Men's Issues Therapists in Toms River, NJ

(ALSO SEE MEN'S ONLINE COACHING PROGRAM INFO BELOW) I have 30+ years counseling adults & teens of all ages specializing in alcohol/drug abuse, depression/anxiety, anger management and men's issues . I hold NJ Licenses in Professional Counseling & Alcohol/Drug Counseling. My DIRECT MOTIVATIONAL STYLE has evolved from my varied experiences as a counselor, FOOTBALL COACH and Dad. I have coached high School Football for 25 years including several NFL players. I use Motivational Interviewing & Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help you attack/change unhealthy thinking and develop a self-directed improvement.

Do you feel like the only thing more exhausting than feeling blue is pretending that you're not? Do you feel like your worries are multiplying, and it's getting harder to contain them? Do you feel like a past traumatic experience intrudes into your daily functioning? I work with teens and adults (especially males) some of these thoughts and help them recapture a sense of hope and excitement. My goal is to help you live with uncertainty and feel confident that you can face whatever comes tomorrow. I use compassion and support to help you move forward and get unstuck, boost your confidence, and gain happiness.

My predominant focus is with couples and families, with a focus in neurodivergence, difficult life transitions, infidelity recovery, intimacy issues, blended family matters, family planning, and trauma. With individuals, I work with trauma, anxiety, ASD and ADHD, depression, LGBTQIA issues, sexual assault/ violence, and self esteem building. My main goal is to meet clients where they are in the moment. The focus of treatment is to create a safe space in which people can explore and understand their internal parts and systems, and disrupt old relational patterns that leave them feeling stuck and unsatisfied.

Oasis Counseling, LLC offers an array of outpatient services which include individual and group therapies to assist families, individuals, and couples, who are searching for ways to overcome life's unique challenges.

Stressed? Worried? Unhappy? Life can get difficult at times. We're all human, and everyone has their strengths and weaknesses. You are not alone! I'm here to help you find a personalized plan for success. Whether it's a relationship, emotional or personal issue I believe there's always a solution that can make your life richer and more fulfilling.

Therapy can seem strange from the outside looking in. People often wonder how talking about their life with someone they are just getting to know can help them to better understand themselves, or to find greater peace and fulfillment. I believe that being deeply listened to is a need which everyone shares, and therapy provides an opportunity to experience exactly that. The listening and compassion that a therapist offers opens a space for an exploration of experiences, feelings, and thoughts to invite new ways of seeing, feeling, and thinking. Importantly, therapy also offers a relationship of support, non-judgment, and safety.

How can I help you? I am someone who struggled with mental health for years while my physical health was declining due to a medical condition. As an individual that has gone through the difficult journey of medical testing, surgeries, and waiting for results, I can understand the process of feeling alone and not knowing where the light will appear from the darkness. What if you didn't have to feel alone in your struggle and had an ally to listen and talk about issues with? From struggling to get out of bed because of depression to the never-ending anxiety from the unknown, let me be in your corner and get through this with you.

Therapy can be a wonderful process to examine self, reflect, and grow toward the direction of hope and healing. I offer a safe, supportive and private environment where you may explore and work through life challenges. If you're struggling with anxiety, depression, grief and loss,`the aftermath of trauma, or panic attacks therapy can be an viable source of comfort and healing. At times life gives us more than we can handle and the challenges seem to go beyond our ability to cope. It is at these times when therapy can be most beneficial.

"Therapy... Coping... Life... " Covid-19 continues to devastate our society through addiction, fear, and challenge to cope with "life on life's terms." I am best at helping people develop coping skills to prevent relapse in behavior while building your quality of life...

I am excited to speak with you because my passion is helping others. I have helped children, adolescents and adults overcome a variety of issues such as Anxiety, Depression, Autism, Addiction, Relationship Difficulties, Trauma, OCD, PTSD, ADHD, Anger and a lot more... I would be happy to aid you or your loved one in taking the first step towards mental wellness. Let's do this together!

Life, one simple word yet so complicated, right? I know life can be difficult at times, we are thrown curveballs which can sometimes lead us into a downward spiral. So what do we do, lay in bed eating a pizza while we binge-watch Netflix? Ahh, maybe for a short period of time! No, we get our asses up and we seek the help that we deserve. My role as a therapist is to help you navigate through your problems. The solutions you're looking for are always within you, let me lead the way.

Hey there! My name is Charles, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with more than 7 years of experience in the mental health field. I earned both my Bachelor and Masters Degree in Social Work from Rutgers University. I have done counseling in quite a few different areas, such as working in outpatient mental health facilities, doing in-home therapy, nursing homes, and even working as a high school counselor. I have a passion for helping others.I enjoy working with people of all ages, and have had a phenomenal experience working with young adults, adults and the geriatric population.

Everyone wants to be their best selves. Adjusting to change and facing new challenges affects our health and happiness. You need to be able to vent about life stressors and decompress. We all need that from time to time. You have the ability to improve resilience, change perspective and accept those things beyond your control.

My philosophy begins with a deep belief in the potential of every individual. I have a wide array of clinical experiences and have held leadership positions in large and complex healthcare systems. These settings include both inpatient and outpatient settings. I am a clinical supervisor and compassionate, strength-based , and trauma informed therapist. I provide compassionate, inclusive, and quality therapy to a wide range of patients from broad and diverse backgrounds.

I have over 25 years experience working within the field of mental health and developmental disorders. I recognize that by the time someone seeks out a therapist, they are already in the amidst of their struggle. They are looking for the right person to assist them in developing skills and processing their thoughts/behaviors so that they can begin to resume their lives again. I am a Certified Telemental Health provider, a Director within a CMHC and recognize the need to often introduce a vast array of resources to my clients. "There is hope, even when your brain tells you there isn't" - John Green.

MTI is an outpatient addiction counseling center which uses evidence based treatment as well as "time tested recovery programs" to assist our patients to find and maintain their approach to recovery. Rev. Dr. Ed Reading, is in the addiction field since 1969, & uses spiritually (not religious) orientated in approaches to counseling. Our patients are referred to medical care if needed, & more intensive levels of care, if outpatient is not successful. We DO NOT accept insurance, so your treatment is kept COMPLETELY confidential. Your records will not be shared without your permission--including placing your records "in the cloud"

The journey through life's many transitions - successes and challenges, partnered and single, chronic illness and loss - and the feelings of anxiety, depression, fear that they evoke in us can cause us at times to feel alone and powerless. I would be honored to accompany you on your healing journey - whether your goal is to bring you closer to what you want personally or professionally, closer to those you love, or back to yourself - and I will work with you, at your pace, in a safe, nurturing environment. "The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step". - Lao Tzu

Paul Santasieri is a Licensed Professional Counselor certified in individual and marriage and family therapy, with over 25 years experience in the field. Paul graduated from The College of NJ with a Masters in Counseling. Prior to coming to Pathways, Paul was a full time Lecturer in Psychology at Ocean County College. Prior to that, Paul was the Supervisor of Student Personnel Services at Colts Neck High School. Paul specializes in all facets of therapy including, individual, marriage and family and an emphasis on adolescents.

No matter what situation brought you to seeking therapy, know that it is a brave and courageous decision. You may be longing to find hope, healing, and purpose in the midst of difficult circumstances, and intense emotional experiences. I believe in cultivating a positive relationship based on trust, empathy, safety, and warmth. My goal is to create a non-judgmental environment that supports growth and development of insight.

“Change is painful, but nothing is as painful as staying stuck somewhere you don't belong.” I feel that my role as your therapist is to help you navigate those changes in a collaborative manner that feels safe and void of judgment. Our therapy sessions can be conducted in environments that best fulfill your needs including Telehealth, in the office, walk & talk or adventure therapies. Reach out and let's start facilitating that change.