Anger Management Therapists in New York, NY
My practice places a premium on working with you in a psychodynamic, integrative, insight oriented manner using methods that will help you heal whether you are an individual, couple or parents of an adolescent seeking help with adjustment to life issues, anger management, anxiety, mentoring (males) or relationship building.
Are you constantly struggling with self defeating thoughts, feelings or behaviors that continually bring you down and can't seem to find a way out? Are you seeking opportunities to gain clarity, heighten your consciouness and committment to yourself while building self esteem and coping skills? Then allow yourself an opportunity to work with someone who will assist you in exploring yourself in a manner that is truly supportive, holistic and integrative, taking into account the aspects of yourself that will lead to a deeper awareness and appreciation of your life and the ability to develop wholeness and mature wellness.
My practice places a premium on working with you in a psychodynamic, integrative, insight oriented manner using methods that will help you heal whether you are an individual, couple or parents of an adolescent seeking help with adjustment to life issues, anger management, anxiety, mentoring (males) or relationship building.
Are you constantly struggling with self defeating thoughts, feelings or behaviors that continually bring you down and can't seem to find a way out? Are you seeking opportunities to gain clarity, heighten your consciouness and committment to yourself while building self esteem and coping skills? Then allow yourself an opportunity to work with someone who will assist you in exploring yourself in a manner that is truly supportive, holistic and integrative, taking into account the aspects of yourself that will lead to a deeper awareness and appreciation of your life and the ability to develop wholeness and mature wellness.
We all want freedom from suffering- Worries , anxiety, sadness, irritability, anger, depression, panic, insomnia, interpersonal conflict or traumatic memories can plague us, and may lead to escape efforts, including dependence upon externals like food, substances, experiences and relationships for relief.
I use an innovative combination of several evidence-based approaches and modalities, including my favorite- Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy to guide you to make progress towards your life's goals on your schedule. I believe that You are the expert in You.
We all want freedom from suffering- Worries , anxiety, sadness, irritability, anger, depression, panic, insomnia, interpersonal conflict or traumatic memories can plague us, and may lead to escape efforts, including dependence upon externals like food, substances, experiences and relationships for relief.
I use an innovative combination of several evidence-based approaches and modalities, including my favorite- Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy to guide you to make progress towards your life's goals on your schedule. I believe that You are the expert in You.
It’s normal to feel anger, lonely, nervous, and scared.
In sessions I use an integrative approach which includes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Compassion-focused. My additional training in grief, trauma, and perinatal mood and anxiety disorders allows me to provide even more support to others. I aim to meet you where you are
It’s normal to feel anger, lonely, nervous, and scared.
In sessions I use an integrative approach which includes Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Compassion-focused. My additional training in grief, trauma, and perinatal mood and anxiety disorders allows me to provide even more support to others. I aim to meet you where you are
Are you struggling with your marriage or relationships? Are you facing communication challenges, power struggle and conflict? Are you facing infidelity or trust issue and wonder how to you can overcome the betrayal? Are you hurt, angry, confused, or frustrated... but yet willing to work it out and save your marriage? Life and relationship don't have to be this hard. For over 15 years I've helped individuals and couples create solid, and fulfilling relationships. If you experience difficulties and vicious dynamics or challenged by "negative" emotions, I can help you learn the necessary skill to overcome those hurdles.
Are you struggling with your marriage or relationships? Are you facing communication challenges, power struggle and conflict? Are you facing infidelity or trust issue and wonder how to you can overcome the betrayal? Are you hurt, angry, confused, or frustrated... but yet willing to work it out and save your marriage? Life and relationship don't have to be this hard. For over 15 years I've helped individuals and couples create solid, and fulfilling relationships. If you experience difficulties and vicious dynamics or challenged by "negative" emotions, I can help you learn the necessary skill to overcome those hurdles.
Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, anger issues, or simply seeking personal growth and self-discovery, I am here to provide you with a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your thoughts, feelings and experiences.
We will work collaboratively to identify the obstacles that may be holding you back from living a more fulfilling life. Through evidence-based therapeutic techniques, empathy, and a client-centered approach, I will help you gain a deeper understanding of yourself and equip you with the tools necessary to overcome challenges and embrace positive change.
Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, anger issues, or simply seeking personal growth and self-discovery, I am here to provide you with a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your thoughts, feelings and experiences.
We will work collaboratively to identify the obstacles that may be holding you back from living a more fulfilling life. Through evidence-based therapeutic techniques, empathy, and a client-centered approach, I will help you gain a deeper understanding of yourself and equip you with the tools necessary to overcome challenges and embrace positive change.
Everyone carries the strength to grow and flourish; at times, we simply need gentle guidance to uncover it. With a trauma-informed, culturally sensitive, and evidence-based approach, I support individuals working through complex trauma related to family dynamics, parent–child relationships, intrusive thoughts, and emotional challenges. Having lived in both mainland China and New York City, I understand the beauty and complexity of holding multiple identities. I believe trauma and pain cannot be compared—each story holds its own meaning, echoing through generations and shaping how we learn to love and be loved.
Everyone carries the strength to grow and flourish; at times, we simply need gentle guidance to uncover it. With a trauma-informed, culturally sensitive, and evidence-based approach, I support individuals working through complex trauma related to family dynamics, parent–child relationships, intrusive thoughts, and emotional challenges. Having lived in both mainland China and New York City, I understand the beauty and complexity of holding multiple identities. I believe trauma and pain cannot be compared—each story holds its own meaning, echoing through generations and shaping how we learn to love and be loved.
Dr. Pamella Terry is a certified school psychologist and pre-certified mental health counselor in New York City. She specializes in helping clients navigate anxiety, depression, trauma, and life transitions, with a focus on students, young professionals, and culturally responsive care for all ages. Using cognitive-behavioral therapy, she helps clients understand how past experiences shape present challenges and fosters growth through storytelling. Offering virtual sessions, Dr. Terry creates a supportive space for clients to build strength and balance.
Dr. Pamella Terry is a certified school psychologist and pre-certified mental health counselor in New York City. She specializes in helping clients navigate anxiety, depression, trauma, and life transitions, with a focus on students, young professionals, and culturally responsive care for all ages. Using cognitive-behavioral therapy, she helps clients understand how past experiences shape present challenges and fosters growth through storytelling. Offering virtual sessions, Dr. Terry creates a supportive space for clients to build strength and balance.
My clients are often introspective and open to exploring their beliefs, identities, and lived experiences, including culture, spirituality, politics and racial identity. While we honor where your beliefs come from, our focus is on how they influence your present sense of self and shape your path forward. That’s where the power to transform truly begins.
My clients are often introspective and open to exploring their beliefs, identities, and lived experiences, including culture, spirituality, politics and racial identity. While we honor where your beliefs come from, our focus is on how they influence your present sense of self and shape your path forward. That’s where the power to transform truly begins.
Do you ever feel your anger getting the best of you—impacting your relationships, creating distance, or holding you back from the life you want?
I specialize in anger management, often at the heart of relationship and intimacy concerns. We work to build a strong, healthy sense of self and deeper connections in your life. Considering your past in new ways you can break old patterns and make room for new possibilities. I offer homework so you can carry these tools we explore into your daily life.
Do you ever feel your anger getting the best of you—impacting your relationships, creating distance, or holding you back from the life you want?
I specialize in anger management, often at the heart of relationship and intimacy concerns. We work to build a strong, healthy sense of self and deeper connections in your life. Considering your past in new ways you can break old patterns and make room for new possibilities. I offer homework so you can carry these tools we explore into your daily life.
What started as a simmering frustration has become an all-consuming anger, causing conflict in yourself and your relationships.
In therapy, you’ll move past the rage-and-shame cycle and regain emotional control without making yourself small. You deserve a life that feels like a sanctuary, not another battleground. Our goal isn’t to get rid of your fire, but to build a hearth for it so it warms your life instead of burning it down. You'll learn to harness your rage to move with ease.
What started as a simmering frustration has become an all-consuming anger, causing conflict in yourself and your relationships.
In therapy, you’ll move past the rage-and-shame cycle and regain emotional control without making yourself small. You deserve a life that feels like a sanctuary, not another battleground. Our goal isn’t to get rid of your fire, but to build a hearth for it so it warms your life instead of burning it down. You'll learn to harness your rage to move with ease.
I am a psychotherapist with 34 years experience post-Master's degree in Social Work. This is my third career as I was in Finance and risk management previously. I am honored with the highest recognitions of the State of New York, the LCSW-R (Licensed Clinical Social Worker- R) and the National Association of Social Worker's DCSW (Diplomate of Clinical Social). I work with ADD and ADHD children and adults. My practice also addresses Behavioral and other Mental Health concerns. It has enabled me to help many people overcome painful situations and resume a happy life as they define it.
I am a psychotherapist with 34 years experience post-Master's degree in Social Work. This is my third career as I was in Finance and risk management previously. I am honored with the highest recognitions of the State of New York, the LCSW-R (Licensed Clinical Social Worker- R) and the National Association of Social Worker's DCSW (Diplomate of Clinical Social). I work with ADD and ADHD children and adults. My practice also addresses Behavioral and other Mental Health concerns. It has enabled me to help many people overcome painful situations and resume a happy life as they define it.
Are you grieving, feeling sad or depressed, anxious, have uncontrollable anger or feelings of low self-esteem?
Though a licensed psychoanalyst, you will not be speaking to a blank wall. My treatment philosophy is to address the underlying issues that cause the behavior rather than just the behavior itself. Therapy can be difficult but not as difficult as living with the painful feelings you are currently experiencing.
Are you grieving, feeling sad or depressed, anxious, have uncontrollable anger or feelings of low self-esteem?
Though a licensed psychoanalyst, you will not be speaking to a blank wall. My treatment philosophy is to address the underlying issues that cause the behavior rather than just the behavior itself. Therapy can be difficult but not as difficult as living with the painful feelings you are currently experiencing.
I specialize in working with trauma survivors, individuals struggling with anger, and women of color and LGBTQ+ clients.
Hi there! I'm Bri, and I'm glad you're here considering this step for yourself. If you find yourself getting angry more quickly than you'd like, caught in negative thought spirals, or feeling disconnected from yourself and the people around you, you're not alone. Together, we'll identify the patterns driving these experiences and build practical skills to create meaningful change. Through my approach, you'll learn how to manage intense emotions, quiet self-defeating thought loops, and reconnect with yourself and others in ways that feel genuine and sustainable, while feeling calmer, more confident, and able to care for yourself.
I specialize in working with trauma survivors, individuals struggling with anger, and women of color and LGBTQ+ clients.
Hi there! I'm Bri, and I'm glad you're here considering this step for yourself. If you find yourself getting angry more quickly than you'd like, caught in negative thought spirals, or feeling disconnected from yourself and the people around you, you're not alone. Together, we'll identify the patterns driving these experiences and build practical skills to create meaningful change. Through my approach, you'll learn how to manage intense emotions, quiet self-defeating thought loops, and reconnect with yourself and others in ways that feel genuine and sustainable, while feeling calmer, more confident, and able to care for yourself.
Hi, I’m Lisa Wilhelmy, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) dedicated to helping adults navigate life’s challenges with greater clarity and confidence. I work with individuals facing anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, life transitions, stress, ADHD, OCD, PTSD, grief, and relationship difficulties. I aim to provide a compassionate space where you feel seen, heard, and supported in your growth.
Hi, I’m Lisa Wilhelmy, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) dedicated to helping adults navigate life’s challenges with greater clarity and confidence. I work with individuals facing anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, life transitions, stress, ADHD, OCD, PTSD, grief, and relationship difficulties. I aim to provide a compassionate space where you feel seen, heard, and supported in your growth.
My areas of specialty include individual therapy, couples/relational therapy, pre-marital therapy, MindSweat, relationships, depression and anxiety, anger management, relationships transitioning (adding a baby!), long distance relationships, parenting issues, ownership, boundaries and mindfulness.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in New York City. I work primarily with individuals and couples, and believe to live a fuller life, you must strengthen yourself, and the relationships that are in it. Mindful MFT, PLLC was founded to help clients with that process. My mission is to help you fulfill your therapeutic goals by helping you strengthen your emotional well being, improve your interpersonal relationships, gain insight and understanding around your triggers and reactions, while gaining the necessary tools to be in control of your life and the role you play in your meaningful relationships.
My areas of specialty include individual therapy, couples/relational therapy, pre-marital therapy, MindSweat, relationships, depression and anxiety, anger management, relationships transitioning (adding a baby!), long distance relationships, parenting issues, ownership, boundaries and mindfulness.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in New York City. I work primarily with individuals and couples, and believe to live a fuller life, you must strengthen yourself, and the relationships that are in it. Mindful MFT, PLLC was founded to help clients with that process. My mission is to help you fulfill your therapeutic goals by helping you strengthen your emotional well being, improve your interpersonal relationships, gain insight and understanding around your triggers and reactions, while gaining the necessary tools to be in control of your life and the role you play in your meaningful relationships.
I work with people whose lives are changing. They are not afraid to get creative with their therapy. They want a mental health professional who will work with them to achieve balance. They might be dealing with college, or finishing high school. They might be figuring out a job or relationship. They want to understand why things hurt so badly or why they are so anxious. My education, training and experience comes to work for them. I bring experiences as a clinician, an artist, a teacher, a daughter, a sister, a partner, a friend, and a worker into the therapeutic experience.
I work with people whose lives are changing. They are not afraid to get creative with their therapy. They want a mental health professional who will work with them to achieve balance. They might be dealing with college, or finishing high school. They might be figuring out a job or relationship. They want to understand why things hurt so badly or why they are so anxious. My education, training and experience comes to work for them. I bring experiences as a clinician, an artist, a teacher, a daughter, a sister, a partner, a friend, and a worker into the therapeutic experience.
He is also accredited as a Certified Addiction Specialist, a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and a Certified Anger Management Specialist.
Psychotherapy is about transition, you are not necessarily bound by your patterns. It's also about simultaneously addressing symptoms and developing effective and lasting means of combating them. Life stressors, especially during difficult times, challenge us to approach these stressors in more effective ways. We must ask to reconsider ourselves, our behaviors, our responses, and our ability to engage with others.. The practice of psychotherapy is a creative, forward moving, and lasting transition to enhance all areas of one’s life.
He is also accredited as a Certified Addiction Specialist, a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and a Certified Anger Management Specialist.
Psychotherapy is about transition, you are not necessarily bound by your patterns. It's also about simultaneously addressing symptoms and developing effective and lasting means of combating them. Life stressors, especially during difficult times, challenge us to approach these stressors in more effective ways. We must ask to reconsider ourselves, our behaviors, our responses, and our ability to engage with others.. The practice of psychotherapy is a creative, forward moving, and lasting transition to enhance all areas of one’s life.
My areas of expertise include: anxiety, depression, anger, life changes (adjusting to new family situations, jobs, schools, relocation, burnout), ADHD, OCD, ASD, & parenting.
In practice, I balance using research supported methods& being client-focused. That means that I'm curious, open-minded, collaborative, and responsive. However, I am also guided by a number of empirically validated practices that have a history of proven outcomes (Behavioral Therapy, CBT, ACT, and Strengths-Based Therapy).
My areas of expertise include: anxiety, depression, anger, life changes (adjusting to new family situations, jobs, schools, relocation, burnout), ADHD, OCD, ASD, & parenting.
In practice, I balance using research supported methods& being client-focused. That means that I'm curious, open-minded, collaborative, and responsive. However, I am also guided by a number of empirically validated practices that have a history of proven outcomes (Behavioral Therapy, CBT, ACT, and Strengths-Based Therapy).
I work with adults from diverse backgrounds, including South Asian adults who may be navigating stress, anxiety, identity concerns, relationship challenges, trauma, generational trauma, family conflicts, infidelity, anger management or the pressure to “hold it all together
Together, we slow things down, make sense of patterns, and create room to process what you’ve been carrying—at your pace. I value cultural humility and understand how family dynamics, cultural values, and lived experiences can shape mental health in complex ways.
I work with adults from diverse backgrounds, including South Asian adults who may be navigating stress, anxiety, identity concerns, relationship challenges, trauma, generational trauma, family conflicts, infidelity, anger management or the pressure to “hold it all together
Together, we slow things down, make sense of patterns, and create room to process what you’ve been carrying—at your pace. I value cultural humility and understand how family dynamics, cultural values, and lived experiences can shape mental health in complex ways.
I employ an eclectic treatment approach tailored to a client's goals and individual needs. My style is collaborative and non-judgmental. From short-term crisis intervention to longer term self exploration and growth, I utilize a range of therapeutic interventions including but not limited to CBT, Motivational Interviewing, Psychodynamic Psychotherapy and EMDR to support the process of change and the enhancement of one's life satisfaction.
I employ an eclectic treatment approach tailored to a client's goals and individual needs. My style is collaborative and non-judgmental. From short-term crisis intervention to longer term self exploration and growth, I utilize a range of therapeutic interventions including but not limited to CBT, Motivational Interviewing, Psychodynamic Psychotherapy and EMDR to support the process of change and the enhancement of one's life satisfaction.
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Anger Management Therapists
How long does therapy take for anger management?
Treatment duration depends on the person’s specific challenges and circumstances. There are treatments for anger problems that are shorter and more goal-oriented, like Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), which can last weeks to months. Others, like Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) may last between six months and a year, while a more intensive treatment, like psychodynamic therapy, is open-ended, and clients may see their therapist for a year or longer.
How do you know if you need therapy for anger management?
Everyone gets mad from time to time. But when angry outbursts become frequent and cause damage to relationships, whether at home or in the office, it may be a good time to look into therapy. A therapist can assess where a client’s anger may be coming from, suggest strategies for averting angry outbursts, and help a client create a plan to become a calmer version of themselves.
Is there medication for anger management?
Medications do exist that help people mitigate the feeling of anger, but these are reserved for people with anger-related psychiatric disorders, such as intermittent explosive disorder, oppositional defiant disorder, or in some cases borderline personality disorder. In these cases, antidepressant medications may be prescribed to help with the client’s symptoms. In most cases of anger management, however, talk therapy is the recommended treatment, along with lifestyle changes where relevant.
What’s the best way to encourage someone to seek help for anger issues?
It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either themselves or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.


