Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Brooklyn, NY
Self-exploration, healing, and growth are both important and deeply personal. My approach to therapy is rooted in the understanding that who you are matters. Whether you are struggling with change, depression or anxiety, or seeking therapy for other reasons, I am here to engage with you in warm, validating treatment and guidance. My aim is to help you feel empowered, manage struggles, reduce harm, build effective coping skills and relationships, and thrive. Together we will honor your unique life experience and efforts toward personal growth.
Self-exploration, healing, and growth are both important and deeply personal. My approach to therapy is rooted in the understanding that who you are matters. Whether you are struggling with change, depression or anxiety, or seeking therapy for other reasons, I am here to engage with you in warm, validating treatment and guidance. My aim is to help you feel empowered, manage struggles, reduce harm, build effective coping skills and relationships, and thrive. Together we will honor your unique life experience and efforts toward personal growth.
I offer an affirming, safe space for people who identify as POC, LGBTQIA+, and neurodivergent to explore their identities and deconstruct their own narrative within the larger lens of society. I treat both individuals, and couples, ranging from ages 18-40+. I bring warmth, creativity, and a sense of humor into the room, because therapy doesn’t have to feel heavy all the time. If you’re ready to feel a little lighter—and a lot less alone—let’s get started.
I offer an affirming, safe space for people who identify as POC, LGBTQIA+, and neurodivergent to explore their identities and deconstruct their own narrative within the larger lens of society. I treat both individuals, and couples, ranging from ages 18-40+. I bring warmth, creativity, and a sense of humor into the room, because therapy doesn’t have to feel heavy all the time. If you’re ready to feel a little lighter—and a lot less alone—let’s get started.
I am dedicated to disrupting the stigma surrounding how people connect. I specialize in working with individuals and couples/polycules exploring their relationship with self and others in or out of the bedroom. This includes work involving gender and sexuality exploration, challenges in sexual pain/functioning or relational communication, self-esteem and body image issues (from a health at all sizes perspective), and experiences of sexual abuse or violence.
I am dedicated to disrupting the stigma surrounding how people connect. I specialize in working with individuals and couples/polycules exploring their relationship with self and others in or out of the bedroom. This includes work involving gender and sexuality exploration, challenges in sexual pain/functioning or relational communication, self-esteem and body image issues (from a health at all sizes perspective), and experiences of sexual abuse or violence.
I offer my clients a nonjudgmental space where they can explore their feelings, learn more about themselves, and continue to grow. Life can often be challenging, and I like to help others feel confident in their ability to get through those tough times. I have training in cognitive behavioral, dialectical behavioral, and psychodynamic therapy. Every person is unique, and I collaborate with each client to develop a plan that is tailored to them.
I offer my clients a nonjudgmental space where they can explore their feelings, learn more about themselves, and continue to grow. Life can often be challenging, and I like to help others feel confident in their ability to get through those tough times. I have training in cognitive behavioral, dialectical behavioral, and psychodynamic therapy. Every person is unique, and I collaborate with each client to develop a plan that is tailored to them.
I am a sex positive kink allied therapist and my specialities include individuals who struggle with eating disorders, self esteem, transgender issues, trauma and PTSD.
Do you feel lonely or disconnected from yourself or others? Are you ready for change but unsure if it's possible? Maybe trusting yourself or feeling confident in who you are feels like a challenge. My goal is to provide a safe, affirming space where you can explore your identity, self-expression, and overcome obstacles in order to create a more fulfilling life rooted in connection to yourself and the world around you. Whether you're navigating loneliness, self-doubt, body image concerns, or challenges with your sexuality and gender, lasting change and a strong sense of self are within reach.
I am a sex positive kink allied therapist and my specialities include individuals who struggle with eating disorders, self esteem, transgender issues, trauma and PTSD.
Do you feel lonely or disconnected from yourself or others? Are you ready for change but unsure if it's possible? Maybe trusting yourself or feeling confident in who you are feels like a challenge. My goal is to provide a safe, affirming space where you can explore your identity, self-expression, and overcome obstacles in order to create a more fulfilling life rooted in connection to yourself and the world around you. Whether you're navigating loneliness, self-doubt, body image concerns, or challenges with your sexuality and gender, lasting change and a strong sense of self are within reach.
I am a queer, kink-forward and sex work/worker positive therapist.
Afternoon to late Evening availability.
I offer a welcoming haven for individuals, couples, and polycules. I aim to amplify voices in all lifestyles, including sex workers and the queer community. If you're navigating issues of identity, understanding relationships, or facing challenges in your sex life, I can provide support for individuals and couples/polycules. All folks are not only welcome, but encouraged to reach out to see if we would be a good fit for therapy. I believe in sexual and artistic empowerment as healing, using your life experience as the foundation. Seeking therapy begins a vulnerable journey towards growth.
I am a queer, kink-forward and sex work/worker positive therapist.
Afternoon to late Evening availability.
I offer a welcoming haven for individuals, couples, and polycules. I aim to amplify voices in all lifestyles, including sex workers and the queer community. If you're navigating issues of identity, understanding relationships, or facing challenges in your sex life, I can provide support for individuals and couples/polycules. All folks are not only welcome, but encouraged to reach out to see if we would be a good fit for therapy. I believe in sexual and artistic empowerment as healing, using your life experience as the foundation. Seeking therapy begins a vulnerable journey towards growth.
After that, I worked for a practice that was poly, kink, and queer-oriented.
As a creative therapist, I view our work together as a collaboration. Informed by my background as a creative, I blend my knowledge in AEDP, EMDR, and IFS with an understanding of the unique challenges artists face. My approach works well for those who want a more involved therapeutic relationship. Creating an environment where you feel comfortable and embodied is my responsibility, and I take it seriously. It’s crucial you to feel supported in taking risks on your journey toward meaningful healing and transformation. Take the first step toward healing with a collaborative partner in a space that encourages you to make bold changes.
After that, I worked for a practice that was poly, kink, and queer-oriented.
As a creative therapist, I view our work together as a collaboration. Informed by my background as a creative, I blend my knowledge in AEDP, EMDR, and IFS with an understanding of the unique challenges artists face. My approach works well for those who want a more involved therapeutic relationship. Creating an environment where you feel comfortable and embodied is my responsibility, and I take it seriously. It’s crucial you to feel supported in taking risks on your journey toward meaningful healing and transformation. Take the first step toward healing with a collaborative partner in a space that encourages you to make bold changes.
My ideal client is ready to examine how their relationships, identity, and lived experiences have shaped their connection to self and others. Many are queer and/or BIPOC, navigating shame, disconnection, and internalized messages around sex, intimacy, and vulnerability. They’re seeking depth, self-trust, and space to show up fully without needing to perform or explain. In our work, we explore what it means to move from survival to embodied aliveness, centering healing that is grounded in curiosity, consent, and a sense of personal and collective liberation.
My ideal client is ready to examine how their relationships, identity, and lived experiences have shaped their connection to self and others. Many are queer and/or BIPOC, navigating shame, disconnection, and internalized messages around sex, intimacy, and vulnerability. They’re seeking depth, self-trust, and space to show up fully without needing to perform or explain. In our work, we explore what it means to move from survival to embodied aliveness, centering healing that is grounded in curiosity, consent, and a sense of personal and collective liberation.
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re balancing a high-achieving life. I work with professionals who may seem successful on the outside but feel unfulfilled, stressed, or disconnected internally. Whether you’re facing relationship or intimacy challenges, struggling to set boundaries, or processing past experiences, my approach provides a discreet, supportive space to gain clarity, build resilience, and create meaningful, lasting change aligned with your goals.
Finding the right therapist can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re balancing a high-achieving life. I work with professionals who may seem successful on the outside but feel unfulfilled, stressed, or disconnected internally. Whether you’re facing relationship or intimacy challenges, struggling to set boundaries, or processing past experiences, my approach provides a discreet, supportive space to gain clarity, build resilience, and create meaningful, lasting change aligned with your goals.
In a world that rewards us for disconnecting from our bodies and settling for surface-level relationships, reconnection becomes a revolutionary act. This is why I find myself especially connected to the work of supporting people who feel disconnected from their bodies and relationships. Many people find themselves living primarily from the neck up: intellectualizing experiences rather than fully feeling them, sensing that something important is missing without quite being able to name it. Sometimes there's a history of trauma that made disconnection necessary, or cultural messages that prioritized achievement over embodiment.
In a world that rewards us for disconnecting from our bodies and settling for surface-level relationships, reconnection becomes a revolutionary act. This is why I find myself especially connected to the work of supporting people who feel disconnected from their bodies and relationships. Many people find themselves living primarily from the neck up: intellectualizing experiences rather than fully feeling them, sensing that something important is missing without quite being able to name it. Sometimes there's a history of trauma that made disconnection necessary, or cultural messages that prioritized achievement over embodiment.
Hi there, my name is Beth and I help queer folks develop an integrated and joyful sense of self, specializing in gender/sexuality, trauma, dissociation, anxiety, and depression. I'm particularly passionate about supporting clients recovering from religious trauma, spiritual abuse, and the lasting impact of shame in high-control or fundamentalist communities. My goal in therapy is to help you build a healthy life that feels good, grounded, and free. I approach therapy as a judgment-free collaboration, using compassion to examine the stressors in your life and curiosity to build connections between the past, present, and future.
Hi there, my name is Beth and I help queer folks develop an integrated and joyful sense of self, specializing in gender/sexuality, trauma, dissociation, anxiety, and depression. I'm particularly passionate about supporting clients recovering from religious trauma, spiritual abuse, and the lasting impact of shame in high-control or fundamentalist communities. My goal in therapy is to help you build a healthy life that feels good, grounded, and free. I approach therapy as a judgment-free collaboration, using compassion to examine the stressors in your life and curiosity to build connections between the past, present, and future.
I am currently an Advanced Clinical Intern undertaking my Master's in Mental Health Counseling. My approach is to create a space of mutual learning. I will aim to understand more about you, your goals, and your narrative, as well as provide guidance in navigating them. Over our sessions, this can look like building and strengthening resiliency, increasing insight, and working towards self-actualization (and many other goal outcomes!). I have a firm belief in the rights and dignity of all people, and I hope to reflect that in our work together.
I am currently an Advanced Clinical Intern undertaking my Master's in Mental Health Counseling. My approach is to create a space of mutual learning. I will aim to understand more about you, your goals, and your narrative, as well as provide guidance in navigating them. Over our sessions, this can look like building and strengthening resiliency, increasing insight, and working towards self-actualization (and many other goal outcomes!). I have a firm belief in the rights and dignity of all people, and I hope to reflect that in our work together.
Hi, I’m Brandy. I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, AASCT-certified sex therapist, EMDR-certified therapist, and certified drug and alcohol counselor. I’m also a military veteran and a mom of four. I’ve worked across multiple states and clinical settings with individuals, couples, and families navigating a wide range of concerns.
My work focuses on trauma, relationships, sexual health, and addiction.
Together, we work to better understand what’s happening, reduce reactivity, and create more clarity in how you respond to yourself and others.
Hi, I’m Brandy. I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, AASCT-certified sex therapist, EMDR-certified therapist, and certified drug and alcohol counselor. I’m also a military veteran and a mom of four. I’ve worked across multiple states and clinical settings with individuals, couples, and families navigating a wide range of concerns.
My work focuses on trauma, relationships, sexual health, and addiction.
Together, we work to better understand what’s happening, reduce reactivity, and create more clarity in how you respond to yourself and others.
I believe people are trying their best through good and hard times. Especially during the hard times, we find ways to make it through. I work with people to figure out what their survival strategies are, which ones they want to keep or change. Sometimes, these strategies require us to code-switch, mask, or deny parts of ourselves. I enjoy helping people find out more about themselves, their values, and what ways to care for themselves. I work with them to build a therapy experience for rest, healing, and discovery. Together my clients and I build more places and experiences where they just get to be.
I believe people are trying their best through good and hard times. Especially during the hard times, we find ways to make it through. I work with people to figure out what their survival strategies are, which ones they want to keep or change. Sometimes, these strategies require us to code-switch, mask, or deny parts of ourselves. I enjoy helping people find out more about themselves, their values, and what ways to care for themselves. I work with them to build a therapy experience for rest, healing, and discovery. Together my clients and I build more places and experiences where they just get to be.
I am a trauma therapist who works with queer and trans communities; poly / ENM, kink / BDSM, neurodiverse and disabled communities; sex workers, and substance users.
I offer talk therapy, EMDR, DBT, IFS, grief counseling, somatic approaches, and harm reduction counseling, as well as treatment for anxiety, depression, OCD, and body dysmorphic disorder. I provide pro bono letters of support for gender affirming care, and for asylum, VAWA, and T-Visas.
I am a trauma therapist who works with queer and trans communities; poly / ENM, kink / BDSM, neurodiverse and disabled communities; sex workers, and substance users.
I offer talk therapy, EMDR, DBT, IFS, grief counseling, somatic approaches, and harm reduction counseling, as well as treatment for anxiety, depression, OCD, and body dysmorphic disorder. I provide pro bono letters of support for gender affirming care, and for asylum, VAWA, and T-Visas.
I specialize in treating those seeking guidance and support for intimacy concerns, low desire/desire discrepancy, lack of sexual interest/pleasure, erectile dysfunction, kink/BDSM, difficulty w/ orgasm & arousal, sex related pain, sexual issues due to anxiety/depression, sexual trauma, gender/sexual identity exploration, conflict & communication breakdowns.
I’m a Sex and Relationship Therapist who helps people develop new ways of relating to others, build fulfilling connections, and explore pleasure with authenticity. With grace and compassion, I support clients navigating long-standing and complex concerns related to relationships, intimacy, and sex. As a queer therapist myself, I embrace and celebrate unique identities, desires and relationship structures of each individual. I work from a lens of social justice, inclusion and pleasure activism. My therapeutic approach is holistic, considering the interconnectedness of physical, emotional and relational well-being.
I specialize in treating those seeking guidance and support for intimacy concerns, low desire/desire discrepancy, lack of sexual interest/pleasure, erectile dysfunction, kink/BDSM, difficulty w/ orgasm & arousal, sex related pain, sexual issues due to anxiety/depression, sexual trauma, gender/sexual identity exploration, conflict & communication breakdowns.
I’m a Sex and Relationship Therapist who helps people develop new ways of relating to others, build fulfilling connections, and explore pleasure with authenticity. With grace and compassion, I support clients navigating long-standing and complex concerns related to relationships, intimacy, and sex. As a queer therapist myself, I embrace and celebrate unique identities, desires and relationship structures of each individual. I work from a lens of social justice, inclusion and pleasure activism. My therapeutic approach is holistic, considering the interconnectedness of physical, emotional and relational well-being.
complex trauma, anxiety, depression, issues impacting LGBTQ, non-monogamous, and kink communities
As a Queer, Trans, Black, Indigenous Person of Color (QTBIPOC) or neurodivergent person, you navigate a world that often misunderstands or harms you. These layers of trauma, anxiety, or depression can feel overwhelming, leaving you questioning your worth or if healing is possible. You want a space where every part of you is welcome — you don’t have to explain your existence or justify your feelings. You want a therapist who sees and honors your whole self and helps you create meaningful change. Someone who gets it because they live it too. That’s where I come in! I’m Keya (they/them), your friendly abolitionist therapist!
complex trauma, anxiety, depression, issues impacting LGBTQ, non-monogamous, and kink communities
As a Queer, Trans, Black, Indigenous Person of Color (QTBIPOC) or neurodivergent person, you navigate a world that often misunderstands or harms you. These layers of trauma, anxiety, or depression can feel overwhelming, leaving you questioning your worth or if healing is possible. You want a space where every part of you is welcome — you don’t have to explain your existence or justify your feelings. You want a therapist who sees and honors your whole self and helps you create meaningful change. Someone who gets it because they live it too. That’s where I come in! I’m Keya (they/them), your friendly abolitionist therapist!
I provide online couples therapy for first-time therapy seekers in New York City. People often look for couples therapy when they realize there’s too much to untangle on their own. I'm passionate about working with people who have never tried therapy before; I lower the stress of getting started. Together, I help couples understand, disrupt, and rewire their interactions. I named my practice Neon because I hold hope for every couple I work with. I’ll work with you to find a connection that makes you feel vibrant, peaceful, and close.
I provide online couples therapy for first-time therapy seekers in New York City. People often look for couples therapy when they realize there’s too much to untangle on their own. I'm passionate about working with people who have never tried therapy before; I lower the stress of getting started. Together, I help couples understand, disrupt, and rewire their interactions. I named my practice Neon because I hold hope for every couple I work with. I’ll work with you to find a connection that makes you feel vibrant, peaceful, and close.
My ideal clients are looking to build more fulfilling relationships with themselves & the people in their lives—as this intersects with mental health journeys as BIPOC, queer and trans folks, polyamorous/CNM/ENM/RA folks, allies/accomplices, neurodiverse folks & people of all identities with feminist/social justice values. I help people dream and envision the lives they want—in their bodies, their sexuality, their healing, their relationships/friendships/families, their work, in their spheres of influence—and move towards them. I help people heal & grow from patterns that we formed out of survival or socialization.
My ideal clients are looking to build more fulfilling relationships with themselves & the people in their lives—as this intersects with mental health journeys as BIPOC, queer and trans folks, polyamorous/CNM/ENM/RA folks, allies/accomplices, neurodiverse folks & people of all identities with feminist/social justice values. I help people dream and envision the lives they want—in their bodies, their sexuality, their healing, their relationships/friendships/families, their work, in their spheres of influence—and move towards them. I help people heal & grow from patterns that we formed out of survival or socialization.
I am LGBTQIA+ affirming, trauma-informed, sex-positive, and kink/poly/CNM-aware.
I offer shame-free, sex-positive counseling to help you live with meaning, power, and purpose. I help adult individuals and couples untangle the “why” behind their patterns—so they can choose the “what now” with clarity and courage. As a cisgender gay man in my 50s, I bring lived experience and past professional expertise to my counseling work, blending the deep empathy of Mr. Rogers, the no-shame attitude of Dr. Ruth, the humor of Dan Savage, with the insight of Brené Brown.
As Mr. Rogers said, "I like you just the way you are." Come as you are, and let's get curious together. Tell me your story. I'd love to hear it.
I am LGBTQIA+ affirming, trauma-informed, sex-positive, and kink/poly/CNM-aware.
I offer shame-free, sex-positive counseling to help you live with meaning, power, and purpose. I help adult individuals and couples untangle the “why” behind their patterns—so they can choose the “what now” with clarity and courage. As a cisgender gay man in my 50s, I bring lived experience and past professional expertise to my counseling work, blending the deep empathy of Mr. Rogers, the no-shame attitude of Dr. Ruth, the humor of Dan Savage, with the insight of Brené Brown.
As Mr. Rogers said, "I like you just the way you are." Come as you are, and let's get curious together. Tell me your story. I'd love to hear it.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.