Noe Khalfa
Pre-Licensed Professional (they, them)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
Let's Connect (206) 210-1911

Relationships are both beautiful and complicated. Sometimes you keep having the same fight and nobody feels heard. Or one of you reaches out while the other pulls away, and you can't figure out how it got like this. You love your partner(s) but maybe sometimes feel alone in the room with them, like there's something between you. These patterns can feel difficult, but they aren't signs that your relationship is broken. They're usually about deeper needs: to feel safe, to feel chosen, to know someone is really there. I'm a queer, nonbinary, non-monogamous, sex-positive therapist who's personally spent a decade in these communities.
I draw on the Gottman Method, attachment-based Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), parts work (IFS), somatic therapy, and Buddhism. They help slow down the cycle between you long enough to find the underlying needs. I shape sessions around how you process: if you're talkers, we'll talk; movers, we'll get embodied; crafters, we'll pull out art supplies.
I also pay attention to family patterns, intergenerational stories, and larger systems: race, culture, patriarchy, and capitalism. These all show up in our relationships and are important to bring into the room. Whatever you're going through, I bring a warm, curious presence and get in there with you. If something here resonated, I'd love to hear from you!
Take the first step to help. Call or Email Noe Khalfa now - (206) 210-1911
Let's Connect (206) 210-1911

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $60
- Couple Sessions $60
Payment Methods
American Express, Cash, Check, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Ambetter
- Community Health Plan of Washington
- Coordinated Care
- LifeWise
- Molina Healthcare
- Premera Blue Cross
Noe Khalfa
Pre-Licensed Professional
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. Email or (206) 210-1911
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Supervised by Andrea Anderson (Washington / LF60496447) Noe Khalfa
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Relationship Issues
- Polyamory & ENM
- LGBTQ+
Expertise
- ADHD
- Anxiety
- Autism
- Bisexual
- Codependency
- Divorce
- Family Conflict
- Gay
- Grief
- Infidelity
- Lesbian
- Marital and Premarital
- Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
- Peer Relationships
- Self Esteem
- Sex Therapy
- Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
- Spirituality
- Transgender
- Trauma and PTSD
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Ethnicity
Mixed Race
Religion
Buddhist
Age
Adults
Participants
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Transgender Allied
Ethnicity
Mixed Race
Religion
Buddhist
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Attachment-based
- Culturally Sensitive
- Emotionally Focused
- Experiential Therapy
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
- Gottman Method
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Multicultural
- Narrative
- Person-Centered
- Play Therapy
- Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
- Somatic