Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists in Albuquerque, NM
I am LGBTQIA+ allied and work with individual adults of all gender and non-conforming identities as well as all relationship orientations, including ethical/consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, and traditional relationship dynamics.
My therapeutic approach is compassion based and adapted to your needs; integrating Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), self-inquiry methods and mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy. I am neurodivergent, so I am familiar with strategies for coping with Autism Spectrum Disorder, ADHD, and Trauma.
I am LGBTQIA+ allied and work with individual adults of all gender and non-conforming identities as well as all relationship orientations, including ethical/consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, and traditional relationship dynamics.
My therapeutic approach is compassion based and adapted to your needs; integrating Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), self-inquiry methods and mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy. I am neurodivergent, so I am familiar with strategies for coping with Autism Spectrum Disorder, ADHD, and Trauma.
Experience with: ADHD, anxiety, personality disorders, trauma, sex work, BIPOC, LGBQIA+, TGNCNB, intellectual disabilities, neurodivergent affirming care as well as harm-reduction, co-exiting addiction, psychedelic facilitation, uncoupling, non traditional consensual/ethically non-monogamy/ polyamory.
Hello! I'm Nathan Aish, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker living in California, with 28 years of healthcare leadership experience, including 10 years providing therapy to individuals, couples, and families. I hold a Master of Public Health (MPH) degree from The Ohio State University, and a Master of Social Work (MSW) degree from San Diego State University. I am also certified to work as a K-12 school social worker. My core values are servitude and continuous improvement, and my approach to care integrates person-centered, trauma-informed, strength-based, harm-reduction, gender-responsive, and cultural humility practices.
Experience with: ADHD, anxiety, personality disorders, trauma, sex work, BIPOC, LGBQIA+, TGNCNB, intellectual disabilities, neurodivergent affirming care as well as harm-reduction, co-exiting addiction, psychedelic facilitation, uncoupling, non traditional consensual/ethically non-monogamy/ polyamory.
Hello! I'm Nathan Aish, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker living in California, with 28 years of healthcare leadership experience, including 10 years providing therapy to individuals, couples, and families. I hold a Master of Public Health (MPH) degree from The Ohio State University, and a Master of Social Work (MSW) degree from San Diego State University. I am also certified to work as a K-12 school social worker. My core values are servitude and continuous improvement, and my approach to care integrates person-centered, trauma-informed, strength-based, harm-reduction, gender-responsive, and cultural humility practices.
I will keep this short and simple. I have always been fascinated with how the mind can heal the brain! My focus in the counseling profession has always been with trauma and how to heal oneself through different therapy models. I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) , Brain Spotting, Mindfulness Based Emotional Processing, Dialectical behavior and Cognitive Behavioral Therapies. My main focus in therapy is "YOU." I will use whatever skills I have and incorporate them into your treatment. I am open minded therapist; therefore nothing you tell me is too big or small!
I will keep this short and simple. I have always been fascinated with how the mind can heal the brain! My focus in the counseling profession has always been with trauma and how to heal oneself through different therapy models. I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) , Brain Spotting, Mindfulness Based Emotional Processing, Dialectical behavior and Cognitive Behavioral Therapies. My main focus in therapy is "YOU." I will use whatever skills I have and incorporate them into your treatment. I am open minded therapist; therefore nothing you tell me is too big or small!
We change every day. Sometimes those changes are big and leave us feeling uncertain or knocked down. And sometimes they are so small, we barely notice them. My clients are often looking for help to resolve old changes they haven't embraced or struggling with current or future change. Whether a new career, retiring, losing a loved one, moving to a new place, or making an identity transition, change can be upsetting and frightening! I help my clients understand the change process, and to settle into their strength so they can take back control of their lives, leading to better mood, less anxiety, and greater life satisfaction.
We change every day. Sometimes those changes are big and leave us feeling uncertain or knocked down. And sometimes they are so small, we barely notice them. My clients are often looking for help to resolve old changes they haven't embraced or struggling with current or future change. Whether a new career, retiring, losing a loved one, moving to a new place, or making an identity transition, change can be upsetting and frightening! I help my clients understand the change process, and to settle into their strength so they can take back control of their lives, leading to better mood, less anxiety, and greater life satisfaction.
Currently accepting new clients! The thought of finding a therapist you trust, feel safe, and comfortable with can be overwhelming but so is the alternative: living with fear, frustration, uncertainty, and confusion. I'm always amazed at the courage my clients show as they move from a painful existence to one of hope and joy as they gain the tools necessary to create the life they want. I utilize a systems-based approach with all of my clients, including individuals, couples, and families.
Currently accepting new clients! The thought of finding a therapist you trust, feel safe, and comfortable with can be overwhelming but so is the alternative: living with fear, frustration, uncertainty, and confusion. I'm always amazed at the courage my clients show as they move from a painful existence to one of hope and joy as they gain the tools necessary to create the life they want. I utilize a systems-based approach with all of my clients, including individuals, couples, and families.
Having studying Mindfulness for the past 30+ years I have created evidence based Cognitive Behavioral / Mindfulness tools that help people face life crises by recognizing their own wisdom, resources, and the ability to exercise choice. This mind/body approach to health utilizes relaxation and focus tools that you can learn easily and use anywhere, anytime. You focus on what you can control to achieve your goals. These programs compliment the best medical treatment.
Having studying Mindfulness for the past 30+ years I have created evidence based Cognitive Behavioral / Mindfulness tools that help people face life crises by recognizing their own wisdom, resources, and the ability to exercise choice. This mind/body approach to health utilizes relaxation and focus tools that you can learn easily and use anywhere, anytime. You focus on what you can control to achieve your goals. These programs compliment the best medical treatment.
Do you find yourself caught in the same painful relationship patterns no matter how hard you try to change them? Maybe you’ve leaned on books, courses, or advice from friends, but the same frustrations, conflicts, and disappointments keep coming back. This can leave you anxious, ashamed, and wondering if things will ever get better. I’m Jacob Gotwals, an EMDR Certified Therapist. I help thoughtful adults heal wounds, build confidence, and create healthier connections through relationship counseling. You don’t have to be in couples therapy to work on relationships — individual therapy can also be a powerful way to shift old patterns.
Do you find yourself caught in the same painful relationship patterns no matter how hard you try to change them? Maybe you’ve leaned on books, courses, or advice from friends, but the same frustrations, conflicts, and disappointments keep coming back. This can leave you anxious, ashamed, and wondering if things will ever get better. I’m Jacob Gotwals, an EMDR Certified Therapist. I help thoughtful adults heal wounds, build confidence, and create healthier connections through relationship counseling. You don’t have to be in couples therapy to work on relationships — individual therapy can also be a powerful way to shift old patterns.
Are you interested in goal-focused, short-term therapy? I can help with procrastination, trauma reactions, anxiety, job stress, relationship issues, and substance overuse. I employ EMDR, CBT (for PTSD, anxiety, depression, and substance overuse), ACT, mindfulness, and DBT skills. I work with the whole person, culturally, spiritually, and psychologically. I also provide a free, non-pressured in-person or virtual consultation session of 30-50 minutes, in which I can determine if short-term work is appropriate for you.
Are you interested in goal-focused, short-term therapy? I can help with procrastination, trauma reactions, anxiety, job stress, relationship issues, and substance overuse. I employ EMDR, CBT (for PTSD, anxiety, depression, and substance overuse), ACT, mindfulness, and DBT skills. I work with the whole person, culturally, spiritually, and psychologically. I also provide a free, non-pressured in-person or virtual consultation session of 30-50 minutes, in which I can determine if short-term work is appropriate for you.
Sexuality and intimacy are important parts of the human experience, yet many people struggle to talk about them openly—even in therapy. I provide a supportive, affirming space where you can explore issues related to sex, relationships, identity, and desire without fear of judgment. Whether you're navigating changes in your relationship, questioning your sexual identity, healing from past experiences, or simply wanting to better understand your needs and boundaries, our work together can help you move toward a more empowered and authentic version of yourself. Affirming of LGBTQIA+ identities, sex work, kink/BDSM, and ENM.
Sexuality and intimacy are important parts of the human experience, yet many people struggle to talk about them openly—even in therapy. I provide a supportive, affirming space where you can explore issues related to sex, relationships, identity, and desire without fear of judgment. Whether you're navigating changes in your relationship, questioning your sexual identity, healing from past experiences, or simply wanting to better understand your needs and boundaries, our work together can help you move toward a more empowered and authentic version of yourself. Affirming of LGBTQIA+ identities, sex work, kink/BDSM, and ENM.
Mary Camille Cunningham
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, ATR, EMDRC, EAC
2 Endorsed
Albuquerque, NM 87107
It takes courage and heart to take that first step towards wholeness and health. You can get past your past. Clients seek therapy for many reasons. It may be for grief and loss issues, trauma, PTSD, family problems or for anxiety and depressive symptoms. I specialize in Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR) which is an evidenced based therapy. I have 15 years of experience using EMDR therapy with clients. I provide mental health services to adults. Begin your journey towards improved mental health and well-being today.
It takes courage and heart to take that first step towards wholeness and health. You can get past your past. Clients seek therapy for many reasons. It may be for grief and loss issues, trauma, PTSD, family problems or for anxiety and depressive symptoms. I specialize in Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR) which is an evidenced based therapy. I have 15 years of experience using EMDR therapy with clients. I provide mental health services to adults. Begin your journey towards improved mental health and well-being today.
Are you feeling stuck, scared, or hopeless? Do you have stress about relationships, work, or past traumas? Do you feel like things need to change, but don’t know where to start? It is normal to feel like these challenges are permanent, and that we do not have the tools to handle them ourselves. Thankfully, we do not have to.
Are you feeling stuck, scared, or hopeless? Do you have stress about relationships, work, or past traumas? Do you feel like things need to change, but don’t know where to start? It is normal to feel like these challenges are permanent, and that we do not have the tools to handle them ourselves. Thankfully, we do not have to.
Are you feeling stuck and frustrated with areas in your life? Do you feel anxious or depressed with your job or your relationships? If you are seeking support from someone outside of your circle, I am here to help. We can work together to address the areas of your life you are current struggling with and needing support. Sometimes just talking out our concerns with someone can help us see things more clearly and be able to take action to heal and improve our life.
Are you feeling stuck and frustrated with areas in your life? Do you feel anxious or depressed with your job or your relationships? If you are seeking support from someone outside of your circle, I am here to help. We can work together to address the areas of your life you are current struggling with and needing support. Sometimes just talking out our concerns with someone can help us see things more clearly and be able to take action to heal and improve our life.
Are you feeling anxious, sad, overwhelmed? Have you experienced a trauma or loss? If so, I may be able to help you feel more connected and hopeful. My name is Rosemary. I have been practicing social work for over twenty years. I work from a trauma-informed perspective, and can help you identify your strengths and needs, to create the life you want to live.
Are you feeling anxious, sad, overwhelmed? Have you experienced a trauma or loss? If so, I may be able to help you feel more connected and hopeful. My name is Rosemary. I have been practicing social work for over twenty years. I work from a trauma-informed perspective, and can help you identify your strengths and needs, to create the life you want to live.
Hi, I’m Ty, and my pronouns are they/she. I am a queer-friendly and non-binary Clinical Mental Health Intern at Umoja Behavioral Health. I am currently working toward my MSCCMHC through University of Phoenix. My journey into this field is shaped by personal resilience, lived experience, and a deep belief in the power of human connection. I work from a humanistic lens, valuing empathy, authenticity, and the importance of meeting you where you are at. I also incorporate elements of Belief Systems Analysis (BSA) to support clients in building more adaptive ways of thinking, coping, and interacting with their world.
Hi, I’m Ty, and my pronouns are they/she. I am a queer-friendly and non-binary Clinical Mental Health Intern at Umoja Behavioral Health. I am currently working toward my MSCCMHC through University of Phoenix. My journey into this field is shaped by personal resilience, lived experience, and a deep belief in the power of human connection. I work from a humanistic lens, valuing empathy, authenticity, and the importance of meeting you where you are at. I also incorporate elements of Belief Systems Analysis (BSA) to support clients in building more adaptive ways of thinking, coping, and interacting with their world.
My practice maintains a focus on highly functioning individuals whose difficulties may not always be visible to others. Have you ever felt like you're barely holding it together? Maybe you've never been to therapy before but something is compelling you to do so now. Or maybe you've tried it before, but you're looking for a more customized approach. I utilize evidence based interventions such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, mindfulness-based therapies and self-compassion, to help my clients achieve lasting change.
My practice maintains a focus on highly functioning individuals whose difficulties may not always be visible to others. Have you ever felt like you're barely holding it together? Maybe you've never been to therapy before but something is compelling you to do so now. Or maybe you've tried it before, but you're looking for a more customized approach. I utilize evidence based interventions such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, mindfulness-based therapies and self-compassion, to help my clients achieve lasting change.
I've passionately served the NM queer community for over a decade. I enjoy working with adults in the areas of generalized and social anxiety, trauma, depression, change of life/adjustment issues, grief & loss, and LGBTQ+ concerns (coming out, gender identity, transitioning, living an authentic life).
I've passionately served the NM queer community for over a decade. I enjoy working with adults in the areas of generalized and social anxiety, trauma, depression, change of life/adjustment issues, grief & loss, and LGBTQ+ concerns (coming out, gender identity, transitioning, living an authentic life).
Sometimes life gets complicated and the uncertainty and options can be overwhelming. I am a firm believer in creating accommodations and striving for self-compassion and acceptance. If you're ready to begin getting unstuck, I'll meet you where you're at and help guide you to where you want to be. I believe that we as humans are wired for connection and at times unhealthy relationships are all we know. Sometimes even the most unhealthy relationship that we have, is the one that we have with ourselves. I take a compassionate approach to build self-esteem so you can become the best version of yourself.
Sometimes life gets complicated and the uncertainty and options can be overwhelming. I am a firm believer in creating accommodations and striving for self-compassion and acceptance. If you're ready to begin getting unstuck, I'll meet you where you're at and help guide you to where you want to be. I believe that we as humans are wired for connection and at times unhealthy relationships are all we know. Sometimes even the most unhealthy relationship that we have, is the one that we have with ourselves. I take a compassionate approach to build self-esteem so you can become the best version of yourself.
As a Clinical Social Worker with 30 years experience, my treatment philosophy is based in partnering with my clients in identifying and addressing their needs in ways that are relevant to them. I encourage a dialogue in which I meet the client wherever they might be emotionally and spiritually and then together, we explore the issues that led them to therapy in the first place. My job is to create a space in which my client feels safe to say things they may be afraid to say to others and to feel emotions that seem overwhelming elsewhere.
As a Clinical Social Worker with 30 years experience, my treatment philosophy is based in partnering with my clients in identifying and addressing their needs in ways that are relevant to them. I encourage a dialogue in which I meet the client wherever they might be emotionally and spiritually and then together, we explore the issues that led them to therapy in the first place. My job is to create a space in which my client feels safe to say things they may be afraid to say to others and to feel emotions that seem overwhelming elsewhere.
Is life weighing you down? Do you feel lost with no direction? Are you in need of someone who understands and can help with taking the next steps? If you answered yes to any of these questions, it sounds like you're experiencing some challenges and are seeking support. It is ok to feel overwhelmed and uncertain at times. If you are looking for guidance, and a safe space to explore your feelings, you are welcomed to reach out today for a consultation. I can provide you with the support and tools you need to successfully navigate through difficult times so you can work toward sustainable relief.
Is life weighing you down? Do you feel lost with no direction? Are you in need of someone who understands and can help with taking the next steps? If you answered yes to any of these questions, it sounds like you're experiencing some challenges and are seeking support. It is ok to feel overwhelmed and uncertain at times. If you are looking for guidance, and a safe space to explore your feelings, you are welcomed to reach out today for a consultation. I can provide you with the support and tools you need to successfully navigate through difficult times so you can work toward sustainable relief.
Riss Koupf
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Albuquerque, NM 87109
Waitlist for new clients
In collaborating with me to improve your wellness, I will work hard to connect with you and build trust. I value creativity, individuality, curiosity and humor. I utilize a relational and collaborative approach applying attachment theory, feminist and queer theory, the biosocial model, and trauma-informed care. My goal is building the trust and rapport necessary to express yourself authentically, especially in a time when spaces for that are rare. Here we can gain insight into your personal values, goals, strengths, limitations and what you'd like to see shift in your emotional and social experiences.
In collaborating with me to improve your wellness, I will work hard to connect with you and build trust. I value creativity, individuality, curiosity and humor. I utilize a relational and collaborative approach applying attachment theory, feminist and queer theory, the biosocial model, and trauma-informed care. My goal is building the trust and rapport necessary to express yourself authentically, especially in a time when spaces for that are rare. Here we can gain insight into your personal values, goals, strengths, limitations and what you'd like to see shift in your emotional and social experiences.
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Why might an individual want to see a therapist specializing in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialize in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.
When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counseling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counseling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.
How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.


