Men's Issues Therapists in Dona Ana, NM

As a therapist my driving passions are to help people overcome trauma, de-stigmatize mental health, and advocate for counseling, not just as a means of addressing mental illness but as a tool for self-exploration, healing, and growth. I know that therapy, or any commitment to change for that matter, can be scary and uncomfortable at times but I provide a calming space and an empathetic and unconditionally caring partner in your journey of self-discovery, healing, and growth. I truly believe that counseling can be a means to a better, more satisfying and comfortable life for everyone.
As a therapist my driving passions are to help people overcome trauma, de-stigmatize mental health, and advocate for counseling, not just as a means of addressing mental illness but as a tool for self-exploration, healing, and growth. I know that therapy, or any commitment to change for that matter, can be scary and uncomfortable at times but I provide a calming space and an empathetic and unconditionally caring partner in your journey of self-discovery, healing, and growth. I truly believe that counseling can be a means to a better, more satisfying and comfortable life for everyone.

Therapists at our Telshor Behavioral Health Center provide individual and family therapy for children and adults. We specialize in family and couple issues and child play therapy. For those who would rather participate from home, Hippa-compliant teletherapy is provided via live video from experienced therapists. Whatever type of therapy you are looking for, our seasoned therapists are here to help.
Therapists at our Telshor Behavioral Health Center provide individual and family therapy for children and adults. We specialize in family and couple issues and child play therapy. For those who would rather participate from home, Hippa-compliant teletherapy is provided via live video from experienced therapists. Whatever type of therapy you are looking for, our seasoned therapists are here to help.
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Are you a man struggling to meet the expectations placed on you—by others or by yourself? Or are you someone who loves a man who seems distant, overwhelmed, or stuck? Whether you’re dealing with depression, anxiety, relationship issues, or unhealthy habits, you’re not alone.
Many men are taught to suppress their emotions, “power through” pain, or avoid vulnerability altogether. But that doesn’t mean they don’t want connection, meaning, or change. Life transitions—in work, health, or relationships—can crack open and lay bare these old patterns and offer a chance to grow.
Are you a man struggling to meet the expectations placed on you—by others or by yourself? Or are you someone who loves a man who seems distant, overwhelmed, or stuck? Whether you’re dealing with depression, anxiety, relationship issues, or unhealthy habits, you’re not alone.
Many men are taught to suppress their emotions, “power through” pain, or avoid vulnerability altogether. But that doesn’t mean they don’t want connection, meaning, or change. Life transitions—in work, health, or relationships—can crack open and lay bare these old patterns and offer a chance to grow.

Hi and welcome. I would like to offer you improved insight, awareness, support, and coping strategies to suit your needs. I provide a strengths-based client-focused approach for a variety of mental health and addiction issues. I have worked in the mental health and addiction field for 9 years. I believe each person has unique strengths, and I've seen firsthand how people can make positive change utilizing them. My approach is supportive and direct, and I like to challenge you to be your best self.
Hi and welcome. I would like to offer you improved insight, awareness, support, and coping strategies to suit your needs. I provide a strengths-based client-focused approach for a variety of mental health and addiction issues. I have worked in the mental health and addiction field for 9 years. I believe each person has unique strengths, and I've seen firsthand how people can make positive change utilizing them. My approach is supportive and direct, and I like to challenge you to be your best self.

I am Remington Vandergriff, LCSW, BCD, CCTP, medically retired US Army Major. My virtual-only practice is called Bonafide Therapeutic Alliance serving throughout NM. I have 12+ years of experience specializing in men's mental health and Veteran issues. My approach integrates evidence-based treatments, including REBT, CBT, CPT, PE, EMDR, SFT, Hypnotherapy, and CBTi. I do not offer couples or family therapy.
That said, I believe true healing comes from a strong therapeutic alliance, not just the modality used or letters behind one's name. My clients describe feeling at ease, heard, and genuinely understood.
I am Remington Vandergriff, LCSW, BCD, CCTP, medically retired US Army Major. My virtual-only practice is called Bonafide Therapeutic Alliance serving throughout NM. I have 12+ years of experience specializing in men's mental health and Veteran issues. My approach integrates evidence-based treatments, including REBT, CBT, CPT, PE, EMDR, SFT, Hypnotherapy, and CBTi. I do not offer couples or family therapy.
That said, I believe true healing comes from a strong therapeutic alliance, not just the modality used or letters behind one's name. My clients describe feeling at ease, heard, and genuinely understood.

Tamera Nicole Rasmussen
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LPCC, NCC, C-PD
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Hi! While it is necessary to introduce myself according to my education, experience, licensing, and specializations it is more important to let you know that I am a human first. I live life just like you and experience parenting pitfalls, marriage challenges, financial quandaries, and all of the other stuff that life is made of. My role in your life isn’t to tell you what to do or how to do it, it is to use the clinical skills I’ve learned, wisdom I’ve gained, and my clinical experience to help you navigate and heal from the “stuff” in your life.
Hi! While it is necessary to introduce myself according to my education, experience, licensing, and specializations it is more important to let you know that I am a human first. I live life just like you and experience parenting pitfalls, marriage challenges, financial quandaries, and all of the other stuff that life is made of. My role in your life isn’t to tell you what to do or how to do it, it is to use the clinical skills I’ve learned, wisdom I’ve gained, and my clinical experience to help you navigate and heal from the “stuff” in your life.

I help you to see your symptoms as a meaningful response to concerns that you have about your life and yourself. I help you become aware of what is keeping you from living the way you want to live. I help you to get clear about what you want in the way of love, work (expressing yourself) and enjoyment of life and to use your thoughts, feelings, intentions, talents and strengths to get on a path towards satisfying those desires. I help people heal from trauma. I don't believe drugs are good treatment and will help you withdraw from them.
I help you to see your symptoms as a meaningful response to concerns that you have about your life and yourself. I help you become aware of what is keeping you from living the way you want to live. I help you to get clear about what you want in the way of love, work (expressing yourself) and enjoyment of life and to use your thoughts, feelings, intentions, talents and strengths to get on a path towards satisfying those desires. I help people heal from trauma. I don't believe drugs are good treatment and will help you withdraw from them.

Now accepting new clients! Hi and Welcome. I am an LMFT in New Mexico at Alameda Behavioral Health and IOP, and I work with families, couples, and individuals. Experience has taught me that no two relationships or challenges are the same, and I love using evidence-based methods to help my clients work through obstacles and life changes in ways that fit their lives and their unique strengths. My goal is to provide a safe space of trust where healing and reparation can occur, and where clients can learn to become their most healthy selves.
Now accepting new clients! Hi and Welcome. I am an LMFT in New Mexico at Alameda Behavioral Health and IOP, and I work with families, couples, and individuals. Experience has taught me that no two relationships or challenges are the same, and I love using evidence-based methods to help my clients work through obstacles and life changes in ways that fit their lives and their unique strengths. My goal is to provide a safe space of trust where healing and reparation can occur, and where clients can learn to become their most healthy selves.

You're navigating different things in your life like stress, anxiety, major life transitions, trauma and feeling stuck. May it be mentally, emotionally, or even physically. You may have tried coping on your own, but it's exhausting. You want relief, clarity, and healing. Most of all, you want to understand your story without judgement and find a path forward that feels authentic and sustainable.
You're navigating different things in your life like stress, anxiety, major life transitions, trauma and feeling stuck. May it be mentally, emotionally, or even physically. You may have tried coping on your own, but it's exhausting. You want relief, clarity, and healing. Most of all, you want to understand your story without judgement and find a path forward that feels authentic and sustainable.

Welcome to your own inner journey to transformative personal growth, empowerment and well-being! Our work together will encourage you to listen to and trust confidently in your own feelings, heart and intuition. I have found that emotions are our primary response to the world around us and contain all the information we need to learn to thrive. Focusing directly on the feelings underlying your issues rather than the thoughts will give you profound insight and clarity, and allow issues to resolve naturally and permanently. Learning to accept and trust in your own unique emotional/ intuitive perspective will bring you genuine self confidence, a renewed sense of direction in life, and dramatic spiritual/ psychological growth. My passion is to help you discover the natural healing magic within yourself!
Welcome to your own inner journey to transformative personal growth, empowerment and well-being! Our work together will encourage you to listen to and trust confidently in your own feelings, heart and intuition. I have found that emotions are our primary response to the world around us and contain all the information we need to learn to thrive. Focusing directly on the feelings underlying your issues rather than the thoughts will give you profound insight and clarity, and allow issues to resolve naturally and permanently. Learning to accept and trust in your own unique emotional/ intuitive perspective will bring you genuine self confidence, a renewed sense of direction in life, and dramatic spiritual/ psychological growth. My passion is to help you discover the natural healing magic within yourself!

Ralph Waldo Emerson said it best, "Nothing ever great was accomplished without Enthusiasm". My passion is not only helping others in a time in need but also treating them with respect and dignity. I hold myself to high standards in maintaining the right of client determination while showing unconditional positive regard for all. My own goal as a therapist is to try to help others feel empowered, restored, and of course enthusiastic each and everyday.
Ralph Waldo Emerson said it best, "Nothing ever great was accomplished without Enthusiasm". My passion is not only helping others in a time in need but also treating them with respect and dignity. I hold myself to high standards in maintaining the right of client determination while showing unconditional positive regard for all. My own goal as a therapist is to try to help others feel empowered, restored, and of course enthusiastic each and everyday.

I specialize in trauma-informed parenting, Christian counseling, adolescent and family counseling. I also connect with adolescents through video and board games when requested. I am a Trust Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) practitioner and excel with coaching parents through challenging behaviors. As a committed member of the Christian community, Alonzo can also provide Christian/Biblical counseling to those who request it.
I specialize in trauma-informed parenting, Christian counseling, adolescent and family counseling. I also connect with adolescents through video and board games when requested. I am a Trust Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) practitioner and excel with coaching parents through challenging behaviors. As a committed member of the Christian community, Alonzo can also provide Christian/Biblical counseling to those who request it.

New Mexico Family Services
Counselor, MSc, LPCC
1 Endorsed
Las Cruces, NM 88011
Waitlist for new clients
The uncertainty of healing from within can be challenging due to feeling stuck triggered by fear and loss of control. Struggling with the stressors of life often leads to anxiety, depression, grief, and addiction. With compassion and empathy, vulnerability can be empowering when you feel safe and secure enough to regulate negative thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Collaborating together to prioritize your genuine mental and emotional needs is the main approach in which to foster personal growth.
The uncertainty of healing from within can be challenging due to feeling stuck triggered by fear and loss of control. Struggling with the stressors of life often leads to anxiety, depression, grief, and addiction. With compassion and empathy, vulnerability can be empowering when you feel safe and secure enough to regulate negative thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Collaborating together to prioritize your genuine mental and emotional needs is the main approach in which to foster personal growth.

Asking for help is a sign of strength. By seeking therapy, you are moving towards growth and transformation. Feeling challenged in relationships and wanting a deeper connection with the people in your life is a common desire, yet at times can be so elusive. You are not alone. By acknowledging this and getting support, you will have taken the first courageous step in moving toward healing.As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I work with families, couples, and individuals to detangle ingrained patterns. My work is to guide you in connecting to your innate strength and wisdom. I support clients in unraveling old wounds.
Asking for help is a sign of strength. By seeking therapy, you are moving towards growth and transformation. Feeling challenged in relationships and wanting a deeper connection with the people in your life is a common desire, yet at times can be so elusive. You are not alone. By acknowledging this and getting support, you will have taken the first courageous step in moving toward healing.As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I work with families, couples, and individuals to detangle ingrained patterns. My work is to guide you in connecting to your innate strength and wisdom. I support clients in unraveling old wounds.

At PeaceTree, we offer adult ADHD and Autism evaluations and short-term therapy. Maybe you’ve always felt a little different or wondered why things that seem easy for others feel harder for you. You might be questioning whether ADHD or Autism is part of your story, or just feeling burned out from trying to keep up. Maybe you’ve been masking for so long that you're simply exhausted. You're looking for clarity, relief, and care that actually feels supportive and real.
At PeaceTree, we offer adult ADHD and Autism evaluations and short-term therapy. Maybe you’ve always felt a little different or wondered why things that seem easy for others feel harder for you. You might be questioning whether ADHD or Autism is part of your story, or just feeling burned out from trying to keep up. Maybe you’ve been masking for so long that you're simply exhausted. You're looking for clarity, relief, and care that actually feels supportive and real.

I'm an LCSW therapist with over 10 years of experience holding space for those who walk between emotional, cultural, and family borders. My approach is warm, direct, and deeply human.
I don’t offer magic formulas—but I do offer a safe space where you stop losing yourself in others and start finding your way back to you. Here, we don’t heal to fit in—we heal to break free.
I'm an LCSW therapist with over 10 years of experience holding space for those who walk between emotional, cultural, and family borders. My approach is warm, direct, and deeply human.
I don’t offer magic formulas—but I do offer a safe space where you stop losing yourself in others and start finding your way back to you. Here, we don’t heal to fit in—we heal to break free.

In the quiet moments, when the weight of the world feels too heavy to bear, know this: you are not alone. For those grappling with anxiety, depression, and the haunting echoes of past trauma, your struggles are valid, and your pain is heard. At Journey of Hope and Courage, we recognize the quiet courage that resides within each person—the courage that whispers, "I'm scared, but I'll do it anyway." It's the bravery that propels you forward, even when the path seems daunting.
In the quiet moments, when the weight of the world feels too heavy to bear, know this: you are not alone. For those grappling with anxiety, depression, and the haunting echoes of past trauma, your struggles are valid, and your pain is heard. At Journey of Hope and Courage, we recognize the quiet courage that resides within each person—the courage that whispers, "I'm scared, but I'll do it anyway." It's the bravery that propels you forward, even when the path seems daunting.

The people I work with often come to me because they are looking to gain insight into emotional patterns, address difficult dynamics, and develop more balanced relationships with themselves or others. Together we paint a picture of their life stories, work to integrate the various aspects of themselves, and move towards the life they want to be living. We take the time to explore the context and history of the problem or symptom they are experiencing in order to better address it. I work with people of all ages and backgrounds and promote authentic expression and reflection in the therapy room.
The people I work with often come to me because they are looking to gain insight into emotional patterns, address difficult dynamics, and develop more balanced relationships with themselves or others. Together we paint a picture of their life stories, work to integrate the various aspects of themselves, and move towards the life they want to be living. We take the time to explore the context and history of the problem or symptom they are experiencing in order to better address it. I work with people of all ages and backgrounds and promote authentic expression and reflection in the therapy room.

Within our current cultural paradigm, many individuals face heightened levels of stress, problematic substance use, and strained relationships. Social discourse regarding drug use, gender identity, and disability can cause negative self perception and aggravate rather than alleviate these distresses. As a counselor, I promote a critically informed, empathetic and creatively embodied therapeutic practice that can help individuals better navigate such distressing experiences while developing the insights and skills to thrive despite our collective experience within oppressive systems.
Within our current cultural paradigm, many individuals face heightened levels of stress, problematic substance use, and strained relationships. Social discourse regarding drug use, gender identity, and disability can cause negative self perception and aggravate rather than alleviate these distresses. As a counselor, I promote a critically informed, empathetic and creatively embodied therapeutic practice that can help individuals better navigate such distressing experiences while developing the insights and skills to thrive despite our collective experience within oppressive systems.

Alameda Marriage & Family Therapy & IOP
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LADAC
3 Endorsed
Las Cruces, NM 88005
We are a group of private practice clinicians who specialize in working with individuals, couples, and families across the lifespan. We have a variety of clinicians with varied specialities and theoretical approaches, so we can find just the right fit for your needs. Some examples of our specialities include: depression, anxiety, substance use and abuse, sexuality, child and family play therapy, family therapy. We accept most major insurance plans and self-pay clients. Se habla Espanol. We are now accepting clients.
We are a group of private practice clinicians who specialize in working with individuals, couples, and families across the lifespan. We have a variety of clinicians with varied specialities and theoretical approaches, so we can find just the right fit for your needs. Some examples of our specialities include: depression, anxiety, substance use and abuse, sexuality, child and family play therapy, family therapy. We accept most major insurance plans and self-pay clients. Se habla Espanol. We are now accepting clients.
Men's Issues Therapists
Is therapy for men different than it is for women?
Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.
How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?
It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.
How can men prepare for therapy?
Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.
What should men know about the process of therapy?
One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.