Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Albuquerque, NM
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Jenn J Allen Sex Therapist
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, CCTP, ERYT500
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I am known for my work with trauma, LGBTQIA individuals, alternative sexual lifestyles including
kink
and non monogamy, and out-of-control sexual behaviors, I hold additional training and certifications in trauma & substance abuse, sex and relationship therapy, and Integrative & Nutritional Approaches to Mental Health.
I approach sex and relationship therapy from a strength-based integrative approach, helping clients to find balance and wellness by accessing and developing innate coping skills and strengths. With over three decades in the holistic arts of yoga and herbalism in addition to western academics; I seek to treat the whole person with thoughtful and creative interventions utilizing the best of both western & eastern approaches. I am currently working towards national certification in sex therapy as a way to support individuals in finding their authentic sexual self while cultivating healthy relationships with others.
Meraki Wellbeing, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I work with persons of all relationship orientations including traditional, consensual nonmonogamy, polyamory,
kink
-friendly and affirming.
Just by showing up and reading this, You are brave! Looking for help isn't always easy, but if the following resonates with you, I believe I can help! Do you find yourself feeling stuck in negative repetitive patterns? Overwhelmed and uncertain? Experiencing anxiety and/or depression and wanting more out of life but not sure how to get there? I know lie can feel like an uphill battle at times, but you don't have to figure it out alone. I can support you through the challenging and confusing parts of your journey and share in the celebration of your successes in personal growth along the way.
Vincent “V” Espinoza
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified
Verified
These include, but are not limited to, fetish and
kink
, couples involved in nontraditional relationships (including, but not limited to, ethical nonmonogamy & polyamory), & adolescents & young adults seeking guidance and support in exploring their emerging gender and sexual identities.
Vincent (he/they) is a nonbinary, pansexual Licensed Master Social Worker (LMSW) and Licensed Substance Abuse Associate (LSAA) Counselor with a passion for delivering cognitive behavioral and trauma-informed therapy through a systems-oriented lens. Vincent strongly believes in incorporating all aspects of an individual’s identity in the journey toward healing and self-love. Vincent’s focus is working with members of the LGBTQ+ community and individuals with special sexual interests.
Meg Kempert
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified
Verified
I am LGBTQIA+, sex-positive and
kink
, allied and work with individual adults of all gender and gender non-conforming identities as well as all relationship orientations, including ethical/consensual non-monogamy, polyamory,
kink
-friendly and traditional relationship dynamics.
When you recognize that your current patterns no longer serve you, telling your story in a safe space can start you on the path back to your true self. Underneath the issues that trouble you; grief, trauma, depression, stress, feeling stuck...there are opportunities for growth and positive change. It's time to reconnect with that still, soft voice inside of you that speaks to the truth of who you are; your best self. My therapeutic approach is adapted to your needs; integrating Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy, and Art Therapy. I am also trained in EMDR.
Waitlist for new clients
Michele M Donovan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I work with persons of all gender and gender non-conforming identities as well as all relationship orientations including consensual non-monogamy, polyamory,
kink
- friendly and traditional couples and marriage.
Just by showing up and reading this, you are brave! Looking for help isn’t always easy, but if any of the following resonates with you, I believe I can help! Do you find yourself feeling stuck in negative repetitive patterns? Overwhelmed and confused? Experiencing anxiety and/or depression and wanting more out of life but not sure how to get there. I know life can feel like an uphill battle at times, but you don’t have to figure it out alone. I can support you through the challenging and confusing parts of your journey and share in the celebration of your successes in personal growth along the way.
Sarah Steele, Psy.D. LLC
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
Verified
I am a
sex positive
therapist and can discuss a range of issues related to sexuality, orientation, and identity.
I have experience treating a large range of issues but the primary reasons people come to see me are depression, anxiety, and relationship difficulties. I can help you to understand the underlying issues and to make changes in your life that bring you more balance and fulfillment. We can work short or long term, insight or solution-focused, depending on your needs. I see adolescents and can see parents of children of all ages to work on parenting issues and behavior management.
Leasa Metcalf
Counselor, LMHC
Verified
Verified
Leasa (she/her) is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor delivering sex-positive psychotherapy with a cognitive behavioral and person-centric approach. Her previous experience includes therapy for trauma, depression, anxiety, PTSD, addiction, anger management, and domestic violence. Leasa enjoys working with children, teens, adults, and the LGBQT+ community. She strives to provide a safe and comfortable environment, allowing each individual to be their unique and authentic self. Leasa offers treatment for concerns related to sexuality, gender, sexual identity, body positivity,
kink
/fetish, and wellness within relationships.
Albuquerque Sex Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST, ASC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Within an understanding free of shame or negativity,
sex positive
therapy sees all barriers as surmountable.
I am an independently licensed MFT and AASECT certified sex therapist. I have spent the majority of my career addressing issues related to sex and sexuality. From couples who may be struggling to individuals concerned something is wrong with them. From adolescents/emerging adults with problematic sexual behaviors to parents who have concerns about their child's sexual development or questions about their behaviors. Regardless of what may be troubling you, what you've been told, or what you are telling yourself, we can work it out.
Sex positive
therapy supports you seeing yourself, your body & your sexuality as 100% normal.
Michelle P Esquibel
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I am sex-positive and
kink
/BDsM, non-monogamy, and fat affirming with a Health at Every Size (HAES) perspective.
Are you a person of color and/or someone from the LGBTQIA2+ community? Are you looking for affirming care in a safe space? Perhaps you are seeking help looking at things in a new way, or you need help finding more effective ways to cope and manage the stressors of life. Finding a provider that has a similar lived experience can be the key to a rich and meaningful counseling experience. I have a variety of holistic and culturally sensitive approaches to meet you where you are and work with you to get the most out of your healing journey.
Not accepting new clients
Marylouise Kuti
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CSOTP
Verified
Verified
She offers specialized care in sexuality-related concerns and relationship wellness and is LGBTQI+ and
kink
-friendly.
We are hard-wired for connection, I look forward to working together to support you as you navigate your therapeutic journey. Whether you are wanting to build trust in yourself, improve challenging relationship dynamics, identify appropriate boundaries to set that will prioritize and protect your peace, or navigate your healing journey from trauma; I ensure confidential, inclusive, and respectful care rooted in developing individual autonomy providing an atmosphere free from shame and judgment.
Trail Ahead Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
We are also LGBTQ+,
Kink
, Poly and HAES allied.
Often, people have difficulty finding a therapist that meets their needs and the search can be overwhelming. If you are looking for a therapist who is trauma-informed, inclusive, and empathetic then we are here for you. We believe in creating a safe place where clients can express their vulnerabilities and share their difficult stories in a space that is free of judgment.
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You, Me, and Therapy LLC
Counselor, LCMHC, LPCC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
We offer support for folks in the LGBTQ, poly,
kink
, and gender diverse communities. I follow the WPATH standards of care when writing letters of support for medical transition and can offer that letter after 1 gender assessment. Every clinician or student intern working with this practice is LGBTQ+ identifying or affirming so this is a safe space for you to explore whatever you wish. We also specialize in trauma therapy such as EMDR and NARM. Support groups for LGBTQ+ folks are open as well. Please reach out to us today for support!
Lauren Herrel
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified
Verified
Lauren specializes in helping individuals discover and live within their truth and values. She offers a non-judgmental space for clients to work through codependency, self-esteem issues, trauma, and the multitude of other challenges life can present. She strives to support growth, healing, and empowerment. Being a sex-positive therapist, she can support her clients on what they want to explore or discuss on the sexual spectrum. She has received training in Pia Melodie's Codependence Post Induction therapy model, assisting clients in processing trauma, learning to set boundaries, and esteeming oneself.
Office is near:
Albuquerque, NM 87106 & Online
Waitlist for new clients
Donna Blumenfeld
Counselor, MA, LPCC, NCC
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
Most of us want more from our lives than just the absence of symptoms. To thrive, we need meaning, purpose, pleasure, connection with others, and a healthy relationship with the self. If you're here, you already know how to survive. I'd like to help you resolve issues that are getting in the way of having the life you want, whether that's a traumatic past, mental health symptoms, or trouble with relationships. I am queer, sex-positive, body-neutral, and affirming of your identities.
EMDR Therapy Solutions
Counselor, LPCC, BCC, NCC, CCTP, CST
Verified
Verified
You've experienced something terrible in your life, and you cannot stop thinking about it. You can't sleep, and barely function throughout the day. Or maybe you function, but you're unhappy, stressed and anxious. Maybe you cover the pain with drugs, sex or alcohol. Trauma affects everyone- and everyone reacts in their own way. You want to be able to look forward to your day, your life and your relationships. If you've been through sexual trauma, infidelity, relational issues or have low self esteem, EMDR can help.
Avenidas Nuevas Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MBA, MSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I've been involved in the social service/mental health field since 07. My experience and career of assisting other ranges from working at a homeless shelter to incarcerated youth to Adult Inpatient Psych to One on one/Group General Mental Health concerns. Many of client concerns that I have assisted range from past/present trauma events, distorted view of self, and substance abuse and life transitions and cognitive distortions and depressed/anxious mood and etc. All with the goal of seeking some form of peace and balance in their lives.
Waitlist for new clients
AKA Therapy LLC
Counselor, LPCC, NCC, ICST
Verified
Verified
Our wide range of population coverage provides your whole family a space to grow and discover together. Whether you are 5 or 95, we will work with you where you are at to provide the best therapeutic care we are able to provide .
Krishna Vemulapalli
Counselor, LMHC
Verified
Verified
Krishna is a Licensed Mental Health Clinician delivering cognitive behavioral therapy that blends person-centric and narrative therapy approaches. His unique perspective is informed by a blended Jamaican and Asian Indian parentage, a four-year tour in the US Armed forces, a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from the University of Colorado, and a Master’s Degree in Counseling from the University Of New Mexico. Krishna’s focus is working with individuals and couples on issues related to sex and sexual health including alternative relationship structures, kinks, and fetishes.
Waitlist for new clients
Jennifer Bear
Counselor, LPCC
Verified
Verified
Therapy is a unique opportunity to explore your most authentic self. It is a space with no right or wrong. My goal as a therapist is to hold a safe space for you to go on a journey to explore the experiences that have caused pain and discomfort in your life and help guide you to understanding your authentic self as you foster self-love and acceptance for all the parts of yourself.
Not accepting new clients
J Megan Davis
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified
Verified
The choice of whom to see in therapy and the goals for treatment must be personal and individualized in order for the treatment to be a success. I believe that I am well suited to working with all ages, and with various types of interaction and relationship issues; problems that may be found in these areas stem from a vast number of issues, ranging from trauma to anger. I look forward to searching with you for the best solutions to your stressors and life struggles.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.