Male Therapists in Jersey City, NJ
Men, you don’t have to shut down who you are just to get through the day. You are lying in bed, exhausted and filled with frustration, anger, and maybe the feeling of sadness or anxiety that’s just too hard to sit with. I can help you feel what you are experiencing so you no longer believe that you need to distract yourself from the problem or sacrifice parts of yourself just to be ok. As a therapist in New Jersey, I can help you author your new story to feel more connected to yourself and your relationships.
Men, you don’t have to shut down who you are just to get through the day. You are lying in bed, exhausted and filled with frustration, anger, and maybe the feeling of sadness or anxiety that’s just too hard to sit with. I can help you feel what you are experiencing so you no longer believe that you need to distract yourself from the problem or sacrifice parts of yourself just to be ok. As a therapist in New Jersey, I can help you author your new story to feel more connected to yourself and your relationships.
Perhaps you're seeking emotional understanding or spiritual guidance. Perhaps you're a young aspiring professional, or a more middle-aged partial success story, maybe with a family. Despite success in parts of your universe, you've discovered an emptiness or impasse that keeps you from peace and fulfillment. Whether it's an invisible existential spiritual void screaming for a new source of security, or life's common woes of financial pressure, infidelity, career confusion, and dealing with bullies, we all at some point need spiritual, emotional, and practical guidance. The wise realize it's a great power to be able to ask for help.
Perhaps you're seeking emotional understanding or spiritual guidance. Perhaps you're a young aspiring professional, or a more middle-aged partial success story, maybe with a family. Despite success in parts of your universe, you've discovered an emptiness or impasse that keeps you from peace and fulfillment. Whether it's an invisible existential spiritual void screaming for a new source of security, or life's common woes of financial pressure, infidelity, career confusion, and dealing with bullies, we all at some point need spiritual, emotional, and practical guidance. The wise realize it's a great power to be able to ask for help.
I work with adults of all ages, and see therapy as a collaborative process shaped by your goals. My style is warm, flexible, and grounded in curiosity. I draw from approaches like CBT, DBT, solution-focused, and narrative therapy to support you in a way that feels meaningful and useful.
I work with adults of all ages, and see therapy as a collaborative process shaped by your goals. My style is warm, flexible, and grounded in curiosity. I draw from approaches like CBT, DBT, solution-focused, and narrative therapy to support you in a way that feels meaningful and useful.
All of our behaviors are adaptive, even the ones we wish to change. There was likely a time and place that even the most pesky of habits helped to protect or get you through difficult times. We will explore the "when" and "why" of your past parts as we work to create change in the here and now. I appreciate life can be difficult, relationships overwhelming, and decision-making about major transitions both exciting and paralyzing. Whether you are experiencing anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, stress from work, relationship problems, or finding your voice, we can work towards your goals together..
All of our behaviors are adaptive, even the ones we wish to change. There was likely a time and place that even the most pesky of habits helped to protect or get you through difficult times. We will explore the "when" and "why" of your past parts as we work to create change in the here and now. I appreciate life can be difficult, relationships overwhelming, and decision-making about major transitions both exciting and paralyzing. Whether you are experiencing anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, stress from work, relationship problems, or finding your voice, we can work towards your goals together..
At Lifebulb, we’re dedicated to helping you achieve your therapy goals. We’ll connect you with a therapist who truly understands you and is passionate about supporting your growth. Our mission is to make therapy a positive experience for both clients and clinicians. That’s why our team consists of licensed, highly trained professionals who love what they do and are committed to your success.
At Lifebulb, we’re dedicated to helping you achieve your therapy goals. We’ll connect you with a therapist who truly understands you and is passionate about supporting your growth. Our mission is to make therapy a positive experience for both clients and clinicians. That’s why our team consists of licensed, highly trained professionals who love what they do and are committed to your success.
Tim Gallagher: LGBTQ therapy for anxiety &
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD
2 Endorsed
Online Only
You might look successful on paper and still feel like you’re one misstep away from letting everyone down. You learned early that being exceptional, self-sufficient, or agreeable was how you stayed safe. Over time, that survival strategy turns into anxiety, burnout, and never feeling “enough.”
I work with individuals who are done performing and ready to deal with what’s actually underneath.
You might look successful on paper and still feel like you’re one misstep away from letting everyone down. You learned early that being exceptional, self-sufficient, or agreeable was how you stayed safe. Over time, that survival strategy turns into anxiety, burnout, and never feeling “enough.”
I work with individuals who are done performing and ready to deal with what’s actually underneath.
Talking does help! The main focus of my therapeutic practice has been to encourage people to talk openly about themselves in a comfortable and accepting space. Those who have seriously accepted this invitation have benefited from their self-discoveries, and the subsequent personal adjustments and changes that have come about. Personal growth is not easily achieved or sustained, but it is necessary for nurturing a fulfilled life!
Talking does help! The main focus of my therapeutic practice has been to encourage people to talk openly about themselves in a comfortable and accepting space. Those who have seriously accepted this invitation have benefited from their self-discoveries, and the subsequent personal adjustments and changes that have come about. Personal growth is not easily achieved or sustained, but it is necessary for nurturing a fulfilled life!
Alexander Pierce Osterman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LMHC, NCC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
My ideal client is an individual seeking change with courage and, most importantly, hope. This person is ready to face their challenges head-on and is driven by a desire to define and conquer their goals. They recognize the need for support and are proud of themselves for taking the brave step of reaching out for help. They may be dealing with issues such as anxiety, depression, or life transitions and are committed to personal growth and development. Their needs include a supportive and empathetic environment where they can safely explore their thoughts and feelings. Lastly they want to develop a strong sense of self-worth.
My ideal client is an individual seeking change with courage and, most importantly, hope. This person is ready to face their challenges head-on and is driven by a desire to define and conquer their goals. They recognize the need for support and are proud of themselves for taking the brave step of reaching out for help. They may be dealing with issues such as anxiety, depression, or life transitions and are committed to personal growth and development. Their needs include a supportive and empathetic environment where they can safely explore their thoughts and feelings. Lastly they want to develop a strong sense of self-worth.
I believe healing happens as we experience healing relationships. In our time together, we will work to build trust amongst us to help you transform. The therapeutic process can be a mirror for how you show up for yourself and navigate your personal relationships — as we build safety and capacity in the therapy room, you will simultaneously realize that you hold much more safety and capacity within yourself. As an Indian-American therapist, I welcome discussions around intersectionality, identity, and how our difference/sameness affects our therapeutic relationship.
I believe healing happens as we experience healing relationships. In our time together, we will work to build trust amongst us to help you transform. The therapeutic process can be a mirror for how you show up for yourself and navigate your personal relationships — as we build safety and capacity in the therapy room, you will simultaneously realize that you hold much more safety and capacity within yourself. As an Indian-American therapist, I welcome discussions around intersectionality, identity, and how our difference/sameness affects our therapeutic relationship.
For over 20 years, I’ve supported people from many different backgrounds through life’s changes and challenges. I understand how overwhelming it can feel to juggle work, family, relationships, identity, and self-worth—especially in today’s climate.
Therapy can be a place to find balance, grounding, and relief from uncertainty.
If you’re looking to explore trauma, its impact, and ways to move through it, I bring specialized training in EMDR (a trauma-focused therapy), Gestalt (a mind–body approach), and CBT/DBT (to build self-regulation, mindfulness, and healthier beliefs about yourself).
For over 20 years, I’ve supported people from many different backgrounds through life’s changes and challenges. I understand how overwhelming it can feel to juggle work, family, relationships, identity, and self-worth—especially in today’s climate.
Therapy can be a place to find balance, grounding, and relief from uncertainty.
If you’re looking to explore trauma, its impact, and ways to move through it, I bring specialized training in EMDR (a trauma-focused therapy), Gestalt (a mind–body approach), and CBT/DBT (to build self-regulation, mindfulness, and healthier beliefs about yourself).
I specialize in working with individuals who feel stuck, burned out, anxious, or disconnected. Many are navigating demanding careers or academics, performance pressure, leadership roles, relationships, parenting, addiction recovery, or major life transitions. They are often highly capable, yet feel overwhelmed or unsure of their next steps. My clients seek clarity, practical tools, and direct feedback to reduce anxiety, break unhelpful patterns, strengthen relationships, and make confident decisions aligned with their values. They come to therapy ready for meaningful, lasting change.
I specialize in working with individuals who feel stuck, burned out, anxious, or disconnected. Many are navigating demanding careers or academics, performance pressure, leadership roles, relationships, parenting, addiction recovery, or major life transitions. They are often highly capable, yet feel overwhelmed or unsure of their next steps. My clients seek clarity, practical tools, and direct feedback to reduce anxiety, break unhelpful patterns, strengthen relationships, and make confident decisions aligned with their values. They come to therapy ready for meaningful, lasting change.
My ideal clients are ambitious adults who feel plateaued or stuck in their work, relationships, or healing journey. On the surface life looks solid, but anxiety killing your focus, old wounds are draining your energy, and your childhood keeps showing up in your relationships. At the same time you're struggling with perfectionism, people pleasing or imposter syndrome. You’ve come far on talent and drive, but the strategies that you've used to protect and propel you are now holding you back. You always say it, but everything's not ok.
My ideal clients are ambitious adults who feel plateaued or stuck in their work, relationships, or healing journey. On the surface life looks solid, but anxiety killing your focus, old wounds are draining your energy, and your childhood keeps showing up in your relationships. At the same time you're struggling with perfectionism, people pleasing or imposter syndrome. You’ve come far on talent and drive, but the strategies that you've used to protect and propel you are now holding you back. You always say it, but everything's not ok.
Thank you for your consideration with allowing me to assist you with your therapy needs. I am a Limited License Marriage and Family Therapist as well as a Certified Advance Alcohol and Drug Counselor with a Development Plan. I can relate to the trials and tribulations of being a single parent, as I was one myself. I am a caring, empathetic, compassionate listener that is non-judgmental, who listens to what you say. I believe every individual deserves therapy sessions specifically designed for that individual only. I try to keep sessions fresh, exciting, fun, while yet informative.
Thank you for your consideration with allowing me to assist you with your therapy needs. I am a Limited License Marriage and Family Therapist as well as a Certified Advance Alcohol and Drug Counselor with a Development Plan. I can relate to the trials and tribulations of being a single parent, as I was one myself. I am a caring, empathetic, compassionate listener that is non-judgmental, who listens to what you say. I believe every individual deserves therapy sessions specifically designed for that individual only. I try to keep sessions fresh, exciting, fun, while yet informative.
Many of my clients are people you wouldn't look at and think they need therapy. They're capable, accomplished professionals whose lives look like the goal from the outside. But inside, there's a persistent feeling of not being enough, no matter the evidence to the contrary. A quiet fear that the competence is somehow performed, and that people around them would be surprised if they could see what it actually feels like on the inside. If that resonates, you're not broken. You're someone who has been carrying something heavy for a long time, often alone, and often while making it look easy.
Many of my clients are people you wouldn't look at and think they need therapy. They're capable, accomplished professionals whose lives look like the goal from the outside. But inside, there's a persistent feeling of not being enough, no matter the evidence to the contrary. A quiet fear that the competence is somehow performed, and that people around them would be surprised if they could see what it actually feels like on the inside. If that resonates, you're not broken. You're someone who has been carrying something heavy for a long time, often alone, and often while making it look easy.
My philosophy is to work with patients on a short-term and goal-oriented manner so you can improve your functioning, comfort, and happiness as soon as possible. Every person is different, and I tailor my approach to each patient to find what works for them. I am very interactive and dynamic in my approach, and look at each individual patient (or organization) for their specific needs. I work on providing every individual patient (or business) with a useful, meaningful, and results-oriented learning experience.
My philosophy is to work with patients on a short-term and goal-oriented manner so you can improve your functioning, comfort, and happiness as soon as possible. Every person is different, and I tailor my approach to each patient to find what works for them. I am very interactive and dynamic in my approach, and look at each individual patient (or organization) for their specific needs. I work on providing every individual patient (or business) with a useful, meaningful, and results-oriented learning experience.
You’ve lived your life, and you know what’s worked and what hasn’t. My role is to meet you where you are. Life is complex, and no single approach works for everyone—which is why the relationship between you and your therapist is so essential. Using a Rogerian, client-centered approach, I provide a nonjudgmental, safe, and supportive space where you feel heard and accepted. Together, we’ll explore your experiences, understand what they mean to you, and build the skills you need to reach your goals.
You’ve lived your life, and you know what’s worked and what hasn’t. My role is to meet you where you are. Life is complex, and no single approach works for everyone—which is why the relationship between you and your therapist is so essential. Using a Rogerian, client-centered approach, I provide a nonjudgmental, safe, and supportive space where you feel heard and accepted. Together, we’ll explore your experiences, understand what they mean to you, and build the skills you need to reach your goals.
Once a skeptic, I discovered how much therapy can improve both personal and professional life when I learned to trust the process and invest in myself. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Domestic Violence Specialist with a master’s in Counselor Education. I work with depression, anxiety, domestic violence, life transitions, adjustment issues, and challenging adolescent behaviors, supporting both civilian and military families.
Once a skeptic, I discovered how much therapy can improve both personal and professional life when I learned to trust the process and invest in myself. I am a Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Domestic Violence Specialist with a master’s in Counselor Education. I work with depression, anxiety, domestic violence, life transitions, adjustment issues, and challenging adolescent behaviors, supporting both civilian and military families.
Starting therapy can be a challenging process. In my practice, I aim to create a therapeutic space where you can approach whatever barriers you may be facing with curiosity and the safety of knowing you will not be judged. I specialize in therapy with young/emerging adults and college students experiencing a variety of issues such as depression, anxiety, OCD, emotion regulation problems, academic/work stress, relationship challenges, and identity concerns. I have additional expertise in working with family members of individuals with serious mental illness, as well as people who identify as LGBTQIA+.
Starting therapy can be a challenging process. In my practice, I aim to create a therapeutic space where you can approach whatever barriers you may be facing with curiosity and the safety of knowing you will not be judged. I specialize in therapy with young/emerging adults and college students experiencing a variety of issues such as depression, anxiety, OCD, emotion regulation problems, academic/work stress, relationship challenges, and identity concerns. I have additional expertise in working with family members of individuals with serious mental illness, as well as people who identify as LGBTQIA+.
Feeling stuck in life? Perhaps you're not even sure what it is that you want? Or, perhaps you know what it is that you want, but you find that something keeps holding you back? Maybe that something is an old habit you want to let go of or a new habit you want to create? Maybe your mind is preoccupied with what happened in the past? Maybe fear and anxiety over what others will think of you? Maybe the need to be "perfect?" Whatever it is that is blocking you, you are ready to get out of the past, out of your head, and into action - moving forward toward living a better life!
Feeling stuck in life? Perhaps you're not even sure what it is that you want? Or, perhaps you know what it is that you want, but you find that something keeps holding you back? Maybe that something is an old habit you want to let go of or a new habit you want to create? Maybe your mind is preoccupied with what happened in the past? Maybe fear and anxiety over what others will think of you? Maybe the need to be "perfect?" Whatever it is that is blocking you, you are ready to get out of the past, out of your head, and into action - moving forward toward living a better life!
My passion, training & expertise is directly focused on helping people create engaging, deeply satisfying relationships. I'm both a Certified Emotionally Focused (EFT) Couples Therapist and Supervisor as well as an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. If you are in a relationship fraught with conflict or that is emotionally-barren & unrewarding, or experiencing sexual problems, or perhaps you are single and looking to create a fulfilling relationship, we can schedule a phone or video conf. consult at no charge to discuss your situation further -- visit my website www.fulfilledcouples.com to learn more about my philosophy and training.
My passion, training & expertise is directly focused on helping people create engaging, deeply satisfying relationships. I'm both a Certified Emotionally Focused (EFT) Couples Therapist and Supervisor as well as an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. If you are in a relationship fraught with conflict or that is emotionally-barren & unrewarding, or experiencing sexual problems, or perhaps you are single and looking to create a fulfilling relationship, we can schedule a phone or video conf. consult at no charge to discuss your situation further -- visit my website www.fulfilledcouples.com to learn more about my philosophy and training.
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