Marriage Counseling Therapists in Paramus, NJ

I draw on my postgraduate training in psychodynamic psychotherapy, HeartMath biofeedback training, Complicated Grief and in behavioral medicine from the Mind/Body Institute at Harvard Medical School to provide a personalized approach to helping people cope with life's challenges. Although I have a specialty in grief, loss and infertility, I see individuals, couples and young adults with a wide range of issues, from depression and loss to parenting difficulties, anger management and relationship stress. I guide patients through stress reduction, job and career transition, postpartum depression and other life changes.

Do you go through your days feeling stressed, anxious or depressed? Or are you stuck in self-defeating actions holding you back from achieving your professional goals or maintaining a gratifying relationship & fulfilled life? Therapy can help! As an experienced psychotherapist I am committed to helping you find your solution. My approach is tailored to your specific needs & goals whether in short term or more in depth therapy. I am committed to the therapeutic process that will allow you to understand & work through painful experiences, hurtful relationship patterns and struggles with self-esteem and motivation. ......Because your happiness matters!!!

I am a licensed psychologist in NJ and NY and I have been working as a clinical psychologist for 13 years to improve my patients' quality of life, strengthen their relationships, and develop self awareness, emotional stability, and a positive sense of self. I welcome individuals, couples, and families, as well as young adults and adults. My patients often come to me seeking relief from stress, anxiety, and depression; I help them to develop better coping skills, mindfulness, and improved adjustment and communication skills. At times in life, many of us will require guidance in various areas to navigate interpersonal challenges:

In over thirty years of practice I have come to appreciate the unique individuality of each person. I therefore work to get each individual to actively participate in setting goals and making the process beneficial . I served as a consultant to The Fertility Center of Northern New Jersey, the Jewish Home at Rockleigh, and the Terrence Cardinal Cooke Healthcare Facility, and am a clinical supervisor at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy. I have written and presented on psychotherapy across cultures and am actively involved in organizing international conferences on various psychological topics.

Now more than ever, it is clear that one's mental health must be nurtured. It is my belief that mental health is just as important to one's well being as one's physical health, if not more so. We must allow ourselves the opportunity to achieve emotional and mental clarity in order to promote positive change. Having the opportunity to discuss one's feelings in a relaxed and non-judgmental atmosphere is something that I take seriously as a clinician. I view the therapist-client relationship as a very special one, which I feel requires a mutual respect towards the process of healing.

Working together we can help you to develop a deeper understanding about what has occurred, create greater compassion and self-awareness, learn to take responsibility for what is yours and develop positive and lasting changes in your life. I will work with you to create an environment that is welcoming, non-judgmental, and safe. We will explore not only what is happening today, but also your early life as it plays a role in who you are now and how you deal with any given situation.

I am glad you are here! My name is Jackie Auriemma, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a Masters degree from NYU. I have extensive experience working with both individuals and families to take manageable steps toward achieving lasting and meaningful change. Together we can identify areas for growth, break down challenges, and create positive momentum. We will collect and compound small wins on our path to create a life that you are wildly proud of. Together we can work to cultivate the energy that makes for a big, fulfilling life. That energy is the starting point where all growth can happen.

My therapeutic approach works with Individuals, couples, families and groups seeking to have a more integrated way to live their lives while facing the challenges that can interfere with that goal. I am a psycho-dynamically trained psychologist who finds that initially focusing on symptom relief helps the individual begin the healing process. My work centers on assisting the individual or groups to break free from past issues that interfere with the present and that may impact the future. My many years as a former psychology professor and practicing psychologist has informed my practice with the latest techniques in mental health.

People find a therapist because they are looking to improve their lives and relationships in some way. I am passionate about helping my clients achieve this growth and improvement; to move from a place of emotional pain or discomfort towards one of well-being and peace. It is my belief that every individual who embarks on therapy has strengths that we can embrace and build upon. My style is collaborative...an active partnership between therapist and client. Together we will explore your feelings, experiences and personal goals.

It has been a very challenging couple of years and many things in our personal lives have changed. Getting back to normal life may seem difficult. Whether it's changes in work life, relationships, finances or health, you may experience an increase in uncomfortable feelings. These often intensify when we are faced with unexpected challenges. This can lead to unhealthy coping mechanisms and diminished self esteem. I specialize in working with anxiety and depression in individual adults and couples. I have successfully treated many over the past 25 years with my expertise and ability to connect and maintain empathic attunement.

Have you heard the term “gaslighting"? Although a trendy psychological term, it’s a real phenomenon. Usually related to emotional abuse or "narcissistic abuse". Are you feeling depression and or anxiety? Do you feel like you’re in a codependent relationship? Do you question yourself and wonder why it's happening? Are you trying to manage a history of abuse, whether experienced during childhood or presently. Are you concerned about or have you been told you’re dealing with someone of narcissistic or borderline personality disorders?

I strongly believe in treating the person as a unique person given their individual needs. I primarily practice cognitive-behavior therapy utilizing an eclectic style and often use anecdotes, paradoxes, and especially humor in order to enhance, educate, and assist in reaching each person's goals. I have a specialty in treating Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, Panic Disorders, and Anxiety. While I specialize in treating those suffering OCD, Panic, and Anxiety, I am equally proud of the successes I've had in helping those with Adjustment Disorders, Stress Management, Depression, Relationship Difficulties, and Family Concerns.

My practice is about providing a safe space where you can feel respected, heard, understood and supported in ways that empower you to move towards what you want for yourself and your family. I will help you to see and feel things in new ways and I hope to support you in reaching your goals.

My style is personal and interactive with a strength-based approach rooted in respect for each individual I see. Each person brings an unique set of strengths and challenges to our sessions. I listen to the unique needs and concerns and provide feedback based on exploration of those issues which interfere with a person's ability to live life to the fullest-whether it be the self-image of a child,concern of a parent, self-esteem of an adolescent, confusion of a young adult, life challenges of an adult, grief and loss of an older adult.

Therapy is weird. I get it. You are sharing your secrets with a stranger. The relationship between the therapist and the client is the most important aspect of therapy. I have worked with single mothers, couples, families, children/teenagers, and the LGBT community. Working since 2007, there is not much I have not seen. I treat my clients like I would want my family members to be treated, with respect, compassion, sincerity and honesty. I also believe therapy can be fun as well as constructive and valuable.

An essential component of therapeutic success is forming a safe and trusting therapeutic relationship. I engage with my clients through active listening, conversations, and with a sense of humor, providing a comfortable and collaborative space for them to work towards implementing change. In order to assist my clients in meeting their goals, I am both compassionate and straightforward in order to provide encouragement, support and direction.

We're here to help you with any struggles you might be facing related to addiction, trauma, or mental health. We believe that everyone deserves to have their mental health treated, and we’re committed to helping you achieve that through our evidence-based treatment modalities and caring staff. Our approach includes one-on-one and group therapy, teaching you about addiction, and supporting you every step of the way to make sure you’re an active member in your recovery journey. Our goal is to help you overcome your struggles and embrace a healthier, more satisfying life through effective treatment. We are here for you.

My approach Integrates the best of Modern Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy and Traditional Holistic approaches. I specialize in treating anxiety, fears, phobias, OCD and panic disorders. Relief may be immediate. I also work with depression, negative thoughts and personal issues. Free initial phone consultation..

Having had a diversity of experiences allows me a unique ability to approach helping others. I provide neuropsychological assessment as well as a variety of treatment services, using an mix of various orientations and modalities. I understand how cognitive and emotional difficulties can impact not just school/work functioning but also personal relationships and family life. I appreciate that parents and families can play an important role in treatment and include them when appropriate. I work with a variety of emotional and neurological issues with the ultimate goal of helping my clients get the most they can from their lives.