Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Farmingville, NY
My patients are adult individuals and couples with diverse backgrounds and varied needs. They represent every gender, orientation, and identification. I work with patients experiencing a wide array of symptoms and issues, ranging from mild concerns through catastrophic symptoms. People of all ethnicities, faiths, races, belief systems, and cultures are welcome in my (virtual) practice; all can expect to find respect, genuine caring, palpable empathy, dignity, collaborative treatment. Many concerns can be resolved effectively via virtual/remote treatment, but if you require in-person care, I will help with a referral (for now).
My patients are adult individuals and couples with diverse backgrounds and varied needs. They represent every gender, orientation, and identification. I work with patients experiencing a wide array of symptoms and issues, ranging from mild concerns through catastrophic symptoms. People of all ethnicities, faiths, races, belief systems, and cultures are welcome in my (virtual) practice; all can expect to find respect, genuine caring, palpable empathy, dignity, collaborative treatment. Many concerns can be resolved effectively via virtual/remote treatment, but if you require in-person care, I will help with a referral (for now).
In the last few years, we have all had to manage our lives in addition to the added stress and anxiety brought upon by the COVID-19 pandemic. From my 10 years of experience working in residential, outpatient therapy clinics, and lastly, nursing homes during COVID-19, it became clear to me that this pandemic was going to lead to an additional crisis. A mental health crisis. So many have felt the need to be strong and carry on and now that we are moving forward, the mental health toll remains. I started this telehealth private practice in order to provide psychotherapy services to all those who need it and to provide easy access.
In the last few years, we have all had to manage our lives in addition to the added stress and anxiety brought upon by the COVID-19 pandemic. From my 10 years of experience working in residential, outpatient therapy clinics, and lastly, nursing homes during COVID-19, it became clear to me that this pandemic was going to lead to an additional crisis. A mental health crisis. So many have felt the need to be strong and carry on and now that we are moving forward, the mental health toll remains. I started this telehealth private practice in order to provide psychotherapy services to all those who need it and to provide easy access.
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As a sex therapist, I have extensive education and experience in human sex, sexuality and gender studies, working with various sexually and erotically-marginalized populations, ethical non-monogamy and polyamorous relationships, kink, sex workers, and with sexual (dys)function.
Welcome! If you are queer, trans, nonbinary, questioning, neurodivergent, kinky, poly, or otherwise inclined to defy mainstream narratives of mental health and well-being, then I may be the right fit for you. Amidst the hustle and bustle of the New York metro area, I offer an oasis of compassion, creativity, and self-reflection. I have almost a decade of experience working as a body-neutral and LGBTQ-affirming sex educator, as well as working with queer and trans youth of color. I am especially proud to assist others in dismantling internalized forms of oppression and critically reframing their experiences with radical self-love.
As a sex therapist, I have extensive education and experience in human sex, sexuality and gender studies, working with various sexually and erotically-marginalized populations, ethical non-monogamy and polyamorous relationships, kink, sex workers, and with sexual (dys)function.
Welcome! If you are queer, trans, nonbinary, questioning, neurodivergent, kinky, poly, or otherwise inclined to defy mainstream narratives of mental health and well-being, then I may be the right fit for you. Amidst the hustle and bustle of the New York metro area, I offer an oasis of compassion, creativity, and self-reflection. I have almost a decade of experience working as a body-neutral and LGBTQ-affirming sex educator, as well as working with queer and trans youth of color. I am especially proud to assist others in dismantling internalized forms of oppression and critically reframing their experiences with radical self-love.
Fire Island Pines Psychotherapy PLLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SIFI
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Sayville, NY 11782
I am an adoption competent, trauma informed, addiction specialist, somatic trained, and have experience working within the LGBT/ Kink/Poly/SW/communities.
Does the world feel overwhelming and unmanageable? We are with you, offering a safe non-judgmental space to feel comfortable talking about the uncomfortable. We know how hard it can be to navigate feelings of anxiety, depression, struggles with substance use, and safety in the crazy world we live in. You don't have to feel ashamed of your feelings. We have created a safe space for you to talk about your feelings with zero judgment. Our team will work with you to gently bump up against the feelings of depression and anxiety and explore ways that will improve your overall quality of life. We move at a comfortable pace for you.
I am an adoption competent, trauma informed, addiction specialist, somatic trained, and have experience working within the LGBT/ Kink/Poly/SW/communities.
Does the world feel overwhelming and unmanageable? We are with you, offering a safe non-judgmental space to feel comfortable talking about the uncomfortable. We know how hard it can be to navigate feelings of anxiety, depression, struggles with substance use, and safety in the crazy world we live in. You don't have to feel ashamed of your feelings. We have created a safe space for you to talk about your feelings with zero judgment. Our team will work with you to gently bump up against the feelings of depression and anxiety and explore ways that will improve your overall quality of life. We move at a comfortable pace for you.
Blossoming Lotus Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lindenhurst, NY 11757
We are LGBTQIA+ affirming, non-monogamy affirming and Kink affirming.
Congratulations on taking a step closer to becoming your best self! Are you looking for an inclusive safe space where you can be honest and help heal past traumatic experiences? Do you identify as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community or questioning if you are? We work with folx in all stages of their coming out journey. We specialize working with BIPOC individuals, LGBTQIA+ community members and those in non-monogamous relationships. We provide affirming surgery letters after our first session because we believe you should not have to wait any longer to be your authentic self.
We are LGBTQIA+ affirming, non-monogamy affirming and Kink affirming.
Congratulations on taking a step closer to becoming your best self! Are you looking for an inclusive safe space where you can be honest and help heal past traumatic experiences? Do you identify as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community or questioning if you are? We work with folx in all stages of their coming out journey. We specialize working with BIPOC individuals, LGBTQIA+ community members and those in non-monogamous relationships. We provide affirming surgery letters after our first session because we believe you should not have to wait any longer to be your authentic self.
I also have experience working with sex therapy, and specifically enjoy work with non-traditional relationships, ethical non-monogamy, kink and BDSM, and I approach all topics with compassion, knowledge and understanding.
None of us are perfect. But thankfully we can all learn to better identify those issues that may hold us back from personal/interpersonal happiness, to manage conflict and discord, and ultimately to relate to ourselves and others better. Helping people navigate these waters has been my life-long pursuit. I strongly believe that your most important relationship is with yourself, and being comfortable in your own skin is what allows you to build healthy relationships with others. Therefore my goal is to help you accept and love the unique individual inside, in order for you to live your most authentic and fulfilled life.
I also have experience working with sex therapy, and specifically enjoy work with non-traditional relationships, ethical non-monogamy, kink and BDSM, and I approach all topics with compassion, knowledge and understanding.
None of us are perfect. But thankfully we can all learn to better identify those issues that may hold us back from personal/interpersonal happiness, to manage conflict and discord, and ultimately to relate to ourselves and others better. Helping people navigate these waters has been my life-long pursuit. I strongly believe that your most important relationship is with yourself, and being comfortable in your own skin is what allows you to build healthy relationships with others. Therefore my goal is to help you accept and love the unique individual inside, in order for you to live your most authentic and fulfilled life.
You may be a part of a group I specialize in, such as the LBGTQ+ community, kink and polyamory communities, and other marginalized and intersecting identities, but all are welcome.
I believe everyone has the ability to change, to deal with short term or long term issues, or to improve from where you are in life, as long as you're willing to try. My style is eclectic; I frequently use elements of client-centered therapy, CBT, Solution Focused Therapy, trauma informed techniques, DBT, mindfulness, and other to fit your specific needs.
You may be a part of a group I specialize in, such as the LBGTQ+ community, kink and polyamory communities, and other marginalized and intersecting identities, but all are welcome.
I believe everyone has the ability to change, to deal with short term or long term issues, or to improve from where you are in life, as long as you're willing to try. My style is eclectic; I frequently use elements of client-centered therapy, CBT, Solution Focused Therapy, trauma informed techniques, DBT, mindfulness, and other to fit your specific needs.
Jessica Hardial
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW, CCTP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lindenhurst, NY 11757
I am non-monogamous affirming, LGBTQIA+ affirming and Kink affirming.
Are you someone who is coming to terms with your identity? A person struggling with anxiety, trauma or coming out? Someone looking for an inclusive safe space where you can finally be honest and begin healing? If you are looking for a Queer Latina to provide you with support and healing from those challenges in life, you found her. I am passionate about my work with BIPOC individuals, LGBTQIA+ community members and those in non-monogamous relationships.
I am non-monogamous affirming, LGBTQIA+ affirming and Kink affirming.
Are you someone who is coming to terms with your identity? A person struggling with anxiety, trauma or coming out? Someone looking for an inclusive safe space where you can finally be honest and begin healing? If you are looking for a Queer Latina to provide you with support and healing from those challenges in life, you found her. I am passionate about my work with BIPOC individuals, LGBTQIA+ community members and those in non-monogamous relationships.
Rosara Torrisi
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, MEd, CST, PhD
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Syosset, NY 11791
I am an LGBT-Affirmative, Kink-Aware, and Poly-Inclusive therapist.
I have considerable experience in sexual dysfunctions, low desire, erectile difficulties, orgasmic dysfunctions, pre-marital counseling, sexual orientation issues, gender identity issues, sexual minority individuals and families, alternative relationships, trauma, chronic illness, and the effects of these on individuals and families of all types.
I am an LGBT-Affirmative, Kink-Aware, and Poly-Inclusive therapist.
I have considerable experience in sexual dysfunctions, low desire, erectile difficulties, orgasmic dysfunctions, pre-marital counseling, sexual orientation issues, gender identity issues, sexual minority individuals and families, alternative relationships, trauma, chronic illness, and the effects of these on individuals and families of all types.
As a member of the neurodivergent and kink communities, and a LGBTQ+ community ally, I can also provide empathy, insight, and support to members of those communities.
I was inspired to become a therapist because I have always had a unique ability to connect and empathize with others, as well as an intrinsic passion for helping others to lead the life they want to live. I provide a judgment-free, safe space, where my clients can feel comfortable to be their true selves and to talk with me about anything.
As a member of the neurodivergent and kink communities, and a LGBTQ+ community ally, I can also provide empathy, insight, and support to members of those communities.
I was inspired to become a therapist because I have always had a unique ability to connect and empathize with others, as well as an intrinsic passion for helping others to lead the life they want to live. I provide a judgment-free, safe space, where my clients can feel comfortable to be their true selves and to talk with me about anything.
I am a trauma informed, sex positive clinician with advanced training in CBT, DBT, play therapy, & maternal mental health.
I have provided therapy to adults, children, adolescents for 20 years. I am the single mom to a tween. I specialize in working with twice exceptional children, supporting children in high conflict custody situations, and running social skill building groups. I feel it is very important to collaborate with parents around children's treatment goals.
I am a trauma informed, sex positive clinician with advanced training in CBT, DBT, play therapy, & maternal mental health.
I have provided therapy to adults, children, adolescents for 20 years. I am the single mom to a tween. I specialize in working with twice exceptional children, supporting children in high conflict custody situations, and running social skill building groups. I feel it is very important to collaborate with parents around children's treatment goals.
Frank additionally provides couples therapy in a kink-affirming, safe, and judgment-free environment.
Frank specializes in working with individuals with chronic and terminal illnesses, as well as their caregivers. He also specializes in working with individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, and burnout. As a gay male, Frank has a particular affinity for working with the LGBTQIA+ community. His experience is with diverse populations and he feels particularly passionate about providing therapy to marginalized communities and empowering those experiencing societal oppression.
Frank additionally provides couples therapy in a kink-affirming, safe, and judgment-free environment.
Frank specializes in working with individuals with chronic and terminal illnesses, as well as their caregivers. He also specializes in working with individuals experiencing anxiety, depression, and burnout. As a gay male, Frank has a particular affinity for working with the LGBTQIA+ community. His experience is with diverse populations and he feels particularly passionate about providing therapy to marginalized communities and empowering those experiencing societal oppression.
Dessiree Pendleton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Merrick, NY 11566
I offer affirming support to those in marginalized communities, including individuals identifying as LGBTQ+, kink/BDSM practitioners, polyamorous, and those experiencing gender or sexual identity exploration.
My practice integrates both traditional and holistic therapeutic modalities. In addition to my clinical training, I am a certified reiki practitioner, 200-hour certified yoga teacher, and certified in sound healing, tapping, and mindfulness practices. My training in these areas allows me to offer a well-rounded approach to therapy.
I offer affirming support to those in marginalized communities, including individuals identifying as LGBTQ+, kink/BDSM practitioners, polyamorous, and those experiencing gender or sexual identity exploration.
My practice integrates both traditional and holistic therapeutic modalities. In addition to my clinical training, I am a certified reiki practitioner, 200-hour certified yoga teacher, and certified in sound healing, tapping, and mindfulness practices. My training in these areas allows me to offer a well-rounded approach to therapy.
My practice is affirming of LGBTQ+ identities, kink communities, and consensual non-monogamy.
My approach is sex-positive, holistic, trauma-informed, and relational. I see you as a whole person, shaped by your experiences, but not limited by them. Our work might include somatic awareness and exploration of what safety, pleasure, and empowerment mean for you.
My practice is affirming of LGBTQ+ identities, kink communities, and consensual non-monogamy.
My approach is sex-positive, holistic, trauma-informed, and relational. I see you as a whole person, shaped by your experiences, but not limited by them. Our work might include somatic awareness and exploration of what safety, pleasure, and empowerment mean for you.
I utilize a holistic and body-based approach to healing complex trauma, internal conflict and domestic or religious abuse. My clients often come to me being very insightful on their feelings yet finding themselves stuck in shame or unrelenting self-criticism. Often they feel stuck in conflict in a cycle of wanting to create change while wanting to stay safe in the chaos they know. If this sounds like you, I am here to help you foster curiosity and compassion for inner healing.
I utilize a holistic and body-based approach to healing complex trauma, internal conflict and domestic or religious abuse. My clients often come to me being very insightful on their feelings yet finding themselves stuck in shame or unrelenting self-criticism. Often they feel stuck in conflict in a cycle of wanting to create change while wanting to stay safe in the chaos they know. If this sounds like you, I am here to help you foster curiosity and compassion for inner healing.
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Board Certified Counselor, and Approved Clinical Supervisor. I specialize in providing services for adults and couples adjusting to identity development, parenthood, and many other life changes. I have extensive experience working with clients experiencing depression, anxiety, and difficulties adjusting and coping, as well as better understanding their sexuality and sexual expression, relationship status, various identities, and changes associated with parenthood.
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Board Certified Counselor, and Approved Clinical Supervisor. I specialize in providing services for adults and couples adjusting to identity development, parenthood, and many other life changes. I have extensive experience working with clients experiencing depression, anxiety, and difficulties adjusting and coping, as well as better understanding their sexuality and sexual expression, relationship status, various identities, and changes associated with parenthood.
My ideal clients are individuals facing anxiety, trauma, executive functioning challenges, or relational concerns. They may have been misunderstood or overlooked in traditional spaces and seek a therapist who validates their experiences rather than pathologizing them. Their needs include self-acceptance, emotional regulation, boundary-setting, and processing past trauma. They want therapy that helps them unmask, build resilience, and navigate life authentically. I provide a collaborative, affirming space where they can feel seen, supported, and empowered to create a life that aligns with their values.
My ideal clients are individuals facing anxiety, trauma, executive functioning challenges, or relational concerns. They may have been misunderstood or overlooked in traditional spaces and seek a therapist who validates their experiences rather than pathologizing them. Their needs include self-acceptance, emotional regulation, boundary-setting, and processing past trauma. They want therapy that helps them unmask, build resilience, and navigate life authentically. I provide a collaborative, affirming space where they can feel seen, supported, and empowered to create a life that aligns with their values.
Sometimes life hits us hard. If you are dealing with a big transition, depression, anxiety, inattention, irritability or struggling to find hope, I’m here to say you are not alone and you can feel better. I help families, couples, adolescents, and adults learn how to manage diverse mental health challenges. We can build a collaborative environment to approach your goals and build skills to healthily cope with your troubles. As a person who has struggled with mental health issues in the past, I look forward to giving back and helping others work through their struggles.
Sometimes life hits us hard. If you are dealing with a big transition, depression, anxiety, inattention, irritability or struggling to find hope, I’m here to say you are not alone and you can feel better. I help families, couples, adolescents, and adults learn how to manage diverse mental health challenges. We can build a collaborative environment to approach your goals and build skills to healthily cope with your troubles. As a person who has struggled with mental health issues in the past, I look forward to giving back and helping others work through their struggles.
Kristina Scaglione
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Port Jefferson, NY 11777
Taking the first step to a healthier you does not have to be accomplished alone. I can assist you in your goals and motivation towards a better quality of life. I am clinical supervisor and am Certified in DBT, Certified in EFT, Specializing in LGBTQIA+ issues/parenting/relationships, spirituality/intuition, mindfulness skills for stress management. I do NOT accept insurance. I also work out of a second location with an amazing clinical group practice: Positive Energy Counseling Center/Institute. Lets take the first step in positive changes for your life together. I am a LGBTQIA+ and Poly Affirming therapist. Insurance NOT accepted.
Taking the first step to a healthier you does not have to be accomplished alone. I can assist you in your goals and motivation towards a better quality of life. I am clinical supervisor and am Certified in DBT, Certified in EFT, Specializing in LGBTQIA+ issues/parenting/relationships, spirituality/intuition, mindfulness skills for stress management. I do NOT accept insurance. I also work out of a second location with an amazing clinical group practice: Positive Energy Counseling Center/Institute. Lets take the first step in positive changes for your life together. I am a LGBTQIA+ and Poly Affirming therapist. Insurance NOT accepted.
I am a bilingual (Spanish and English) therapist with experience in the treatment of trauma, depression, anxiety, and challenges related to identity, relationships, and life transitions. I have worked with clients of diverse gender and sexual identities, racial, ethnic, and cultural backgrounds, as well as those practicing non-conventional relationship structures such as consensual non-monogamy and polyamory.
I am a bilingual (Spanish and English) therapist with experience in the treatment of trauma, depression, anxiety, and challenges related to identity, relationships, and life transitions. I have worked with clients of diverse gender and sexual identities, racial, ethnic, and cultural backgrounds, as well as those practicing non-conventional relationship structures such as consensual non-monogamy and polyamory.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.