Lesbian Therapists in Hamburg, NY

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Melissa Stadler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Hamburg, NY 14075
Waitlist for new clients
Your family doesn't look the way it used to, and you're not sure whether to fix it or grieve it. Maybe you and your partner have had some version of the same argument for three years and you're both exhausted. Maybe you love your kids and you're still completely depleted by them. Maybe your adult child has pulled away and you don't understand why. Maybe life is fine on paper and you know it could feel better. Or maybe there's no crisis exactly, just a quiet sense that you've been taking care of everyone else for so long that you've completely lost track of yourself. Generic advice from the internet just can't bridge the gap.
Your family doesn't look the way it used to, and you're not sure whether to fix it or grieve it. Maybe you and your partner have had some version of the same argument for three years and you're both exhausted. Maybe you love your kids and you're still completely depleted by them. Maybe your adult child has pulled away and you don't understand why. Maybe life is fine on paper and you know it could feel better. Or maybe there's no crisis exactly, just a quiet sense that you've been taking care of everyone else for so long that you've completely lost track of yourself. Generic advice from the internet just can't bridge the gap.
(716) 321-5179 View (716) 321-5179
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Jill A. Lewis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
Waitlist for new clients
I provide therapy to teens, adults & couples. I have over 10 years’ experience working with individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, personality disorders, mood disorders, trauma, grief & loss along with individuals experiencing suicidal ideation and/or self-harm behaviors. I offer a relaxed and nonjudgmental space where you will be validated yet challenged and ultimately self-empowered. The therapy relationship is the key to your success. I strive to create a connection with my clients through my casual approach and my genuine accepting nature as well as creating an environment conducive to positive change.
I provide therapy to teens, adults & couples. I have over 10 years’ experience working with individuals struggling with depression, anxiety, personality disorders, mood disorders, trauma, grief & loss along with individuals experiencing suicidal ideation and/or self-harm behaviors. I offer a relaxed and nonjudgmental space where you will be validated yet challenged and ultimately self-empowered. The therapy relationship is the key to your success. I strive to create a connection with my clients through my casual approach and my genuine accepting nature as well as creating an environment conducive to positive change.
(716) 374-0171 View (716) 374-0171
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Nicole Hynes
Counselor, LMHC, MA
Hamburg, NY 14075
Licensed Mental Health Counselor / Therapist located in the Village of Hamburg, NY. Currently accepting new clients, with private / discrete parking and entrance.
Licensed Mental Health Counselor / Therapist located in the Village of Hamburg, NY. Currently accepting new clients, with private / discrete parking and entrance.
(716) 376-0445 View (716) 376-0445
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Meredith Stephanie Baker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
3 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
The most important part of the therapeutic relationship is feeling you have a rapport with your therapist. When life gets difficult, it feels refreshing to have an outside independent perspective on life decisions. I will continue to offer empathy and support, as well as a healthy amount of advice and my objective opinion. I have had too many client's throughout the years that was able to gain empathy in the therapeutic relationship, however missed out on the objective input.
The most important part of the therapeutic relationship is feeling you have a rapport with your therapist. When life gets difficult, it feels refreshing to have an outside independent perspective on life decisions. I will continue to offer empathy and support, as well as a healthy amount of advice and my objective opinion. I have had too many client's throughout the years that was able to gain empathy in the therapeutic relationship, however missed out on the objective input.
(716) 477-3497 x101 View (716) 477-3497 x101
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Monica Jensen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
1 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
Life can be challenging to navigate, and at times we might feel too overwhelmed or hopeless to be able to move forward on our own. Making the decision to seek therapy is a courageous step. My goal is to help you achieve the ability to understand the source of your struggles, gain the insight and understanding, and learn tools to move beyond and gain control over your life.
Life can be challenging to navigate, and at times we might feel too overwhelmed or hopeless to be able to move forward on our own. Making the decision to seek therapy is a courageous step. My goal is to help you achieve the ability to understand the source of your struggles, gain the insight and understanding, and learn tools to move beyond and gain control over your life.
(716) 317-4043 View (716) 317-4043
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Penny Lynn Drag
Counselor, LMSW
2 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
7-11 AM w/ Your journey to empower self deserves empathy, authentic intentions and a passion for the growth you seek. You will find that I am a compassionate and non-judgmental listener, and I am confident that I will earn your trust. I have 20 years of experience with crisis intervention, medication monitoring, problem solving, human rights and evolving relationship dynamics. Additionally, I work with the special challenges that face the LGBTQIA+ community. Clients often tell me they appreciate my authentic, direct and warm style and are pleasantly surprised that we can share laughter together, despite addressing difficult topics.
7-11 AM w/ Your journey to empower self deserves empathy, authentic intentions and a passion for the growth you seek. You will find that I am a compassionate and non-judgmental listener, and I am confident that I will earn your trust. I have 20 years of experience with crisis intervention, medication monitoring, problem solving, human rights and evolving relationship dynamics. Additionally, I work with the special challenges that face the LGBTQIA+ community. Clients often tell me they appreciate my authentic, direct and warm style and are pleasantly surprised that we can share laughter together, despite addressing difficult topics.
(716) 340-4525 x101 View (716) 340-4525 x101
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Allan E Jones
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MSEd, MS, SEP
1 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
I admire & appreciate the courage it takes to initiate & maintain therapy. Individuals & couples call because they are stuck in unhealthy patterns & do not know how to do something different. I assist them in creating & maintaining healthy patterns. Anxiety & panic are struggles for many people. They learn to control the anxiety as opposed the anxiety controlling them. Miscommunication happens because people often listen to talk as opposed to understand. I teach clients how to communicate in the therapy room so they leave knowing how to do it. Clients regain trust so they can reconnect emotionally & sexually.
I admire & appreciate the courage it takes to initiate & maintain therapy. Individuals & couples call because they are stuck in unhealthy patterns & do not know how to do something different. I assist them in creating & maintaining healthy patterns. Anxiety & panic are struggles for many people. They learn to control the anxiety as opposed the anxiety controlling them. Miscommunication happens because people often listen to talk as opposed to understand. I teach clients how to communicate in the therapy room so they leave knowing how to do it. Clients regain trust so they can reconnect emotionally & sexually.
(716) 638-2369 View (716) 638-2369
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Frederick Marschner
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Hamburg, NY 14075
Congratulations! You are taking the first steps to improve yourself and have a better life by visiting this website and looking through profiles. Often times people think of themselves as weak if they find themselves asking for help. I consider it sign of strength. I believe in providing a practical and interactive experience for my clients in a sensitive, supportive, compassionate, and non-judgmental environment. I strive to work with my clients to have a sense of hope for the future. I believe in helping people reach their goals as quickly as possible so they can move on and be the best they can be.
Congratulations! You are taking the first steps to improve yourself and have a better life by visiting this website and looking through profiles. Often times people think of themselves as weak if they find themselves asking for help. I consider it sign of strength. I believe in providing a practical and interactive experience for my clients in a sensitive, supportive, compassionate, and non-judgmental environment. I strive to work with my clients to have a sense of hope for the future. I believe in helping people reach their goals as quickly as possible so they can move on and be the best they can be.
(716) 539-9313 View (716) 539-9313
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Alicia Kay- Moonan
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CLC
1 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
My ideal client is a spiritually curious, heart-centered person, woman, or man who’s tired of repeating painful patterns, especially those rooted in generational trauma, people-pleasing, and family dysfunction. They’re done with surface-level fixes and are seeking a deeper path. They want a blend of grounded psychological tools and spiritual insight to break cycles, reclaim their voice, and live a life rooted in truth, worth, and soul. They’re ready to heal, rise, and embody freedom, clarity, and confidence.
My ideal client is a spiritually curious, heart-centered person, woman, or man who’s tired of repeating painful patterns, especially those rooted in generational trauma, people-pleasing, and family dysfunction. They’re done with surface-level fixes and are seeking a deeper path. They want a blend of grounded psychological tools and spiritual insight to break cycles, reclaim their voice, and live a life rooted in truth, worth, and soul. They’re ready to heal, rise, and embody freedom, clarity, and confidence.
(716) 320-9374 View (716) 320-9374
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Ann E Frank
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
3 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
Counseling is a valuable investment in you. People seek it out for different reasons. Whatever your situation, I’ll be pleased to meet you and sort out the best ways I can support you in achieving your goals. My focus as a counselor is person-centered, trauma- informed and strengths-based. Those are social work terms that mean I want to understand you and your unique story to help you use and build on strengths you might not even know you already have so you can have the life you want. The types of counseling I have special training in can be used to help in a variety of situations. Let’s get together to see what we can figure out.
Counseling is a valuable investment in you. People seek it out for different reasons. Whatever your situation, I’ll be pleased to meet you and sort out the best ways I can support you in achieving your goals. My focus as a counselor is person-centered, trauma- informed and strengths-based. Those are social work terms that mean I want to understand you and your unique story to help you use and build on strengths you might not even know you already have so you can have the life you want. The types of counseling I have special training in can be used to help in a variety of situations. Let’s get together to see what we can figure out.
(716) 209-3926 View (716) 209-3926
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Erin Gurnett
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
“The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction, not a destination.” (Carl Rodgers) We can’t change what we do not explore and the first step in the direction of that journey is always the hardest. But you are here already taking that step, looking for someone to assist with the change that you seek. Everyday life can be in the way of focusing on healing from our past, management of stress/mental health issues and making changes for our future. Setting aside time for yourself is important! You are important!
“The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction, not a destination.” (Carl Rodgers) We can’t change what we do not explore and the first step in the direction of that journey is always the hardest. But you are here already taking that step, looking for someone to assist with the change that you seek. Everyday life can be in the way of focusing on healing from our past, management of stress/mental health issues and making changes for our future. Setting aside time for yourself is important! You are important!
(716) 325-9571 View (716) 325-9571
Mike Robb Counseling Services
Counselor, LMHC-D
2 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
Waitlist for new clients
Accepting new clients: weekend, evening, and telehealth availability. If you’ve been feeling anxious, overwhelmed, stuck, or burned out, you don’t have to handle it alone. I help adults manage anxiety, stress, mood symptoms, and relationship challenges using practical tools and a clear plan for change. In our work together, we’ll focus on what’s keeping you stuck, what’s fueling your symptoms, and what steps will help you feel more stable and in control. My approach is supportive, structured, and goal-oriented, so you’re not just “talking,” you’re building real skills you can use in everyday life. Reach out today!
Accepting new clients: weekend, evening, and telehealth availability. If you’ve been feeling anxious, overwhelmed, stuck, or burned out, you don’t have to handle it alone. I help adults manage anxiety, stress, mood symptoms, and relationship challenges using practical tools and a clear plan for change. In our work together, we’ll focus on what’s keeping you stuck, what’s fueling your symptoms, and what steps will help you feel more stable and in control. My approach is supportive, structured, and goal-oriented, so you’re not just “talking,” you’re building real skills you can use in everyday life. Reach out today!
(716) 321-2606 View (716) 321-2606
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Shari Delisle
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD
1 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
I subscribe to the theory that "Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional". My clients say they appreciate the compassion and expertise I provide. I bring years of experience and wisdom to clients who want better understanding and mastery of their lives. Solution-focused and dynamic, I care deeply about my clients and challenge them to be honest and responsible so that their lives can be more satisfying. I work with clients to reduce depression, anxiety and improve troubled relationships. I value the therapeutic alliance with my clients and offer clients "A lantern, a lifeboat and a ladder" (Rumi)
I subscribe to the theory that "Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional". My clients say they appreciate the compassion and expertise I provide. I bring years of experience and wisdom to clients who want better understanding and mastery of their lives. Solution-focused and dynamic, I care deeply about my clients and challenge them to be honest and responsible so that their lives can be more satisfying. I work with clients to reduce depression, anxiety and improve troubled relationships. I value the therapeutic alliance with my clients and offer clients "A lantern, a lifeboat and a ladder" (Rumi)
(716) 803-6847 View (716) 803-6847
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Shannon Herr
Counselor, LMHC, CEAP
1 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
I approach each person with a deep sense of reverence & respect! My primary goal is to create a welcoming environment in which you feel safe, comfortable, and accepted for who you are; this is essential for effective therapy. I view each person as a whole rather than focusing on their isolated parts. While I recognize the individuality & uniqueness of each person's needs, problems, and concerns, I address issues with the whole person in mind, taking into account all the dimensions of human life: physical, mental, emotional, and relational. My ultimate goal in therapy is to facilitate growth into wholeness & harmonious integration
I approach each person with a deep sense of reverence & respect! My primary goal is to create a welcoming environment in which you feel safe, comfortable, and accepted for who you are; this is essential for effective therapy. I view each person as a whole rather than focusing on their isolated parts. While I recognize the individuality & uniqueness of each person's needs, problems, and concerns, I address issues with the whole person in mind, taking into account all the dimensions of human life: physical, mental, emotional, and relational. My ultimate goal in therapy is to facilitate growth into wholeness & harmonious integration
(716) 952-4317 View (716) 952-4317
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Couple & Relationship Therapy: An MFT Practice
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Hamburg, NY 14075
Making the decision to come to therapy is a difficult & courageous one. We understand this & make every effort to create safety while challenging our clients to create the life they want. We specializing in treating couples who are struggling with communication challenges, sexual concerns, sexual dysfunction, parenting, recovering from affairs (emotional & physical). We have therapists who specialize in kink, nonmonogamy, sexual addiction, eating disorders, and healing from trauma/grief. We know how chaotic people's lives are, so we have availabity seven days a week & have evening hours. We look forward to helping you.
Making the decision to come to therapy is a difficult & courageous one. We understand this & make every effort to create safety while challenging our clients to create the life they want. We specializing in treating couples who are struggling with communication challenges, sexual concerns, sexual dysfunction, parenting, recovering from affairs (emotional & physical). We have therapists who specialize in kink, nonmonogamy, sexual addiction, eating disorders, and healing from trauma/grief. We know how chaotic people's lives are, so we have availabity seven days a week & have evening hours. We look forward to helping you.
(716) 462-5869 View (716) 462-5869
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Dr. Kathryn (Katie) Diebold
Licensed Master Social Worker, DSW, LMSW
Hamburg, NY 14075
I work with individuals from diverse backgrounds to help them process past trauma, break unhelpful cycles, and move toward a greater sense of peace and clarity. I see my role as a guide—supporting you as you navigate your own unique path toward healing. I specialize in EMDR, an evidence-based approach that helps the brain reprocess traumatic experiences, so they no longer feel as overwhelming or stuck. In addition to evidence-based practices, I also believe in the importance of connection—bringing warmth, authenticity, and even humor into sessions when appropriate.
I work with individuals from diverse backgrounds to help them process past trauma, break unhelpful cycles, and move toward a greater sense of peace and clarity. I see my role as a guide—supporting you as you navigate your own unique path toward healing. I specialize in EMDR, an evidence-based approach that helps the brain reprocess traumatic experiences, so they no longer feel as overwhelming or stuck. In addition to evidence-based practices, I also believe in the importance of connection—bringing warmth, authenticity, and even humor into sessions when appropriate.
(716) 321-5392 View (716) 321-5392
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Brandon E Drummond
Counselor, MS, LMHC-D, NCC
4 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
Life is a journey! Let's take the journey together. I engage with my clients utilizing tailored, researched based practices in order to help them rediscover the best versions of themselves. My experience in this field has awarded me the perspective of creating a practice that works with my clients, not simply for. The goals that we work toward are inherently developed by the client; my role is simply to provide unbiased support in a safe, open environment, geared toward developmental and spiritual growth.
Life is a journey! Let's take the journey together. I engage with my clients utilizing tailored, researched based practices in order to help them rediscover the best versions of themselves. My experience in this field has awarded me the perspective of creating a practice that works with my clients, not simply for. The goals that we work toward are inherently developed by the client; my role is simply to provide unbiased support in a safe, open environment, geared toward developmental and spiritual growth.
(716) 219-5748 View (716) 219-5748
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Harmonia Collaborative Care
Counselor, LMHC, MPA
Hamburg, NY 14075
Harmonia Collaborative Care provides assistance for a variety of issues and concerns, from moderate life adjustments to more severe mental health disorders. Our treatment team includes Clinical Psychologists, Clinical Social Workers, and Licensed Mental Health Counselors. They are diverse in training and offer years of experience.
Harmonia Collaborative Care provides assistance for a variety of issues and concerns, from moderate life adjustments to more severe mental health disorders. Our treatment team includes Clinical Psychologists, Clinical Social Workers, and Licensed Mental Health Counselors. They are diverse in training and offer years of experience.
(716) 419-3110 View (716) 419-3110
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Rene A Jones
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MSEd
1 Endorsed
Hamburg, NY 14075
Hello - I have been practicing relationship therapy since 1999 and opened my practice in 2001. In my years of working with couples and individuals, I have learned that change is possible even when it seems hopeless. I understand the courage it takes to share your personal life with a stranger. I am honored to assist couples and individuals who are struggling with relationship issues, sexual concerns, sexual identity and chronic illness. My goal is to assist client(s) in attaining their goals in a healthy way. I invite you to browse my web site: www.couplescounseling.biz
Hello - I have been practicing relationship therapy since 1999 and opened my practice in 2001. In my years of working with couples and individuals, I have learned that change is possible even when it seems hopeless. I understand the courage it takes to share your personal life with a stranger. I am honored to assist couples and individuals who are struggling with relationship issues, sexual concerns, sexual identity and chronic illness. My goal is to assist client(s) in attaining their goals in a healthy way. I invite you to browse my web site: www.couplescounseling.biz
(716) 703-8969 View (716) 703-8969
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Kathy Jeffries-Coppola
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, RN
Serves Area
Do you feel like you want to make some changes in your life but just don't know where to begin. You are certainly not alone to feel overwhelmed, stressed, sad and hopeless or lost. My approach is simple, direct, and focuses on trying to help you reduce conflicts and make you feel more secure with your decisions which ultimately helps improve your happiness and peace in life. Clients say they appreciate my warm and accepting approach and my diverse background. I believe therapy is a powerful experience involving trust which I take very seriously. I enjoy working with adolescents, families, couples, and individuals.
Do you feel like you want to make some changes in your life but just don't know where to begin. You are certainly not alone to feel overwhelmed, stressed, sad and hopeless or lost. My approach is simple, direct, and focuses on trying to help you reduce conflicts and make you feel more secure with your decisions which ultimately helps improve your happiness and peace in life. Clients say they appreciate my warm and accepting approach and my diverse background. I believe therapy is a powerful experience involving trust which I take very seriously. I enjoy working with adolescents, families, couples, and individuals.
(716) 309-5306 View (716) 309-5306

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Lesbian Therapists
What is lesbian-affirming therapy?
Lesbian-affirming therapy is a type of mental health support that fully affirms and reflects a client's lesbian identity. It is rooted in acceptance and does not attempt to change or question an individual's sexual orientation. In this type of therapy, clients work with a therapist who understands the unique experiences of lesbian women. This support is especially important, as research shows that lesbian individuals face higher rates of anxiety, depression, and other mental health challenges compared to heterosexual populations. Lesbian-affirming therapy acknowledges that lesbian individuals may encounter specific stressors—such as coming out challenges, family rejection, workplace discrimination, and minority stress—that require specialized understanding and intervention. Lesbian-affirming therapists often work with clients across all age groups, from adolescents navigating their emerging identity to adults and older individuals addressing life transitions and relationship concerns. Many therapists also provide couples therapy for lesbian partners, helping them navigate relationship dynamics, communication challenges, or external stressors that may impact their relationship. It is important to note that therapists provide talk therapy and counseling services but do not prescribe medication—if medication is needed for conditions like depression or anxiety, they will coordinate care with a psychiatrist or primary care physician who can provide psychiatric medication management alongside therapeutic support.

Why should I see a lesbian therapist?
Some clients prefer to work with lesbian therapists who may bring personal lived experience to the therapeutic relationship. Choosing to work with a lesbian therapist can offer a deeper sense of connection, comfort, and shared understanding. A therapist who identifies as lesbian may require clients to give less background explanation—whether it’s about navigating romantic relationships, feeling unseen in certain spaces, or processing the impact of past relationship challenges. However, a non-lesbian therapist with strong training and a sincere commitment to LGBTQ+ affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who respects your identity and fosters trust, safety, and understanding. However, a non-lesbian therapist with strong training and a sincere commitment to LGBTQ+ affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who respects your identity and fosters trust, safety, and understanding. Additionally, many lesbian-affirming therapists can connect clients to other providers or community-based resources—such as bisexual support groups or LGBTQ+ organizations—that offer additional affirming spaces for connection.

How do I find a lesbian therapist?
The Psychology Today online directory is a helpful tool for finding lesbian-affirming therapists. You can use search filters to identify therapists who specialize in LGBTQ+ care and work specifically with bisexual clients. You can also filter by clinical specialties, therapeutic approaches, accepted insurance, session costs, and languages spoken to find the right fit. Look for profiles where therapists explicitly mention working with lesbian clients, or where they describe their approach as identity-affirming, inclusive, or trauma-informed. Many providers will also list their own identities, which may help you find someone with shared lived experience if that is important to you. You can also look for credentials or continuing education in areas such as LGBTQ+ mental health, trauma-informed care, and intersectionality.