Infidelity Therapists in Santa Fe, NM

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Nicole Otis
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
Santa Fe, NM 87506
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
(201) 918-4426 View (201) 918-4426
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Louis Bernstein
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Online Only
Your intimate relationship can be one of the most important sources of joy, satisfaction and fulfillment in your life. However, issues may arise which upset that original harmony, and if left unaddressed, lead to a negative pattern of quarreling, difficult communication, and a loss of connection, trust and intimacy. In some cases, this negative spiral can further lead to depression, substance/behavioral addictions, or even an affair. I can provide you with the effective tools for identifying, addressing and resolving those challenging issues, and help you co-create a renewed sense of connection, intimacy and sacred partnership.
Your intimate relationship can be one of the most important sources of joy, satisfaction and fulfillment in your life. However, issues may arise which upset that original harmony, and if left unaddressed, lead to a negative pattern of quarreling, difficult communication, and a loss of connection, trust and intimacy. In some cases, this negative spiral can further lead to depression, substance/behavioral addictions, or even an affair. I can provide you with the effective tools for identifying, addressing and resolving those challenging issues, and help you co-create a renewed sense of connection, intimacy and sacred partnership.
(925) 202-2982 View (925) 202-2982
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Nicole Otis
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
Santa Fe, NM 87501
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
(320) 339-0830 View (320) 339-0830
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Nicole Otis
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
Online Only
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
(320) 446-3615 View (320) 446-3615
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Timothy White
Marriage & Family Therapist
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
This means I am uniquely qualified to help navigate problematic sexual behavior and infidelity recovery.
Are you hurting? Are you or a loved one struggling with compulsive or addictive behavior? Has a tragedy or family revelation blindsided you, and now you are wondering what to do next? Please reach out to Tim with Dr. White and Associates, P.C. He is passionate about providing therapy for individuals, couples, and families. His desire is to help you and yours find flourishing and abundant life. He is standing by to serve your needs in addiction and recovery, anxiety and depression, and general couples therapy. Whatever is troubling you in life, call Tim at Dr. White and Assoc. and see what he can do for you.
This means I am uniquely qualified to help navigate problematic sexual behavior and infidelity recovery.
Are you hurting? Are you or a loved one struggling with compulsive or addictive behavior? Has a tragedy or family revelation blindsided you, and now you are wondering what to do next? Please reach out to Tim with Dr. White and Associates, P.C. He is passionate about providing therapy for individuals, couples, and families. His desire is to help you and yours find flourishing and abundant life. He is standing by to serve your needs in addiction and recovery, anxiety and depression, and general couples therapy. Whatever is troubling you in life, call Tim at Dr. White and Assoc. and see what he can do for you.
(505) 302-3705 View (505) 302-3705
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Peter Jones
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, EdD, MA-MFT
Online Only
Whatever is getting your way as a couple, including infidelity, can be handled if you have the will and the right roadmap.
Are you worried about your future together? Fighting too much, too often, too intensely? Or the opposite: avoiding conflict for fear of getting lost in it. Conflicts that are avoided or are too long and too intense and too difficult to recover from will all weigh you down. You know that things can be easier: you know you could communicate more efficiently, smarter, and get to have fun together on the other side this. What you need then is a therapist who can diagnose communicational difficulties and engineer solutions that keep you out of the same trouble in the future.
Whatever is getting your way as a couple, including infidelity, can be handled if you have the will and the right roadmap.
Are you worried about your future together? Fighting too much, too often, too intensely? Or the opposite: avoiding conflict for fear of getting lost in it. Conflicts that are avoided or are too long and too intense and too difficult to recover from will all weigh you down. You know that things can be easier: you know you could communicate more efficiently, smarter, and get to have fun together on the other side this. What you need then is a therapist who can diagnose communicational difficulties and engineer solutions that keep you out of the same trouble in the future.
(959) 777-5315 View (959) 777-5315
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Mary Archibeque
Counselor, LPCC, CSAT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you struggling with intimacy, betrayal, sex, porn, or pain?
1. SEX & PORN Addiction: . We'll get to the root cause. Help restore true connections and meaning. 2. Relationships: Healing from infidelity or betrayal, improve connection and rebuild trust. 3. Self Worth: Confidence, self care, mindset, boundaries. 4. Post traumatic growth, taking your power back, and life transitions.
Are you struggling with intimacy, betrayal, sex, porn, or pain?
1. SEX & PORN Addiction: . We'll get to the root cause. Help restore true connections and meaning. 2. Relationships: Healing from infidelity or betrayal, improve connection and rebuild trust. 3. Self Worth: Confidence, self care, mindset, boundaries. 4. Post traumatic growth, taking your power back, and life transitions.
(505) 278-6207 View (505) 278-6207
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Nicole Otis
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
Online Only
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
(208) 944-1121 View (208) 944-1121
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John Fite
Psychologist, PhD
Serves Area
Services include weekly sessions and private intensives (multi-hour or multi-day) for couples, singles, and professionals navigating crisis, betrayal, or major transitions.
Feeling distant or stuck in your relationship? Maybe trust has been broken, or every conversation seems to turn into an argument. Even once-loving couples can start living like polite roommates—hurt, lonely, and unsure how to reconnect. I’m one of only three therapists living in Tennessee certified in the Gottman Method for couples therapy—a research-based approach that helps most couples rebuild closeness and communication. I also work with individuals damaged by depression, anxiety or trauma. In my Brentwood office or by tele-health, sessions can usually begin in one week with evening and weekend availability.
Services include weekly sessions and private intensives (multi-hour or multi-day) for couples, singles, and professionals navigating crisis, betrayal, or major transitions.
Feeling distant or stuck in your relationship? Maybe trust has been broken, or every conversation seems to turn into an argument. Even once-loving couples can start living like polite roommates—hurt, lonely, and unsure how to reconnect. I’m one of only three therapists living in Tennessee certified in the Gottman Method for couples therapy—a research-based approach that helps most couples rebuild closeness and communication. I also work with individuals damaged by depression, anxiety or trauma. In my Brentwood office or by tele-health, sessions can usually begin in one week with evening and weekend availability.
(615) 745-1141 View (615) 745-1141
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Loretta (Lara) Salome Ohmaye
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Santa Fe, NM 87505
Waitlist for new clients
If you have come here today, you are likely in a lot of pain. Your relationship is falling apart or is in a state of transition that's creating stress in your lives. Maybe you and your partner are just not as close as you used to be. Perhaps you are seeking Discernment Counseling to decide. As a solution-focused therapist, my goal is to help you uncover your true potential in relationship. I do this by uncovering long-standing behavior patterns or negative perceptions that may be holding you back from experiencing a more fulfilling life and relationship.
If you have come here today, you are likely in a lot of pain. Your relationship is falling apart or is in a state of transition that's creating stress in your lives. Maybe you and your partner are just not as close as you used to be. Perhaps you are seeking Discernment Counseling to decide. As a solution-focused therapist, my goal is to help you uncover your true potential in relationship. I do this by uncovering long-standing behavior patterns or negative perceptions that may be holding you back from experiencing a more fulfilling life and relationship.
(505) 726-4779 View (505) 726-4779
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Inessa Mil'berg
Counselor, MA, LPCC, CST
6 Endorsed
Santa Fe, NM 87505
Waitlist for new clients
Relationships often suffer not because people stop caring, but because the ways they try to reach each other create more hurt, distance, or defensiveness. I work with couples and families struggling with communication, intimacy, trust, life transitions, old wounds, or the painful sense of losing one another. Together, we slow repeating patterns, make room for what has not yet been heard, and work toward repair, stronger bonds, vitality, and joy. I offer ongoing couples/family therapy and focused intensives for critical or tender moments.
Relationships often suffer not because people stop caring, but because the ways they try to reach each other create more hurt, distance, or defensiveness. I work with couples and families struggling with communication, intimacy, trust, life transitions, old wounds, or the painful sense of losing one another. Together, we slow repeating patterns, make room for what has not yet been heard, and work toward repair, stronger bonds, vitality, and joy. I offer ongoing couples/family therapy and focused intensives for critical or tender moments.
(505) 357-1238 View (505) 357-1238
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Laurel Ilvonen
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Santa Fe, NM 87505
Welcome! I believe that healing comes through the caring and dynamic engagement created between human beings. Thus, our time together will be a creative collaboration that encourages mutual presence and relatedness. Research confirms the importance of this. While no specific technique is consistently effective in eliciting change; certain therapists, who bring a particular kind of presence to their work, often are. I believe I am such a therapist and this is largely because of the intention I bring to our work together along with my advanced training in depth psychology and relational psychotherapy.
Welcome! I believe that healing comes through the caring and dynamic engagement created between human beings. Thus, our time together will be a creative collaboration that encourages mutual presence and relatedness. Research confirms the importance of this. While no specific technique is consistently effective in eliciting change; certain therapists, who bring a particular kind of presence to their work, often are. I believe I am such a therapist and this is largely because of the intention I bring to our work together along with my advanced training in depth psychology and relational psychotherapy.
(505) 204-7871 View (505) 204-7871
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Faith Works Counseling, LLC Santa Fe
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Santa Fe, NM 87507
Faith Works Counseling is dedicated to fostering wellbeing by inspiring individuals to empower one another through the embodiment of Strength through Love. Our mission is to help individuals, couples, and families become their best selves through systemic therapy, grounded in the belief that meaningful change often follows a crisis. We offer a comprehensive range of services, including multisystemic therapy, individual therapy, family therapy, children’s therapy, and couples therapy. Our services cater to clients from all walks of life, ensuring that everyone has access to the support they need to thrive.
Faith Works Counseling is dedicated to fostering wellbeing by inspiring individuals to empower one another through the embodiment of Strength through Love. Our mission is to help individuals, couples, and families become their best selves through systemic therapy, grounded in the belief that meaningful change often follows a crisis. We offer a comprehensive range of services, including multisystemic therapy, individual therapy, family therapy, children’s therapy, and couples therapy. Our services cater to clients from all walks of life, ensuring that everyone has access to the support they need to thrive.
(505) 392-2589 View (505) 392-2589
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Dawn O'Donnell
Psychologist, LP
Online Only
My name is Dawn ODonnell and I am a licensed psychologist (PhD) with an undergraduate RN (RNC) and a post-doctorate in trauma therapy (CCTP) I work with all ages using a cognitive behavioral and some elements of dialectal behavioral therapy. I work with all age groups using a patient-centered approach to best achieve the goals of therapy.
My name is Dawn ODonnell and I am a licensed psychologist (PhD) with an undergraduate RN (RNC) and a post-doctorate in trauma therapy (CCTP) I work with all ages using a cognitive behavioral and some elements of dialectal behavioral therapy. I work with all age groups using a patient-centered approach to best achieve the goals of therapy.
(505) 393-7298 View (505) 393-7298
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Carrie Tansey Ishee
Counselor, MA, LPAT, LPCC, ATR, PCC
1 Endorsed
Santa Fe, NM 87505
My therapy and coaching work is based on a belief that we all long to experience love, connection, purpose, and peace in our lives. Symptoms that arise such as anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, and physical illnesses signal a call to resolve and clear what is in the way of a happier life. My work embraces a holistic paradigm recognizing body, mind, and spirit, and focuses on helping clients learn to love and care for themselves as special and unique beings. Clearing out negative beliefs, healing emotional wounds, and eliminating toxic influences help clients live more authentic and empowered lives.
My therapy and coaching work is based on a belief that we all long to experience love, connection, purpose, and peace in our lives. Symptoms that arise such as anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, and physical illnesses signal a call to resolve and clear what is in the way of a happier life. My work embraces a holistic paradigm recognizing body, mind, and spirit, and focuses on helping clients learn to love and care for themselves as special and unique beings. Clearing out negative beliefs, healing emotional wounds, and eliminating toxic influences help clients live more authentic and empowered lives.
(505) 407-4573 View (505) 407-4573
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Corinne Novella
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Knowing the path to reaching your full potential in life can often be confusing, especially if you are feeling overwhelmed or depleted. Support in your journey makes an enormous difference in the process of self-discovery. Contact me, and together we can enliven your quest for personal and/or professional growth, moving you toward increased self-awareness and confidence to make the changes you want in your life. Whether you want to feel better on a daily basis, improve your relationships or deepen your connection to yourself, the most important component in therapy is the therapeutic relationship.
Knowing the path to reaching your full potential in life can often be confusing, especially if you are feeling overwhelmed or depleted. Support in your journey makes an enormous difference in the process of self-discovery. Contact me, and together we can enliven your quest for personal and/or professional growth, moving you toward increased self-awareness and confidence to make the changes you want in your life. Whether you want to feel better on a daily basis, improve your relationships or deepen your connection to yourself, the most important component in therapy is the therapeutic relationship.
(718) 395-9939 View (718) 395-9939
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Nora Gluck
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
For 50 years, I have helped individuals and couples find more pleasure in life through creating satisfying relationships and meaningful work. Therapy at its best is a collaborative process between client and therapist. I have expertise in couple therapy, family therapy (including parental estrangement) and psychotherapy. I practice trauma-informed therapy, including EMDR and other trauma-clearing techniques. I incorporate yoga, meditation, deep relaxation, visualization and other mind/body techniques. I customize my approach to the unique needs of each client. My work is informed by my own healing journey.
For 50 years, I have helped individuals and couples find more pleasure in life through creating satisfying relationships and meaningful work. Therapy at its best is a collaborative process between client and therapist. I have expertise in couple therapy, family therapy (including parental estrangement) and psychotherapy. I practice trauma-informed therapy, including EMDR and other trauma-clearing techniques. I incorporate yoga, meditation, deep relaxation, visualization and other mind/body techniques. I customize my approach to the unique needs of each client. My work is informed by my own healing journey.
(505) 210-8660 View (505) 210-8660
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Joseph Wolf
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
4 Endorsed
Santa Fe, NM 87507
Asking for help is a sign of strength. By seeking therapy, you are moving towards growth and transformation. Feeling challenged in relationships and wanting a deeper connection with the people in your life is a common desire, yet at times can be so elusive. You are not alone. By acknowledging this and getting support, you will have taken the first courageous step in moving toward healing.As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I work with families, couples, and individuals to detangle ingrained patterns. My work is to guide you in connecting to your innate strength and wisdom. I support clients in unraveling old wounds.
Asking for help is a sign of strength. By seeking therapy, you are moving towards growth and transformation. Feeling challenged in relationships and wanting a deeper connection with the people in your life is a common desire, yet at times can be so elusive. You are not alone. By acknowledging this and getting support, you will have taken the first courageous step in moving toward healing.As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I work with families, couples, and individuals to detangle ingrained patterns. My work is to guide you in connecting to your innate strength and wisdom. I support clients in unraveling old wounds.
(505) 605-2179 View (505) 605-2179
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Nicol Pate
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Santa Fe, NM 87505
I specialize in EFT and trauma therapy for couples, families and individuals. I am a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist (EFT) and Supervisor. I also work with Janina Fisher's model of trauma treatment which is a blend of modalities including IFS and sensorimotor psychotherapy. I have been certified in EMDR and Brainspotting and use them for emotionally charged issues, stuck patterns and trauma. I love working with couples to create lasting change that touches the heart of the person and the relationship. See my website for more information: nicolpate.com
I specialize in EFT and trauma therapy for couples, families and individuals. I am a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist (EFT) and Supervisor. I also work with Janina Fisher's model of trauma treatment which is a blend of modalities including IFS and sensorimotor psychotherapy. I have been certified in EMDR and Brainspotting and use them for emotionally charged issues, stuck patterns and trauma. I love working with couples to create lasting change that touches the heart of the person and the relationship. See my website for more information: nicolpate.com
(505) 390-8306 View (505) 390-8306
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Melissa M. Smith
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Santa Fe, NM 87505
Whether you feel you have no idea where to start, pooling at an in-between place, or need a supportive boost to get back on track in your life, I offer a holistic approach to therapy. To let the ups and downs be witnessed and heard is a profound experience. To receive the care you need is to let go of the belief that doing it alone is the only way. We will work with the contained emotions of transition, grief, relationships, or trauma, allowing wholeness and self-compassion to emerge. “Wisdom tells me I am nothing. Love tells me I am everything. And between the two my life flows.” ― Nisargadatta Maharaj
Whether you feel you have no idea where to start, pooling at an in-between place, or need a supportive boost to get back on track in your life, I offer a holistic approach to therapy. To let the ups and downs be witnessed and heard is a profound experience. To receive the care you need is to let go of the belief that doing it alone is the only way. We will work with the contained emotions of transition, grief, relationships, or trauma, allowing wholeness and self-compassion to emerge. “Wisdom tells me I am nothing. Love tells me I am everything. And between the two my life flows.” ― Nisargadatta Maharaj
(505) 309-3325 View (505) 309-3325

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How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.