Divorce Therapists in Luna County, NM

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Allison Holtkamp
Psychologist, LCP
Deming, NM 88030
Read all the books, scanned the internet, listened to advice from loved ones, and tried to make changes on your own, but you still don’t feel like yourself? It’s time to try a new approach. I can help. I will assist you to get unstuck and move in the direction you want to go with compassion, humor, and my clinical experience that spans over two decades.
Read all the books, scanned the internet, listened to advice from loved ones, and tried to make changes on your own, but you still don’t feel like yourself? It’s time to try a new approach. I can help. I will assist you to get unstuck and move in the direction you want to go with compassion, humor, and my clinical experience that spans over two decades.
(619) 731-0326 View (619) 731-0326
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Brian Milliken
Counselor, LPCC, LMFT
Online Only
I commonly see people with concerns such as depression, anxiety, trauma, addiction, and grief. In session, we will look at what you are hoping to get from the counseling experience and collaboratively discover what will work for your situation, which may involve getting unstuck from emotional and/or behavioral issues. My orientation includes considering our relationships to life. We will take into account relational factors, which may include environments, people, culture, expectations and roles. The therapy process may assist you in gaining a deeper understanding of your values and skills, toward transformative change.
I commonly see people with concerns such as depression, anxiety, trauma, addiction, and grief. In session, we will look at what you are hoping to get from the counseling experience and collaboratively discover what will work for your situation, which may involve getting unstuck from emotional and/or behavioral issues. My orientation includes considering our relationships to life. We will take into account relational factors, which may include environments, people, culture, expectations and roles. The therapy process may assist you in gaining a deeper understanding of your values and skills, toward transformative change.
(575) 222-8651 View (575) 222-8651
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Melinda Michelle Fowler
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
As a licensed clinical social worker, I understand that a person's physical health, social connectedness, access to resources, and mental health are all interconnected. We are living in a challenging time and are facing stress from many directions. Counseling can provide you with a safe space to work through stress, anxiety, depression, or trauma.
As a licensed clinical social worker, I understand that a person's physical health, social connectedness, access to resources, and mental health are all interconnected. We are living in a challenging time and are facing stress from many directions. Counseling can provide you with a safe space to work through stress, anxiety, depression, or trauma.
(575) 213-2303 View (575) 213-2303
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Casa De Mi Alma
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSSA, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Hello! My name is Alma and I am honored to introduce my growing practice to you. Casa De Mi Alma (House of my Soul) is a holistic center with a team of therapists who offer various modalities to select from; creating a multi-faceted approach to best fit your needs and better serve wellness in our community. We believe addressing the connection of the mind-body-spirit is the best way to achieve ultimate balance in life. The focal point of the center is to offer services that encourage obtaining this balance. Those receiving services will have treatment plans created to serve their personal life advancement and wellness goals.
Hello! My name is Alma and I am honored to introduce my growing practice to you. Casa De Mi Alma (House of my Soul) is a holistic center with a team of therapists who offer various modalities to select from; creating a multi-faceted approach to best fit your needs and better serve wellness in our community. We believe addressing the connection of the mind-body-spirit is the best way to achieve ultimate balance in life. The focal point of the center is to offer services that encourage obtaining this balance. Those receiving services will have treatment plans created to serve their personal life advancement and wellness goals.
(575) 376-6276 View (575) 376-6276
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Amanda Pando Rodriguez
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Life has many joys and challenges; being human is messy. In the times we are working through the challenges, mental health support can help us to feel less alone. Whether you are experiencing anxiety, depression, grief, relational issues, family conflict, trauma, or going through a life adjustment, I can be there to support you in your journey to wellbeing.
Life has many joys and challenges; being human is messy. In the times we are working through the challenges, mental health support can help us to feel less alone. Whether you are experiencing anxiety, depression, grief, relational issues, family conflict, trauma, or going through a life adjustment, I can be there to support you in your journey to wellbeing.
(575) 468-4020 View (575) 468-4020
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Alameda Marriage and Family Therapy and Intensive
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LAMFT, LSAA
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hello, my name is Violet. I work with individuals, couples and families who may be struggling with something that they need to change, or who just need to engage in thinking differently about a problem. I am not here to judge anyone, I practice from the perspective that we all deal with things the best that we can, and when we learn better strategies, we do better. Let me help you to learn better strategies.
Hello, my name is Violet. I work with individuals, couples and families who may be struggling with something that they need to change, or who just need to engage in thinking differently about a problem. I am not here to judge anyone, I practice from the perspective that we all deal with things the best that we can, and when we learn better strategies, we do better. Let me help you to learn better strategies.
(575) 222-7944 View (575) 222-7944
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Alameda Marriage & Family Therapy & IOP
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LADAC
4 Endorsed
Serves Area
We are a group of private practice clinicians who specialize in working with individuals, couples, and families across the lifespan. We have a variety of clinicians with varied specialities and theoretical approaches, so we can find just the right fit for your needs. Some examples of our specialities include: depression, anxiety, substance use and abuse, sexuality, child and family play therapy, family therapy. We accept most major insurance plans and self-pay clients. Se habla Espanol. We are now accepting clients.
We are a group of private practice clinicians who specialize in working with individuals, couples, and families across the lifespan. We have a variety of clinicians with varied specialities and theoretical approaches, so we can find just the right fit for your needs. Some examples of our specialities include: depression, anxiety, substance use and abuse, sexuality, child and family play therapy, family therapy. We accept most major insurance plans and self-pay clients. Se habla Espanol. We are now accepting clients.
(575) 366-8025 View (575) 366-8025
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Yvonne Holguin
Licensed Professional Clinical Mental Health Counselor , LPCC
Online Only
Many people question their purpose and goals. You may wish to explore personal or sensitive issues in a safe, nonjudgemental space. Perhaps you’re finding it hard to communicate in relationships, manage day to day task or want to control negative thoughts. You may find yourself unmotivated, or maybe exhausted. As a Bilingual therapist and cultural sensitive, I can help you learn to overcome them by creating a healthier mindset. You may also be striving to grow as a person, and think more independently. I can equip you with practical tools which are evidence based techniques that will move you toward your best self.
Many people question their purpose and goals. You may wish to explore personal or sensitive issues in a safe, nonjudgemental space. Perhaps you’re finding it hard to communicate in relationships, manage day to day task or want to control negative thoughts. You may find yourself unmotivated, or maybe exhausted. As a Bilingual therapist and cultural sensitive, I can help you learn to overcome them by creating a healthier mindset. You may also be striving to grow as a person, and think more independently. I can equip you with practical tools which are evidence based techniques that will move you toward your best self.
(575) 741-2407 View (575) 741-2407

Online Therapists

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Ileana Saenz
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Las Cruces, NM 88011
Hello! My name is Ileana. I believe in creating a safe and non-judgmental space for my clients, where they can freely express themselves and explore their thoughts and emotions. Each individual is unique, and I tailor my therapeutic methods to suit the needs and preferences of each client, ensuring they feel heard, understood, and respected.
Hello! My name is Ileana. I believe in creating a safe and non-judgmental space for my clients, where they can freely express themselves and explore their thoughts and emotions. Each individual is unique, and I tailor my therapeutic methods to suit the needs and preferences of each client, ensuring they feel heard, understood, and respected.
(575) 448-8518 View (575) 448-8518
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Hope for Healing Counseling Services
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Las Cruces, NM 88001
Hope for Healing provides just that. It is important to start with giving hope when it may be lost, and provide hope as a starting point for the healing process. We believe hope is the catalyst for the healing that will come, and is a must to achieve success.
Hope for Healing provides just that. It is important to start with giving hope when it may be lost, and provide hope as a starting point for the healing process. We believe hope is the catalyst for the healing that will come, and is a must to achieve success.
(575) 339-1763 View (575) 339-1763
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Lorena D Griese
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Online Only
When we are struggling to find clarity and trying to cope with life’s struggles, it is important that we feel safe and heard. As a clinician, I offer a confidential, safe, judgment-free space where goals can be processed and coping skills can be learned. My experience working with children, families, adults, and adolescents allows me to be understanding of diverse situations such as trauma, grief, and relationship struggles.
When we are struggling to find clarity and trying to cope with life’s struggles, it is important that we feel safe and heard. As a clinician, I offer a confidential, safe, judgment-free space where goals can be processed and coping skills can be learned. My experience working with children, families, adults, and adolescents allows me to be understanding of diverse situations such as trauma, grief, and relationship struggles.
(575) 376-6698 View (575) 376-6698
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Healing Path Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SEP, EMDR, IFS-1
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Life is hard and many times we aren’t taught how to navigate this human experience, often feeling lost and with limited direction. This is exacerbated by experiences in which we are invalidated, dehumanized, and abused. This may lead to persistent emotional pain, isolation, shame, fear, and emptiness. My approach is led by my belief in human dignity and respect, focusing on those whose humanity and existence have been historically negated.
Life is hard and many times we aren’t taught how to navigate this human experience, often feeling lost and with limited direction. This is exacerbated by experiences in which we are invalidated, dehumanized, and abused. This may lead to persistent emotional pain, isolation, shame, fear, and emptiness. My approach is led by my belief in human dignity and respect, focusing on those whose humanity and existence have been historically negated.
(575) 468-4215 View (575) 468-4215
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Angela Lopez
Licensed Professional Clinical Mental Health Counselor, LPCC
1 Endorsed
Anthony, NM 88021
Hello and welcome. My approach and philosophy are to treat each person as an individual, build on individual strengths, and to promote resiliency and autonomy in my clients. I am open-minded, honest, and willing to adapt to changes. I love helping others and promoting them to help themselves. I am a graduate of New Mexico State University and The University of Texas at El Paso. My areas of expertise are working with children, teens and adults. I have also worked with couples and families. I support the LGTBQ+ community. 12/29/25
Hello and welcome. My approach and philosophy are to treat each person as an individual, build on individual strengths, and to promote resiliency and autonomy in my clients. I am open-minded, honest, and willing to adapt to changes. I love helping others and promoting them to help themselves. I am a graduate of New Mexico State University and The University of Texas at El Paso. My areas of expertise are working with children, teens and adults. I have also worked with couples and families. I support the LGTBQ+ community. 12/29/25
(575) 256-2266 View (575) 256-2266
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Shalan Costa
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Now accepting new clients! Hi and Welcome. I am an LMFT in New Mexico at Alameda Behavioral Health and IOP, and I work with families, couples, and individuals. Experience has taught me that no two relationships or challenges are the same, and I love using evidence-based methods to help my clients work through obstacles and life changes in ways that fit their lives and their unique strengths. My goal is to provide a safe space of trust where healing and reparation can occur, and where clients can learn to become their most healthy selves.
Now accepting new clients! Hi and Welcome. I am an LMFT in New Mexico at Alameda Behavioral Health and IOP, and I work with families, couples, and individuals. Experience has taught me that no two relationships or challenges are the same, and I love using evidence-based methods to help my clients work through obstacles and life changes in ways that fit their lives and their unique strengths. My goal is to provide a safe space of trust where healing and reparation can occur, and where clients can learn to become their most healthy selves.
(575) 500-0925 View (575) 500-0925
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Katrina Bruns
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LISW
Online Only
Are you looking for an easily accessible therapist that you can see from the comfort of your home or anywhere of your choosing? Are you looking to improve your life, work through past trauma, or build coping skills for maintaining positive mental health? If so, we may be the right fit!
Are you looking for an easily accessible therapist that you can see from the comfort of your home or anywhere of your choosing? Are you looking to improve your life, work through past trauma, or build coping skills for maintaining positive mental health? If so, we may be the right fit!
(575) 210-5198 View (575) 210-5198
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Ronnie Joan Diener
Counselor, MA, LPCC, LMFT
Online Only
Welcome to your own inner journey to transformative personal growth, empowerment and well-being! Our work together will encourage you to listen to and trust confidently in your own feelings, heart and intuition. I have found that emotions are our primary response to the world around us and contain all the information we need to learn to thrive. Focusing directly on the feelings underlying your issues rather than the thoughts will give you profound insight and clarity, and allow issues to resolve naturally and permanently. Learning to accept and trust in your own unique emotional/ intuitive perspective will bring you genuine self confidence, a renewed sense of direction in life, and dramatic spiritual/ psychological growth. My passion is to help you discover the natural healing magic within yourself!
Welcome to your own inner journey to transformative personal growth, empowerment and well-being! Our work together will encourage you to listen to and trust confidently in your own feelings, heart and intuition. I have found that emotions are our primary response to the world around us and contain all the information we need to learn to thrive. Focusing directly on the feelings underlying your issues rather than the thoughts will give you profound insight and clarity, and allow issues to resolve naturally and permanently. Learning to accept and trust in your own unique emotional/ intuitive perspective will bring you genuine self confidence, a renewed sense of direction in life, and dramatic spiritual/ psychological growth. My passion is to help you discover the natural healing magic within yourself!
(575) 305-8227 View (575) 305-8227
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Felipe Guzman
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Las Cruces, NM 88001
Every human being experiences serious, elevated and/or inflamed negative emotionality brought on by unfortunate circumstances, other family members, friends, a co-worker or even a stranger, at some point in their lives. Feelings of anxiety, depression, uncontrolled anger, worry, loneliness, etc., can keep you from easily stepping forward towards experiencing a successful life full of joy, calm, peace and tranquility. It is rare to have this type of emotional stability 100% of the time, but it is easy to experience this serene and soothing overall manner of being most of the time :)
Every human being experiences serious, elevated and/or inflamed negative emotionality brought on by unfortunate circumstances, other family members, friends, a co-worker or even a stranger, at some point in their lives. Feelings of anxiety, depression, uncontrolled anger, worry, loneliness, etc., can keep you from easily stepping forward towards experiencing a successful life full of joy, calm, peace and tranquility. It is rare to have this type of emotional stability 100% of the time, but it is easy to experience this serene and soothing overall manner of being most of the time :)
(575) 209-2746 View (575) 209-2746
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Elba M Daniel
Counselor, M.Ed., LPCC
Las Cruces, NM 88005
I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in NM with over 12 years of experience supporting individuals and couples through life's most challenging seasons. My clinical work focuses on trauma, depression, anxiety, and postpartum concerns. I am deeply committed to creating a safe, trusting therapeutic relationship where clients feel heard, respected, supported, and empowered.
I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in NM with over 12 years of experience supporting individuals and couples through life's most challenging seasons. My clinical work focuses on trauma, depression, anxiety, and postpartum concerns. I am deeply committed to creating a safe, trusting therapeutic relationship where clients feel heard, respected, supported, and empowered.
(575) 254-2698 View (575) 254-2698
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Mary Hokom
Counselor, LPCC, IMH-EIV
Silver City, NM 88061
I work with individuals to support their healthy emotional development and growth. I support and understand the complexities of my clients emotions through the lenses of brain science and early attachments as well as relationship dynamics, adverse childhood experiences and modern stresses. I help them to assess their life situations, consider their perspective and develop strategies that positively enhance the many aspects of their life. I approach this work with passion and look for potential joy and laughter with each session as well as recognize the ongoing struggles toward emotional health my clients face.
I work with individuals to support their healthy emotional development and growth. I support and understand the complexities of my clients emotions through the lenses of brain science and early attachments as well as relationship dynamics, adverse childhood experiences and modern stresses. I help them to assess their life situations, consider their perspective and develop strategies that positively enhance the many aspects of their life. I approach this work with passion and look for potential joy and laughter with each session as well as recognize the ongoing struggles toward emotional health my clients face.
(575) 936-5912 View (575) 936-5912
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Rebecca Morrison Gleed
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, PMH-C
Las Cruces, NM 88001
I am Level 3 Gottman Trained and subscribe to The Gottman Method for couples counseling. I am a Certified Perinatal Mental Health Professional (PMH-C). If you are on your fertility journey, pregnant, or postpartum, I would love to help. Ambitious women: Navigating ambitious careers or life transitions when societal demands on women remain pervasive can result in anxiety, depression, unmanageable stress and sometimes even post-traumatic stress.
I am Level 3 Gottman Trained and subscribe to The Gottman Method for couples counseling. I am a Certified Perinatal Mental Health Professional (PMH-C). If you are on your fertility journey, pregnant, or postpartum, I would love to help. Ambitious women: Navigating ambitious careers or life transitions when societal demands on women remain pervasive can result in anxiety, depression, unmanageable stress and sometimes even post-traumatic stress.
(703) 638-9289 View (703) 638-9289

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Divorce Therapists
How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.

What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioral, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.

When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.

How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.