Men's Issues Therapists in Bernalillo, NM
I have always known that helping others is my purpose. My own personal life challenges and feeling that I was in a dark place pushed me a strong desire to understand myself and my feelings at a deeper level. I realized that I wanted to leave the world better than I had found it, and I wanted to do so by helping others to heal. My own healing journey brought me to help others through therapy. I use a strengths-based approach to help my clients ease the pain that they are experiencing, by not only being there and offering an empathetic ear, but by helping them to find the joy in life that they may have thought would be lost forever.
I have always known that helping others is my purpose. My own personal life challenges and feeling that I was in a dark place pushed me a strong desire to understand myself and my feelings at a deeper level. I realized that I wanted to leave the world better than I had found it, and I wanted to do so by helping others to heal. My own healing journey brought me to help others through therapy. I use a strengths-based approach to help my clients ease the pain that they are experiencing, by not only being there and offering an empathetic ear, but by helping them to find the joy in life that they may have thought would be lost forever.
I work best with clients who are navigating intense emotions and complex life challenges—individuals who may be experiencing anger, depression, anxiety, ADHD, OCD, racing thoughts, rapid speech, PTSD, suicidal ideation, relationship difficulties, or parenting obstacles. My ideal clients range from children as young as seven to adults seeking support, clarity, and meaningful change.
I work best with clients who are navigating intense emotions and complex life challenges—individuals who may be experiencing anger, depression, anxiety, ADHD, OCD, racing thoughts, rapid speech, PTSD, suicidal ideation, relationship difficulties, or parenting obstacles. My ideal clients range from children as young as seven to adults seeking support, clarity, and meaningful change.
Are you experiencing fear, loneliness, anger, grief, chronic illness, or pain? Maybe you're transitioning or feeling un-rooted, on an edge, lost, anxious, and/or addicted? Our identities and perspectives are informed by how we relate to and make sense of these experiences. Knowledge of that we call 'self' is a continual and creative process, and includes relationship to the unconscious - the ever-moving parts of the psyche yet unknown to us. I help clients find focus and relax preconceived notions of how growth and healing occurs. This allows one to learn from their symptoms in order to ease suffering - to hold paradox.
Are you experiencing fear, loneliness, anger, grief, chronic illness, or pain? Maybe you're transitioning or feeling un-rooted, on an edge, lost, anxious, and/or addicted? Our identities and perspectives are informed by how we relate to and make sense of these experiences. Knowledge of that we call 'self' is a continual and creative process, and includes relationship to the unconscious - the ever-moving parts of the psyche yet unknown to us. I help clients find focus and relax preconceived notions of how growth and healing occurs. This allows one to learn from their symptoms in order to ease suffering - to hold paradox.
At Ellie Mental Health, we know the “ideal client” doesn’t truly exist—because everyone’s story is unique. Our ideal client is simply someone willing to show up as they are: imperfect, curious, and ready to explore healing. Whether you’re navigating life changes, seeking growth, or just trying to make it through the day, you belong here. We meet you with compassion, humor, and authenticity—because real people deserve real support.
At Ellie Mental Health, we know the “ideal client” doesn’t truly exist—because everyone’s story is unique. Our ideal client is simply someone willing to show up as they are: imperfect, curious, and ready to explore healing. Whether you’re navigating life changes, seeking growth, or just trying to make it through the day, you belong here. We meet you with compassion, humor, and authenticity—because real people deserve real support.
I am a mental health professional with 5+ years of experience, I graduated from Highlands University in Las Vegas, NM, in 2019. I specialize in anxiety, childhood trauma, ADHD, PTSD, and trauma-related disorders, I employ a compassionate, evidence-based approach to help clients regain control of their lives.
I believe in empowering individuals by equipping them with a comprehensive "toolbox" of skills and strategies. Through mindfulness, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and behavioral activation. I help guide clients toward discovering their inner strength and transforming their behaviors to create better lifestyles.
I am a mental health professional with 5+ years of experience, I graduated from Highlands University in Las Vegas, NM, in 2019. I specialize in anxiety, childhood trauma, ADHD, PTSD, and trauma-related disorders, I employ a compassionate, evidence-based approach to help clients regain control of their lives.
I believe in empowering individuals by equipping them with a comprehensive "toolbox" of skills and strategies. Through mindfulness, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and behavioral activation. I help guide clients toward discovering their inner strength and transforming their behaviors to create better lifestyles.
I have been providing therapy for over 3 decades. I have developed programs, provided crisis mediation, and investigated abuse against individuals and facilities. I have worked with persons of all ages, including persons with disabilities, and those who have suffered various types of trauma and hardships. I have a broad range of knowledge and therapeutic skills. I will work with you wherever you are on your journey. I provide a safe place to cope with issues and discover insights into yourself. Hopefully along the way, we can lighten the load with laughter! I am the owner of Turquoise Wings Counseling.
I have been providing therapy for over 3 decades. I have developed programs, provided crisis mediation, and investigated abuse against individuals and facilities. I have worked with persons of all ages, including persons with disabilities, and those who have suffered various types of trauma and hardships. I have a broad range of knowledge and therapeutic skills. I will work with you wherever you are on your journey. I provide a safe place to cope with issues and discover insights into yourself. Hopefully along the way, we can lighten the load with laughter! I am the owner of Turquoise Wings Counseling.
Welcome to The Rock Family Therapy, LLC, where we provide compassionate and specialized therapy services tailored to adolescents, families, military personnel, and individuals navigating trauma. Our mission is to create a safe, supportive space for those facing unique challenges, helping them regain control, heal, and thrive.
Welcome to The Rock Family Therapy, LLC, where we provide compassionate and specialized therapy services tailored to adolescents, families, military personnel, and individuals navigating trauma. Our mission is to create a safe, supportive space for those facing unique challenges, helping them regain control, heal, and thrive.
Avenidas Nuevas Counseling LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MBA, MSW
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Since 2007, I have been dedicated to the social service and mental health field. My career has encompassed a diverse array of settings, including homeless shelters, youth correctional facilities, adult inpatient psychiatric units, and both one-on-one and group therapy for general mental health concerns. I have supported clients facing a variety of challenges, such as past and present trauma, distorted self-perceptions, substance abuse, life transitions, cognitive distortions, and depression/anxiety, all with the goal of helping them find peace and balance in their lives.
Since 2007, I have been dedicated to the social service and mental health field. My career has encompassed a diverse array of settings, including homeless shelters, youth correctional facilities, adult inpatient psychiatric units, and both one-on-one and group therapy for general mental health concerns. I have supported clients facing a variety of challenges, such as past and present trauma, distorted self-perceptions, substance abuse, life transitions, cognitive distortions, and depression/anxiety, all with the goal of helping them find peace and balance in their lives.
I like to direct our attention away from what is wrong with people toward what can be improved between people. This leads to a lot of philosophical reflection, and laughter. (In fact I am writing a book about the philosophy of humor, and how it shows up in therapy.)
I like to direct our attention away from what is wrong with people toward what can be improved between people. This leads to a lot of philosophical reflection, and laughter. (In fact I am writing a book about the philosophy of humor, and how it shows up in therapy.)
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I believe that you are the expert of your own healing process. I provide space for in-depth exploration, offering compassion, curiosity, creativity, and resources. I work to align with you so that together we can address the factors that are impeding your well-being and growth. As we move through a time where it increasingly feels that the ground beneath us is shifting, my aim is to support you in not only coping with the challenges ahead, but thriving and moving forward as the empowered creator of your own story. Therapy is an opportunity to slow down and cultivate more authentic alignment with yourself, others, and your community.
I believe that you are the expert of your own healing process. I provide space for in-depth exploration, offering compassion, curiosity, creativity, and resources. I work to align with you so that together we can address the factors that are impeding your well-being and growth. As we move through a time where it increasingly feels that the ground beneath us is shifting, my aim is to support you in not only coping with the challenges ahead, but thriving and moving forward as the empowered creator of your own story. Therapy is an opportunity to slow down and cultivate more authentic alignment with yourself, others, and your community.
As a seasoned depth psychologist formally trained in exploring the depths of being human, I will work collaboratively with you to get to the root of what ails you. I find cultivating an affirming, caring stance allows an individual to move more readily towards healing and the resolution of problems and difficulties. Consequently, you can be the person you want to be thereby realizing greater personal agency and generating more successful relationships. The heart and soul of my practice involves working with chronic shame, gender and sexuality issues, life transitions, grief, loss, trauma, dissociated self-states, self exploration.
As a seasoned depth psychologist formally trained in exploring the depths of being human, I will work collaboratively with you to get to the root of what ails you. I find cultivating an affirming, caring stance allows an individual to move more readily towards healing and the resolution of problems and difficulties. Consequently, you can be the person you want to be thereby realizing greater personal agency and generating more successful relationships. The heart and soul of my practice involves working with chronic shame, gender and sexuality issues, life transitions, grief, loss, trauma, dissociated self-states, self exploration.
Hi and welcome. I would like to offer you improved insight, awareness, support, and coping strategies to suit your needs. I provide a strengths-based client-focused approach for a variety of mental health and addiction issues. I have worked in the mental health and addiction field for 9 years. I believe each person has unique strengths, and I've seen firsthand how people can make positive change utilizing them. My approach is supportive and direct, and I like to challenge you to be your best self.
Hi and welcome. I would like to offer you improved insight, awareness, support, and coping strategies to suit your needs. I provide a strengths-based client-focused approach for a variety of mental health and addiction issues. I have worked in the mental health and addiction field for 9 years. I believe each person has unique strengths, and I've seen firsthand how people can make positive change utilizing them. My approach is supportive and direct, and I like to challenge you to be your best self.
Life can feel heavy at times; you might be facing anxiety, self-doubt, relationship struggles, or unresolved trauma. You’re ready for more than just getting by. You want relief, clarity, and lasting growth. I provide a supportive, down-to-earth online space where you can explore your thoughts and emotions without judgment. Together, we’ll uncover patterns that keep you stuck and build tools for resilience, balance, and confidence. Through a collaborative and humanistic approach, I’ll help you move from simply coping to truly thriving.
Life can feel heavy at times; you might be facing anxiety, self-doubt, relationship struggles, or unresolved trauma. You’re ready for more than just getting by. You want relief, clarity, and lasting growth. I provide a supportive, down-to-earth online space where you can explore your thoughts and emotions without judgment. Together, we’ll uncover patterns that keep you stuck and build tools for resilience, balance, and confidence. Through a collaborative and humanistic approach, I’ll help you move from simply coping to truly thriving.
After over 50 years of experience working with children, adolescents and adults in settings as diverse as prison and preschool, I have come to the conclusion that the root of most psychological suffering is a discrepancy between who we really are and who we have been expected to become or expect ourselves and others to be. This discrepancy between the "Self" and the personality we develop causes immense suffering within individuals, between individuals and in the culture as a whole. My goal is to help clients find their own truth or "Self" and live their lives from that place.
After over 50 years of experience working with children, adolescents and adults in settings as diverse as prison and preschool, I have come to the conclusion that the root of most psychological suffering is a discrepancy between who we really are and who we have been expected to become or expect ourselves and others to be. This discrepancy between the "Self" and the personality we develop causes immense suffering within individuals, between individuals and in the culture as a whole. My goal is to help clients find their own truth or "Self" and live their lives from that place.
My ideal clients are often navigating significant life transitions and challenges, frequently grappling with depression, anxiety, expat/international issues, LGBTQ+ identity, pet loss, or addiction. They come seeking more than just symptom relief; they yearn for affirmation and crave meaningful, creative solutions to feel less stuck and more in control of their lives. Their goals extend beyond immediate concerns to include reducing overwhelming symptoms, navigating complex transitions, and actively building resilience for the future. They thrive in a collaborative, goal-oriented environment that supports their well-being.
My ideal clients are often navigating significant life transitions and challenges, frequently grappling with depression, anxiety, expat/international issues, LGBTQ+ identity, pet loss, or addiction. They come seeking more than just symptom relief; they yearn for affirmation and crave meaningful, creative solutions to feel less stuck and more in control of their lives. Their goals extend beyond immediate concerns to include reducing overwhelming symptoms, navigating complex transitions, and actively building resilience for the future. They thrive in a collaborative, goal-oriented environment that supports their well-being.
I specialize in TBI, PTSD, and Men's Issues using practical somatic tools—we do more than just talk.
Navigating the 2026 Turquoise Care transition or tired of waitlists? We are here to help. My ideal clients are New Mexicans—from the high-desert North to our rural Southern communities—ready to move beyond "just surviving." We specialize in tactical, tools-based recovery for anxiety, depression, TBI, PTSD, and burnout.
Whether you are seeking a Turquoise Care Specialist or high-level private-pay trauma care, we provide a structured roadmap to aliveness. We understand the unique resilience of the Land of Enchantment. As a "Green Lights" provider, we prioritize accessibility for rural and urban New Mexico via secure telehealth.
I specialize in TBI, PTSD, and Men's Issues using practical somatic tools—we do more than just talk.
Navigating the 2026 Turquoise Care transition or tired of waitlists? We are here to help. My ideal clients are New Mexicans—from the high-desert North to our rural Southern communities—ready to move beyond "just surviving." We specialize in tactical, tools-based recovery for anxiety, depression, TBI, PTSD, and burnout.
Whether you are seeking a Turquoise Care Specialist or high-level private-pay trauma care, we provide a structured roadmap to aliveness. We understand the unique resilience of the Land of Enchantment. As a "Green Lights" provider, we prioritize accessibility for rural and urban New Mexico via secure telehealth.
For over twenty years, I have been helping individuals navigate periods of depression, anxiety, relationship challenges, addictions and major life transitions. Some people come to therapy feeling discouraged, overwhelmed, or stuck; uncertain about what to do next. Others are seeking a deeper self-understanding, stronger relationships, and a healthier and more fulfilling way of living.
For over twenty years, I have been helping individuals navigate periods of depression, anxiety, relationship challenges, addictions and major life transitions. Some people come to therapy feeling discouraged, overwhelmed, or stuck; uncertain about what to do next. Others are seeking a deeper self-understanding, stronger relationships, and a healthier and more fulfilling way of living.
But I specialize in working with men's issues and the majority of my clients are male.
I work as a generalist; which means concerns that are typical in adulthood such as work and relationship related issues. I have discussed these topics on over 100 radio programs across the US, UK, Canada, Middle East, and Australia and have been interviewed by newspapers and magazines such as Huffington Post, Women's Health, and Men's Journal.
But I specialize in working with men's issues and the majority of my clients are male.
I work as a generalist; which means concerns that are typical in adulthood such as work and relationship related issues. I have discussed these topics on over 100 radio programs across the US, UK, Canada, Middle East, and Australia and have been interviewed by newspapers and magazines such as Huffington Post, Women's Health, and Men's Journal.
Change and impermanence are the great constants in our lives. If you are in a time of transition, and are experiencing symptoms such as depression, anxiety, health issues, or relationship concerns, I would like to meet with you. I hold a Ph.D.in Clinical Psychology with an emphasis in depth psychology. I bring a psychodynamic and relational perspective to consultations with adults of all ages. With mindfulness and compassion, we create together a safe and confidential alliance for exploration of old limitations and emerging possibilities.
Change and impermanence are the great constants in our lives. If you are in a time of transition, and are experiencing symptoms such as depression, anxiety, health issues, or relationship concerns, I would like to meet with you. I hold a Ph.D.in Clinical Psychology with an emphasis in depth psychology. I bring a psychodynamic and relational perspective to consultations with adults of all ages. With mindfulness and compassion, we create together a safe and confidential alliance for exploration of old limitations and emerging possibilities.
Remington Vandergriff
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, BCD, CCTP
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I’m Remington Vandergriff, LCSW, BCD, CCTP, a medically retired U.S. Army Major, owner of Bonafide Therapeutic Alliance, a virtual-only practice serving clients across NM. With 13+ years of experience, I specialize in men’s mental health, Veteran issues, & LCSW supervision. My therapeutic approach is grounded in evidence-based practices. I do not provide couples or family therapy. That said, I believe that true healing comes from a strong therapeutic alliance, not just the treatment model or credentials. My clients often describe feeling at ease, heard, and genuinely understood, which forms the foundation for meaningful change.
I’m Remington Vandergriff, LCSW, BCD, CCTP, a medically retired U.S. Army Major, owner of Bonafide Therapeutic Alliance, a virtual-only practice serving clients across NM. With 13+ years of experience, I specialize in men’s mental health, Veteran issues, & LCSW supervision. My therapeutic approach is grounded in evidence-based practices. I do not provide couples or family therapy. That said, I believe that true healing comes from a strong therapeutic alliance, not just the treatment model or credentials. My clients often describe feeling at ease, heard, and genuinely understood, which forms the foundation for meaningful change.
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Is therapy for men different than it is for women?
Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.
How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?
It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.
How can men prepare for therapy?
Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.
What should men know about the process of therapy?
One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.

