Anger Management Therapists in Holmdel, NJ
I am a modern and hip child/adolescent and adult psychotherapist looking to remove the stigma of therapy by making it accessible, solution based and engaging to young kids and teens. Therapy shouldn't be a punishment or a seen as a defeat. Yes of course, we will do hard work and it won't always be easy, but with years of experience and education, I am able to connect with my young clients and show them that together we can find a solution.
I am a modern and hip child/adolescent and adult psychotherapist looking to remove the stigma of therapy by making it accessible, solution based and engaging to young kids and teens. Therapy shouldn't be a punishment or a seen as a defeat. Yes of course, we will do hard work and it won't always be easy, but with years of experience and education, I am able to connect with my young clients and show them that together we can find a solution.
Accepting New Clients —————— As a mental health counselor, I strive to create a therapeutic environment that is both welcoming and encouraging for all clients. Often times, individuals may feel hesitant about beginning therapy, however, my approach to therapy provides each client with an individualized treatment plan in accordance with their preferred pace, as well as establishing a secure and trusting environment. I am passionate in sharing my knowledge within the field, as well as providing the tools necessary for my clients to achieve their therapeutic goals through a collaborative and personalized relationship.
Accepting New Clients —————— As a mental health counselor, I strive to create a therapeutic environment that is both welcoming and encouraging for all clients. Often times, individuals may feel hesitant about beginning therapy, however, my approach to therapy provides each client with an individualized treatment plan in accordance with their preferred pace, as well as establishing a secure and trusting environment. I am passionate in sharing my knowledge within the field, as well as providing the tools necessary for my clients to achieve their therapeutic goals through a collaborative and personalized relationship.
Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.
— Helen Keller, U.S. author, educator, and disability rights advocate. I have always been a firm believer that everyone can benefit from talking to someone and it sometimes takes a lot to enter into the journey of self-awareness that comes with seeking counseling. Whether it be complex grief and trauma or day to day stressors, I look forward to being a part of your healing process.
Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much.
— Helen Keller, U.S. author, educator, and disability rights advocate. I have always been a firm believer that everyone can benefit from talking to someone and it sometimes takes a lot to enter into the journey of self-awareness that comes with seeking counseling. Whether it be complex grief and trauma or day to day stressors, I look forward to being a part of your healing process.
Life doesn’t come with a roadmap for navigating day to day stressors, transitions, relationships, or parenthood. At times, it can feel overwhelming or heavier than expected. You may find yourself struggling with anxiety, depression, mood changes, relationship or family stress, perinatal or postpartum challenges, or emotional patterns that feel hard to shift. If you’re exhausted trying to manage it all on your own, you don’t have to. Therapy offers a supportive space to better understand your experiences, gain insight, and move toward meaningful, lasting change.
Life doesn’t come with a roadmap for navigating day to day stressors, transitions, relationships, or parenthood. At times, it can feel overwhelming or heavier than expected. You may find yourself struggling with anxiety, depression, mood changes, relationship or family stress, perinatal or postpartum challenges, or emotional patterns that feel hard to shift. If you’re exhausted trying to manage it all on your own, you don’t have to. Therapy offers a supportive space to better understand your experiences, gain insight, and move toward meaningful, lasting change.
My passion and goal as a therapist stems from guiding those to become the best version of themselves through insight, empowerment and compassion. The skills I have acquired are through working with individuals, couples and families specializing in anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, relationship conflict, self-esteem, substance abuse, suicide/bereavement and other mental health diagnoses. Every individuals story is unique and therefore, we will work together to find what fits your needs towards happiness and personal fulfillment.
My passion and goal as a therapist stems from guiding those to become the best version of themselves through insight, empowerment and compassion. The skills I have acquired are through working with individuals, couples and families specializing in anxiety, depression, stress, trauma, relationship conflict, self-esteem, substance abuse, suicide/bereavement and other mental health diagnoses. Every individuals story is unique and therefore, we will work together to find what fits your needs towards happiness and personal fulfillment.
Choosing to begin therapy for yourself or seeking support for a loved one is a brave and meaningful step towards achieving both short and long term goals. I look forward to being a part of your journey towards healing, personal growth, enhancing strengths, and manifesting the future you deserve!
Choosing to begin therapy for yourself or seeking support for a loved one is a brave and meaningful step towards achieving both short and long term goals. I look forward to being a part of your journey towards healing, personal growth, enhancing strengths, and manifesting the future you deserve!
You are tired of struggling. Self-doubt, anxiety and sadness serve as internal barriers to functioning in more healthy ways. Tremendous uncertainty can feel paralyzing and you have trouble coping with change. If you no longer want to be fearful but are caught in repetitive patterns, conflict, and emotional pain, know that there is hope and you are not alone. As your therapist, I am your instrument for change and will help you reach your fuller potential. You will change old behaviors and develop new ones that contribute to increased confidence and self-esteem. You will learn how to better trust yourself and in the process of life.
You are tired of struggling. Self-doubt, anxiety and sadness serve as internal barriers to functioning in more healthy ways. Tremendous uncertainty can feel paralyzing and you have trouble coping with change. If you no longer want to be fearful but are caught in repetitive patterns, conflict, and emotional pain, know that there is hope and you are not alone. As your therapist, I am your instrument for change and will help you reach your fuller potential. You will change old behaviors and develop new ones that contribute to increased confidence and self-esteem. You will learn how to better trust yourself and in the process of life.
If you find yourself struggling to get from day to day, feeling lost, confused, unmotivated, or are unsure of how to manage a situation, then now is the right time to come in and talk about it. Having these feelings can be overwhelming and make you feel like you can't overcome them, but you can. Together we can take the steps necessary to get you in a better positon to tackle your struggles.
If you find yourself struggling to get from day to day, feeling lost, confused, unmotivated, or are unsure of how to manage a situation, then now is the right time to come in and talk about it. Having these feelings can be overwhelming and make you feel like you can't overcome them, but you can. Together we can take the steps necessary to get you in a better positon to tackle your struggles.
I believe it is necessary for a person to feel valued and understood during their counseling experience. You and I can work together to develop the skills you need to live a happy and healthy life. My approach is client centered and strengths-based, knowing the importance of being aware of and sensitive to your age, personality and stage of change. I will work with you to develop goals, empowering you to use your own life skills to manage your emotions and behaviors, and achieve your full potential.
I believe it is necessary for a person to feel valued and understood during their counseling experience. You and I can work together to develop the skills you need to live a happy and healthy life. My approach is client centered and strengths-based, knowing the importance of being aware of and sensitive to your age, personality and stage of change. I will work with you to develop goals, empowering you to use your own life skills to manage your emotions and behaviors, and achieve your full potential.
I have a background that includes over 30 years experience and knowledge in providing mental health care to clients who need help dealing with diverse mental health issues and problems. Those who desire improved and better quality relationships whether in marriage, as a parent, in friendships, with relatives, including extended family, or in the workplace should contact me. I also have extensive experience working with clients who suffer from low self esteem, self-worth concerns and the illnesses that emanate from that like substances abuse, depression and anxiety. Improving quality of life addressing forgiveness issues is also a specialty.
I have a background that includes over 30 years experience and knowledge in providing mental health care to clients who need help dealing with diverse mental health issues and problems. Those who desire improved and better quality relationships whether in marriage, as a parent, in friendships, with relatives, including extended family, or in the workplace should contact me. I also have extensive experience working with clients who suffer from low self esteem, self-worth concerns and the illnesses that emanate from that like substances abuse, depression and anxiety. Improving quality of life addressing forgiveness issues is also a specialty.
It may be a troubled relationship, stress related to job/school/family situations, the lingering effects of past or recent traumas–or something else–and involve feelings of worry, sadness, anger, distrust, frustration, loneliness or low self-esteem.
I bring extensive experience in working with trauma and engaging with clients of diverse backgrounds to my practice. My approach is eclectic and client-centered, providing an emotionally safe environment for exploring the troubling issues, developing a true understanding of what is going on, sorting out thoughts and feelings and forming ways to move forward.
It may be a troubled relationship, stress related to job/school/family situations, the lingering effects of past or recent traumas–or something else–and involve feelings of worry, sadness, anger, distrust, frustration, loneliness or low self-esteem.
I bring extensive experience in working with trauma and engaging with clients of diverse backgrounds to my practice. My approach is eclectic and client-centered, providing an emotionally safe environment for exploring the troubling issues, developing a true understanding of what is going on, sorting out thoughts and feelings and forming ways to move forward.
Hi, I’m Brian Ruiz, a licensed clinical social worker passionate about supporting individuals, especially young adults, through stress, anxiety, and life’s challenges. My approach is rooted in compassion, dignity, and service, values inspired by both personal and professional experiences. After serving in the military and mentoring youth, I earned my MSW in 2013. Since then, I’ve worked with immigrant families, child protection, addiction recovery, and in-home counseling. I aim to create a safe, respectful space where your beliefs and goals are honored as we work toward resilience and growth.
Hi, I’m Brian Ruiz, a licensed clinical social worker passionate about supporting individuals, especially young adults, through stress, anxiety, and life’s challenges. My approach is rooted in compassion, dignity, and service, values inspired by both personal and professional experiences. After serving in the military and mentoring youth, I earned my MSW in 2013. Since then, I’ve worked with immigrant families, child protection, addiction recovery, and in-home counseling. I aim to create a safe, respectful space where your beliefs and goals are honored as we work toward resilience and growth.
I have over 17 years experience working with children, adolescents, adults, and groups. My goal is to help you achieve the results you want from counseling as quickly and safely as possible. My approach is supportive, non-judgmental and emphatic. I am solution focused. I help clients to identify their problem areas and acquire the skills they need to lead more satisfying lives.
I have over 17 years experience working with children, adolescents, adults, and groups. My goal is to help you achieve the results you want from counseling as quickly and safely as possible. My approach is supportive, non-judgmental and emphatic. I am solution focused. I help clients to identify their problem areas and acquire the skills they need to lead more satisfying lives.
Does your teenager seem angry, irritable, or more moody lately? Is it tough to communicate with them? Does it seem like they are always hiding out in their room or, maybe, they're never home anymore? These scenarios may look like changes in their personality, but they could be signs of emotional distress, depression, anxiety or another issue. So many teens are stressed and don't know how to ask for help. As their parent, you always try to listen and be there for them, but they just reject any attempt you make to help them. Did you know that teens tend to find it easier to open up to an objective stranger, like a therapist?
Does your teenager seem angry, irritable, or more moody lately? Is it tough to communicate with them? Does it seem like they are always hiding out in their room or, maybe, they're never home anymore? These scenarios may look like changes in their personality, but they could be signs of emotional distress, depression, anxiety or another issue. So many teens are stressed and don't know how to ask for help. As their parent, you always try to listen and be there for them, but they just reject any attempt you make to help them. Did you know that teens tend to find it easier to open up to an objective stranger, like a therapist?
Emotional difficulties block the path to a satisfying life that may manifest as depression, anxiety, bi-polar, anger/rage, psychosis and even suicidal thoughts.
I received my master’s in social work from Columbia University, post graduate training in personality disorders and adult psychiatry from Weill Cornell Medical Center – Westchester with further training in DBT, psychodynamic and CBT therapies. I am an affiliate with the Center for Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis of NJ.
Emotional difficulties block the path to a satisfying life that may manifest as depression, anxiety, bi-polar, anger/rage, psychosis and even suicidal thoughts.
I received my master’s in social work from Columbia University, post graduate training in personality disorders and adult psychiatry from Weill Cornell Medical Center – Westchester with further training in DBT, psychodynamic and CBT therapies. I am an affiliate with the Center for Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis of NJ.
In addition to my forensic training, my expertise includes Domestic Violence Specialist and Anger Management Specialist training.
I provide a unique blend of forensic evaluation and psychotherapy, offering clients and professionals a balanced approach rooted in accuracy, clarity, & compassionate care. Whether you are navigating a legal matter that requires a thorough, objective assessment or seeking therapy to better understand yourself & move forward, I offer a grounded, evidence‑based space to support your goals. I am trained through NBFE and AFCC, I provide comprehensive evaluations, psychometric testing, & consultation for attorneys, agencies, & individuals who need objective & evidence‑based information for legal or high-stakes cases.
In addition to my forensic training, my expertise includes Domestic Violence Specialist and Anger Management Specialist training.
I provide a unique blend of forensic evaluation and psychotherapy, offering clients and professionals a balanced approach rooted in accuracy, clarity, & compassionate care. Whether you are navigating a legal matter that requires a thorough, objective assessment or seeking therapy to better understand yourself & move forward, I offer a grounded, evidence‑based space to support your goals. I am trained through NBFE and AFCC, I provide comprehensive evaluations, psychometric testing, & consultation for attorneys, agencies, & individuals who need objective & evidence‑based information for legal or high-stakes cases.
Let's work together to reach your goals, find balance and commit to a life of heath, happiness and wellness! Many of us experience anxiety, depression, addiction, or other disruptions in mood or behavior, that may affect our ability to live productive lives or merely be our best selves; using a whole person, mindfulness approach, my goal is to help you identify areas in life where you feel challenged, stagnant or in need of focus, then work together to develop more adaptive means of coping and face such struggles head-on. Licensed in NJ, NY, ME, PA and FL. Certified to offer supervision for those working towards advanced licensure
Let's work together to reach your goals, find balance and commit to a life of heath, happiness and wellness! Many of us experience anxiety, depression, addiction, or other disruptions in mood or behavior, that may affect our ability to live productive lives or merely be our best selves; using a whole person, mindfulness approach, my goal is to help you identify areas in life where you feel challenged, stagnant or in need of focus, then work together to develop more adaptive means of coping and face such struggles head-on. Licensed in NJ, NY, ME, PA and FL. Certified to offer supervision for those working towards advanced licensure
My practice is dedicated to anxiety disorders with emphasis on OCD and OCD Related disorders. As such, approximately 85-90% of the clients that I am currently treating have this diagnosis. I have treated a significant amount of individuals and families who have been afflicted with the aforementioned challenges. This includes in an office setting, out in the community, and in the homes of the client. I'm up-to-date on the latest treatments. I treat clients on the Autism Spectrum, in all capacities (anxiety related and otherwise.) I also provide clinical supervision to other therapists on how to effectively treat their own clients.
My practice is dedicated to anxiety disorders with emphasis on OCD and OCD Related disorders. As such, approximately 85-90% of the clients that I am currently treating have this diagnosis. I have treated a significant amount of individuals and families who have been afflicted with the aforementioned challenges. This includes in an office setting, out in the community, and in the homes of the client. I'm up-to-date on the latest treatments. I treat clients on the Autism Spectrum, in all capacities (anxiety related and otherwise.) I also provide clinical supervision to other therapists on how to effectively treat their own clients.
These challenges could include but are not limited to substance abuse/addictions, family problems, behavioral problems, anger management, trauma, loss and grief, infertility, sexual problems, divorce, job stress, etc.
I have extensive experience working with individuals suffering from substance abuse disorders as well as working with individuals who are suffering with co-occurring disorders.
These challenges could include but are not limited to substance abuse/addictions, family problems, behavioral problems, anger management, trauma, loss and grief, infertility, sexual problems, divorce, job stress, etc.
I have extensive experience working with individuals suffering from substance abuse disorders as well as working with individuals who are suffering with co-occurring disorders.
With extensive experience assisting people at every stage in life, my therapeutic approach will provide support and practical feedback to help you effectively address personal life challenges. I have extensive post graduate experience in the treatment of children and families impacted by abuse, neglect and other significant traumatic events such as divorce, death, chronic illness or substance abuse. I integrate complementary methodologies to offer a personalized approach. With compassion and understanding, I will work with you to help build on your strengths and attain the personal growth you and/or your family are committed to accomplishing.
With extensive experience assisting people at every stage in life, my therapeutic approach will provide support and practical feedback to help you effectively address personal life challenges. I have extensive post graduate experience in the treatment of children and families impacted by abuse, neglect and other significant traumatic events such as divorce, death, chronic illness or substance abuse. I integrate complementary methodologies to offer a personalized approach. With compassion and understanding, I will work with you to help build on your strengths and attain the personal growth you and/or your family are committed to accomplishing.
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Anger Management Therapists
How long does therapy take for anger management?
Treatment duration depends on the person’s specific challenges and circumstances. There are treatments for anger problems that are shorter and more goal-oriented, like Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), which can last weeks to months. Others, like Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) may last between six months and a year, while a more intensive treatment, like psychodynamic therapy, is open-ended, and clients may see their therapist for a year or longer.
How do you know if you need therapy for anger management?
Everyone gets mad from time to time. But when angry outbursts become frequent and cause damage to relationships, whether at home or in the office, it may be a good time to look into therapy. A therapist can assess where a client’s anger may be coming from, suggest strategies for averting angry outbursts, and help a client create a plan to become a calmer version of themselves.
Is there medication for anger management?
Medications do exist that help people mitigate the feeling of anger, but these are reserved for people with anger-related psychiatric disorders, such as intermittent explosive disorder, oppositional defiant disorder, or in some cases borderline personality disorder. In these cases, antidepressant medications may be prescribed to help with the client’s symptoms. In most cases of anger management, however, talk therapy is the recommended treatment, along with lifestyle changes where relevant.
What’s the best way to encourage someone to seek help for anger issues?
It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either themselves or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.


