Infidelity Therapists in De Witt, NY
Susan Hartman Brenizer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, NY
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Recently featured on Syracuse Channel 9, WSYR segment on "Online Infidelity" as relationship expert.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Fellow, AAMFT with 40+ years experience. Special expertise in working with couples, and individual adults. Training in psychodynamic therapy, systems' and behavioral therapy. Extensive expertise: couples therapy, depression, grief, loss, trauma, abuse and affair recovery, and divorce recovery. Columnist for "Syracuse Post Standard" newspaper "Shrink Rap", 2007- 2014. Featured in PBS Documentary entitled "Pain Runs Deep: Relationship Violence". Interview on NPR, WCNY, and "Brides" Magazine, 2023 and 2024. Recently inducted into Marquis "Who's Who in America", March 2024.
Recently featured on Syracuse Channel 9, WSYR segment on "Online Infidelity" as relationship expert.
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Clinical Fellow, AAMFT with 40+ years experience. Special expertise in working with couples, and individual adults. Training in psychodynamic therapy, systems' and behavioral therapy. Extensive expertise: couples therapy, depression, grief, loss, trauma, abuse and affair recovery, and divorce recovery. Columnist for "Syracuse Post Standard" newspaper "Shrink Rap", 2007- 2014. Featured in PBS Documentary entitled "Pain Runs Deep: Relationship Violence". Interview on NPR, WCNY, and "Brides" Magazine, 2023 and 2024. Recently inducted into Marquis "Who's Who in America", March 2024.
I am unable to accept new clients for both in-person and telehealth therapy at this time. I understand how difficult it can be for some to ask for help. Whether you're considering entering therapy for the first time, or have prior experience, the first priority is on developing a sense of safety in the therapy session. Once a trusting connection is developed, I allow the client to identify their own goals. I believe therapy is about change, but the type of change we work toward and the pace with which we work, is determined by the client. I provide support and guidance in this process.
I am unable to accept new clients for both in-person and telehealth therapy at this time. I understand how difficult it can be for some to ask for help. Whether you're considering entering therapy for the first time, or have prior experience, the first priority is on developing a sense of safety in the therapy session. Once a trusting connection is developed, I allow the client to identify their own goals. I believe therapy is about change, but the type of change we work toward and the pace with which we work, is determined by the client. I provide support and guidance in this process.
Eastside Counseling Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
All people face challenges at certain times in their lives. We are a group practice with therapists who possess are variety of skills and expertise to focus on helping children and adults with a wide range of challenges including anxiety, depression, ADHD, ASD, LGTBQ+ issues, grief, life transitions and more. We will work with you to identify your needs and goals and provide you with the tools and skills you need to reach them in a supportive and confidential environment.
All people face challenges at certain times in their lives. We are a group practice with therapists who possess are variety of skills and expertise to focus on helping children and adults with a wide range of challenges including anxiety, depression, ADHD, ASD, LGTBQ+ issues, grief, life transitions and more. We will work with you to identify your needs and goals and provide you with the tools and skills you need to reach them in a supportive and confidential environment.
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Karen Fernandez-Cosgrove
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I have over 25 years of therapeutic experience working with individuals, couples, and families who are dealing with multiple issues including relationship issues, infidelity, anxiety, life transitions, grief, infertility, and parenting issues.
Often the hardest part of solving problems is finding the right person to help you. Since therapy can be an exciting, challenging, and at times a daunting process, it is important to know that you are working with a therapist who is experienced with the issues you are struggling with.
I have over 25 years of therapeutic experience working with individuals, couples, and families who are dealing with multiple issues including relationship issues, infidelity, anxiety, life transitions, grief, infertility, and parenting issues.
Often the hardest part of solving problems is finding the right person to help you. Since therapy can be an exciting, challenging, and at times a daunting process, it is important to know that you are working with a therapist who is experienced with the issues you are struggling with.
I work primarily with couples struggling with communication issues, emotional disconnection, and infidelity.
We are a group practice curating a safe space for BIPOC clientele to "just let it all out". We provide specialized expertise in working with young to middle-aged couples who have been dealing with a range of issues: anxiety, depression, relationships, mood disorders, natural transitions (e.g. marriage, career changes) & trauma that is having a negative impact on their relationships. We have worked with clients of diverse backgrounds. Our therapeutic work is eclectic with individualized, interactive therapy.
I work primarily with couples struggling with communication issues, emotional disconnection, and infidelity.
We are a group practice curating a safe space for BIPOC clientele to "just let it all out". We provide specialized expertise in working with young to middle-aged couples who have been dealing with a range of issues: anxiety, depression, relationships, mood disorders, natural transitions (e.g. marriage, career changes) & trauma that is having a negative impact on their relationships. We have worked with clients of diverse backgrounds. Our therapeutic work is eclectic with individualized, interactive therapy.
Dr. Mitch-Lisa Marriage/Couple Workshop Specialist
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Syracuse, NY 13202
Deeper Love & Intimacy, Low Self-Esteem/Self-Worth, Depression & Anxiety, Marriage/Couples Workshops, Infidelity, Narcissism-Borderline-Bi-Polar, Gaslighting-Love Bombing, All Addictions, Substance & Alcohol Abuse, Porn Addiction-Social Media, Relationships/Couples, Marriages-Pre-Marriages, Parenting & Blended Families, Anger & Control Issues, Communication Breakdowns (Skills & Rules on Website).
Dr. Mitch PsyD & Lisa Couples Life Coach Specialize in Marriage/Couples & Alcohol Workshops. We have 35 Years of Co-Leading our Workshops (Male/Female Perspective). Our Private Workshops are Not Traditional Counseling. We Provide Two Professionals that Specialize in the Treatment of Relationships and Addictions. We are Opened: Days, Eve's, Weekends & Same Day Appt's Available. These Workshops are Designed for a Rapid Recovery and are Powerful & Comprehensive. Our Marriage/Couples, Alcohol & Anxiety Workshops have an 85% Rate of Success when you Complete our Program. In Addition, we have a After-Care Program for Tune-Ups for Life.
Deeper Love & Intimacy, Low Self-Esteem/Self-Worth, Depression & Anxiety, Marriage/Couples Workshops, Infidelity, Narcissism-Borderline-Bi-Polar, Gaslighting-Love Bombing, All Addictions, Substance & Alcohol Abuse, Porn Addiction-Social Media, Relationships/Couples, Marriages-Pre-Marriages, Parenting & Blended Families, Anger & Control Issues, Communication Breakdowns (Skills & Rules on Website).
Dr. Mitch PsyD & Lisa Couples Life Coach Specialize in Marriage/Couples & Alcohol Workshops. We have 35 Years of Co-Leading our Workshops (Male/Female Perspective). Our Private Workshops are Not Traditional Counseling. We Provide Two Professionals that Specialize in the Treatment of Relationships and Addictions. We are Opened: Days, Eve's, Weekends & Same Day Appt's Available. These Workshops are Designed for a Rapid Recovery and are Powerful & Comprehensive. Our Marriage/Couples, Alcohol & Anxiety Workshops have an 85% Rate of Success when you Complete our Program. In Addition, we have a After-Care Program for Tune-Ups for Life.
Aisling Marriage and Family Therapy, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North Syracuse, NY 13212
Issues including anxiety, infidelity, sexual concerns, divorce, remarriage, communication issues, intimacy, trauma, and infertility.
As a practice, we are a multidisciplinary team of Clinicians with varying educational degrees, licensees, and areas of expertise. Supervised by Sara Stockton, LMFT, MA, this group practice is systemically and relational trained to provide specialized treatment including individual, play, family therapy, couples therapy, substance abuse treatment, intimacy and affair treatment, Mindfulness Based Therapy, psychological testing and medication management. Our clinical work is founded on a belief in the healing potential of the therapeutic relationship and the importance of providing a safe environment for all of our clients.
Issues including anxiety, infidelity, sexual concerns, divorce, remarriage, communication issues, intimacy, trauma, and infertility.
As a practice, we are a multidisciplinary team of Clinicians with varying educational degrees, licensees, and areas of expertise. Supervised by Sara Stockton, LMFT, MA, this group practice is systemically and relational trained to provide specialized treatment including individual, play, family therapy, couples therapy, substance abuse treatment, intimacy and affair treatment, Mindfulness Based Therapy, psychological testing and medication management. Our clinical work is founded on a belief in the healing potential of the therapeutic relationship and the importance of providing a safe environment for all of our clients.
Eileen Donna Loban -The Family Center
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Baldwinsville, NY 13027
I also very much welcome couples who need help with issues including, but not limited to, infidelity, as well as sex related struggles.
My belief in the process of therapy is working to truly understand who you are, and allowing your genuine self to thrive. As your therapist, together, we could work through the fears and doubts, the anxieties and feeling trapped in your own mind, the feelings of hopelessness, the anger from knowing you are holding yourself back, or any struggles that you may be living with.
I also very much welcome couples who need help with issues including, but not limited to, infidelity, as well as sex related struggles.
My belief in the process of therapy is working to truly understand who you are, and allowing your genuine self to thrive. As your therapist, together, we could work through the fears and doubts, the anxieties and feeling trapped in your own mind, the feelings of hopelessness, the anger from knowing you are holding yourself back, or any struggles that you may be living with.
Dr. Jennifer Coppola
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT-D
Verified Verified
Manlius, NY 13104
Waitlist for new clients
My areas of clinical focus are a broad range of presenting issues such as: anxiety, depression, relationship adjustments, communication, building stronger bonds, healing from infidelity, parenting and parent/child relationships and identity development.
I own Coppola Marriage and Family Therapy, PLLC which provides compassionate and supportive individual, couple and family therapy to people of all ages and identities. As a social justice oriented clinician, I focus on culturally sensitive interventions. My specialty areas include but are not limited to couples therapy as well as supporting LGBTQIA+ communities. I am uniquely positioned to walk with you on your journey to improved mental health and well-being. To learn more, please visit my website.
My areas of clinical focus are a broad range of presenting issues such as: anxiety, depression, relationship adjustments, communication, building stronger bonds, healing from infidelity, parenting and parent/child relationships and identity development.
I own Coppola Marriage and Family Therapy, PLLC which provides compassionate and supportive individual, couple and family therapy to people of all ages and identities. As a social justice oriented clinician, I focus on culturally sensitive interventions. My specialty areas include but are not limited to couples therapy as well as supporting LGBTQIA+ communities. I am uniquely positioned to walk with you on your journey to improved mental health and well-being. To learn more, please visit my website.
It would be my pleasure to help you address: male performance problems; low or mismatched sexual desire in couples; infidelity; ageing; illness; orgasm difficulties; sexual identity; sexual pain; out of control sexual behaviors or problems w/ pornography; sexual trauma, accepting kinks; navigating ethical non-monogamy, and more.
A skilled therapist can help you work through difficulties you may not have been able to overcome on your own. Life is hard; and the challenges, setbacks, & trauma we experience along the way can stand in the way of happiness. But, I believe that a loving connection to yourself & others can buffer stress & perhaps even make life a little easier. How I can help: I am a generalist therapist w/specialties in Sex Therapy, Couples/Marital Therapy, Maternal/Reproductive Mental Health (specializing in perinatal loss & grief), and breast & GYN cancer recovery.
It would be my pleasure to help you address: male performance problems; low or mismatched sexual desire in couples; infidelity; ageing; illness; orgasm difficulties; sexual identity; sexual pain; out of control sexual behaviors or problems w/ pornography; sexual trauma, accepting kinks; navigating ethical non-monogamy, and more.
A skilled therapist can help you work through difficulties you may not have been able to overcome on your own. Life is hard; and the challenges, setbacks, & trauma we experience along the way can stand in the way of happiness. But, I believe that a loving connection to yourself & others can buffer stress & perhaps even make life a little easier. How I can help: I am a generalist therapist w/specialties in Sex Therapy, Couples/Marital Therapy, Maternal/Reproductive Mental Health (specializing in perinatal loss & grief), and breast & GYN cancer recovery.
I specialize in anxiety disorders, including OCD, relationship issues, infidelity, coping skills, boundary setting, self-exploration, LGBTQIA+ affirming care, and ADHD.
Therapy should empower you to invest in yourself, helping you grow into the person you aspire to be or accept who you are today. Whether you're an individual, child, adolescent, couple, or part of a family, my goal is to support your journey toward healthier relationships, personal growth, and acceptance.
In relationship therapy, I help couples and families improve communication, resolve conflicts, and create emotional safety, fostering deeper understanding and connection.
In individual therapy, I guide clients in exploring their patterns and gaining insight into themselves, empowering them to make intentional changes that
I specialize in anxiety disorders, including OCD, relationship issues, infidelity, coping skills, boundary setting, self-exploration, LGBTQIA+ affirming care, and ADHD.
Therapy should empower you to invest in yourself, helping you grow into the person you aspire to be or accept who you are today. Whether you're an individual, child, adolescent, couple, or part of a family, my goal is to support your journey toward healthier relationships, personal growth, and acceptance.
In relationship therapy, I help couples and families improve communication, resolve conflicts, and create emotional safety, fostering deeper understanding and connection.
In individual therapy, I guide clients in exploring their patterns and gaining insight into themselves, empowering them to make intentional changes that
Kate van Ingen Kelsen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
My work with couples enhances communication when it has been hindered by trauma, illness, infidelity, or other stressors.
I integrate a mind-body perspective into my work. Our racing minds let us know when we are feeling stress. Our bodies exhibit stress as tension, pain, or illness. I teach mindfulness and somatic wellness skills that help regulate and calm the nervous system. A calm mind & body aids exploration, growth, and communication.
My work with couples enhances communication when it has been hindered by trauma, illness, infidelity, or other stressors.
I integrate a mind-body perspective into my work. Our racing minds let us know when we are feeling stress. Our bodies exhibit stress as tension, pain, or illness. I teach mindfulness and somatic wellness skills that help regulate and calm the nervous system. A calm mind & body aids exploration, growth, and communication.
I have experience helping clients navigate high stress situations involving chronic conditions and disabilities, legal and material hardships, blended families, infidelity, divorce, and coparenting challenges.
I work with individuals, families, and couples struggling with a range of issues, including loss, transitions, and relational difficulties. You may be trying to loosen a gridlock, whether in work, relationships, or creative practice; or looking for someone who can listen and help things get heard. I enjoy working with adults as well as children and teens, both in-person and online.
I have experience helping clients navigate high stress situations involving chronic conditions and disabilities, legal and material hardships, blended families, infidelity, divorce, and coparenting challenges.
I work with individuals, families, and couples struggling with a range of issues, including loss, transitions, and relational difficulties. You may be trying to loosen a gridlock, whether in work, relationships, or creative practice; or looking for someone who can listen and help things get heard. I enjoy working with adults as well as children and teens, both in-person and online.
Healing from sexual trauma or infidelity?
Specialties include: Couples counseling, sexual trauma work, sexual dysfunctions, compulsive sexual behavior, low desire/orgasmic difficulties, redefining sex for those with chronic health concerns/disabilities, difficulty communicating about sex & body image. I work with clients of all gender expressions, sexual orientations and Kink/BDSM/Poly communities.
Healing from sexual trauma or infidelity?
Specialties include: Couples counseling, sexual trauma work, sexual dysfunctions, compulsive sexual behavior, low desire/orgasmic difficulties, redefining sex for those with chronic health concerns/disabilities, difficulty communicating about sex & body image. I work with clients of all gender expressions, sexual orientations and Kink/BDSM/Poly communities.
I also have experience with couples considering separation/divorce, and recovering from affairs.
Relationships are affected by many factors, including life stressors, self-image, past harms, and beliefs about how relationships “should” be. When they’re not going well, we can feel hurt, disconnected, and frustrated, and this can make other areas of our lives hard too. My passion and expertise lie in supporting a diverse array of adult clients in all types of relationships: couples, romantic systems, friends, and family. I also see individuals who want to understand how they show up in relationships. I welcome and honor your unique values, culture, race, gender, and sexuality, and I’m LGBTQ+, ENM, and Kink affirming.
I also have experience with couples considering separation/divorce, and recovering from affairs.
Relationships are affected by many factors, including life stressors, self-image, past harms, and beliefs about how relationships “should” be. When they’re not going well, we can feel hurt, disconnected, and frustrated, and this can make other areas of our lives hard too. My passion and expertise lie in supporting a diverse array of adult clients in all types of relationships: couples, romantic systems, friends, and family. I also see individuals who want to understand how they show up in relationships. I welcome and honor your unique values, culture, race, gender, and sexuality, and I’m LGBTQ+, ENM, and Kink affirming.
Since 1978 I've help individuals and couples with communication,stress, depression, sex, affairs, pornography, PTSD.
I'm different as a therapist because I'm a person and a minster who can speak frankly about sex without embarrassment. Thus, clients know that it is OK for them too, embarrassing issues are to be understood not judged or condemned . Specifically since 1978, I've helped individuals and couples with communication, stress, depression, sex, affairs, porn, PTSD.
Since 1978 I've help individuals and couples with communication,stress, depression, sex, affairs, pornography, PTSD.
I'm different as a therapist because I'm a person and a minster who can speak frankly about sex without embarrassment. Thus, clients know that it is OK for them too, embarrassing issues are to be understood not judged or condemned . Specifically since 1978, I've helped individuals and couples with communication, stress, depression, sex, affairs, porn, PTSD.
Giselle Ortiz- Individual And Couples Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LMSW, CCTP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Have you been feeling unhappy in your romantic relationship? You or your partner are finding yourselves disconnecting from one another. It seems as if there is always a recurring issue and then your left questioning whether it’s you, your partner, or your chosen relationships that's the issue. You spot these patterns: one gets anxious, the other shuts down during communication, but don’t know how to fix it. I offer you the support to identify these core issues and the tools to work on resolving them. I specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy, a model everything to do with relationships and connection.
Have you been feeling unhappy in your romantic relationship? You or your partner are finding yourselves disconnecting from one another. It seems as if there is always a recurring issue and then your left questioning whether it’s you, your partner, or your chosen relationships that's the issue. You spot these patterns: one gets anxious, the other shuts down during communication, but don’t know how to fix it. I offer you the support to identify these core issues and the tools to work on resolving them. I specialize in Emotionally Focused Therapy, a model everything to do with relationships and connection.
I am a psychotherapist practicing in Syracuse, New York. I work with a range of clients and specialize in helping adolescents seek self-discovery and assisting couples to improve connection, communication, and find sexual fulfillment in their relationships. Through personal growth, my clients are able to express their needs, become better partners, and create more fulfilling relationships.
I am a psychotherapist practicing in Syracuse, New York. I work with a range of clients and specialize in helping adolescents seek self-discovery and assisting couples to improve connection, communication, and find sexual fulfillment in their relationships. Through personal growth, my clients are able to express their needs, become better partners, and create more fulfilling relationships.
Annemarie Cristino
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SAP, CEAP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
For over 33 years, I have worked with individuals, couples, and groups to help them manage stress, heal emotional wounds, and bring into awareness past learning that may block happiness today. Individuals want direct but supportive listening and honest feedback. My desire is to gently motivate, educate, and inspire Individuals to establish healthy emotional boundaries. Individuals will feel motivated, educated, and inspired to establish healthy emotional boundaries so that they can positively and productively increase their self-confidence and self-esteem.
For over 33 years, I have worked with individuals, couples, and groups to help them manage stress, heal emotional wounds, and bring into awareness past learning that may block happiness today. Individuals want direct but supportive listening and honest feedback. My desire is to gently motivate, educate, and inspire Individuals to establish healthy emotional boundaries. Individuals will feel motivated, educated, and inspired to establish healthy emotional boundaries so that they can positively and productively increase their self-confidence and self-esteem.
Do you suffer from panic attacks? Have you started to avoid the places that you had a panic attack in the past because you don't want it to happen again? Or maybe you have missed trips because you're scared to fly? Have you been to the doctor, wore a heart rate monitor, but still check your pulse to get reassurance? Or given up coffee because you don't want to risk the possible anxiety? Maybe you try so hard to not let the panic take over, but the more you try the worse it gets? Could you imagine not feeling like you have to be on guard to stop a panic attack 24/7? And you could just go to dinner without plotting an escape plan?
Do you suffer from panic attacks? Have you started to avoid the places that you had a panic attack in the past because you don't want it to happen again? Or maybe you have missed trips because you're scared to fly? Have you been to the doctor, wore a heart rate monitor, but still check your pulse to get reassurance? Or given up coffee because you don't want to risk the possible anxiety? Maybe you try so hard to not let the panic take over, but the more you try the worse it gets? Could you imagine not feeling like you have to be on guard to stop a panic attack 24/7? And you could just go to dinner without plotting an escape plan?
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.