Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Holmdel, NJ

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Courtney DeMaio
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
No matter what struggles one's past might hold, I believe all people have the power to improve their lives once they gain insight and skills through therapy. While I have worked successfully with clients experiencing a variety of concerns, I specialize in helping people who are interested in overcoming symptoms related to trauma and anxiety. In addition to my advanced training and individual work with this population, I have also developed and facilitated therapeutic groups for adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse and women who have experienced trauma of any kind.
No matter what struggles one's past might hold, I believe all people have the power to improve their lives once they gain insight and skills through therapy. While I have worked successfully with clients experiencing a variety of concerns, I specialize in helping people who are interested in overcoming symptoms related to trauma and anxiety. In addition to my advanced training and individual work with this population, I have also developed and facilitated therapeutic groups for adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse and women who have experienced trauma of any kind.
(848) 400-4712 View (848) 400-4712
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Kathleen Berman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
2 Endorsed
Holmdel, NJ 07733
What does a better tomorrow look like to you? Can you imagine your world with less stress and more enjoyment? More effective communication and stronger relationships with others? Therapy can help guide you towards these goals.
What does a better tomorrow look like to you? Can you imagine your world with less stress and more enjoyment? More effective communication and stronger relationships with others? Therapy can help guide you towards these goals.
(848) 360-3970 View (848) 360-3970
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Amanda Kazalonis
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, NCC, LPC
1 Endorsed
Holmdel, NJ 07733
If you are feeling stressed and overwhelmed, struggling with anxiety/depression, feeling stuck in the same patterns, facing new or persistent challenges, going through difficult life transitions, or struggling in your relationships, you are not alone. You would like to feel seen, heard, and get the necessary support to navigate through these experiences to a more hopeful place.
If you are feeling stressed and overwhelmed, struggling with anxiety/depression, feeling stuck in the same patterns, facing new or persistent challenges, going through difficult life transitions, or struggling in your relationships, you are not alone. You would like to feel seen, heard, and get the necessary support to navigate through these experiences to a more hopeful place.
(732) 365-3478 View (732) 365-3478
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Trisha Badishian
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Holmdel, NJ 07733
Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much. — Helen Keller, U.S. author, educator, and disability rights advocate. I have always been a firm believer that everyone can benefit from talking to someone and it sometimes takes a lot to enter into the journey of self-awareness that comes with seeking counseling. Whether it be complex grief and trauma or day to day stressors, I look forward to being a part of your healing process.
Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much. — Helen Keller, U.S. author, educator, and disability rights advocate. I have always been a firm believer that everyone can benefit from talking to someone and it sometimes takes a lot to enter into the journey of self-awareness that comes with seeking counseling. Whether it be complex grief and trauma or day to day stressors, I look forward to being a part of your healing process.
(848) 356-4894 View (848) 356-4894
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Matthew Berman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ACS
5 Endorsed
Holmdel, NJ 07733
When you think about a better future for yourself, what do you envision? Are you feeling less stressed? Are you more confident? Is your relationship thriving? Are you getting more time to do the things you love? Therapy is a journey to find a path towards those goals. Therapy is an individualized process. Sometimes, we aren’t always aware of the thoughts, beliefs, and situations that prevent us from feeling better or getting our needs met. Other times, we are aware of these things but unsure on how to limit how much they impact us and how we can manage them.
When you think about a better future for yourself, what do you envision? Are you feeling less stressed? Are you more confident? Is your relationship thriving? Are you getting more time to do the things you love? Therapy is a journey to find a path towards those goals. Therapy is an individualized process. Sometimes, we aren’t always aware of the thoughts, beliefs, and situations that prevent us from feeling better or getting our needs met. Other times, we are aware of these things but unsure on how to limit how much they impact us and how we can manage them.
(848) 276-7662 View (848) 276-7662
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Alyssa Somohano
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCADC
Online Only
Welcome! I'm Alyssa and I'm a social worker and addiction counselor. I recognize how daunting the process of starting with a therapist can be, so I aim to make therapy feel safe and comfortable for everyone. I believe that therapy should be collaborative and will work with you to build the life you want to have.
Welcome! I'm Alyssa and I'm a social worker and addiction counselor. I recognize how daunting the process of starting with a therapist can be, so I aim to make therapy feel safe and comfortable for everyone. I believe that therapy should be collaborative and will work with you to build the life you want to have.
(732) 314-3502 View (732) 314-3502
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LEAF by Dr. Dana Spada Psychotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Serves Area
LEAF by Dr. Dana Spada Psychotherapy is highly privatized boutique practice offering therapy to adults, teens and children with locations in Colts Neck, Little Silver, Sea Girt, and Hazlet. We provide individual, family, marriage and couples therapy. Our approach to psychotherapy is personalized and holistic. All of our clinicians have extensive educational backgrounds and are board certified. If you're looking for very high quality care, look no further. Experience a sense of Calm and Clarity at LEAF.
LEAF by Dr. Dana Spada Psychotherapy is highly privatized boutique practice offering therapy to adults, teens and children with locations in Colts Neck, Little Silver, Sea Girt, and Hazlet. We provide individual, family, marriage and couples therapy. Our approach to psychotherapy is personalized and holistic. All of our clinicians have extensive educational backgrounds and are board certified. If you're looking for very high quality care, look no further. Experience a sense of Calm and Clarity at LEAF.
(732) 605-4522 View (732) 605-4522
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Living Well Counseling Center
Licensed Professional Counselor
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Feeling as though life is too much to handle? Struggling to cope and come up with effective coping strategies? Let us help you...At Living Well Counseling, our goal is to provide a nurturing environment which is safe and supportive. We strive to develop specific, goal oriented strategies to help our clients cope with life circumstances; to promote long lasting personal growth. Our belief is that by increasing self-compassion, personal validation, and mindfulness techniques, clients can achieve their desired results, with supportive non-judgmental guidance.
Feeling as though life is too much to handle? Struggling to cope and come up with effective coping strategies? Let us help you...At Living Well Counseling, our goal is to provide a nurturing environment which is safe and supportive. We strive to develop specific, goal oriented strategies to help our clients cope with life circumstances; to promote long lasting personal growth. Our belief is that by increasing self-compassion, personal validation, and mindfulness techniques, clients can achieve their desired results, with supportive non-judgmental guidance.
(732) 853-1076 View (732) 853-1076
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Robyn Reznik
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LCADC
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
When people come to therapy they sometimes have a list of concerns and are not sure how to address them. I am an LCSW & LCADC who has been practicing for 25 years. I received my MSW from NYU and I have an interactive style. Some of the conditions I treat include bipolar disorder, depression, anxiety, postpartum, & ADHD. I use CBT and was certified in DBT. I treat teenagers, adults, & families. I will diagnose conditions, provide therapeutic interventions appropriate for that diagnosis, and will provide education regarding additional referrals to additional supports if needed. I can also provide clinical supervision for LCSWs.
When people come to therapy they sometimes have a list of concerns and are not sure how to address them. I am an LCSW & LCADC who has been practicing for 25 years. I received my MSW from NYU and I have an interactive style. Some of the conditions I treat include bipolar disorder, depression, anxiety, postpartum, & ADHD. I use CBT and was certified in DBT. I treat teenagers, adults, & families. I will diagnose conditions, provide therapeutic interventions appropriate for that diagnosis, and will provide education regarding additional referrals to additional supports if needed. I can also provide clinical supervision for LCSWs.
(732) 709-4296 View (732) 709-4296
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Psychotherapy Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Emotional difficulties block the path to a satisfying life that may manifest as depression, anxiety, bi-polar, anger/rage, psychosis and even suicidal thoughts. People find themselves trapped in conflict at work, relationships and with oneself. People may turn to destructive behaviors - substance/alcohol abuse, promiscuity, eating disorders or self-injury to find relief. Psychotherapy breaks these cycles by developing deeper insight of self and others while learning skills to help manage emotions and cope more effectively. I encourage a safe therapeutic relationship respecting the person's experience and confidentiality.
Emotional difficulties block the path to a satisfying life that may manifest as depression, anxiety, bi-polar, anger/rage, psychosis and even suicidal thoughts. People find themselves trapped in conflict at work, relationships and with oneself. People may turn to destructive behaviors - substance/alcohol abuse, promiscuity, eating disorders or self-injury to find relief. Psychotherapy breaks these cycles by developing deeper insight of self and others while learning skills to help manage emotions and cope more effectively. I encourage a safe therapeutic relationship respecting the person's experience and confidentiality.
(732) 455-9286 View (732) 455-9286
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Kaitlynn Turre
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Serves Area
Life can be difficult to juggle and heavy at times! Anxiety is real! Therapy offers a space to untangle old patterns, grieve what wasn’t safe, and build a life that feels steady, warm, and real! My style combines clinical expertise with warmth—helping to not only understand why you feel the way you do, but also feel "normal" again and create lasting change! Therapy is an art as well as a science. Using evidence-based modalities, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy , Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and trauma-informed interventions, I tailor each session to meet the unique needs and goals of every client!
Life can be difficult to juggle and heavy at times! Anxiety is real! Therapy offers a space to untangle old patterns, grieve what wasn’t safe, and build a life that feels steady, warm, and real! My style combines clinical expertise with warmth—helping to not only understand why you feel the way you do, but also feel "normal" again and create lasting change! Therapy is an art as well as a science. Using evidence-based modalities, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy , Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and trauma-informed interventions, I tailor each session to meet the unique needs and goals of every client!
(848) 279-0564 View (848) 279-0564
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Dr. Kathleen M. Leo
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I have a background that includes over 30 years experience and knowledge in providing mental health care to clients who need help dealing with diverse mental health issues and problems. Those who desire improved and better quality relationships whether in marriage, as a parent, in friendships, with relatives, including extended family, or in the workplace should contact me. I also have extensive experience working with clients who suffer from low self esteem, self-worth concerns and the illnesses that emanate from that like substances abuse, depression and anxiety. Improving quality of life addressing forgiveness issues is also a specialty.
I have a background that includes over 30 years experience and knowledge in providing mental health care to clients who need help dealing with diverse mental health issues and problems. Those who desire improved and better quality relationships whether in marriage, as a parent, in friendships, with relatives, including extended family, or in the workplace should contact me. I also have extensive experience working with clients who suffer from low self esteem, self-worth concerns and the illnesses that emanate from that like substances abuse, depression and anxiety. Improving quality of life addressing forgiveness issues is also a specialty.
(732) 743-8629 View (732) 743-8629
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Deeper Love & Intimacy, Low Self-Esteem/Self-Worth, Depression & Anxiety, Marriage/Couples Workshops, Infidelity, Narcissism- Borderline-Bi-Polar, Gaslighting-Love Bombing, All Addictions, Substance & Alcohol Abuse, Porn Addiction-Social Media, Relationships/Couples, Marriages-Pre-Marriages, Parenting & Blended Families, Anger & Control Issues, Communication Breakdowns (Skills & Rules on Website).
Dr. Mitch PsyD & Lisa Couples Relationship Life Coach, Specialize in Marriage/Couples, Communication, Alcohol, Infidelity, Narcissism & Parenting. We have 35 Years of Co-Leading our Workshops (Male/Female Perspective). Our Workshops are Not Traditional Counseling (We Don't Obsess about your Past). We Provide: Two Professionals that Specialize in the Treatment of Relationships and Communication. We are Opened: Days, Eve's & Weekends. These Workshops are Designed for a Rapid Recovery and are Powerful & Comprehensive. Our Marriage/Couples, Alcohol & Communication Workshops have an 85% Rate of Success when you Complete our Program.
Deeper Love & Intimacy, Low Self-Esteem/Self-Worth, Depression & Anxiety, Marriage/Couples Workshops, Infidelity, Narcissism- Borderline-Bi-Polar, Gaslighting-Love Bombing, All Addictions, Substance & Alcohol Abuse, Porn Addiction-Social Media, Relationships/Couples, Marriages-Pre-Marriages, Parenting & Blended Families, Anger & Control Issues, Communication Breakdowns (Skills & Rules on Website).
Dr. Mitch PsyD & Lisa Couples Relationship Life Coach, Specialize in Marriage/Couples, Communication, Alcohol, Infidelity, Narcissism & Parenting. We have 35 Years of Co-Leading our Workshops (Male/Female Perspective). Our Workshops are Not Traditional Counseling (We Don't Obsess about your Past). We Provide: Two Professionals that Specialize in the Treatment of Relationships and Communication. We are Opened: Days, Eve's & Weekends. These Workshops are Designed for a Rapid Recovery and are Powerful & Comprehensive. Our Marriage/Couples, Alcohol & Communication Workshops have an 85% Rate of Success when you Complete our Program.
(732) 334-7283 View (732) 334-7283
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Platinum Counseling LLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LCADC
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Reaching out for help can be difficult. Often times, we tend to neglect the need for our own self-care as we tackle the challenges of daily life and take care of the ones we love. Platinum Counseling offers a comfortable and casual environment where you can feel safe and supported. We encourage you to discuss your vulnerabilities, without judgement, with professionals who want to hear about your experiences. We can provide you with therapeutic strategies and education to understand and tackle your challenges while increasing your motivation to fulfill your own personal goals. We encourage you to contact us.
Reaching out for help can be difficult. Often times, we tend to neglect the need for our own self-care as we tackle the challenges of daily life and take care of the ones we love. Platinum Counseling offers a comfortable and casual environment where you can feel safe and supported. We encourage you to discuss your vulnerabilities, without judgement, with professionals who want to hear about your experiences. We can provide you with therapeutic strategies and education to understand and tackle your challenges while increasing your motivation to fulfill your own personal goals. We encourage you to contact us.
(732) 355-8273 View (732) 355-8273
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Brianna DiMaio
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Online Only
My passion and goal as a therapist stems from guiding those to become the best version of themselves through insight, empowerment and compassion. The skills I have acquired are through working with individuals, couples and families specializing in anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, relationship conflict, self-esteem, substance abuse, suicide/bereavement and other mental health diagnoses. Every individuals story is unique and therefore, we will work together to find what fits your needs towards happiness and personal fulfillment.
My passion and goal as a therapist stems from guiding those to become the best version of themselves through insight, empowerment and compassion. The skills I have acquired are through working with individuals, couples and families specializing in anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, relationship conflict, self-esteem, substance abuse, suicide/bereavement and other mental health diagnoses. Every individuals story is unique and therefore, we will work together to find what fits your needs towards happiness and personal fulfillment.
(732) 631-3216 View (732) 631-3216
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Stephanie Sabatini
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Not accepting new clients
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I specialize in helping individuals and families navigate a wide range of challenges. My experience in various capacities within emergency room psychiatric services, suicide prevention, research, and outpatient counseling has given me opportunities to become familiar working with diverse populations, including children, adults, LGBTQIA+ individuals, and those involved in the legal system. My clients come to me seeking support for issues such as anxiety, depression, substance abuse, mood disorders, personality disorders, and more.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, I specialize in helping individuals and families navigate a wide range of challenges. My experience in various capacities within emergency room psychiatric services, suicide prevention, research, and outpatient counseling has given me opportunities to become familiar working with diverse populations, including children, adults, LGBTQIA+ individuals, and those involved in the legal system. My clients come to me seeking support for issues such as anxiety, depression, substance abuse, mood disorders, personality disorders, and more.
(732) 561-5971 View (732) 561-5971

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Dr. Benjamin Johnson
Psychologist, PhD
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I also specialize in borderline personality disorder ( BPD).
I bring a balanced approach to my practice, combining warmth, structure, and flexibility to create a supportive therapeutic environment. As a teacher and scientist, as well as a therapist, I use cutting-edge, evidence-based approaches and integrate dialectical behavior therapy skills with an exploration-focused, psychodynamic approach.
I also specialize in borderline personality disorder ( BPD).
I bring a balanced approach to my practice, combining warmth, structure, and flexibility to create a supportive therapeutic environment. As a teacher and scientist, as well as a therapist, I use cutting-edge, evidence-based approaches and integrate dialectical behavior therapy skills with an exploration-focused, psychodynamic approach.
(551) 321-7085 View (551) 321-7085
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Enmanuel Suarez
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Every individual is unique, strong, and capable of reaching their fullest potential. I work best with individuals who want to gain a genuine understanding of themselves, have willingness to address barriers blocking their progress, and are excited to collaborate with a supportive counselor who will compassionately challenge you to align with your goals. I have 10 years experience supporting clients with symptoms related to many diagnoses; such as Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Anxiety Disorders, and Personality Disorders. Managing issues such as intrusive thoughts disregulated mood and impulse control getting in your way.
Every individual is unique, strong, and capable of reaching their fullest potential. I work best with individuals who want to gain a genuine understanding of themselves, have willingness to address barriers blocking their progress, and are excited to collaborate with a supportive counselor who will compassionately challenge you to align with your goals. I have 10 years experience supporting clients with symptoms related to many diagnoses; such as Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Anxiety Disorders, and Personality Disorders. Managing issues such as intrusive thoughts disregulated mood and impulse control getting in your way.
(862) 292-4788 View (862) 292-4788
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DBT Skills Group NJ LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
* Feel like you are often on an emotional rollercoaster? * Do you have difficulties in relationships or fear abandonment? * Have trouble managing your emotions? * Looking to find a path to a fulfilling life?? * Perhaps you should consider Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills Class
* Feel like you are often on an emotional rollercoaster? * Do you have difficulties in relationships or fear abandonment? * Have trouble managing your emotions? * Looking to find a path to a fulfilling life?? * Perhaps you should consider Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills Class
(973) 319-8972 View (973) 319-8972
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Allison Tilki
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Serves Area
She has an advanced certification in DBT and years of experience utilizing comprehensive DBT to treat anxiety, depression, and borderline personality disorder.
Allison’s approach is solutions-focused, empathetic, and compassionate. She believes everyone thrives when they feel understood, respected, and empowered. She works with patients and their families to build in-depth understandings of their fundamental beliefs and emotions, without judgement, to find the function of behaviors and facilitate effective change.
She has an advanced certification in DBT and years of experience utilizing comprehensive DBT to treat anxiety, depression, and borderline personality disorder.
Allison’s approach is solutions-focused, empathetic, and compassionate. She believes everyone thrives when they feel understood, respected, and empowered. She works with patients and their families to build in-depth understandings of their fundamental beliefs and emotions, without judgement, to find the function of behaviors and facilitate effective change.
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Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists
What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?
Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?
Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?
DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?
The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.