Emotionally Focused Therapists in Princeton, NJ

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Amy Bibb-Ford
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
Adjusting to life transitions, interpersonal struggles, or needing to look inward are compelling reasons to seek therapy. As a therapist with 25+ years of experience, I establish a confidential, trusting relationship and help individuals, couples, and families cope and move forward. My therapeutic approach is collaborative and transparent, informed by advanced training in treating trauma, evidence-based Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy ( EFT ), Accelerated Experiential Psychodynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP), Core Self Reclamation Therapy (CSRT) and family therapy.
(484) 361-4899
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Princeton, NJ 08542
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Rubin Therapy LCSW, P.C.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
Additional training include the Family and Couples certificate at Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy (ICP) (2019), initial training in Emotionally Focused Therapy and ongoing trainings in Sex Therapy at ICP.
Therapy can be about making changes, confronting difficult topics or processing barriers that exist in everyday life. Rubin Therapy clinicians work with you to create a personalized, collaborative, therapeutic relationship that faciliates trust to address your needs and therapeutic goals. Together, you and your Rubin therapy therapist will look for patterns and behaviors that have held back progress or success, and explore ways to improve daily functioning. Our therapists integrate humanistic and strength based techniques while incorporating mindfulness, self-care and emotional self-regulation to create meaningful change.
(609) 552-8211
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Princeton, NJ 08540
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Couples Workshops: Hold Me Tight
Psychologist, PhD, PsyD
Verified
Verified
The Hold Me Tight Program is based on the theory and practice of emotional focused couple therapy ( EFT ) and the book Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson.
Next workshop July 23-24, 2016. The Hold Me Tight couples weekend workshop is a psycho-educational relationship enhancement program for intimate partners who want to break negative cycles and find safe connection and fulfillment in life. The workshop is designed to give you specific tools and you will learn to: * Affirm strengths in your relationship * Improve your communication * Address negative interaction patterns that affect your ability to be happy * Understand more clearly each other's emotions * Recognize underlying reasons for your conflict * Learn to renew love and build trust * Learn how to repair and forgive injuries * Enhance your emotional and physical intimacy.
(732) 719-7401
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Princeton, NJ 08542
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Karyn Bristol
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I am an ICEEFT Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist ( EFT ), which means I have undergone rigorous training and supervision in EFT , including having videotaped segments of my work reviewed by the ICEEFT Board.
I have over 20 years of experience helping adolescents, adults, and couples navigate difficult times, confusing and debilitating feelings, and complicated relationships. My treatment approach starts with the client--with the belief that everyone is exquisitely unique--and therefore therapy is not one-size-fits-all. I believe that being genuine with clients is essential; in my office you will find a healing conversation, not talking to a stone wall.
(508) 214-4216
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Princeton, NJ 08540
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Kaylee Rose Friedman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I pull from a variety of approaches including somatics, trauma-informed mindfulness (MBSR), ACT, EFT , wellness & nutrition for mental health, attachment theory, and existentialism.
Finding a therapist you can connect with can be overwhelming and feel like a daunting process. In a world that has conditioned you to live an unconscious life, self-reflection and building your intuition is an act of rebellion. You may struggle to find meaning, balance, & peace within the chaos of living. Life inherently involves suffering, and sometimes navigating those big life transitions, traumas, general feelings of anxiousness or lack of interest in life can get overwhelming. The choice to go to therapy is a radical act of self-care, bravery, and accountability.
(609) 566-9611
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Princeton, NJ 08540
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Jasmine Ueng-McHale
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
I have extensive training in the following research-supported approaches: psychodynamic therapy, EFT for couples, over 15 years of experience in the DIR/Floortime model with clients with autistic spectrum diagnoses, ADHD, and LD, and neuropsychological/developmental assessments.
With compassion and acceptance, I guide clients through a therapeutic process towards change, healing and growth. Supportive and direct, I will strive to work collaboratively with you to support your development and to help you to build strong connections with others, to discover new insights, and to find relief from feelings of depression, anxiety, harsh self-criticism, or difficulties in relationships, work, or marital conflict. I respect the unique background that each person brings, and I work together with my clients to individualize treatment to meet their needs.
(201) 561-8427
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Princeton, NJ 08542
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Hold Me Tight New Jersey
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Her research-supported Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy has one of the highest success rates in the field.
There is no aspect of life more important to happiness and life satisfaction than the state of our intimate relationships. We offer workshops for couples who want a roadmap to enhance their relationship, or to find their way toward healing a troubled relationship. These workshops are for ALL couples. You don't have to be married, you don't have to be troubled, but you do have to want to work to strengthen your bonds, to feel safer and more securely connected to your partner.
(732) 963-2869
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Lynn Libby
Licensed Professional Counselor, EdS, MA, LPC, ACS
Verified
Verified
I draw from Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples as well as John Gottman's Marital Enrichment Training.
I see life as a journey and counseling as an opportunity for an individual or couple to reach a greater level of health and joy. It is my hope to share in that journey. The focus in my practice is to provide quality, professional care for adolescents, adults, and couples through confidential counseling and consultation. I am a licensed professional counselor with over 20 years experience.
(609) 752-3429
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Princeton, NJ 08540
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Dr. Widian Nicola
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I am incredibly passionate about accompanying couples in their journey together. As a practitioner for over 20 years, what continues to inspire my work is witnessing the incredible power of therapy on people’s lives. Working alongside couples to identify patterns that obstruct the flow of understanding, empathy, and love is a top priority of my approach. Because couples work is collaborative, my role as a therapist is to help strengthen the couple’s capacity to repair conflict even and especially when the couple is not in session.
(360) 464-1251
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Institute for Personal Growth
Psychologist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
Our many therapists have a wide range of expertise, from CBT to psychodynamic, EMDR and EFT .
Here at IPG, we know it's the connection between therapist and client that is most important. We have around 30 therapists through 3 offices in Freehold, Highland Park, and Jersey City. Since 1983 we've combined compassionate care with high-level expertise. We provide individual, family, child, and relationship counseling for problems ranging from depression to life transitions to marital strife. We also have a large group of certified sex therapists, a special focus on the LGBTQ community, services for transgender youth, therapy for those involved in BDSM and/or consensual non-monogamy, and a group for sex and pornography addicts.
(855) 906-6205
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Princeton, NJ 08540
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Sandra R Yarock
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
Verified
My lifelong caring about helping others and my many early years of psychodynamic/psychoanalytic training has evolved to include learning many other important modalities and techniques relevant to the growth of our profession such as EFT (tapping), Trauma/PTSD, CBT, brain chemistry/medication/natural remedies, mind/body work, guided imagery and meditation.
I believe that my working for over 35 years with so many different people has helped me to continuously evolve into a more fluid therapist/healer. I use my mind, heart, and intuition to guide me toward helping to decrease the distress in those seeking my help. My work with people includes encouraging them to find and use their own inner strengths and resources as I help them to heal and become their healthiest selves. I continue to learn the most effective ways to help those w trauma, grief , gender dysphoria, etc as I work closely with them to create a therapeutic environment that fosters growth, safety, patience and mutual trust.
(609) 778-4728
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Princeton, NJ 08540
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Aayesha Alvi
Counselor, MA, LAC, EdS
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
At Central Therapy, I specialize in working with children, adults, couples, adolescents and families from an Emotionally Focused Theoretical Model.
We all want to be genuinely seen, heard and understood. Whether the pain stems from the past, major life changes or simply feeling lost, therapy is a safe place to express your feelings without the fear of judgement. It is an amazing way to partner up and connect with someone who will support you. In these difficult times, it is important to find someone who can hold space for you to help untangle the web of confusion that may exist within. I aim to create a safe, warm and therapeutic atmosphere. You will be met with someone with a genuine desire to understand and who strongly believes that there is always hope.
(862) 319-8315
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Princeton, NJ 08540
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Ashley Paul Wright
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MPA
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I am a highly experienced therapist with a broad range of clinical expertise. I work with college and graduate age students and the general adult population.
(609) 770-5523
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Princeton, NJ 08540
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Melissa Barua (adolescent/teen specialist)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified
Verified
I am a Licensed Social Worker with years of experience treating teen/adolescents and their families. My areas of specialty and focus are depression, anxiety, low self esteem, mood disorders, and trauma. The driving force behind my practice is to create a nurturing environment where kids can grow into healthy adults with learned coping skills and a better understanding of their own identity.
(609) 913-2481
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Princeton, NJ 08540
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Phil Smyth (adolescent/teen specialist)
Counselor, LAC, CADC, ICGC-1
Verified
Verified
I am a licensed counselor with years of experience treating teen/adolescents and their families. My areas of specialty and focus are depression, anxiety, low self esteem, mood disorders, and trauma. The driving force behind my practice is to create a nurturing environment where kids can grow into healthy adults with learned coping skills and a better understanding of their own identity.
(609) 757-8861
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Princeton, NJ 08540
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Archana Jain
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
Verified
I believe therapy can help one learn to navigate strong emotions and better regulate one's responses to life's challenges. Feeling understood and validated by one's therapist can allow one to develop insight into thoughts, feelings and behaviors. In knowing the context and meaning that underlies how we relate to the self, to others and to the world, we have greater choice in breaking free from distressing patterns that may be keeping us stuck. Over time, the therapeutic relationship becomes the vehicle that allows one to carve a personal and professional life that feels satisfying and deeply meaningful.
(732) 532-3167
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Princeton, NJ 08540
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Tracey Post
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSSW, LCSW, ACST, CCPT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I want you to have the best life imaginable: to live in a body that can feel what it feels and with a mind that can know what it knows. I believe we heal through connection and relationship; it is how we survive then thrive. Sometimes we need to make meaning of our experiences; sometimes we just want to manage or reduce unwanted symptoms and sometimes we need someone to simply be present- to sit and witness and listen or hold the silence. I hope you will find all these elements working with me and together we will walk the path to healing. Come in and let's explore together!
(609) 207-7158
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Princeton, NJ 08540
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Lesley A. Allen, Ph.D.
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Over the past 20+ years, I have been working with adults, adolescents, and children in individual, couples, and family therapy. I listen closely to my clients to understand their current problems and related symptoms, thoughts, and feelings. I work collaboratively with clients to investigate the history of their struggles and to create a plan for change. Using cognitive, behavioral, and emotion-focused approaches, I aim to facilitate healing, growth, and change. Having spent much of my career as a scientist-practitioner, my clinical work is informed by empirical findings. My treatment approach is reasoned, compassionate, and practical.
(609) 975-9970
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Princeton, NJ 08540
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Path Forward Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationship issues, or feeling held back by past experiences? Do you feel like something is missing in your life or that you need to make important connections or breakthroughs to live your life more honestly? Do you feel stuck in the past, afraid to live your life, or lack of motivation? Do you feel like low self esteem or insecurity are holding you back? Are there unresolved issues in your relationships with your parents or your partner? We can focus on what you need to break the patterns and move forward.
(609) 316-5516
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Princeton, NJ 08542
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Nancy Schongalla
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MDiv, LMFT
Verified
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It is easy to feel overwhelmed and lose one's sense of True North. Issues and experiences from the past may require healing and integration. Current challenges may require more inner wisdom and resourcefulness than we can access on our own. Many people need support to resolve conflicts, deepen connections and expand their lives. Relationships require a solid sense of self, good boundaries, and compassion toward oneself and others, which all can be learned. Even without a religious affiliation, spiritual practices such as gratitude are often enriching. I value new insights, suggest homework and teach practical skills.
(609) 917-9254
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Princeton, NJ 08542
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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.