Infidelity Therapists in Holmdel, NJ
Jonathan Caspi Phd
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I specialize in couples issues, recovery from infidelity, sibling struggles, transition, & loss.
Internationally recognized family, couples, & sibling expert with 4 books & many academic articles. Professor & former PhD program in Family Studies director at Montclair State Univ, where I teach anxiety, therapy, sibling & interpersonal relationship courses. Heard/seen on NPR, WNYC, WHYY, NY Times, CNN, WSJ, Washington Post, Huff Post, The Guardian, & more
I specialize in couples issues, recovery from infidelity, sibling struggles, transition, & loss.
Internationally recognized family, couples, & sibling expert with 4 books & many academic articles. Professor & former PhD program in Family Studies director at Montclair State Univ, where I teach anxiety, therapy, sibling & interpersonal relationship courses. Heard/seen on NPR, WNYC, WHYY, NY Times, CNN, WSJ, Washington Post, Huff Post, The Guardian, & more
Creating the space for reflection is hard, especially in the midst of our busy lives. Many people feel stuck in difficult patterns, not knowing how to be happy. In a collaborative atmosphere, I can help you develop a healthy relationship with yourself and others. With sensitivity, compassion, and attention to your strengths, together we can identify your goals and help you meet these. Using emotion-focused work is particularly helpful because our feelings offer us a roadmap to our psyche. In other words, our emotions clue us in to what motivates, reinforces, or is aversive to us. Emotions drive our reactivity, thoughts, and mood.
Creating the space for reflection is hard, especially in the midst of our busy lives. Many people feel stuck in difficult patterns, not knowing how to be happy. In a collaborative atmosphere, I can help you develop a healthy relationship with yourself and others. With sensitivity, compassion, and attention to your strengths, together we can identify your goals and help you meet these. Using emotion-focused work is particularly helpful because our feelings offer us a roadmap to our psyche. In other words, our emotions clue us in to what motivates, reinforces, or is aversive to us. Emotions drive our reactivity, thoughts, and mood.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of how to move forward? Seeking a compassionate, non-judgmental space to explore your emotions can be the first step toward healing. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, or difficult life transitions, therapy can provide the clarity and support you need to regain balance and well-being.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of how to move forward? Seeking a compassionate, non-judgmental space to explore your emotions can be the first step toward healing. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, or difficult life transitions, therapy can provide the clarity and support you need to regain balance and well-being.
Trisha Badishian
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Holmdel, NJ 07733
Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.
— Helen Keller, U.S. author, educator, and disability rights advocate. I have always been a firm believer that everyone can benefit from talking to someone and it sometimes takes a lot to enter into the journey of self-awareness that comes with seeking counseling. Whether it be complex grief and trauma or day to day stressors, I look forward to being a part of your healing process.
Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.
— Helen Keller, U.S. author, educator, and disability rights advocate. I have always been a firm believer that everyone can benefit from talking to someone and it sometimes takes a lot to enter into the journey of self-awareness that comes with seeking counseling. Whether it be complex grief and trauma or day to day stressors, I look forward to being a part of your healing process.
Taking this step is likely a daunting and courageous one for you. I offer a safe, supportive environment, where I will actively listen and help you understand your emotions better so that you can make the changes you may wish to make. I work with people from all walks of life who struggle with anxiety, depression, relational/marital issues, postpartum, parenting and substance use disorders, to name a few. I see individuals and couples in my practice and the way I work is informed by evidence-based treatment approaches (AEDP and EFT) which explore how our earliest experiences in life connect with current experience/relationships.
Taking this step is likely a daunting and courageous one for you. I offer a safe, supportive environment, where I will actively listen and help you understand your emotions better so that you can make the changes you may wish to make. I work with people from all walks of life who struggle with anxiety, depression, relational/marital issues, postpartum, parenting and substance use disorders, to name a few. I see individuals and couples in my practice and the way I work is informed by evidence-based treatment approaches (AEDP and EFT) which explore how our earliest experiences in life connect with current experience/relationships.
Adolescence is a complex journey; one that can trigger intense feelings of sadness frustration, self doubt, loneliness and fear. Without the proper tools to navigate these roads, a young female can find herself entangled in darkness. Although this period in her life will pass, the residual effect of her decisions and experiences as a teenager, can impact the path she continues on throughout her lifetime. Now more than ever, your daughter needs the appropriate support as she works to gain a deeper, more comprehensive understanding of herself and the world around her.
Adolescence is a complex journey; one that can trigger intense feelings of sadness frustration, self doubt, loneliness and fear. Without the proper tools to navigate these roads, a young female can find herself entangled in darkness. Although this period in her life will pass, the residual effect of her decisions and experiences as a teenager, can impact the path she continues on throughout her lifetime. Now more than ever, your daughter needs the appropriate support as she works to gain a deeper, more comprehensive understanding of herself and the world around her.
Let’s talk! You deserve a helping hand to guide you on your self-exploration journey. It is common to experience a mix of emotions before beginning therapy. You may be feeling nervous about opening up, discussing past experiences, and are unsure of what to expect from the process. You may be hopeful that therapy will provide relief from personal struggles. You may also feel excited at the prospect of gaining new insights and coping strategies to navigate these difficulties. I want to help you take the first step towards a brighter tomorrow by investing in your well-being and cultivating a deeper understanding of yourself and others.
Let’s talk! You deserve a helping hand to guide you on your self-exploration journey. It is common to experience a mix of emotions before beginning therapy. You may be feeling nervous about opening up, discussing past experiences, and are unsure of what to expect from the process. You may be hopeful that therapy will provide relief from personal struggles. You may also feel excited at the prospect of gaining new insights and coping strategies to navigate these difficulties. I want to help you take the first step towards a brighter tomorrow by investing in your well-being and cultivating a deeper understanding of yourself and others.
Kelly Passanisi
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCADC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
It is my belief that all people can benefit from the counseling experience as they navigate through the often difficult obstacles in life. Counseling offers the opportunity to receive unbiased feedback, positive support, new coping skills and life skills to help overcome and manage the difficulties we face in life. Some of the many areas of personal growth counseling can help to improve include self-esteem, self-love, confidence, assertiveness, and communication. In hopes of assisting you to narrow your search in finding the right counselor, allow me to tell you about myself.
It is my belief that all people can benefit from the counseling experience as they navigate through the often difficult obstacles in life. Counseling offers the opportunity to receive unbiased feedback, positive support, new coping skills and life skills to help overcome and manage the difficulties we face in life. Some of the many areas of personal growth counseling can help to improve include self-esteem, self-love, confidence, assertiveness, and communication. In hopes of assisting you to narrow your search in finding the right counselor, allow me to tell you about myself.
If you are going through a painful experience or dealing with difficult life issues, therapy works! Relief is possible. Changing your life is possible! The relationship you build with yourself can set the tone for everything around you. Things can seem hopeless, and perhaps you feel that the closest people in your life don't understand. Maybe you've suffered a loss, and it’s taking a toll. Maybe things have been rough for a long time now. Maybe there’s a pattern you’re trying to break. I can help!
If you are going through a painful experience or dealing with difficult life issues, therapy works! Relief is possible. Changing your life is possible! The relationship you build with yourself can set the tone for everything around you. Things can seem hopeless, and perhaps you feel that the closest people in your life don't understand. Maybe you've suffered a loss, and it’s taking a toll. Maybe things have been rough for a long time now. Maybe there’s a pattern you’re trying to break. I can help!
Joy Przywara
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LAMFT, SAC, MSEd, MA
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
You can achieve happiness and joy in your life! Life is manageable, even though it comes with stress, challenge, change, and struggle. I offer a safe space to encourage healing and wellness with warm conversation. We can work together to set goals and achieve what you would like to accomplish in therapy. I believe in you!
You can achieve happiness and joy in your life! Life is manageable, even though it comes with stress, challenge, change, and struggle. I offer a safe space to encourage healing and wellness with warm conversation. We can work together to set goals and achieve what you would like to accomplish in therapy. I believe in you!
Sea Glow Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Welcome to Sea Glow Counseling! We offer specialized care for adults, adolescents, children, couples, and families. Having over 15 years of experience working with diverse populations ranging from those struggling with mood disorders, chemical dependence/addictions, school-based services, justice involved, crisis intervention, in-home as well as in/outpatient settings, our clinicians bring with them a wealth of knowledge, experience and unique skills sets.
Welcome to Sea Glow Counseling! We offer specialized care for adults, adolescents, children, couples, and families. Having over 15 years of experience working with diverse populations ranging from those struggling with mood disorders, chemical dependence/addictions, school-based services, justice involved, crisis intervention, in-home as well as in/outpatient settings, our clinicians bring with them a wealth of knowledge, experience and unique skills sets.
I am a licensed psychologist in NJ, NY & PA for over 35 years. I incorporate a holistic approach, emphasizing mind, body, spirit and emotion. I am passionate about our work together & I still approach each person enthusiastically & with great respect. My work increases your ability to feel, to love, to hope, to heal, and to succeed. Clients are helped to problem solve and live in joy and peace rather than in pain and fear. This process involves in depth explorations of understanding purpose in life via prayer, mindfulness meditation, exploring and understanding thoughts, emotions, behaviors & the importance of true spirituality.
I am a licensed psychologist in NJ, NY & PA for over 35 years. I incorporate a holistic approach, emphasizing mind, body, spirit and emotion. I am passionate about our work together & I still approach each person enthusiastically & with great respect. My work increases your ability to feel, to love, to hope, to heal, and to succeed. Clients are helped to problem solve and live in joy and peace rather than in pain and fear. This process involves in depth explorations of understanding purpose in life via prayer, mindfulness meditation, exploring and understanding thoughts, emotions, behaviors & the importance of true spirituality.
Are you looking to make changes in your life? Do you engage in substance abuse or other negative habits that lead to anxiety and depression leaving you sad and without coping skills? Often your own habits are obstacles that sabotage change. Learning how to overcome these obstacles and make positive changes in your life is what therapy is all about. You will discover things about yourself that have kept you from experiencing the quality of life that you deserve. Talk therapy along with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy can be the journey you need to take as you learn to live a more positive, fulfilling life.
Are you looking to make changes in your life? Do you engage in substance abuse or other negative habits that lead to anxiety and depression leaving you sad and without coping skills? Often your own habits are obstacles that sabotage change. Learning how to overcome these obstacles and make positive changes in your life is what therapy is all about. You will discover things about yourself that have kept you from experiencing the quality of life that you deserve. Talk therapy along with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy can be the journey you need to take as you learn to live a more positive, fulfilling life.
My practice specializes in helping children, teens, adults, couples, and families to grow mentally and emotionally through increasing insight, resilience, and general wellbeing. Typically, I work with people who are looking for 1. personal growth: people who are looking to grow personally, maximize on their potential, and improve themselves and their relationships. 2. challenges & transitions: people going through transitions or challenges in their life. These challenges could include but are not limited to substance abuse/addictions, family problems, behavioral problems, anger management, trauma, loss and grief, infertility, sexual problems, divorce, job stress, etc.
My practice specializes in helping children, teens, adults, couples, and families to grow mentally and emotionally through increasing insight, resilience, and general wellbeing. Typically, I work with people who are looking for 1. personal growth: people who are looking to grow personally, maximize on their potential, and improve themselves and their relationships. 2. challenges & transitions: people going through transitions or challenges in their life. These challenges could include but are not limited to substance abuse/addictions, family problems, behavioral problems, anger management, trauma, loss and grief, infertility, sexual problems, divorce, job stress, etc.
I believe we all have the potential to evolve. My approach uses an integration of techniques: EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), Internal Family Systems, Somatic Tracking, meditation, and psychoanalysis/psychotherapy,. We all have stored conditioned patterns of behavior that helped us survive but holding onto these patterns may be causing you issues in the present. Our work together will assess these patterns and help recondition new ways of response to allow for more choice, less overwhelm, and wiser relationships.
I believe we all have the potential to evolve. My approach uses an integration of techniques: EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), Internal Family Systems, Somatic Tracking, meditation, and psychoanalysis/psychotherapy,. We all have stored conditioned patterns of behavior that helped us survive but holding onto these patterns may be causing you issues in the present. Our work together will assess these patterns and help recondition new ways of response to allow for more choice, less overwhelm, and wiser relationships.
More Therapists Nearby
Couples Therapist Elizabeth (Karlinski) Scudder
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Red Bank, NJ 07701
The issues I commonly work with include: infidelity & betrayal, parenting issues, family of origin & attachment trauma issues, narcissism & codependency, intimacy & sex, blended family issues, navigating separation and divorce, financial conflicts.
As a couples therapist, my approach to therapy is direct, but also compassionate. The work we do together will help guide you and your partner through whatever is causing the challenging season of your relationship. I am straightforward about what you are both doing that isn’t working and what needs to change. Each partner will take accountability for themselves while also increasing empathy for the other. We will do trauma work that addresses what keeps you from having a deeper and more meaningful connection. You will develop the skills that help you nurture your relationship and maintain safety and connection.
The issues I commonly work with include: infidelity & betrayal, parenting issues, family of origin & attachment trauma issues, narcissism & codependency, intimacy & sex, blended family issues, navigating separation and divorce, financial conflicts.
As a couples therapist, my approach to therapy is direct, but also compassionate. The work we do together will help guide you and your partner through whatever is causing the challenging season of your relationship. I am straightforward about what you are both doing that isn’t working and what needs to change. Each partner will take accountability for themselves while also increasing empathy for the other. We will do trauma work that addresses what keeps you from having a deeper and more meaningful connection. You will develop the skills that help you nurture your relationship and maintain safety and connection.
Dr. Mitch-Lisa Marriage/Couple Workshop Specialist
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Tinton Falls, NJ 07724
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Couples Relationship Life Coach, Specialize in Marriage/Couples, Alcohol, Infidelity & Parenting Workshops.
Gaslighting: Psychological manipulation that makes the recipient question their feeling, instincts & their sanity. One of the worst forms of dirty fighting which includes: Pretending not to understand someone when they do, Labeling your partners thoughts as crazy or imagined, Questioning the other person's memory, Pretending to forget what actually occurred
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Couples Relationship Life Coach, Specialize in Marriage/Couples, Alcohol, Infidelity & Parenting Workshops.
Gaslighting: Psychological manipulation that makes the recipient question their feeling, instincts & their sanity. One of the worst forms of dirty fighting which includes: Pretending not to understand someone when they do, Labeling your partners thoughts as crazy or imagined, Questioning the other person's memory, Pretending to forget what actually occurred
Couples/marriage counseling works, even after infidelity.
I have been a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for 25 years. I have worked in psychiatric settings, substance use treatment settings, and in private practice for the majority of those years. In addition, I have assisted couples and individuals in dealing with challenges in relationship development, intimacy, infidelity, divorce, and blended families.
Couples/marriage counseling works, even after infidelity.
I have been a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for 25 years. I have worked in psychiatric settings, substance use treatment settings, and in private practice for the majority of those years. In addition, I have assisted couples and individuals in dealing with challenges in relationship development, intimacy, infidelity, divorce, and blended families.
Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Jersey City, NJ 07302
You and I will use evidence based research oriented methods on the Infidelity Cheating Affairs, Prostitution, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, OnlyFans, Certified Specialist.
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors. I know the distorted thinking and how to correct that thinking. Due to my specialized expertise I have been interviewed by Rolling Stone Magazine on "virtual companions" and their outcomes.
You and I will use evidence based research oriented methods on the Infidelity Cheating Affairs, Prostitution, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, OnlyFans, Certified Specialist.
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors. I know the distorted thinking and how to correct that thinking. Due to my specialized expertise I have been interviewed by Rolling Stone Magazine on "virtual companions" and their outcomes.
Dr. Mitch-Lisa Marriage/Couple Workshop Specialist
PsyD, MSW, Life, Coach
Verified Verified
Short Hills, NJ 07078
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Couples Relationship Life Coach, Specialize in Marriage/Couples, Alcohol, Infidelity & Parenting Workshops.
Gaslighting: Psychological manipulation that makes the recipient question their feeling, instincts & their sanity. One of the worst forms of dirty fighting which includes: Pretending not to understand someone when they do, Labeling your partners thoughts as crazy or imagined, Questioning the other person's memory, Pretending to forget what actually occurred
Mitch PsyD & Lisa Couples Relationship Life Coach, Specialize in Marriage/Couples, Alcohol, Infidelity & Parenting Workshops.
Gaslighting: Psychological manipulation that makes the recipient question their feeling, instincts & their sanity. One of the worst forms of dirty fighting which includes: Pretending not to understand someone when they do, Labeling your partners thoughts as crazy or imagined, Questioning the other person's memory, Pretending to forget what actually occurred
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.