Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in Holmdel, NJ

Photo of Nicole Rachel Wegweiser - Mindful Therapy of Monmouth County LLC, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Mindful Therapy of Monmouth County LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Serves Area
Life can be challenging and we all have our ups and downs. At times, it can be difficult to move past what is getting in our way of our happiness in order to be our true selves. There is nothing like having an objective outsider that can truly listen in a non-judgmental way, help you to reflect on the situation and factors that may be contributing, and together come up with strategies which can allow you to move forward in a more thoughtful and meaningful way. I am here to be that person for you.
Life can be challenging and we all have our ups and downs. At times, it can be difficult to move past what is getting in our way of our happiness in order to be our true selves. There is nothing like having an objective outsider that can truly listen in a non-judgmental way, help you to reflect on the situation and factors that may be contributing, and together come up with strategies which can allow you to move forward in a more thoughtful and meaningful way. I am here to be that person for you.
(732) 329-7432 View (732) 329-7432
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Candra Savage
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I believe we all have the potential to evolve. My approach uses an integration of techniques: EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), Internal Family Systems, Somatic Tracking, meditation, and psychoanalysis/psychotherapy,. We all have stored conditioned patterns of behavior that helped us survive but holding onto these patterns may be causing you issues in the present. Our work together will assess these patterns and help recondition new ways of response to allow for more choice, less overwhelm, and wiser relationships.
I believe we all have the potential to evolve. My approach uses an integration of techniques: EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), Internal Family Systems, Somatic Tracking, meditation, and psychoanalysis/psychotherapy,. We all have stored conditioned patterns of behavior that helped us survive but holding onto these patterns may be causing you issues in the present. Our work together will assess these patterns and help recondition new ways of response to allow for more choice, less overwhelm, and wiser relationships.
(848) 276-7544 View (848) 276-7544
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LEAF by Dr. Dana Spada Psychotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
LEAF by Dr. Dana Spada Psychotherapy is highly privatized boutique practice offering therapy to adults, teens and children with locations in Colts Neck, Little Silver, Sea Girt, Hazlet and Manalapan. We provide individual, family, marriage and couples therapy. Our approach to psychotherapy is personalized and holistic. All of our clinicians have extensive educational backgrounds and are board certified. If your looking for very high quality care, LEAF if your place. Experience a sense of Calm and Clarity.
LEAF by Dr. Dana Spada Psychotherapy is highly privatized boutique practice offering therapy to adults, teens and children with locations in Colts Neck, Little Silver, Sea Girt, Hazlet and Manalapan. We provide individual, family, marriage and couples therapy. Our approach to psychotherapy is personalized and holistic. All of our clinicians have extensive educational backgrounds and are board certified. If your looking for very high quality care, LEAF if your place. Experience a sense of Calm and Clarity.
(732) 605-4522 View (732) 605-4522
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Psychotherapy Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Emotional difficulties block the path to a satisfying life that may manifest as depression, anxiety, bi-polar, anger/rage, psychosis and even suicidal thoughts. People find themselves trapped in conflict at work, relationships and with oneself. People may turn to destructive behaviors - substance/alcohol abuse, promiscuity, eating disorders or self-injury to find relief. Psychotherapy breaks these cycles by developing deeper insight of self and others while learning skills to help manage emotions and cope more effectively. I encourage a safe therapeutic relationship respecting the person's experience and confidentiality.
Emotional difficulties block the path to a satisfying life that may manifest as depression, anxiety, bi-polar, anger/rage, psychosis and even suicidal thoughts. People find themselves trapped in conflict at work, relationships and with oneself. People may turn to destructive behaviors - substance/alcohol abuse, promiscuity, eating disorders or self-injury to find relief. Psychotherapy breaks these cycles by developing deeper insight of self and others while learning skills to help manage emotions and cope more effectively. I encourage a safe therapeutic relationship respecting the person's experience and confidentiality.
(732) 455-9286 View (732) 455-9286
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Pat Smith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LLC
Verified Verified
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I believe whatever problem you may be facing is solvable. I am passionate about helping people and I have been doing it for over 35 yrs. I have worked in private practice, inpatient and outpatient settings. I have experience in the most relevant evidenced based/best practices (cbt, dbt, MI, 12 Step/Harm Reduction, trauma informed, mindfulness ) One size does not fit all! I am compassionate, kind and non judgemental with a strong desire to help people achieve a life worth living. I provide a safe place and am committed to having an open and affirming practice for people of all races, religions, genders and sexualities.
I believe whatever problem you may be facing is solvable. I am passionate about helping people and I have been doing it for over 35 yrs. I have worked in private practice, inpatient and outpatient settings. I have experience in the most relevant evidenced based/best practices (cbt, dbt, MI, 12 Step/Harm Reduction, trauma informed, mindfulness ) One size does not fit all! I am compassionate, kind and non judgemental with a strong desire to help people achieve a life worth living. I provide a safe place and am committed to having an open and affirming practice for people of all races, religions, genders and sexualities.
(732) 587-7542 View (732) 587-7542

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EMDR and Trauma Therapy with Stephanie Lee
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, EMDR-T, CSAC, CCTS-I
Verified Verified
Jackson, NJ 08527
With over 10 years of experience in trauma recovery, PTSD treatment, narcissistic abuse recovery, and anxiety therapy, I provide a safe and supportive space where you can process painful experiences and move forward with resilience.
Trauma can manifest in many ways—flashbacks, anxiety, depression, or difficulty in relationships. I specialize in working with survivors of abuse, first responders, military personnel, and individuals struggling with complex PTSD. My trauma-informed approach ensures you feel heard, validated, and empowered throughout your healing journey.
With over 10 years of experience in trauma recovery, PTSD treatment, narcissistic abuse recovery, and anxiety therapy, I provide a safe and supportive space where you can process painful experiences and move forward with resilience.
Trauma can manifest in many ways—flashbacks, anxiety, depression, or difficulty in relationships. I specialize in working with survivors of abuse, first responders, military personnel, and individuals struggling with complex PTSD. My trauma-informed approach ensures you feel heard, validated, and empowered throughout your healing journey.
(908) 554-4306 View (908) 554-4306
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Narcissistic Abuse Expert Vanessa M. Reiser, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Leonardo, NJ 07737
Vanessa is a trauma and dialectical behavioral therapy trained psychotherapist licensed in NY, NJ, MA and FL specializing in Narcissistic Abuse and Cult Abuse.
Vanessa is trained in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). She is also certified in tele-therapy. Vanessa also worked at The Bronx High School of Science, and High School of American Studies so she has extensive experience working with youth, especially in high conflict divorce.
Vanessa is a trauma and dialectical behavioral therapy trained psychotherapist licensed in NY, NJ, MA and FL specializing in Narcissistic Abuse and Cult Abuse.
Vanessa is trained in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). She is also certified in tele-therapy. Vanessa also worked at The Bronx High School of Science, and High School of American Studies so she has extensive experience working with youth, especially in high conflict divorce.
(732) 307-9559 View (732) 307-9559
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Faith Benford
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Online Only
My ideal clients are women who've recently realized they've suffered from narcissistic abuse.
In the beginning, clients need education about Narcissistic Personality Disorder ( NPD) and narcissistic abuse. The primary goal is to help them process the grief of the past relationship and the abuse, all the while empowering them to become the strong, independent individuals they aspire to be.
My ideal clients are women who've recently realized they've suffered from narcissistic abuse.
In the beginning, clients need education about Narcissistic Personality Disorder ( NPD) and narcissistic abuse. The primary goal is to help them process the grief of the past relationship and the abuse, all the while empowering them to become the strong, independent individuals they aspire to be.
(732) 607-5778 View (732) 607-5778
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Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma with Kristie Ashe
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Jackson, NJ 08527
Are you struggling with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse, feeling disconnected from yourself & those around you?
I specialize in treating narcissistic abuse, childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, addiction, and trauma/PTSD. I work with adults of all ages and diverse backgrounds. I have over 10 years of experience working with clients. I use a client-centered, solution-focused approach to therapy.
Are you struggling with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse, feeling disconnected from yourself & those around you?
I specialize in treating narcissistic abuse, childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, addiction, and trauma/PTSD. I work with adults of all ages and diverse backgrounds. I have over 10 years of experience working with clients. I use a client-centered, solution-focused approach to therapy.
(848) 347-3126 View (848) 347-3126
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Steven Becker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CHT
Verified Verified
Westfield, NJ 07090
I have a clinical sub-specialty in narcissistic and psychopathic/sociopathic personality.
I view good emotional and psychological health as boiling down to one word: perspective. With good perspective, we feel better; when we "lose perspective," we feel less well. With good perspective, we discover that our vulnerability and insecurities don't make us (or others) "weak." We accept that feeling insecure, confused, lost, scared and uncertain makes us human, not deficient. We can learn to embrace our vulnerability without shame, while addressing what impedes us from pursuing meaningful connections and goals.
I have a clinical sub-specialty in narcissistic and psychopathic/sociopathic personality.
I view good emotional and psychological health as boiling down to one word: perspective. With good perspective, we feel better; when we "lose perspective," we feel less well. With good perspective, we discover that our vulnerability and insecurities don't make us (or others) "weak." We accept that feeling insecure, confused, lost, scared and uncertain makes us human, not deficient. We can learn to embrace our vulnerability without shame, while addressing what impedes us from pursuing meaningful connections and goals.
(908) 977-6206 View (908) 977-6206
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Narcissistic Abuse and Trauma - New Path Therapy
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
Jackson, NJ 08527
Are you struggling with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse, feeling disconnected from yourself & those around you?
Our therapists specialize in treating narcissistic abuse, childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, addiction, and trauma/PTSD. We work with adults of all ages and diverse backgrounds. Our therapists have over 10 years of experience working with clients. We use a client-centered, solution-focused approach to therapy.
Are you struggling with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse, feeling disconnected from yourself & those around you?
Our therapists specialize in treating narcissistic abuse, childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, addiction, and trauma/PTSD. We work with adults of all ages and diverse backgrounds. Our therapists have over 10 years of experience working with clients. We use a client-centered, solution-focused approach to therapy.
(732) 538-8485 View (732) 538-8485
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Lori Ann Roland
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCADC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I work with adults, adolescents and couples seeking support with anxiety, depression, addictions, narcissistic abuse recovery and life transitions.
My background in clinical, school & wellness settings allows me to explore a variety of techniques with clients either in person or virtually to best address their specific goals to help them feel better. My office and coffee bar provide an inviting and safe space for clients who are seeking assistance in dealing with mental health and addiction services.
I work with adults, adolescents and couples seeking support with anxiety, depression, addictions, narcissistic abuse recovery and life transitions.
My background in clinical, school & wellness settings allows me to explore a variety of techniques with clients either in person or virtually to best address their specific goals to help them feel better. My office and coffee bar provide an inviting and safe space for clients who are seeking assistance in dealing with mental health and addiction services.
(609) 757-9667 View (609) 757-9667
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Trauma, Couples and Family Therapy Aspera Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Red Bank, NJ 07701
Among our areas of expertise are treating attachment trauma, co-dependency, infidelity, and healing from narcissistic abuse.
Our individual therapists are primarily influenced by the AIP model of EMDR therapy. Which is a comprehensive evidence based approach to treating issues such as PTSD and anxiety.Our couples and family therapists are trained in Family Systems, Gottman Method and Relational Life Therapy with a focus on healing relational trauma.
Among our areas of expertise are treating attachment trauma, co-dependency, infidelity, and healing from narcissistic abuse.
Our individual therapists are primarily influenced by the AIP model of EMDR therapy. Which is a comprehensive evidence based approach to treating issues such as PTSD and anxiety.Our couples and family therapists are trained in Family Systems, Gottman Method and Relational Life Therapy with a focus on healing relational trauma.
(732) 443-1470 View (732) 443-1470
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Gina Hernandez
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ACS, CCTP
Verified Verified
Online Only
I also have advanced training in EMDR and extensive training in supporting survivors of narcissistic abuse relationships.
Hello! A little about my practice: I offer a custom approach for clients in NJ or PA. Together, we start with understanding where you are now and the challenges you are facing. We will put a plan in place to help you move forward and start to feel better. I offer a safe space with virtual appointments and am trained in a variety of approaches to meet your needs. Helping people live a better life is important to me. Whether it is working through loss, dealing with a life transition or helping you get "unstuck" from a pattern that is holding you back- I am here to support you so you can enjoy your life the way you want to.
I also have advanced training in EMDR and extensive training in supporting survivors of narcissistic abuse relationships.
Hello! A little about my practice: I offer a custom approach for clients in NJ or PA. Together, we start with understanding where you are now and the challenges you are facing. We will put a plan in place to help you move forward and start to feel better. I offer a safe space with virtual appointments and am trained in a variety of approaches to meet your needs. Helping people live a better life is important to me. Whether it is working through loss, dealing with a life transition or helping you get "unstuck" from a pattern that is holding you back- I am here to support you so you can enjoy your life the way you want to.
(640) 356-8195 View (640) 356-8195
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Mena Charalambidis-Urban Psy.d
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Sea Girt, NJ 08750
Healing from abusive, narcissistic relationships, divorce, the loss of a loved one, or navigating through life’s changes takes time, patience, and the right for you therapist.
Life is full of transitions: Marriages, divorces, change of career, retirement, mid life crisis, illness. At times we feel overwhelmed. But no matter how hopeless things may appear at a time, I believe that there is a wholeness and healthiness within. I help men and women to get in touch with the part of them that is well, to heal the part that is hurting.Happiness in life comes through knowing what to hold onto, what to let go of and what to change and how. Things we perceive as negative gain a new meaning when viewed from a place of power, when new skills are learned. See what my patients say about me in Yelp, under Mena Urban
Healing from abusive, narcissistic relationships, divorce, the loss of a loved one, or navigating through life’s changes takes time, patience, and the right for you therapist.
Life is full of transitions: Marriages, divorces, change of career, retirement, mid life crisis, illness. At times we feel overwhelmed. But no matter how hopeless things may appear at a time, I believe that there is a wholeness and healthiness within. I help men and women to get in touch with the part of them that is well, to heal the part that is hurting.Happiness in life comes through knowing what to hold onto, what to let go of and what to change and how. Things we perceive as negative gain a new meaning when viewed from a place of power, when new skills are learned. See what my patients say about me in Yelp, under Mena Urban
(732) 806-5059 View (732) 806-5059
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The Powerful Journey Healing with Nicole Jennings
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Online Only
Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse?
As a veteran therapist, I offer a customized approach to healing- as there is no one size fits all in therapy! I maintain a small and exclusive caseload to provide direct, one on one services to my clients. The only requirement is that you come as you are! We will work together to assess what challenges you are facing.
Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse?
As a veteran therapist, I offer a customized approach to healing- as there is no one size fits all in therapy! I maintain a small and exclusive caseload to provide direct, one on one services to my clients. The only requirement is that you come as you are! We will work together to assess what challenges you are facing.
(732) 288-6984 View (732) 288-6984
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Karen Greenberg
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, Couples, Therapy
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
I also treat borderline, narcissistic personality and mood disorders.
I provide solution focused therapy in both brief/ time-limited and ongoing weekly therapy. I see people more frequently for intensive insight oriented psychotherapy as needed due to external crisis or internal motivation. As a psychodynamic psychotherapist, when appropriate, I work beyond the surface to address underlying factors contributing to symptoms.
I also treat borderline, narcissistic personality and mood disorders.
I provide solution focused therapy in both brief/ time-limited and ongoing weekly therapy. I see people more frequently for intensive insight oriented psychotherapy as needed due to external crisis or internal motivation. As a psychodynamic psychotherapist, when appropriate, I work beyond the surface to address underlying factors contributing to symptoms.
(732) 333-8025 View (732) 333-8025
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Dr. Maryellen Stanisci
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Eatontown, NJ 07724
, Borderline, Narcissistic, etc.
Dr. Stanisci has been in private practice for over 30 years, specializing in short-term Mindfulness and Acceptance-Based Cognitive Behavioral Psychotherapy. Under the supervision of Dr. Albert Ellis, I completed a two year postdoctoral fellowship in Rational-Emotive Behavioral Therapy. I am a licensed psychologist and certified school psychologist.
, Borderline, Narcissistic, etc.
Dr. Stanisci has been in private practice for over 30 years, specializing in short-term Mindfulness and Acceptance-Based Cognitive Behavioral Psychotherapy. Under the supervision of Dr. Albert Ellis, I completed a two year postdoctoral fellowship in Rational-Emotive Behavioral Therapy. I am a licensed psychologist and certified school psychologist.
(732) 289-9594 View (732) 289-9594
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Francine Silver, PH.D.
Psychologist, PhD, SAP
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Online Only
She also works with ADHD, anxiety, depression and dealing with narcissistic people.
Anita is the mother of two young adults currently in university. She has spent several years working in the healthcare industry as a Trauma Coordinator after earning her PhD. Anita transitioned into life coaching in order to pursue her passion of helping children flourish.
She also works with ADHD, anxiety, depression and dealing with narcissistic people.
Anita is the mother of two young adults currently in university. She has spent several years working in the healthcare industry as a Trauma Coordinator after earning her PhD. Anita transitioned into life coaching in order to pursue her passion of helping children flourish.
(718) 715-4700 View (718) 715-4700
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Lucienne Despota
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, FIPA, CLC
Verified Verified
Hoboken, NJ 07030
I am a very experienced trauma therapist, specializing in treating young adults suffering from PTSD, abuse in narcissistic relationships, codependency, break ups, anxiety, depression, LGBTQ issues, divorce, and work place problems, using cognitive behavioral work, EMDR and IFS.
Please check out my website: luciennedespota.com for more about my training and background. I offer a free 30 minute consultation to answer any questions and help you to get to know me. Please email me to set this up . I will get back to you in less than 24 hours. I will help you to get unstuck and feel more in control of your life.
I am a very experienced trauma therapist, specializing in treating young adults suffering from PTSD, abuse in narcissistic relationships, codependency, break ups, anxiety, depression, LGBTQ issues, divorce, and work place problems, using cognitive behavioral work, EMDR and IFS.
Please check out my website: luciennedespota.com for more about my training and background. I offer a free 30 minute consultation to answer any questions and help you to get to know me. Please email me to set this up . I will get back to you in less than 24 hours. I will help you to get unstuck and feel more in control of your life.
(646) 351-1858 View (646) 351-1858

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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists

What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?

By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?

Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?

It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.