LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapists in New York, NY
The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Center is a psychotherapy group focusing on providing LGBTQ+, kink, and poly competent therapy.
We have specialized training and expertise in working with: gender, sexuality, non-monogamy, fetish sexualities, kink, BDSM, sexual functioning, sexual anxiety, compulsive sexual behaviors, relationship conflict, trauma, parents with LGBTQ or questioning children, HIV/AIDS, and sex workers. Please visit our website to learn more about our therapists!
The Gender & Sexuality Therapy Center is a psychotherapy group focusing on providing LGBTQ+, kink, and poly competent therapy.
We have specialized training and expertise in working with: gender, sexuality, non-monogamy, fetish sexualities, kink, BDSM, sexual functioning, sexual anxiety, compulsive sexual behaviors, relationship conflict, trauma, parents with LGBTQ or questioning children, HIV/AIDS, and sex workers. Please visit our website to learn more about our therapists!
You're most likely part of an LGBTQIA+ community and a creative struggling with trauma, depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, and/or ADHD.
I believe in an evidence-informed, holistic, and integrative approach to therapy and medicine, including non-pharmacological tools (ex/ light therapy, exercise, meditation, & supplements). I have experience with survivors of violence and sexual assault & sex workers. My practice is diverse, LGBTQIA+ focused, and with many trans and non-binary individuals.
You're most likely part of an LGBTQIA+ community and a creative struggling with trauma, depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, and/or ADHD.
I believe in an evidence-informed, holistic, and integrative approach to therapy and medicine, including non-pharmacological tools (ex/ light therapy, exercise, meditation, & supplements). I have experience with survivors of violence and sexual assault & sex workers. My practice is diverse, LGBTQIA+ focused, and with many trans and non-binary individuals.
You may feel stuck, uncertain about yourself, overwhelmed by life transitions, or carrying the weight of the past. These moments hold emotional truths that deserve to be seen, heard, and understood. When we meet them with care and curiosity, they can become powerful entry points to deeper self-discovery and lasting self-compassion. The process of turning inward, increasing self-awareness and self-kindness, can be complex, but it often opens the door to meaningful growth. My role is to offer a safe, judgment-free space where this kind of exploration can unfold.
You may feel stuck, uncertain about yourself, overwhelmed by life transitions, or carrying the weight of the past. These moments hold emotional truths that deserve to be seen, heard, and understood. When we meet them with care and curiosity, they can become powerful entry points to deeper self-discovery and lasting self-compassion. The process of turning inward, increasing self-awareness and self-kindness, can be complex, but it often opens the door to meaningful growth. My role is to offer a safe, judgment-free space where this kind of exploration can unfold.
Specialties include: OCD & Anxiety Disorders, ADHD Testing & Therapy, Couples Counseling, LGBTQIA+ Affirmative Care, Athletes & Sports Psychology, Perfectionism, Social Anxiety, Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBS), College & School Stress, Peak Performance Coaching & Biofeedback
Your first session is a personalized match with our Clinical Directors—Dr. Anya Scolaro, Psy.D., or Brie Scolaro, LCSW—who will pair you with the therapist best suited to your goals.
Where We Work: In-person therapy at 312 E 85th St, Upper East Side NYC, In-person therapy in Stone Ridge, NY, and Virtual sessions across NY & NJ
Specialties include: OCD & Anxiety Disorders, ADHD Testing & Therapy, Couples Counseling, LGBTQIA+ Affirmative Care, Athletes & Sports Psychology, Perfectionism, Social Anxiety, Body-Focused Repetitive Behaviors (BFRBS), College & School Stress, Peak Performance Coaching & Biofeedback
Your first session is a personalized match with our Clinical Directors—Dr. Anya Scolaro, Psy.D., or Brie Scolaro, LCSW—who will pair you with the therapist best suited to your goals.
Where We Work: In-person therapy at 312 E 85th St, Upper East Side NYC, In-person therapy in Stone Ridge, NY, and Virtual sessions across NY & NJ
I’m a Neurodivergence and Trauma Specialist with several years of experience treating depression, anxiety, ADHD, Autism, Complex PTSD, LGBTQ+ issues, and personality disorders.
I am a trauma-informed, identity-affirming therapist offering sessions for individuals, couples, and families in New York (coaching and mentorship available virtually worldwide).
My approach is warm and collaborative, emphasizing non-judgment and safety. Using a mix of science-backed tools, I help with a wide range identity and relationship issues, including repairing broken families, partner conflicts, grief and loss, and issues finding community/belonging. I work from a whole-person, non-pathologizing, and strengths-based perspective, where sessions are personalized to honor your unique needs and preferences.
I’m a Neurodivergence and Trauma Specialist with several years of experience treating depression, anxiety, ADHD, Autism, Complex PTSD, LGBTQ+ issues, and personality disorders.
I am a trauma-informed, identity-affirming therapist offering sessions for individuals, couples, and families in New York (coaching and mentorship available virtually worldwide).
My approach is warm and collaborative, emphasizing non-judgment and safety. Using a mix of science-backed tools, I help with a wide range identity and relationship issues, including repairing broken families, partner conflicts, grief and loss, and issues finding community/belonging. I work from a whole-person, non-pathologizing, and strengths-based perspective, where sessions are personalized to honor your unique needs and preferences.
I’m Mel (they/she), a queer, poly, & non-binary therapist-in-training pursuing my Master’s in Mental Health Counseling & Wellness.
My personal identities shape my collaborative and flexible approach to wellbeing. I work with other queer, poly, and/or gender non-conforming individuals to process and heal from trauma (both personal and systemic) and develop new ways of relating in the world.
I’m Mel (they/she), a queer, poly, & non-binary therapist-in-training pursuing my Master’s in Mental Health Counseling & Wellness.
My personal identities shape my collaborative and flexible approach to wellbeing. I work with other queer, poly, and/or gender non-conforming individuals to process and heal from trauma (both personal and systemic) and develop new ways of relating in the world.
I work with individuals aged 22-38 struggling with racing thoughts, feeling stuck, overwhelmed, having anxiety, and relationship issues. I also assist those wanting to resolve past traumatic experiences. I help clients disentangle their thoughts, learn to cope with their stressors, improve their self-esteem, and navigate life transitions. Our work will teach you new coping skills, change your ways of thinking and relating to others, and resolve any past traumatic experiences that might be leaving you feeling stagnant, overwhelmed, or less connected to yourself or others.
I work with individuals aged 22-38 struggling with racing thoughts, feeling stuck, overwhelmed, having anxiety, and relationship issues. I also assist those wanting to resolve past traumatic experiences. I help clients disentangle their thoughts, learn to cope with their stressors, improve their self-esteem, and navigate life transitions. Our work will teach you new coping skills, change your ways of thinking and relating to others, and resolve any past traumatic experiences that might be leaving you feeling stagnant, overwhelmed, or less connected to yourself or others.
I'm a certified Neurodiversity-Affirming Assessment Provider, therapist and the founder of ParityWell, a group practice that specializes in therapy as well as Autism and ADHD assessments for adults who may be high masking, gifted or navigating complex diagnostic questions. I hold a PhD in Social Work from New York University, a Masters of Social Work from Rutgers University, and advanced postgraduate certification in neuropsychological assessment.
I'm a certified Neurodiversity-Affirming Assessment Provider, therapist and the founder of ParityWell, a group practice that specializes in therapy as well as Autism and ADHD assessments for adults who may be high masking, gifted or navigating complex diagnostic questions. I hold a PhD in Social Work from New York University, a Masters of Social Work from Rutgers University, and advanced postgraduate certification in neuropsychological assessment.
As a member of both LGBTQIA and Jewish communities, I know the crucial value of feeling like you belong.
You are already enough, exactly as you are. It’s time to believe that. And in doing so, you may discover parts of your life you’re ready to change.
Do you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or alone? Are relationships not unfolding the way you hoped? Seeking support can help.
I understand the courage it takes to reach out. I work with adults navigating anxiety, burnout, self-esteem, identity exploration, relationship challenges, life transitions, and feelings of loneliness or disconnection.
As a member of both LGBTQIA and Jewish communities, I know the crucial value of feeling like you belong.
You are already enough, exactly as you are. It’s time to believe that. And in doing so, you may discover parts of your life you’re ready to change.
Do you feel stuck, overwhelmed, or alone? Are relationships not unfolding the way you hoped? Seeking support can help.
I understand the courage it takes to reach out. I work with adults navigating anxiety, burnout, self-esteem, identity exploration, relationship challenges, life transitions, and feelings of loneliness or disconnection.
Dr. Andrea Condell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW
12 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in working with individuals from all walks of life, with a particular focus on the BIPOC population, LGBTQ+ community, and those navigating trauma.
I am a trauma-informed therapist who combines evidence-based practices such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness techniques, and strengths-focused strategies to provide personalized care tailored to each client’s unique needs and goals.
I specialize in working with individuals from all walks of life, with a particular focus on the BIPOC population, LGBTQ+ community, and those navigating trauma.
I am a trauma-informed therapist who combines evidence-based practices such as cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness techniques, and strengths-focused strategies to provide personalized care tailored to each client’s unique needs and goals.
I earned my Master’s degree from NYU’s Mental Health and Wellness program and hold a Post-Master’s Certificate in LGBT+ Health, Education, and Social Services.
Hi, my name is Jackie Prestoy and I am a psychotherapist practicing in New York City. My style involves creating space to truly hear and understand you. I believe that being listened to and understood lays the groundwork for change and healing. I am here to support you throughout your journey, wherever that may lead you. I hold a consistent space to explore whatever is on your mind. Sessions with me can involve treatment and exploration of mental illness and/or the pursuit of personal wellness. I believe that everyone deserves care.
I earned my Master’s degree from NYU’s Mental Health and Wellness program and hold a Post-Master’s Certificate in LGBT+ Health, Education, and Social Services.
Hi, my name is Jackie Prestoy and I am a psychotherapist practicing in New York City. My style involves creating space to truly hear and understand you. I believe that being listened to and understood lays the groundwork for change and healing. I am here to support you throughout your journey, wherever that may lead you. I hold a consistent space to explore whatever is on your mind. Sessions with me can involve treatment and exploration of mental illness and/or the pursuit of personal wellness. I believe that everyone deserves care.
Hi, I'm Shantel, I combine a professional and personable demeanor to help patients uncover their inner strength. My approach leaves individuals feeling lighter, more confident, and prepared to face life’s challenges with my guidance. I offer evidence-based methods such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)—all rooted in rigorous training, fostering safety, resilience, and progress, making her a highly respected practitioner.
Hi, I'm Shantel, I combine a professional and personable demeanor to help patients uncover their inner strength. My approach leaves individuals feeling lighter, more confident, and prepared to face life’s challenges with my guidance. I offer evidence-based methods such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)—all rooted in rigorous training, fostering safety, resilience, and progress, making her a highly respected practitioner.
I specialize in working with clients who are confronting substance use and co-occurring disorders, depression, anxiety, ADHD, self-esteem issues, and systemic impacts on the LGBTQ community.
Do the same arguments keep playing on a loop, leaving you feeling lonely even when you’re sitting right next to your partner? Perhaps a past trauma or an old "blueprint" is making it hard to feel safe or truly intimate today. At Gateway to Solutions, I work with individuals and couples who feel disconnected and emotionally exhausted. You might be struggling to move past a specific event or finding that your "walls" are up, preventing the closeness you crave. You want to stop reacting from a place of hurt, heal the underlying wounds, and finally rediscover a sense of peace and physical and emotional intimacy.
I specialize in working with clients who are confronting substance use and co-occurring disorders, depression, anxiety, ADHD, self-esteem issues, and systemic impacts on the LGBTQ community.
Do the same arguments keep playing on a loop, leaving you feeling lonely even when you’re sitting right next to your partner? Perhaps a past trauma or an old "blueprint" is making it hard to feel safe or truly intimate today. At Gateway to Solutions, I work with individuals and couples who feel disconnected and emotionally exhausted. You might be struggling to move past a specific event or finding that your "walls" are up, preventing the closeness you crave. You want to stop reacting from a place of hurt, heal the underlying wounds, and finally rediscover a sense of peace and physical and emotional intimacy.
What would you achieve if nothing were holding you back? I help adults loosen the grip that anxiety and depressed moods have on them. I have been a practicing psychotherapist for over 20 years. Lets set up a call to discuss if your mental health is holding you back. I also have a specialty of ADHD, for those who need the specialized treatment ADHD requires.
What would you achieve if nothing were holding you back? I help adults loosen the grip that anxiety and depressed moods have on them. I have been a practicing psychotherapist for over 20 years. Lets set up a call to discuss if your mental health is holding you back. I also have a specialty of ADHD, for those who need the specialized treatment ADHD requires.
I often work with people who identify as LGBTQIA and those navigating non-monogamous relationships.
Navigating your life path is no simple task. Anxiety, depression, grief, and anger can overwhelm your sense of agency and fulfillment. Certain ways of coping can give temporary relief but leave you feeling stuck and disconnected. You may encounter parts of yourself that make you question who you think you are.
I work with people who imagine that things could be different and want to change. Together, we use an improvisational approach to listening and understanding that allows you to experience yourself in a new way. This work reveals the means to self-authorization, freedom from shame, and the ability to feel more fully alive.
I often work with people who identify as LGBTQIA and those navigating non-monogamous relationships.
Navigating your life path is no simple task. Anxiety, depression, grief, and anger can overwhelm your sense of agency and fulfillment. Certain ways of coping can give temporary relief but leave you feeling stuck and disconnected. You may encounter parts of yourself that make you question who you think you are.
I work with people who imagine that things could be different and want to change. Together, we use an improvisational approach to listening and understanding that allows you to experience yourself in a new way. This work reveals the means to self-authorization, freedom from shame, and the ability to feel more fully alive.
As an Asian American, I strive for multicultural humility and commit to serving under-represented identities (e.g., BIPOC, and LGBTQIA+).
I am a licensed psychologist in New York and New Jersey, offering virtual therapy across the U.S., with a practice grounded in diversity, inclusivity, and expertise in existential and spiritual concerns.
Healing isn’t about just coping. It's about rediscovering yourself. During life’s pain, we long for more than survival. We crave connection and a safe space to make sense of it all. I believe healing happens through authentic, collaborative relationships—the kind where you’re seen, understood, and invited to explore both joy and pain. It would be a privilege to discover a way forward that makes room for both hope and love.
As an Asian American, I strive for multicultural humility and commit to serving under-represented identities (e.g., BIPOC, and LGBTQIA+).
I am a licensed psychologist in New York and New Jersey, offering virtual therapy across the U.S., with a practice grounded in diversity, inclusivity, and expertise in existential and spiritual concerns.
Healing isn’t about just coping. It's about rediscovering yourself. During life’s pain, we long for more than survival. We crave connection and a safe space to make sense of it all. I believe healing happens through authentic, collaborative relationships—the kind where you’re seen, understood, and invited to explore both joy and pain. It would be a privilege to discover a way forward that makes room for both hope and love.
As a queer nonbinary clinician, I have particular expertise in working with LGBQ+ and TGNC populations, as well as supporting people in navigating kink, non-monogamy, and alternative relationship structures.
My work is largely psychodynamically informed (i.e. traditional talk therapy). I am also deeply influenced by IFS (internal family systems) and Relational modalities. I tailor my style to the particular needs and goals of each person I work with.
As a queer nonbinary clinician, I have particular expertise in working with LGBQ+ and TGNC populations, as well as supporting people in navigating kink, non-monogamy, and alternative relationship structures.
My work is largely psychodynamically informed (i.e. traditional talk therapy). I am also deeply influenced by IFS (internal family systems) and Relational modalities. I tailor my style to the particular needs and goals of each person I work with.
I work collaboratively to further existing strengths and to overcome difficulties causing people to seek help. Changes in relationships or careers, personal losses or new beginnings, help with long-term recovery, and maintaining emotional balance are some of the issues that benefit from psychotherapy. I seek to provide an atmosphere of attentive listening, meaningful expression of thoughts and feelings, and some provocation to initiate change. I work with young and mature adults, graduate students, parents, entrepreneurs, artists, creative professionals, and anyone who seeks to integrate insight with action to generate change.
I work collaboratively to further existing strengths and to overcome difficulties causing people to seek help. Changes in relationships or careers, personal losses or new beginnings, help with long-term recovery, and maintaining emotional balance are some of the issues that benefit from psychotherapy. I seek to provide an atmosphere of attentive listening, meaningful expression of thoughts and feelings, and some provocation to initiate change. I work with young and mature adults, graduate students, parents, entrepreneurs, artists, creative professionals, and anyone who seeks to integrate insight with action to generate change.
If you’re queer, trans, nonbinary, questioning, neurodivergent, kinky, poly, or otherwise inclined to resist mainstream narratives of mental health and well-being, then I may be the right fit for you.
As a sex therapist, I have extensive education and experience in human sex, sexuality and gender studies, working with various sexually and erotically-marginalized populations, ethical non-monogamy and polyamorous relationships, kink, sex workers, and with sexual (dys)function.
If you’re queer, trans, nonbinary, questioning, neurodivergent, kinky, poly, or otherwise inclined to resist mainstream narratives of mental health and well-being, then I may be the right fit for you.
As a sex therapist, I have extensive education and experience in human sex, sexuality and gender studies, working with various sexually and erotically-marginalized populations, ethical non-monogamy and polyamorous relationships, kink, sex workers, and with sexual (dys)function.
I work with individuals who are looking to better themselves & maximize their potential. I believe that as social beings, we are made to connect - with ourselves, with our peers, and with the worlds around us. I specialize in bridging the disconnect many of us feel and hope to help you find that sense of connection & purpose that may seem out of reach right now. During our sessions, I strive to help you feel closer to yourself and those around you to help you be the best version of yourself. Whether it's personal struggles, relationship challenges, or the overwhelming noise of daily life, I’m here to support you.
I work with individuals who are looking to better themselves & maximize their potential. I believe that as social beings, we are made to connect - with ourselves, with our peers, and with the worlds around us. I specialize in bridging the disconnect many of us feel and hope to help you find that sense of connection & purpose that may seem out of reach right now. During our sessions, I strive to help you feel closer to yourself and those around you to help you be the best version of yourself. Whether it's personal struggles, relationship challenges, or the overwhelming noise of daily life, I’m here to support you.
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