Emotionally Focused Therapists in Holmdel, NJ
Trained in EFT Tapping and Intuition.
Anxiety, depression, and worry are making you miserable and keeping you up at night. Nothing you have tried is helping, and you've tried everything. There's never enough time to get it all done, and the pressure never ends. You’re at your wits ends. When you play it forward you only see things getting worse. The unavoidable consequences to your relationships and family, your work, and your health are constant lurking threats. You keep your stress buried inside because you don’t know what else to do. Everyone thinks you have it all figured out. But the truth is you feel lost. You've worked too hard to feel so unhappy.
Trained in EFT Tapping and Intuition.
Anxiety, depression, and worry are making you miserable and keeping you up at night. Nothing you have tried is helping, and you've tried everything. There's never enough time to get it all done, and the pressure never ends. You’re at your wits ends. When you play it forward you only see things getting worse. The unavoidable consequences to your relationships and family, your work, and your health are constant lurking threats. You keep your stress buried inside because you don’t know what else to do. Everyone thinks you have it all figured out. But the truth is you feel lost. You've worked too hard to feel so unhappy.
I see individuals and couples in my practice and the way I work is informed by evidence-based treatment approaches (AEDP and EFT) which explore how our earliest experiences in life connect with current experience/relationships.
My stance is supportive, committed and validating. I create space where you can reflect and talk about anything on your mind and I will be present with you to help process your emotions and cope with hardships. I believe in our inherent strengths and capacity for healing and change and I strive to provide an experience where you will learn and thrive.
I see individuals and couples in my practice and the way I work is informed by evidence-based treatment approaches (AEDP and EFT) which explore how our earliest experiences in life connect with current experience/relationships.
My stance is supportive, committed and validating. I create space where you can reflect and talk about anything on your mind and I will be present with you to help process your emotions and cope with hardships. I believe in our inherent strengths and capacity for healing and change and I strive to provide an experience where you will learn and thrive.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of how to move forward? Seeking a compassionate, non-judgmental space to explore your emotions can be the first step toward healing. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, or difficult life transitions, therapy can provide the clarity and support you need to regain balance and well-being.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of how to move forward? Seeking a compassionate, non-judgmental space to explore your emotions can be the first step toward healing. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, depression, or difficult life transitions, therapy can provide the clarity and support you need to regain balance and well-being.
Creating the space for reflection is hard, especially in the midst of our busy lives. Many people feel stuck in difficult patterns, not knowing how to be happy. In a collaborative atmosphere, I can help you develop a healthy relationship with yourself and others. With sensitivity, compassion, and attention to your strengths, together we can identify your goals and help you meet these. Using emotion-focused work is particularly helpful because our feelings offer us a roadmap to our psyche. In other words, our emotions clue us in to what motivates, reinforces, or is aversive to us. Emotions drive our reactivity, thoughts, and mood.
Creating the space for reflection is hard, especially in the midst of our busy lives. Many people feel stuck in difficult patterns, not knowing how to be happy. In a collaborative atmosphere, I can help you develop a healthy relationship with yourself and others. With sensitivity, compassion, and attention to your strengths, together we can identify your goals and help you meet these. Using emotion-focused work is particularly helpful because our feelings offer us a roadmap to our psyche. In other words, our emotions clue us in to what motivates, reinforces, or is aversive to us. Emotions drive our reactivity, thoughts, and mood.
Matthew Berman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ACS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Holmdel, NJ 07733
When you think about a better future for yourself, what do you envision? Are you feeling less stressed? Are you more confident? Is your relationship thriving? Are you getting more time to do the things you love? Therapy is a journey to find a path towards those goals. Therapy is an individualized process. Sometimes, we aren’t always aware of the thoughts, beliefs, and situations that prevent us from feeling better or getting our needs met. Other times, we are aware of these things but unsure on how to limit how much they impact us and how we can manage them.
When you think about a better future for yourself, what do you envision? Are you feeling less stressed? Are you more confident? Is your relationship thriving? Are you getting more time to do the things you love? Therapy is a journey to find a path towards those goals. Therapy is an individualized process. Sometimes, we aren’t always aware of the thoughts, beliefs, and situations that prevent us from feeling better or getting our needs met. Other times, we are aware of these things but unsure on how to limit how much they impact us and how we can manage them.
Jenna Rinaldi Anglim
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Life events are sometimes beyond our control. We can only change the way we cope with it, the way we view it and what we choose to learn from it. In a comfortable and supportive environment, I can provide you with the tools you need to thrive. I treat anxiety, depression, as well as many other symptoms and disorders that affect people for all different reasons. Whether it is a relationship, life transition, illness, loss or other life circumstance, together we can make great changes.
Life events are sometimes beyond our control. We can only change the way we cope with it, the way we view it and what we choose to learn from it. In a comfortable and supportive environment, I can provide you with the tools you need to thrive. I treat anxiety, depression, as well as many other symptoms and disorders that affect people for all different reasons. Whether it is a relationship, life transition, illness, loss or other life circumstance, together we can make great changes.
Platinum Counseling LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LCADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Reaching out for help can be difficult. Often times, we tend to neglect the need for our own self-care as we tackle the challenges of daily life and take care of the ones we love. Platinum Counseling offers a comfortable and casual environment where you can feel safe and supported. We encourage you to discuss your vulnerabilities, without judgement, with professionals who want to hear about your experiences. We can provide you with therapeutic strategies and education to understand and tackle your challenges while increasing your motivation to fulfill your own personal goals. We encourage you to contact us.
Reaching out for help can be difficult. Often times, we tend to neglect the need for our own self-care as we tackle the challenges of daily life and take care of the ones we love. Platinum Counseling offers a comfortable and casual environment where you can feel safe and supported. We encourage you to discuss your vulnerabilities, without judgement, with professionals who want to hear about your experiences. We can provide you with therapeutic strategies and education to understand and tackle your challenges while increasing your motivation to fulfill your own personal goals. We encourage you to contact us.
Matthew Donohue
Licensed Professional Counselor, BA, MEd, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
The price of therapy should not be anxiety provoking. Are you wrestling with feelings of depression or anxiety? Is your consumption of alcohol becoming a problem? As we work together in therapy, we can uncover the reasons for these emotions and behaviors. Sometimes these maladaptive coping mechanisms can stem from past trauma or deeper wounds. I am committed to working with you on your journey to become the best version of yourself.
The price of therapy should not be anxiety provoking. Are you wrestling with feelings of depression or anxiety? Is your consumption of alcohol becoming a problem? As we work together in therapy, we can uncover the reasons for these emotions and behaviors. Sometimes these maladaptive coping mechanisms can stem from past trauma or deeper wounds. I am committed to working with you on your journey to become the best version of yourself.
Whats unique about The Visiting Counselor (TVC) is that I am mobile. I meet the clients in their homes where they are most comfortable and feel the most secure. I also deliver counseling and psychotherapy with compassion and understanding of the person as a whole. I am able to address a wide range of issues from the everyday stresses of life to more complex chronic issues of the mind or the body.
Whats unique about The Visiting Counselor (TVC) is that I am mobile. I meet the clients in their homes where they are most comfortable and feel the most secure. I also deliver counseling and psychotherapy with compassion and understanding of the person as a whole. I am able to address a wide range of issues from the everyday stresses of life to more complex chronic issues of the mind or the body.
Adolescence is a complex journey; one that can trigger intense feelings of sadness frustration, self doubt, loneliness and fear. Without the proper tools to navigate these roads, a young female can find herself entangled in darkness. Although this period in her life will pass, the residual effect of her decisions and experiences as a teenager, can impact the path she continues on throughout her lifetime. Now more than ever, your daughter needs the appropriate support as she works to gain a deeper, more comprehensive understanding of herself and the world around her.
Adolescence is a complex journey; one that can trigger intense feelings of sadness frustration, self doubt, loneliness and fear. Without the proper tools to navigate these roads, a young female can find herself entangled in darkness. Although this period in her life will pass, the residual effect of her decisions and experiences as a teenager, can impact the path she continues on throughout her lifetime. Now more than ever, your daughter needs the appropriate support as she works to gain a deeper, more comprehensive understanding of herself and the world around her.
Whether you struggle with mental health concerns, including depression, anxiety, or even stress, each client is met where they are at and given the best tools and opportunities to expand and build their favorite version of themselves. If you want to prepare for an anticipated stress, trying to sort out daily life, improve communication within a relationship, finding balance, you want to find someone you feel comfortable with to express yourself in a judgement free environment.
Whether you struggle with mental health concerns, including depression, anxiety, or even stress, each client is met where they are at and given the best tools and opportunities to expand and build their favorite version of themselves. If you want to prepare for an anticipated stress, trying to sort out daily life, improve communication within a relationship, finding balance, you want to find someone you feel comfortable with to express yourself in a judgement free environment.
Meet Our Emotionally Focused Therapists
If you are going through a painful experience or dealing with difficult life issues, therapy works! Relief is possible. Changing your life is possible! The relationship you build with yourself can set the tone for everything around you. Things can seem hopeless, and perhaps you feel that the closest people in your life don't understand. Maybe you've suffered a loss, and it’s taking a toll. Maybe things have been rough for a long time now. Maybe there’s a pattern you’re trying to break. I can help!
If you are going through a painful experience or dealing with difficult life issues, therapy works! Relief is possible. Changing your life is possible! The relationship you build with yourself can set the tone for everything around you. Things can seem hopeless, and perhaps you feel that the closest people in your life don't understand. Maybe you've suffered a loss, and it’s taking a toll. Maybe things have been rough for a long time now. Maybe there’s a pattern you’re trying to break. I can help!
Welcome to my page. I first want to congratulate you on the initial step to achieving your goals! Taking this step can feel scary and uncomfortable, but I am here to help you work through this part of the process and beyond. I work collaboratively with my clients to address the root causes of their distress and to develop effective coping strategies. Whether you’re dealing with childhood abuse, a traumatic event, or ongoing stress, I’m here to help you navigate the journey toward healing and empowerment. Together, we can unlock the resilience within you and create a path toward a brighter future.
Welcome to my page. I first want to congratulate you on the initial step to achieving your goals! Taking this step can feel scary and uncomfortable, but I am here to help you work through this part of the process and beyond. I work collaboratively with my clients to address the root causes of their distress and to develop effective coping strategies. Whether you’re dealing with childhood abuse, a traumatic event, or ongoing stress, I’m here to help you navigate the journey toward healing and empowerment. Together, we can unlock the resilience within you and create a path toward a brighter future.
My passion and goal as a therapist stems from guiding those to become the best version of themselves through insight, clarity, empowerment and compassion. The skills I have acquired are through working with individuals, couples and families specializing in anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, relationship conflict, self-esteem, substance abuse, suicide/bereavement and other mental health diagnoses. Every individuals story is unique and therefore, we will work together to find what fits your needs towards happiness and personal fulfillment.
My passion and goal as a therapist stems from guiding those to become the best version of themselves through insight, clarity, empowerment and compassion. The skills I have acquired are through working with individuals, couples and families specializing in anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, relationship conflict, self-esteem, substance abuse, suicide/bereavement and other mental health diagnoses. Every individuals story is unique and therefore, we will work together to find what fits your needs towards happiness and personal fulfillment.
Raising children can be challenging (to say the least!). As parents, we often encounter situations with our kids or adolescents that we need help navigating. I can help with these challenges. Finding a counselor who is the 'right fit' for your situation and your family is important. My goal is to make this as comfortable as possible. I provide an atmosphere of trust, support and acceptance which will allow you and your child to explore concerns in an emotionally safe environment. I'm happy to consult with you by phone to help determine the next steps your child and family.
Raising children can be challenging (to say the least!). As parents, we often encounter situations with our kids or adolescents that we need help navigating. I can help with these challenges. Finding a counselor who is the 'right fit' for your situation and your family is important. My goal is to make this as comfortable as possible. I provide an atmosphere of trust, support and acceptance which will allow you and your child to explore concerns in an emotionally safe environment. I'm happy to consult with you by phone to help determine the next steps your child and family.
A common trait among my clients seems to be a fierce desire to improve their lives & take back control. Many clients have tried therapy for OCD, phobias or anxiety, & may feel discouraged with the lack of progress. Let's use that frustration to energize & guide positive change! OCD, phobias & anxiety can be overcome, I've seen it happen! Don't let anxiety & stress run the show. My therapeutic approach is client-centered, honoring your experience & inner wisdom as our guide for growth. Together, we'll reclaim your power through traditional or unconventional therapy, like VR Therapy, Ketamine Therapy or Creative Art Therapy.
A common trait among my clients seems to be a fierce desire to improve their lives & take back control. Many clients have tried therapy for OCD, phobias or anxiety, & may feel discouraged with the lack of progress. Let's use that frustration to energize & guide positive change! OCD, phobias & anxiety can be overcome, I've seen it happen! Don't let anxiety & stress run the show. My therapeutic approach is client-centered, honoring your experience & inner wisdom as our guide for growth. Together, we'll reclaim your power through traditional or unconventional therapy, like VR Therapy, Ketamine Therapy or Creative Art Therapy.
My practice specializes in helping children, teens, adults, couples, and families to grow mentally and emotionally through increasing insight, resilience, and general wellbeing. Typically, I work with people who are looking for 1. personal growth: people who are looking to grow personally, maximize on their potential, and improve themselves and their relationships. 2. challenges & transitions: people going through transitions or challenges in their life. These challenges could include but are not limited to substance abuse/addictions, family problems, behavioral problems, anger management, trauma, loss and grief, infertility, sexual problems, divorce, job stress, etc.
My practice specializes in helping children, teens, adults, couples, and families to grow mentally and emotionally through increasing insight, resilience, and general wellbeing. Typically, I work with people who are looking for 1. personal growth: people who are looking to grow personally, maximize on their potential, and improve themselves and their relationships. 2. challenges & transitions: people going through transitions or challenges in their life. These challenges could include but are not limited to substance abuse/addictions, family problems, behavioral problems, anger management, trauma, loss and grief, infertility, sexual problems, divorce, job stress, etc.
I am a licensed mental health counselor and licensed professional counselor in NY, NJ, and CT, a national certified counselor, and approved clinical supervisor with a master's degree in Community Counseling and Marriage/Family Therapy. I have 13 years experience in providing mental health treatment to clients with mood , anxiety and trauma related , psychosis , behavior, and substance disorders. I have engaged adult and elderly clients in varying forms of counseling consisting of individual, family, couples', group, crisis, grief, substance, anger management, and vocational counseling in traditional and non-traditional settings.
I am a licensed mental health counselor and licensed professional counselor in NY, NJ, and CT, a national certified counselor, and approved clinical supervisor with a master's degree in Community Counseling and Marriage/Family Therapy. I have 13 years experience in providing mental health treatment to clients with mood , anxiety and trauma related , psychosis , behavior, and substance disorders. I have engaged adult and elderly clients in varying forms of counseling consisting of individual, family, couples', group, crisis, grief, substance, anger management, and vocational counseling in traditional and non-traditional settings.
Wendy Brundage Huntley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Holmdel, NJ 07733
Negative and anxious feelings can be transformed. If self-defeating behaviors, anxious feelings, dysfunctional relationships, or feelings of hopelessness are continually causing you pain, we can help you. You can heal and begin to live with a sense of fulfillment. With psychotherapy, you can begin your journey to personal transformation. You can develop tools to decrease your suffering, increase your confidence, and shift your consciousness. If you are ready to rise higher, let's start the conversation. Your best self is waiting.
Negative and anxious feelings can be transformed. If self-defeating behaviors, anxious feelings, dysfunctional relationships, or feelings of hopelessness are continually causing you pain, we can help you. You can heal and begin to live with a sense of fulfillment. With psychotherapy, you can begin your journey to personal transformation. You can develop tools to decrease your suffering, increase your confidence, and shift your consciousness. If you are ready to rise higher, let's start the conversation. Your best self is waiting.
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Nicole Jackson LPC, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, EdD, MA-LPC, LCADC, BC-TMH, HS-BCP
Verified Verified
West Long Branch, NJ 07764
I am a psychodynamically oriented counselor with specific training in Attachment Theory including Emotion Focused Therapy ( EFT) for individuals and couples.
Are you an insight oriented individual looking for personal growth? Are you struggling in your relationship, or simply wanting to strengthen one? Have you wondered why you may attract similar people in your life? Was the relationship with your parents less than secure? Are you looking to develop secure relationships now? Adults of all ages and backgrounds looking for someone with strong cultural competency may benefit from counseling with me.
I am a psychodynamically oriented counselor with specific training in Attachment Theory including Emotion Focused Therapy ( EFT) for individuals and couples.
Are you an insight oriented individual looking for personal growth? Are you struggling in your relationship, or simply wanting to strengthen one? Have you wondered why you may attract similar people in your life? Was the relationship with your parents less than secure? Are you looking to develop secure relationships now? Adults of all ages and backgrounds looking for someone with strong cultural competency may benefit from counseling with me.
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Emotionally Focused Therapists
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.