Emotionally Focused Therapists in Arroyo Del Oso North, Albuquerque, NM

Photo of Russell Adams, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW
Russell Adams
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW
1 Endorsed
Arroyo Del Oso North, Albuquerque, NM 87109
"Attachment" ..... just more psychobabble, right? Well, no, not really. Since the 1950's, people have been interested in what "attachment" means when we're thinking about how to have relationships, of all kinds. Our very first relationship(s) are the ones that really form a foundation for our ability to relate to others, so the theory goes. Only now, there's a lot more research using brain-imaging techniques that help us "shrinks" know we're on the right track when thinking about attachment as an important part of helping people learn how to develop, maintain and thrive in relationships.
"Attachment" ..... just more psychobabble, right? Well, no, not really. Since the 1950's, people have been interested in what "attachment" means when we're thinking about how to have relationships, of all kinds. Our very first relationship(s) are the ones that really form a foundation for our ability to relate to others, so the theory goes. Only now, there's a lot more research using brain-imaging techniques that help us "shrinks" know we're on the right track when thinking about attachment as an important part of helping people learn how to develop, maintain and thrive in relationships.
(505) 427-2267 x1 View (505) 427-2267 x1
Photo of Trish Korenchen - Trish Korenchen Counseling, LLC, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Trish Korenchen Counseling, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Arroyo Del Oso North, Albuquerque, NM 87109
Are you feeling anxious or overwhelmed and struggling with intrusive negative thoughts and not sure why? Do you have muscle tension, tightness in the chest, or have difficulty sleeping at night? I love the therapy process and am committed to helping people patiently address their past trauma and begin to live more fully in the present moment. I believe that therapy can help build skills for people who are navigating the transformation of difficult life circumstances into meaningful life experiences. I am devoted to providing a safe environment for resolving conflicts and developing skills through compassion, warmth, and humor.
Are you feeling anxious or overwhelmed and struggling with intrusive negative thoughts and not sure why? Do you have muscle tension, tightness in the chest, or have difficulty sleeping at night? I love the therapy process and am committed to helping people patiently address their past trauma and begin to live more fully in the present moment. I believe that therapy can help build skills for people who are navigating the transformation of difficult life circumstances into meaningful life experiences. I am devoted to providing a safe environment for resolving conflicts and developing skills through compassion, warmth, and humor.
(505) 407-8385 View (505) 407-8385
Photo of Lynne M Treibel, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Lynne M Treibel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
1 Endorsed
Arroyo Del Oso North, Albuquerque, NM 87109
Want to live with a greater capacity for joy, wholeness, and satisfaction? You might be wanting to reach out to someone, to improve your relationship, to make some changes, or to experience relief from what you're going through or what you've been feeling lately. That's healthy, and this is a great place to start. Welcome. Let's talk.
Want to live with a greater capacity for joy, wholeness, and satisfaction? You might be wanting to reach out to someone, to improve your relationship, to make some changes, or to experience relief from what you're going through or what you've been feeling lately. That's healthy, and this is a great place to start. Welcome. Let's talk.
(505) 355-0022 View (505) 355-0022
Photo of Tami Roebuck - Perspectives Counseling & Wellness LLC, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Perspectives Counseling & Wellness LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Arroyo Del Oso North, Albuquerque, NM 87109
Not accepting new clients
Are you feeling unhappy, unfulfilled, anxious, or depressed? Are you struggling to find the joy in life, your relationships, or your job? Is parenting, or life in general, feeling overwhelming? Or do you just need some perspective in your life? I work with individuals who are looking to improve the quality of their life and their relationships, manage emotions in a healthy way, make healthy life choices, and reduce stress. We can work together to create lasting change around depression, anxiety, fear, unhealthy relationships, parenting, or a traumatic past.
Are you feeling unhappy, unfulfilled, anxious, or depressed? Are you struggling to find the joy in life, your relationships, or your job? Is parenting, or life in general, feeling overwhelming? Or do you just need some perspective in your life? I work with individuals who are looking to improve the quality of their life and their relationships, manage emotions in a healthy way, make healthy life choices, and reduce stress. We can work together to create lasting change around depression, anxiety, fear, unhealthy relationships, parenting, or a traumatic past.
(505) 322-6259 View (505) 322-6259
Emotionally Focused Therapists
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.