Transgender Therapists in Holmdel, NJ

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Mayya Fleyshmakher
Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Holmdel, NJ 07733
I am a modern and hip child/adolescent and adult psychotherapist looking to remove the stigma of therapy by making it accessible, solution based and engaging to young kids and teens. Therapy shouldn't be a punishment or a seen as a defeat. Yes of course, we will do hard work and it won't always be easy, but with years of experience and education, I am able to connect with my young clients and show them that together we can find a solution.
I am a modern and hip child/adolescent and adult psychotherapist looking to remove the stigma of therapy by making it accessible, solution based and engaging to young kids and teens. Therapy shouldn't be a punishment or a seen as a defeat. Yes of course, we will do hard work and it won't always be easy, but with years of experience and education, I am able to connect with my young clients and show them that together we can find a solution.
(732) 479-7246 View (732) 479-7246
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Pat Smith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LLC
Verified Verified
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I believe whatever problem you may be facing is solvable. I am passionate about helping people and I have been doing it for over 35 yrs. I have worked in private practice, inpatient and outpatient settings. I have experience in the most relevant evidenced based/best practices (cbt, dbt, MI, 12 Step/Harm Reduction, trauma informed, mindfulness ) One size does not fit all! I am compassionate, kind and non judgemental with a strong desire to help people achieve a life worth living. I provide a safe place and am committed to having an open and affirming practice for people of all races, religions, genders and sexualities.
I believe whatever problem you may be facing is solvable. I am passionate about helping people and I have been doing it for over 35 yrs. I have worked in private practice, inpatient and outpatient settings. I have experience in the most relevant evidenced based/best practices (cbt, dbt, MI, 12 Step/Harm Reduction, trauma informed, mindfulness ) One size does not fit all! I am compassionate, kind and non judgemental with a strong desire to help people achieve a life worth living. I provide a safe place and am committed to having an open and affirming practice for people of all races, religions, genders and sexualities.
(732) 587-7542 View (732) 587-7542
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Stephanie Englander
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LCADC, ACS, SAC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Serves Area
If you are having difficulty overcoming struggles in your life, you are not alone. I can help navigate you through these difficult times in a safe, comfortable, and confidential space. I believe therapy is an avenue to address the challenges in life that sometimes seem unmanageable. Whether a change in your life is causing you discomfort, or you are struggling with substance use, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, or relationship issues, I am here to support you and help you cope with life's struggles.
If you are having difficulty overcoming struggles in your life, you are not alone. I can help navigate you through these difficult times in a safe, comfortable, and confidential space. I believe therapy is an avenue to address the challenges in life that sometimes seem unmanageable. Whether a change in your life is causing you discomfort, or you are struggling with substance use, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, or relationship issues, I am here to support you and help you cope with life's struggles.
(732) 800-5603 View (732) 800-5603
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Jennifer Ashley Flatley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Serves Area
If you are going through a painful experience or dealing with difficult life issues, therapy works! Relief is possible. Changing your life is possible! The relationship you build with yourself can set the tone for everything around you. Things can seem hopeless, and perhaps you feel that the closest people in your life don't understand. Maybe you've suffered a loss, and it’s taking a toll. Maybe things have been rough for a long time now. Maybe there’s a pattern you’re trying to break. I can help!
If you are going through a painful experience or dealing with difficult life issues, therapy works! Relief is possible. Changing your life is possible! The relationship you build with yourself can set the tone for everything around you. Things can seem hopeless, and perhaps you feel that the closest people in your life don't understand. Maybe you've suffered a loss, and it’s taking a toll. Maybe things have been rough for a long time now. Maybe there’s a pattern you’re trying to break. I can help!
(848) 248-4392 View (848) 248-4392
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Harvey D. Cottrell
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Psychotherapy is a profession whose mainspring is love. Nearly everyone who visits a therapist has a love disorder, and each has a story to tell of love lost or denied, love twisted or betrayed, love perverted or shackled to violence. I use holism to help the patient reconnect, remember and reimagine. Much of what causes us distress comes from a lack of integration with our biological, psychological, social, and spiritual selves. I am excited about partnering with you in your journey of finding wholeness.
Psychotherapy is a profession whose mainspring is love. Nearly everyone who visits a therapist has a love disorder, and each has a story to tell of love lost or denied, love twisted or betrayed, love perverted or shackled to violence. I use holism to help the patient reconnect, remember and reimagine. Much of what causes us distress comes from a lack of integration with our biological, psychological, social, and spiritual selves. I am excited about partnering with you in your journey of finding wholeness.
(848) 253-6941 View (848) 253-6941
Ross E Brutman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, ACS
Verified Verified
Serves Area
My practice is dedicated to anxiety disorders with emphasis on OCD and OCD Related disorders. As such, approximately 85-90% of the clients that I am currently treating have this diagnosis. I have treated a significant amount of individuals and families who have been afflicted with the aforementioned challenges. This includes in an office setting, out in the community, and in the homes of the client. I'm up-to-date on the latest treatments. I treat clients on the Autism Spectrum, in all capacities (anxiety related and otherwise.) I also provide clinical supervision to other therapists on how to effectively treat their own clients.
My practice is dedicated to anxiety disorders with emphasis on OCD and OCD Related disorders. As such, approximately 85-90% of the clients that I am currently treating have this diagnosis. I have treated a significant amount of individuals and families who have been afflicted with the aforementioned challenges. This includes in an office setting, out in the community, and in the homes of the client. I'm up-to-date on the latest treatments. I treat clients on the Autism Spectrum, in all capacities (anxiety related and otherwise.) I also provide clinical supervision to other therapists on how to effectively treat their own clients.
(646) 859-5231 View (646) 859-5231
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Kelly Passanisi
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCADC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
It is my belief that all people can benefit from the counseling experience as they navigate through the often difficult obstacles in life. Counseling offers the opportunity to receive unbiased feedback, positive support, new coping skills and life skills to help overcome and manage the difficulties we face in life. Some of the many areas of personal growth counseling can help to improve include self-esteem, self-love, confidence, assertiveness, and communication. In hopes of assisting you to narrow your search in finding the right counselor, allow me to tell you about myself.
It is my belief that all people can benefit from the counseling experience as they navigate through the often difficult obstacles in life. Counseling offers the opportunity to receive unbiased feedback, positive support, new coping skills and life skills to help overcome and manage the difficulties we face in life. Some of the many areas of personal growth counseling can help to improve include self-esteem, self-love, confidence, assertiveness, and communication. In hopes of assisting you to narrow your search in finding the right counselor, allow me to tell you about myself.
(848) 246-2388 View (848) 246-2388
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Deidra Kozlowski
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, NCC, BC-TMH
Verified Verified
Serves Area
My practice specializes in helping children, teens, adults, couples, and families to grow mentally and emotionally through increasing insight, resilience, and general wellbeing. Typically, I work with people who are looking for 1. personal growth: people who are looking to grow personally, maximize on their potential, and improve themselves and their relationships. 2. challenges & transitions: people going through transitions or challenges in their life. These challenges could include but are not limited to substance abuse/addictions, family problems, behavioral problems, anger management, trauma, loss and grief, infertility, sexual problems, divorce, job stress, etc.
My practice specializes in helping children, teens, adults, couples, and families to grow mentally and emotionally through increasing insight, resilience, and general wellbeing. Typically, I work with people who are looking for 1. personal growth: people who are looking to grow personally, maximize on their potential, and improve themselves and their relationships. 2. challenges & transitions: people going through transitions or challenges in their life. These challenges could include but are not limited to substance abuse/addictions, family problems, behavioral problems, anger management, trauma, loss and grief, infertility, sexual problems, divorce, job stress, etc.
(908) 660-0786 View (908) 660-0786

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Cameron Mazzeo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Tinton Falls, NJ 07724
I offer traditional 50min outpatient therapy, 30min Solution Focused Therapy, and Transgender assessments for surgeries and HRT.
The world is full of diverse individuals and families, all of which experience real and sometimes unique struggles. When looking for a therapist, you want to know they get it. I have been working and volunteering within the LGBTQ+ community for last 10 years; so I understand the need to feel safe and understood. I am skilled at providing a comfortable, judgement-free environment for us to collaborate in. I offer competent and compassionate therapy services to fit your needs and help guide your journey. My practice is guided by my beliefs in social equity, body integrity, and harm reduction.
I offer traditional 50min outpatient therapy, 30min Solution Focused Therapy, and Transgender assessments for surgeries and HRT.
The world is full of diverse individuals and families, all of which experience real and sometimes unique struggles. When looking for a therapist, you want to know they get it. I have been working and volunteering within the LGBTQ+ community for last 10 years; so I understand the need to feel safe and understood. I am skilled at providing a comfortable, judgement-free environment for us to collaborate in. I offer competent and compassionate therapy services to fit your needs and help guide your journey. My practice is guided by my beliefs in social equity, body integrity, and harm reduction.
(732) 945-8792 View (732) 945-8792
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Benjamin Davis
Art Therapist, ATR-BC, LCAT, LPAT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Maplewood, NJ 07040
Over the past two decades, Ben has focused on the unique and specific needs of transgender and non-binary individuals and families.
Ben's partnerships have included the New York City Department of Health, Callen Lorde Community Center, the Gender Identity Project, the Ackerman Institute's Gender & Family Project, New York University, and the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH). Ben is GEI SOC8 Certified.
Over the past two decades, Ben has focused on the unique and specific needs of transgender and non-binary individuals and families.
Ben's partnerships have included the New York City Department of Health, Callen Lorde Community Center, the Gender Identity Project, the Ackerman Institute's Gender & Family Project, New York University, and the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH). Ben is GEI SOC8 Certified.
(917) 525-5361 View (917) 525-5361
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Shayne Gentile
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Online Only
As a neurodivergent, transgender therapist with advanced training supporting marginalized & oppressed folks, specifically LGBTQIA+ adults, teens & their loved ones, I listen first & speak second.
Are you having difficulty after a loved one has come out, wondering what it all means? Are you overwhelmed by society’s expectation for you to mask? Are you navigating your own identity journey? Are you experiencing burnout? Recognizing how intimidating it can be to reach out for support, I honor your efforts and can help!
As a neurodivergent, transgender therapist with advanced training supporting marginalized & oppressed folks, specifically LGBTQIA+ adults, teens & their loved ones, I listen first & speak second.
Are you having difficulty after a loved one has come out, wondering what it all means? Are you overwhelmed by society’s expectation for you to mask? Are you navigating your own identity journey? Are you experiencing burnout? Recognizing how intimidating it can be to reach out for support, I honor your efforts and can help!
(848) 208-8626 View (848) 208-8626
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Melody Willoughby
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I have been working with the queer and transgender population through individual therapy since 2016 and pride myself on also making space in group therapy for deeper connections among it's members.
Above all else, I view the therapeutic relationship as the main catalyst for change. With a trusting, empathetic, non-judgmental connection, clients can begin to build self-esteem and feel loved unconditionally.
I have been working with the queer and transgender population through individual therapy since 2016 and pride myself on also making space in group therapy for deeper connections among it's members.
Above all else, I view the therapeutic relationship as the main catalyst for change. With a trusting, empathetic, non-judgmental connection, clients can begin to build self-esteem and feel loved unconditionally.
(908) 869-8814 View (908) 869-8814
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Institute for Personal Growth
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Highland Park, NJ 08904
We have a special focus on the LGBTQ community, including transgender/GNC youth, but we see clients from all walks of life.
IPG's large, diverse staff has a wide range of expertise in different modalities, from CBT to psychodynamic, EMDR, and EFT. We have many sex therapists working with everyone from couples to those involved in the BDSM or consensual non-monogamy communities. We also have multiple therapists trained in ketamine-assisted psychotherapy., an exciting new modality.
We have a special focus on the LGBTQ community, including transgender/GNC youth, but we see clients from all walks of life.
IPG's large, diverse staff has a wide range of expertise in different modalities, from CBT to psychodynamic, EMDR, and EFT. We have many sex therapists working with everyone from couples to those involved in the BDSM or consensual non-monogamy communities. We also have multiple therapists trained in ketamine-assisted psychotherapy., an exciting new modality.
(732) 487-3688 View (732) 487-3688
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Samantha Smith, LGBT Kids, Teens, and Adults
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I have treated many transgender, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and queer kids, teens, and adults in my almost 15 years in the mental health field.
I work alongside a team of LGBT+ practitioners who utilize EMDR, somatic work, and CBT in our practice where we focus on work with depression, anxiety, life stressors and more, taking an analytic approach. We aim to help clients connect the seemingly unrelated puzzle pieces together in order to begin to move forward.
I have treated many transgender, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and queer kids, teens, and adults in my almost 15 years in the mental health field.
I work alongside a team of LGBT+ practitioners who utilize EMDR, somatic work, and CBT in our practice where we focus on work with depression, anxiety, life stressors and more, taking an analytic approach. We aim to help clients connect the seemingly unrelated puzzle pieces together in order to begin to move forward.
(201) 399-3591 View (201) 399-3591
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Institute for Personal Growth — Transgender Care
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Highland Park, NJ 08904
Not everyone who is gender nonconforming is transgender, not everyone wants to 'transition,' and not everyone wants medical intervention.
Thinking of therapy? Ask us for the first session free. At IPG, we are proud pioneers in gender-affirming psychotherapy for trans and gender gon-conforming people. We view gender diversity as normal, not a mental illness. We're likely more experienced than any other practice in New Jersey, with roughly 20% of our clients being gender-diverse in some way, though of course we work with other communities. In 2019 we were awarded a PROUD Award recognizing our decades of work with the trans community. All of our NJ locations (Highland Park, Jersey City, Freehold) have therapists who work with trans/GNC adults, adolescents, and children.
Not everyone who is gender nonconforming is transgender, not everyone wants to 'transition,' and not everyone wants medical intervention.
Thinking of therapy? Ask us for the first session free. At IPG, we are proud pioneers in gender-affirming psychotherapy for trans and gender gon-conforming people. We view gender diversity as normal, not a mental illness. We're likely more experienced than any other practice in New Jersey, with roughly 20% of our clients being gender-diverse in some way, though of course we work with other communities. In 2019 we were awarded a PROUD Award recognizing our decades of work with the trans community. All of our NJ locations (Highland Park, Jersey City, Freehold) have therapists who work with trans/GNC adults, adolescents, and children.
(732) 481-1767 View (732) 481-1767
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Daniella Delgado-Ginyard: LGBTQ Adults, Spanish
LSW
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Experience with Transgender, Lesbian, Gay and Queer adults.
¡Yo hablo español! En terapia, les ofrezco un espacio digno y único donde puede expresar sus pensamientos y sentimientos más íntimos. Yo entiendo que nuestra cultura nos puede oprimir por razones homofóbicas y estoy aquí para escuchar sus luchas y ayudarle a superarlas de manera saludable.
Experience with Transgender, Lesbian, Gay and Queer adults.
¡Yo hablo español! En terapia, les ofrezco un espacio digno y único donde puede expresar sus pensamientos y sentimientos más íntimos. Yo entiendo que nuestra cultura nos puede oprimir por razones homofóbicas y estoy aquí para escuchar sus luchas y ayudarle a superarlas de manera saludable.
(609) 201-1072 View (609) 201-1072
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Donna German Klein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Eatontown, NJ 07724
Whether identifying as transgender or gender non-conforming, the conversation in my office will assist you in how to move forward, regardless of age.
Areas of competence include but are not limited to sexuality and gender. Having been a resident in Sex Therapy through AASECT, I offer direct talk when it comes to sexuality. As an ally of the LGBTQ community I can work with sexual preferences whether vanilla, kinky or poly.
Whether identifying as transgender or gender non-conforming, the conversation in my office will assist you in how to move forward, regardless of age.
Areas of competence include but are not limited to sexuality and gender. Having been a resident in Sex Therapy through AASECT, I offer direct talk when it comes to sexuality. As an ally of the LGBTQ community I can work with sexual preferences whether vanilla, kinky or poly.
(973) 816-2920 View (973) 816-2920
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Mary Lou Killian Searles
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, LGBTQI
Verified Verified
Oakhurst, NJ 07755
I support those who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual/ pansexual, poly/non-monogamous, transgender, gender expansive, nonbinary or gender fluid, as well as their partners, family and friends.
Do you identify as LGBTQIA+? Is your relationship or family struggling? Do you have a child or family member who has recently come out? I would like to support you in looking at the concerns that are renting space in your thoughts and spirit. I can help you sort out your feelings, thoughts and choices in deciding what, if anything, you may wish to do. I am comfortable assisting with individuals or couples, youth or adult, parenting, family struggles, anxiety/depression, gender identity/fluidity, polyamory/ethical non-monogamy, and/or navigating any medical or social/emotional journeys related to intersex conditions.
I support those who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual/ pansexual, poly/non-monogamous, transgender, gender expansive, nonbinary or gender fluid, as well as their partners, family and friends.
Do you identify as LGBTQIA+? Is your relationship or family struggling? Do you have a child or family member who has recently come out? I would like to support you in looking at the concerns that are renting space in your thoughts and spirit. I can help you sort out your feelings, thoughts and choices in deciding what, if anything, you may wish to do. I am comfortable assisting with individuals or couples, youth or adult, parenting, family struggles, anxiety/depression, gender identity/fluidity, polyamory/ethical non-monogamy, and/or navigating any medical or social/emotional journeys related to intersex conditions.
(609) 917-7887 View (609) 917-7887
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Heike Zelnhefer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CHT, RM
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Online Only
I embrace a diverse clientele (including transgender) and issues, including but not limited to anxiety, depression, loss & grief, as well as trauma.
While stress is inevitable and often feels out of control, the way we react to it, is in our control. In our sessions we focus on gaining control and restore optimum functioning to body, mind and spirit.
I embrace a diverse clientele (including transgender) and issues, including but not limited to anxiety, depression, loss & grief, as well as trauma.
While stress is inevitable and often feels out of control, the way we react to it, is in our control. In our sessions we focus on gaining control and restore optimum functioning to body, mind and spirit.
(732) 416-7315 View (732) 416-7315
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Barbara E Warren
Counselor, PsyD, LMHC, CASAC
Verified Verified
Ocean Grove, NJ 07756
I have special expertise in facilitating behavior change including weight control, smoking cessation and alcohol/drug use and with LGBT issues; realtionships, transgender transition and HIV related support.
In addition, as a counseling psychologist I have helped many clients with career development and offer employment transition coaching and support.
I have special expertise in facilitating behavior change including weight control, smoking cessation and alcohol/drug use and with LGBT issues; realtionships, transgender transition and HIV related support.
In addition, as a counseling psychologist I have helped many clients with career development and offer employment transition coaching and support.
(646) 849-6676 View (646) 849-6676

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Transgender Therapists

As a gender-diverse individual, why might I want to see a therapist who is also gender diverse?

A trans or gender-diverse client may want to see a therapist who is also trans or gender diverse because the client may feel safer sharing their experiences and more confident that the therapist will understand, validate, and support them. But trans or gender-diverse clients can also benefit from therapy with cisgender therapists; this is a personal decision based on the connection between the client and the therapist, and if that connection is strong, therapy will be successful.

What if I cannot find a therapist who shares my gender identity?

Therapy can still be effective if a therapist does not share a client’s gender identity; a large body of research indicates that the most important factor in successful therapy is the therapeutic alliance. A therapist can also be interviewed for sensitivity and competence on gender identity and expression to ensure they possess appropriate knowledge and skills. Many therapists have excellent training and extensive experience working with gender-diverse clients, and that expertise can be invaluable despite a therapist not sharing the same firsthand experiences.

How can I recognize a good therapist for working with gender-diverse clients?

An experienced therapist should be able to help clients explore their gender identity and expression, alleviate discomfort related to their gender identity, treat mental health challenges and trauma, address existing relationships and communication with family members and loved ones, and determine the next steps pertaining to nonmedical or medical gender-affirming interventions. To recognize a good therapist, clients can ask about these topics and explore their comfort and connection with the clinician.

How might I inquire about a therapist’s experience working with transgender clients?

Clients should feel comfortable asking therapists directly about their experience working with transgender or gender-diverse clientele. For example, clients may ask about the therapist’s training and education with regard to gender identity, how many trans clients they’ve worked with in the past, and what sorts of matters were discussed. You may wish to inquire how a therapist specifically supports the needs of transgender clients or clients questioning their gender identity. A good clinician who is nonetheless not the right fit for you is often happy to make referrals to others based on the concerns you articulate in a preliminary conversation.