Emotionally Focused Therapists in New York, NY

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Marcy Davidovics
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EFT
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10024
I handle most cases through an attachment lens as I am certified in EFT.
I have treated many different areas of mental health, including: relationships of all types, anxiety, depression, addictions, etc. I am passionate about working with couples and individuals above 12 years of age. I also have experience in complex family dynamics. I utilize EFT ( Emotionally Focused Therapy -Dr. Sue Johnson's work) with couples.
I handle most cases through an attachment lens as I am certified in EFT.
I have treated many different areas of mental health, including: relationships of all types, anxiety, depression, addictions, etc. I am passionate about working with couples and individuals above 12 years of age. I also have experience in complex family dynamics. I utilize EFT ( Emotionally Focused Therapy -Dr. Sue Johnson's work) with couples.
(917) 746-7848 View (917) 746-7848
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Lex Uehline
Psychologist, PhD
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Grounded in trauma-informed and culturally responsive care, I integrate IPT, ACT, EFT, CBT, and DBT.
Hello! My name is Dr. Lex Uehline, Ph.D. (she/her). I am a licensed clinical psychologist with expertise providing culturally competent and evidenced-based psychotherapy to adults. Recognizing mental health and well-being as inseparable from our social and cultural environment, I strive to foster a safe and supportive therapeutic space that harnesses the power of authenticity and collaboration to promote growth and change. I specialize in the treatment of identity concerns, trauma, anxiety, depression, stress and burnout, interpersonal challenges, family of origin issues, and life transitions.
Grounded in trauma-informed and culturally responsive care, I integrate IPT, ACT, EFT, CBT, and DBT.
Hello! My name is Dr. Lex Uehline, Ph.D. (she/her). I am a licensed clinical psychologist with expertise providing culturally competent and evidenced-based psychotherapy to adults. Recognizing mental health and well-being as inseparable from our social and cultural environment, I strive to foster a safe and supportive therapeutic space that harnesses the power of authenticity and collaboration to promote growth and change. I specialize in the treatment of identity concerns, trauma, anxiety, depression, stress and burnout, interpersonal challenges, family of origin issues, and life transitions.
(646) 798-6473 View (646) 798-6473
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Hannah I. Guz
Psychologist, PsyD
5 Endorsed
Online Only
Guz utilizes Emotion-Focused Therapy ( EFT) in her work with couples.
Dr. Guz is a clinical psychologist with specialized training in anxiety, depression, mood, and trauma-related disorders. Dr. Guz provides an empathic and safe environment where patients can process their joys and their pains, while moving towards their goals. Dr. Guz believes that each person is inherently worthy, and that in the process of being seen and understood, people are able to build insight and recognize their strengths. In sessions, Dr. Guz will help patients build practical skills to manage stress and address the unhelpful patterns in thinking and behaving that underpin suffering.
Guz utilizes Emotion-Focused Therapy ( EFT) in her work with couples.
Dr. Guz is a clinical psychologist with specialized training in anxiety, depression, mood, and trauma-related disorders. Dr. Guz provides an empathic and safe environment where patients can process their joys and their pains, while moving towards their goals. Dr. Guz believes that each person is inherently worthy, and that in the process of being seen and understood, people are able to build insight and recognize their strengths. In sessions, Dr. Guz will help patients build practical skills to manage stress and address the unhelpful patterns in thinking and behaving that underpin suffering.
(347) 830-7191 View (347) 830-7191
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Hope Kelaher
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, LCSW
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10006
I have completed a post graduate training program at the Ackerman Institute for the Family, and have training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and trauma-informed practice.
I am experienced in working with New York City's most modern and unique families, including families with children and older adults.
I have completed a post graduate training program at the Ackerman Institute for the Family, and have training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy and trauma-informed practice.
I am experienced in working with New York City's most modern and unique families, including families with children and older adults.
(347) 751-6733 View (347) 751-6733
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Tess Rafferty
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Online Only
When so much feels uncertain, I am here to help you find your way from fatigue and overwhelm to peace and acceptance. The dedicated time and space of our sessions and a safe, non-judgmental therapeutic relationship will support you in creating the fulfilling relationships and experiences you are longing for. I bring my background as a mindful-living coach to my work as a therapist, and I love to support clients who are seeking to cultivate more compassion for themselves and within their relationships. I believe that everyone can benefit from therapy, no matter what is currently taking center stage in their lives.
When so much feels uncertain, I am here to help you find your way from fatigue and overwhelm to peace and acceptance. The dedicated time and space of our sessions and a safe, non-judgmental therapeutic relationship will support you in creating the fulfilling relationships and experiences you are longing for. I bring my background as a mindful-living coach to my work as a therapist, and I love to support clients who are seeking to cultivate more compassion for themselves and within their relationships. I believe that everyone can benefit from therapy, no matter what is currently taking center stage in their lives.
(646) 681-5802 View (646) 681-5802
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Robin Van Ness
Counselor, LMHC
Online Only
Through the use of Emotion-Focused Therapy ( EFT) and Client-Centered Therapy, I help clients who may typically have trouble sharing their emotions, and empower them with skills to unleash their true self.
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and Certified Rehabilitation Counselor, working with a variety of client populations in New York State. I specialize with BIPOC clients who are experiencing anxiety, depression, life transitions, self-esteem issues, anger management issues, grief/bereavement, trauma, family conflict and strained relationships with parents. I particularly enjoy working with middle-aged to older adults, and my approach to care combines strength based therapy, loaded with empathy and support, as well as skill building and solution focused therapy.
Through the use of Emotion-Focused Therapy ( EFT) and Client-Centered Therapy, I help clients who may typically have trouble sharing their emotions, and empower them with skills to unleash their true self.
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and Certified Rehabilitation Counselor, working with a variety of client populations in New York State. I specialize with BIPOC clients who are experiencing anxiety, depression, life transitions, self-esteem issues, anger management issues, grief/bereavement, trauma, family conflict and strained relationships with parents. I particularly enjoy working with middle-aged to older adults, and my approach to care combines strength based therapy, loaded with empathy and support, as well as skill building and solution focused therapy.
(929) 556-6590 View (929) 556-6590
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Randy Maldonado
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10003
I am trained and incorporate an eclectic approach rooted in CBT, DDP, AEDP, EFT, play therapy, mindfulness, somatic work, and traditional talk therapy techniques.
My name is Randy, and I am a licensed clinical social worker who focuses on co-creating safe healing spaces for children, teens, adults/couples, and families. I have experience providing individual, couples, and family therapy from a relational and attachment-based lens. In my sessions, I prioritize healing from generational trauma while honoring the backgrounds, histories, and cultures of those I work with. My commitment is to support recovery from trauma and the subsequent challenges from their experiences while foregrounding our intersecting identities, ethnic and racial healing, and resiliency.
I am trained and incorporate an eclectic approach rooted in CBT, DDP, AEDP, EFT, play therapy, mindfulness, somatic work, and traditional talk therapy techniques.
My name is Randy, and I am a licensed clinical social worker who focuses on co-creating safe healing spaces for children, teens, adults/couples, and families. I have experience providing individual, couples, and family therapy from a relational and attachment-based lens. In my sessions, I prioritize healing from generational trauma while honoring the backgrounds, histories, and cultures of those I work with. My commitment is to support recovery from trauma and the subsequent challenges from their experiences while foregrounding our intersecting identities, ethnic and racial healing, and resiliency.
(347) 727-1682 View (347) 727-1682
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Yoko Iwaki
Counselor, PhD, LMHC
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001
I am also a certified EFT couples counselor.
I believe in the resilience of the human spirit. My goal is to create a safe space that facilitates self-exploration and personal growth. Through a strengths-based, culturally sensitive and client-centered approach to therapy, I help clients construct and navigate a path toward healing and wellbeing that honors their individual needs and objectives.
I am also a certified EFT couples counselor.
I believe in the resilience of the human spirit. My goal is to create a safe space that facilitates self-exploration and personal growth. Through a strengths-based, culturally sensitive and client-centered approach to therapy, I help clients construct and navigate a path toward healing and wellbeing that honors their individual needs and objectives.
(646) 759-4423 View (646) 759-4423
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Karen Tantillo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10025
I have a warm and relational style and provide safe and experienced guidance using evidence and measurement-based treatment approaches that are trauma-informed and experientially emotion-focused, including certification in AEDP (Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy) and EFCT ( Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy).
I'm a therapist with Octave and Evernorth Behavioral Care Group. Octave is a mental health practice providing high-quality care covered by multiple insurances. Evernorth Behavioral Care Group is a behavioral health provider group in-network with Cigna Healthcare and Evernorth. For my availability, please reach out to Octave’s team by emailing or calling.
I have a warm and relational style and provide safe and experienced guidance using evidence and measurement-based treatment approaches that are trauma-informed and experientially emotion-focused, including certification in AEDP (Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy) and EFCT ( Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy).
I'm a therapist with Octave and Evernorth Behavioral Care Group. Octave is a mental health practice providing high-quality care covered by multiple insurances. Evernorth Behavioral Care Group is a behavioral health provider group in-network with Cigna Healthcare and Evernorth. For my availability, please reach out to Octave’s team by emailing or calling.
(332) 239-2574 View (332) 239-2574
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Jennifer Carlson, LCSW-R
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, MSEd, SEP
7 Endorsed
Online Only
I am trained and certified in EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT), Self-Hypnosis, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP), and a trained couples & sex therapist.
Welcome. I seek to provide individuals and couples with an engaging and collaborative process. Aspiring to be curious and supportive as you identify & explore uncomfortable feelings, discordant self-beliefs, or painful relational dynamics that are keeping you from having more meaningful, enlivened, and loving connections to yourself and others. Navigating together, we will address areas, that may include love, family dynamics, internal conflict, issues of health, work, friendship, school, trauma, addiction, & loss. With couples' areas of exploration sex/intimacy, premarital counselling, financial issues, betrayal & fertility.
I am trained and certified in EMDR, Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT), Self-Hypnosis, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP), and a trained couples & sex therapist.
Welcome. I seek to provide individuals and couples with an engaging and collaborative process. Aspiring to be curious and supportive as you identify & explore uncomfortable feelings, discordant self-beliefs, or painful relational dynamics that are keeping you from having more meaningful, enlivened, and loving connections to yourself and others. Navigating together, we will address areas, that may include love, family dynamics, internal conflict, issues of health, work, friendship, school, trauma, addiction, & loss. With couples' areas of exploration sex/intimacy, premarital counselling, financial issues, betrayal & fertility.
(646) 846-9263 View (646) 846-9263
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Jessenia Ramirez
Counselor, LMHC
Online Only
She uses her background in Psychodynamic Therapy and additional training in Interpersonal Neurobiology and Emotionally Focused Therapy to help clients connect deeply with the varying parts of themselves with compassion.
Jessenia Ramirez founded Capaz Counseling and serves as a Latina Licensed Mental Health Counselor specializing in Attachment and Trauma Therapy, a clinical supervisor, and a consultant. Having worked across hospital, non-profit, and school-based mental health clinic settings, she brings a wealth of experience in guiding adults, children, and families on a path of attunement and embodied relationships, and varying professionals in identifying and developing their skills. Jessenia aims to affirm, empower, and inform individuals on how their encounters shape their sense of self.
She uses her background in Psychodynamic Therapy and additional training in Interpersonal Neurobiology and Emotionally Focused Therapy to help clients connect deeply with the varying parts of themselves with compassion.
Jessenia Ramirez founded Capaz Counseling and serves as a Latina Licensed Mental Health Counselor specializing in Attachment and Trauma Therapy, a clinical supervisor, and a consultant. Having worked across hospital, non-profit, and school-based mental health clinic settings, she brings a wealth of experience in guiding adults, children, and families on a path of attunement and embodied relationships, and varying professionals in identifying and developing their skills. Jessenia aims to affirm, empower, and inform individuals on how their encounters shape their sense of self.
(332) 330-0938 View (332) 330-0938
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Daring Bliss Therapy, LCSW, PLLC - Dalia Bautista
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LMSW, MSW
Online Only
In practice, I implement a blended approach of Cognitive Behavioral, Person Centered and Solution Focused techniques, EFT, AEDP, among other modalities.
I’m a Bilingual Licensed Clinical psychotherapist. I offer a safe, caring, professional & therapeutic environment where we can co-create a relationship essential for your healing & growth. I aid individuals with depression, anxiety, grief, trauma, anxiety, chronic illness, medical trauma, food allergies, difficulty forming or maintaining relationships, & life transitions (I.e. college, aging.) I strive to aid my patients in cultivating greater self-acceptance & compassion for themselves. I have extensive experience with Latinx, people of color & LGBTQIA+. Mis servicios son ofrecidos 100 % en Español. www.daringblisstherapy.com.
In practice, I implement a blended approach of Cognitive Behavioral, Person Centered and Solution Focused techniques, EFT, AEDP, among other modalities.
I’m a Bilingual Licensed Clinical psychotherapist. I offer a safe, caring, professional & therapeutic environment where we can co-create a relationship essential for your healing & growth. I aid individuals with depression, anxiety, grief, trauma, anxiety, chronic illness, medical trauma, food allergies, difficulty forming or maintaining relationships, & life transitions (I.e. college, aging.) I strive to aid my patients in cultivating greater self-acceptance & compassion for themselves. I have extensive experience with Latinx, people of color & LGBTQIA+. Mis servicios son ofrecidos 100 % en Español. www.daringblisstherapy.com.
(917) 905-3872 View (917) 905-3872
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Julia Judge
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
6 Endorsed
New York, NY 10012
I am currently undergoing training in EFT, an attachment-focused modality for couples.
Therapy is a singular space. Here, you receive a careful kind of listening and the possibility of hearing your desires clearly–in many cases for the first time. Perhaps you are coming with specific ideas of what you would like to understand. Perhaps you only know that something has felt “off” for some time. Together, we will be curious about your emotions, relationships, and history, seeking to shed new light on areas that may feel frightening, mysterious, or stagnant. This diligent attention to your experience can result in satisfying and often surprising changes in personal, creative, and professional endeavors.
I am currently undergoing training in EFT, an attachment-focused modality for couples.
Therapy is a singular space. Here, you receive a careful kind of listening and the possibility of hearing your desires clearly–in many cases for the first time. Perhaps you are coming with specific ideas of what you would like to understand. Perhaps you only know that something has felt “off” for some time. Together, we will be curious about your emotions, relationships, and history, seeking to shed new light on areas that may feel frightening, mysterious, or stagnant. This diligent attention to your experience can result in satisfying and often surprising changes in personal, creative, and professional endeavors.
(347) 493-2472 View (347) 493-2472
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Melorra Sochet
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, JD
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001
I integrate a relational psychoanalytic approach with other modalities, including cognitive behavioral, object relations, family systems and emotionally focused therapy.
Whether your problems are specific - a relationship, work, troubling thoughts or experiences, or more abstract - feeling stuck, empty, lonely or misunderstood, quality therapy can offer invaluable support. I work collaboratively, compassionately and interactively with individuals and couples to improve their lives. Following your lead and pace, we explore your past and present, patterns in your life, your perceptions, behaviors and choices, and consider how our relationship may mirror your dynamics in the outside world. Though it can seem impossible initially, gradually you gain the insight and emotional capacity necessary for invaluable lasting change that feels authentic and comes from within.
I integrate a relational psychoanalytic approach with other modalities, including cognitive behavioral, object relations, family systems and emotionally focused therapy.
Whether your problems are specific - a relationship, work, troubling thoughts or experiences, or more abstract - feeling stuck, empty, lonely or misunderstood, quality therapy can offer invaluable support. I work collaboratively, compassionately and interactively with individuals and couples to improve their lives. Following your lead and pace, we explore your past and present, patterns in your life, your perceptions, behaviors and choices, and consider how our relationship may mirror your dynamics in the outside world. Though it can seem impossible initially, gradually you gain the insight and emotional capacity necessary for invaluable lasting change that feels authentic and comes from within.
(646) 679-2772 View (646) 679-2772
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Lauree Berger Turman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
New York, NY 10023
I have been professionally trained and can be found on the list serve's of Emotionally Focused Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy ( EFT), and Attachment based EMDR.
You have come to this site to ask for help. That takes courage, strength, and a willingness to look at your self , to lean into your fears, sadness, isolation,anger, and remove these roadblocks from your life forever. I am authentically with you, supporting you as you unpack all the stories of your life that have lead up to this moment and helping you rewrite your outcome. Together, we will gently, at your own pace, find the blocks that are preventing you from having the relationships and life you imagine having.
I have been professionally trained and can be found on the list serve's of Emotionally Focused Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy ( EFT), and Attachment based EMDR.
You have come to this site to ask for help. That takes courage, strength, and a willingness to look at your self , to lean into your fears, sadness, isolation,anger, and remove these roadblocks from your life forever. I am authentically with you, supporting you as you unpack all the stories of your life that have lead up to this moment and helping you rewrite your outcome. Together, we will gently, at your own pace, find the blocks that are preventing you from having the relationships and life you imagine having.
(646) 849-3577 View (646) 849-3577
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Ariana Kropsky
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
New York, NY 10016
In addition to receiving my certificate in couple and family therapy from The Ackerman Institute, I have trained extensively in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy ( EFT) and in Somatic Experiencing in NYC.
When you work with me, you can expect a curious ear and someone willing to meet you where you are while gently pushing you to grow. With empathy and humor, I’ll guide you in a nonjudgmental way toward problem-solving. This process includes us examining who you are individually and where you came from, your relationships, culture, beliefs, upbringing, and more. Bringing these multiple contexts to the forefront of our work together can help you as an individual or couple embrace the complexities of your experience, heal, grow, feel more connected to yourself and loved ones, and feel more empowered in your daily life.
In addition to receiving my certificate in couple and family therapy from The Ackerman Institute, I have trained extensively in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy ( EFT) and in Somatic Experiencing in NYC.
When you work with me, you can expect a curious ear and someone willing to meet you where you are while gently pushing you to grow. With empathy and humor, I’ll guide you in a nonjudgmental way toward problem-solving. This process includes us examining who you are individually and where you came from, your relationships, culture, beliefs, upbringing, and more. Bringing these multiple contexts to the forefront of our work together can help you as an individual or couple embrace the complexities of your experience, heal, grow, feel more connected to yourself and loved ones, and feel more empowered in your daily life.
(914) 296-7984 View (914) 296-7984
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Emma Frank
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
New York, NY 10001
For couples, I utilized Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) for Couples which focuses on helping couples identify negative cycles in their relationships and transforming them to positive cycles.
I am honored to join you in this therapeutic journey, and as we ask some of life's hardest questions together, I will continue to remind you that you are not alone in your curiosity or confusion. My therapeutic style is rooted in affirming and compassionate care, which centers the idea that YOU define your identities, and YOU are the expert on your own life. Together, we can build a strong and trusting alliance, where the therapeutic relationship itself is an avenue towards growth and healing. To this end, I value a relational style of psychotherapy where we will dive into the relationships in your life, both past and present.
For couples, I utilized Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT) for Couples which focuses on helping couples identify negative cycles in their relationships and transforming them to positive cycles.
I am honored to join you in this therapeutic journey, and as we ask some of life's hardest questions together, I will continue to remind you that you are not alone in your curiosity or confusion. My therapeutic style is rooted in affirming and compassionate care, which centers the idea that YOU define your identities, and YOU are the expert on your own life. Together, we can build a strong and trusting alliance, where the therapeutic relationship itself is an avenue towards growth and healing. To this end, I value a relational style of psychotherapy where we will dive into the relationships in your life, both past and present.
(646) 956-4675 View (646) 956-4675
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Victoria De Paula
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
6 Endorsed
New York, NY 10001
I am certified in Emotionally-Focused Therapy ( EFT) for couples and trained in EMDR with a focus on attachment trauma and relational trauma.
My style is integrative and client-centered. I am certified in EFT and trained in EMDR, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and the Gottman Method. I conduct a thorough assessment with all clients and provide ongoing transparency into my treatment plan.
I am certified in Emotionally-Focused Therapy ( EFT) for couples and trained in EMDR with a focus on attachment trauma and relational trauma.
My style is integrative and client-centered. I am certified in EFT and trained in EMDR, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and the Gottman Method. I conduct a thorough assessment with all clients and provide ongoing transparency into my treatment plan.
(646) 798-1815 View (646) 798-1815
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Laurilyn Jones
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, PhD
3 Endorsed
New York, NY 10016
With couples, I incorporate ACT, EFT and the Gottman method.
Therapy helps you heal the wounds of the past and create the future you want. You can learn to work with your own thoughts, feelings and habits instead of fighting against yourself. My therapeutic style is based on nonjudgmental curiosity and warmth above all. You are the expert on your own life, and together we can build a healing relationship to support you in achieving your goals. If you are ready to break free from old patterns of thought, feelings and behavior that are no longer serving you, I can help you harness the power of your unique mind to get unstuck and move forward in life.
With couples, I incorporate ACT, EFT and the Gottman method.
Therapy helps you heal the wounds of the past and create the future you want. You can learn to work with your own thoughts, feelings and habits instead of fighting against yourself. My therapeutic style is based on nonjudgmental curiosity and warmth above all. You are the expert on your own life, and together we can build a healing relationship to support you in achieving your goals. If you are ready to break free from old patterns of thought, feelings and behavior that are no longer serving you, I can help you harness the power of your unique mind to get unstuck and move forward in life.
(929) 389-0851 x1 View (929) 389-0851 x1
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Happy Apple® - Anxiety, Depression, Couples
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
New York, NY 10019
Our psychotherapists employ a variety of approaches, including Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical-Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), & EMDR for trauma.
We specialize in individual & couples or family counseling & the treatment of anxiety, depression, & trauma. This includes related conditions: panic attacks, OCD, worry, stress, & low self-esteem. In couples therapy, we work through past wounds, teach communication skills, & identify problematic patterns that contribute to resentment & disappointment.
Our psychotherapists employ a variety of approaches, including Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical-Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), & EMDR for trauma.
We specialize in individual & couples or family counseling & the treatment of anxiety, depression, & trauma. This includes related conditions: panic attacks, OCD, worry, stress, & low self-esteem. In couples therapy, we work through past wounds, teach communication skills, & identify problematic patterns that contribute to resentment & disappointment.
(646) 960-3345 View (646) 960-3345

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.