we will work on learning skills that will help you live the life you wish for and deserve.
(929) 605-4075
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New York, NY 10001
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David Sheinman-Smith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, C-DBT
Verified
Verified
The leading approaches that influence his practice include Psychodynamic Psychotherapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Mindfulness (CPT), Cognitive Processing Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Solution-Oriented Therapy.
David Sheinman-Smith is a Certified Dialectical Behavioral Therapist as well as an Independently Licensed Clinical Social Worker. David received his Master's degree in Social Work with a Clinical concentration from Fordham University and attended the American Institute for Psychoanalysis. David's method for helping clients is based on a customized and collaborative process with every client that he encounters. He provides a safe space with confidentiality and without judgment. There, in your therapeutic sanctuary, you can feel empowered to meet your goals and feel supported throughout the therapeutic process.
(347) 427-5902
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New York, NY 10011
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Nancy Violette
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified
Verified
Couples therapy. I am trained in the Gottman method . I can help you to develop tools and strategies to manage life transitions, decisions to be made, parenting and relation challenges. Working together, we can find ways to alleviate your stressors and help you to cope better. If you have faced a trauma, I can help you.I am an experienced therapist who will help you navigate career, family and life transitions as you move from one period of life to the next. I will assist you in thinking about how to maximize the positives in your life; and work with the difficulties facing you.
(732) 305-2196
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New York, NY 10023
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Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.