Adoption Therapists in Holmdel, NJ

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Jean Provance
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CCTP
2 Endorsed
Holmdel, NJ 07733
If you’ve faced complex, lifelong trauma from foster care, abuse, neglect, or adoption, you’ve found the specialized care you need.
We utilize evidence-based therapies such as EMDR, TF-CBT, and play therapy for younger children, all designed to effectively reduce symptoms both in our sessions and in your daily life. Our approach tailors therapy to fit your unique needs, allowing you to start implementing strategies right away.
If you’ve faced complex, lifelong trauma from foster care, abuse, neglect, or adoption, you’ve found the specialized care you need.
We utilize evidence-based therapies such as EMDR, TF-CBT, and play therapy for younger children, all designed to effectively reduce symptoms both in our sessions and in your daily life. Our approach tailors therapy to fit your unique needs, allowing you to start implementing strategies right away.
(732) 631-3597 View (732) 631-3597
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Mayya Fleyshmakher
Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Holmdel, NJ 07733
I am a modern and hip child/adolescent and adult psychotherapist looking to remove the stigma of therapy by making it accessible, solution based and engaging to young kids and teens. Therapy shouldn't be a punishment or a seen as a defeat. Yes of course, we will do hard work and it won't always be easy, but with years of experience and education, I am able to connect with my young clients and show them that together we can find a solution.
I am a modern and hip child/adolescent and adult psychotherapist looking to remove the stigma of therapy by making it accessible, solution based and engaging to young kids and teens. Therapy shouldn't be a punishment or a seen as a defeat. Yes of course, we will do hard work and it won't always be easy, but with years of experience and education, I am able to connect with my young clients and show them that together we can find a solution.
(732) 479-7246 View (732) 479-7246
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Dr. Stephen D Chece
Psychologist, PhD
Serves Area
I am a licensed psychologist in NJ, NY & PA for over 35 years. I incorporate a holistic approach, emphasizing mind, body, spirit and emotion. I am passionate about our work together & I still approach each person enthusiastically & with great respect. My work increases your ability to feel, to love, to hope, to heal, and to succeed. Clients are helped to problem solve and live in joy and peace rather than in pain and fear. This process involves in depth explorations of understanding purpose in life via prayer, mindfulness meditation, exploring and understanding thoughts, emotions, behaviors & the importance of true spirituality.
I am a licensed psychologist in NJ, NY & PA for over 35 years. I incorporate a holistic approach, emphasizing mind, body, spirit and emotion. I am passionate about our work together & I still approach each person enthusiastically & with great respect. My work increases your ability to feel, to love, to hope, to heal, and to succeed. Clients are helped to problem solve and live in joy and peace rather than in pain and fear. This process involves in depth explorations of understanding purpose in life via prayer, mindfulness meditation, exploring and understanding thoughts, emotions, behaviors & the importance of true spirituality.
(732) 481-0415 View (732) 481-0415
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Linda Lotano
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, NCC, LPC
5 Endorsed
Serves Area
Choosing to begin therapy for yourself or seeking support for a loved one is a brave and meaningful step towards achieving both short and long term goals. I look forward to being a part of your journey towards healing, personal growth, enhancing strengths, and manifesting the future you deserve!
Choosing to begin therapy for yourself or seeking support for a loved one is a brave and meaningful step towards achieving both short and long term goals. I look forward to being a part of your journey towards healing, personal growth, enhancing strengths, and manifesting the future you deserve!
(732) 313-0508 View (732) 313-0508
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Pamela Scarpa
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, ACS, SAC
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Counseling is a collaborative and transformative process that fosters self-discovery, alleviates emotional suffering, and enhances overall well-be. As a Licensed Professional Counselor, I provide comprehensive, evidence-informed mental health care to adults, older adolescents, and couples. My approach is grounded in a humanistic and multicultural framework, prioritizing empathy, respect, and genuine connection. I bring specialized training in Psychodynamic Analysis, along with extensive experience in Family Systems Theory, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). Florida Telehealth Registration: TPMC7832
Counseling is a collaborative and transformative process that fosters self-discovery, alleviates emotional suffering, and enhances overall well-be. As a Licensed Professional Counselor, I provide comprehensive, evidence-informed mental health care to adults, older adolescents, and couples. My approach is grounded in a humanistic and multicultural framework, prioritizing empathy, respect, and genuine connection. I bring specialized training in Psychodynamic Analysis, along with extensive experience in Family Systems Theory, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). Florida Telehealth Registration: TPMC7832
(848) 283-6479 View (848) 283-6479
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Isabella Zigman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW, CSSW
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Specializing in helping children and adolescents feel understood, supported, and empowered to grow- Hi! I'm Isabella, a Licensed Social Worker and Certified School Social Worker bringing extensive experience providing counseling and behavioral support to children and teens. I’ve worked closely with children in the school systems and in private practice managing anxiety, ADHD, emotional regulation, behavioral concerns, and confidence struggles.I create a warm, engaging space where young people feel safe expressing themselves while building real-world skills
Specializing in helping children and adolescents feel understood, supported, and empowered to grow- Hi! I'm Isabella, a Licensed Social Worker and Certified School Social Worker bringing extensive experience providing counseling and behavioral support to children and teens. I’ve worked closely with children in the school systems and in private practice managing anxiety, ADHD, emotional regulation, behavioral concerns, and confidence struggles.I create a warm, engaging space where young people feel safe expressing themselves while building real-world skills
(732) 696-4174 View (732) 696-4174

More Therapists Nearby

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Jodie Carvalho
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Short Hills, NJ 07078
In addition to these issues, I specialize in anxiety, depression, self-esteem, parenting, and foster care/ adoption.
Life gets hard. I hope to offer you a patient, comfortable place where you can find support & restoration, as you work to process through whatever life is throwing at you. I firmly believe that the key to emotional health starts with learning to love yourself. And if you’re seeking therapy, you’re already a step closer to that goal. I use a strengths-based approach that's focused on bringing awareness to your feelings & their sources, and an understanding of the way that these feelings connect to your behaviors. From there, we can work together to help you cultivate a sense of control over your life. LCSW supervision also available.
In addition to these issues, I specialize in anxiety, depression, self-esteem, parenting, and foster care/ adoption.
Life gets hard. I hope to offer you a patient, comfortable place where you can find support & restoration, as you work to process through whatever life is throwing at you. I firmly believe that the key to emotional health starts with learning to love yourself. And if you’re seeking therapy, you’re already a step closer to that goal. I use a strengths-based approach that's focused on bringing awareness to your feelings & their sources, and an understanding of the way that these feelings connect to your behaviors. From there, we can work together to help you cultivate a sense of control over your life. LCSW supervision also available.
(215) 789-9830 View (215) 789-9830
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Linda Searles Stone
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Oakhurst, NJ 07755
I have particular experience serving women, youth who are trans/gay/nonbinary, families formed by adoption, and individuals with intersex differences.
I believe we are in especially trying times and connecting with empathetic people is more important than ever. I offer both in-person and very flexible telehealth sessions and would be pleased to connect with you. I am available during the day, some evenings and weekends, and with a little patience we will be able to connect and move forward.
I have particular experience serving women, youth who are trans/gay/nonbinary, families formed by adoption, and individuals with intersex differences.
I believe we are in especially trying times and connecting with empathetic people is more important than ever. I offer both in-person and very flexible telehealth sessions and would be pleased to connect with you. I am available during the day, some evenings and weekends, and with a little patience we will be able to connect and move forward.
(848) 233-4432 View (848) 233-4432
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Megan Roffina
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Online Only
I bring over 4 years of experience treating adolescents, young adults, and adults with a particular focus on anxiety, grief, adoption, trauma, and life transitions.
The first therapy session with me focuses on creating a comfortable, supportive space where you can begin sharing your story at your own pace. I start by building rapport, helping you feel safe, heard, and respected. We will talk about what brought you to therapy, what you hope to gain from the process.
I bring over 4 years of experience treating adolescents, young adults, and adults with a particular focus on anxiety, grief, adoption, trauma, and life transitions.
The first therapy session with me focuses on creating a comfortable, supportive space where you can begin sharing your story at your own pace. I start by building rapport, helping you feel safe, heard, and respected. We will talk about what brought you to therapy, what you hope to gain from the process.
(973) 315-6520 View (973) 315-6520
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Meryl Weinman Dorf
Psychologist, PhD
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Adoption-related issues are another area of expertise.
If you are struggling with feelings of depression, relationship issues, marital stress, job loss, anxiety, or other life challenges, feel free to contact me. I am a warm, respectful, experienced clinician who brings 30+ years of practice in consulting confidentially with a wide variety of people. You will find me to be open and caring and my office a safe and inviting place to talk. I am most effective with people who are thoughtful and willing to look inside themselves.
Adoption-related issues are another area of expertise.
If you are struggling with feelings of depression, relationship issues, marital stress, job loss, anxiety, or other life challenges, feel free to contact me. I am a warm, respectful, experienced clinician who brings 30+ years of practice in consulting confidentially with a wide variety of people. You will find me to be open and caring and my office a safe and inviting place to talk. I am most effective with people who are thoughtful and willing to look inside themselves.
(862) 324-7025 View (862) 324-7025
Photo of Jay Butterfield, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Jay Butterfield
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Serves Area
Your child or teen can bring you your greatest joy and at times they can bring you your greatest worry. Being a parent is like riding a roller coaster. One second you are calm and surefooted about being a parent and the next moment you're speeding around a corner holding on for dear life trying to understand or figure out your child or teen. Not to worry! Together we can support your child in being the best they can be at any age.
Your child or teen can bring you your greatest joy and at times they can bring you your greatest worry. Being a parent is like riding a roller coaster. One second you are calm and surefooted about being a parent and the next moment you're speeding around a corner holding on for dear life trying to understand or figure out your child or teen. Not to worry! Together we can support your child in being the best they can be at any age.
(908) 332-8671 View (908) 332-8671
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Cleonese Dasent-Green
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, GCert, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Tinton Falls, NJ 07724
Hello, My ideal client is the individual looking for a warm, and creative, approach where support is intentional. I hold Licenses as a LCSW in NY, NJ & PA, with an Advanced Graduate Certificate in Thanatology (Grief), and Play Therapy and 18 + years of experience in therapy, social work, and medical social work. I received my Masters degree from Fordham University in New York City. Rooted in my Caribbean heritage, I draw on both my professional expertise and cultural perspective to guide my practice. My Specialty is Talk Therapy and Play Therapy to help individuals relieve mental & emotional distress.
Hello, My ideal client is the individual looking for a warm, and creative, approach where support is intentional. I hold Licenses as a LCSW in NY, NJ & PA, with an Advanced Graduate Certificate in Thanatology (Grief), and Play Therapy and 18 + years of experience in therapy, social work, and medical social work. I received my Masters degree from Fordham University in New York City. Rooted in my Caribbean heritage, I draw on both my professional expertise and cultural perspective to guide my practice. My Specialty is Talk Therapy and Play Therapy to help individuals relieve mental & emotional distress.
(732) 598-3528 View (732) 598-3528
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Abigail Marshall
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Short Hills, NJ 07078
My ideal clients are adults, children & families who struggle with emotional regulation, rumination, reassurance seeking, phobias, or executive functioning challenges such as planning, flexibility, and impulse control. They need a safe, relational space to feel understood, along with creative tools—play, art, and crafts—to express emotions, practice mindfulness, and build resilience. Their goals include learning self‑regulation, reducing anxiety, strengthening executive skills, and thriving emotionally, academically, and socially.
My ideal clients are adults, children & families who struggle with emotional regulation, rumination, reassurance seeking, phobias, or executive functioning challenges such as planning, flexibility, and impulse control. They need a safe, relational space to feel understood, along with creative tools—play, art, and crafts—to express emotions, practice mindfulness, and build resilience. Their goals include learning self‑regulation, reducing anxiety, strengthening executive skills, and thriving emotionally, academically, and socially.
(973) 221-9200 View (973) 221-9200
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Kathleen Bakos
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Warren, NJ 07059
I work with clients who struggle with anxiety, depression, disordered eating, neurodivergence, adoption, LGBTQ issues and trauma.
Changing how we see ourselves and the world is hard, but sometimes that's what we need to grow. If you have anxiety, depression, trauma, LGBTQ, ADHD, parenting, marriage, or impulse control issues, I can help. As an adoptive mom of 2 neurodivergent kids I bring the compassion of someone who's walked that path. I will "meet you where you are" emotionally, and together we can navigate a path forward. My goal is for you to "know thyself" and find the peace of mind you deserve. Book with me now by clicking on my website.
I work with clients who struggle with anxiety, depression, disordered eating, neurodivergence, adoption, LGBTQ issues and trauma.
Changing how we see ourselves and the world is hard, but sometimes that's what we need to grow. If you have anxiety, depression, trauma, LGBTQ, ADHD, parenting, marriage, or impulse control issues, I can help. As an adoptive mom of 2 neurodivergent kids I bring the compassion of someone who's walked that path. I will "meet you where you are" emotionally, and together we can navigate a path forward. My goal is for you to "know thyself" and find the peace of mind you deserve. Book with me now by clicking on my website.
(908) 224-5237 View (908) 224-5237
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Debbie Gomez
Licensed Social Worker, LSW
Online Only
Living life is about making mistakes, taking wrong turns, falling down, and continuing to get back up. Getting everything right is not possible. Making these choices can be more educational than heartbreaking. It's all about perspective and having someone to listen to you without judging. All anyone needs is to know that they have one person who is there for them; a person who will listen, and see them for the value they bring and not the choices they have made. Confusion, discouragement, frustration, and loneliness do not have to be your only choices. Someone that reminds you that you matter, will make all the difference.
Living life is about making mistakes, taking wrong turns, falling down, and continuing to get back up. Getting everything right is not possible. Making these choices can be more educational than heartbreaking. It's all about perspective and having someone to listen to you without judging. All anyone needs is to know that they have one person who is there for them; a person who will listen, and see them for the value they bring and not the choices they have made. Confusion, discouragement, frustration, and loneliness do not have to be your only choices. Someone that reminds you that you matter, will make all the difference.
(908) 641-5056 View (908) 641-5056
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Shiquita N Reddick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I am also a licensed Pre and Post adoption worker.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in North Carolina and New Jersey. I am passionate about helping individuals navigate life's challenges, whether they involve anxiety, depression, trauma, or other personal struggles. I work with individuals seeking to create meaningful changes in their lives, heal from past wounds, and set and achieve their personal goals. My approach is warm, compassionate, and grounded in evidence-based practices. Together, we will work to understand the root causes of your struggles, explore new ways of thinking, and develop practical strategies to help you manage emotions and confidently move forward.
I am also a licensed Pre and Post adoption worker.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in North Carolina and New Jersey. I am passionate about helping individuals navigate life's challenges, whether they involve anxiety, depression, trauma, or other personal struggles. I work with individuals seeking to create meaningful changes in their lives, heal from past wounds, and set and achieve their personal goals. My approach is warm, compassionate, and grounded in evidence-based practices. Together, we will work to understand the root causes of your struggles, explore new ways of thinking, and develop practical strategies to help you manage emotions and confidently move forward.
(984) 266-8176 View (984) 266-8176
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Robyn DeRespinis
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Hazlet, NJ 07730
Providing my clients with a comfortable, open, non-judgmental environment is key to developing a trusting relationship. I have found it to be so important for my clients to recognize and build upon their own strengths. In our work together we can establish definable goals for treatment and uncover various patterns that developed over time. After obtaining a Master's Degree from Columbia University, I had the opportunity to work in both inpatient and outpatient settings. I started my own practice in 2014 and received my professional license (LCSW) in 2009.
Providing my clients with a comfortable, open, non-judgmental environment is key to developing a trusting relationship. I have found it to be so important for my clients to recognize and build upon their own strengths. In our work together we can establish definable goals for treatment and uncover various patterns that developed over time. After obtaining a Master's Degree from Columbia University, I had the opportunity to work in both inpatient and outpatient settings. I started my own practice in 2014 and received my professional license (LCSW) in 2009.
(848) 212-8182 View (848) 212-8182
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Vj K Murty
Verified Verified
New Brunswick, NJ 08901
Accepting new clients! Is your illness getting in the way of your happiness? Do you find yourself having less patience to deal with your day-to-day life? Debilitating illnesses and injuries frequently have an impact on one's mental wellbeing. Individuals can benefit from therapy to reduce stress and adjust to new situations. People with fragile health may need some help learning to cope with their pain and illness. Feeling seen and understood, particularly in difficult times, can bring a sense of security and comfort.
Accepting new clients! Is your illness getting in the way of your happiness? Do you find yourself having less patience to deal with your day-to-day life? Debilitating illnesses and injuries frequently have an impact on one's mental wellbeing. Individuals can benefit from therapy to reduce stress and adjust to new situations. People with fragile health may need some help learning to cope with their pain and illness. Feeling seen and understood, particularly in difficult times, can bring a sense of security and comfort.
(727) 353-9250 View (727) 353-9250
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Cindy Lallier
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Old Bridge, NJ 08857
My work tends to the emotional wounds that come from early relational trauma and attachment ruptures, childhood adversity, the complexities of adoption or foster care, the grief that follows loss and the uncertainty of change.
My approach integrates evidence-based trauma treatments with a warm, relational, and attachment-centered style. My training includes EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), Trauma-Focused CBT (TF-CBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Internal Family Systems (IFS)–informed work.
My work tends to the emotional wounds that come from early relational trauma and attachment ruptures, childhood adversity, the complexities of adoption or foster care, the grief that follows loss and the uncertainty of change.
My approach integrates evidence-based trauma treatments with a warm, relational, and attachment-centered style. My training includes EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), Trauma-Focused CBT (TF-CBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Internal Family Systems (IFS)–informed work.
(732) 290-4291 View (732) 290-4291
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Exceptional Wellness Counseling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PAT
Manalapan, NJ 07726
We know how difficult and stressful life can be. Our staff is committed in helping you reach your goals which will lead to a more fulfilling and happier life. At exceptional wellness we are dedicated to making our clients feel that they are of top priority. We work with children, adolescents, College students, adults, couples and families on identifying and fulfilling their goals. Reaching out and asking for assistance is the first courageous step in your journey. If you are ready to take that step please contact us. We look forward to meeting you!
We know how difficult and stressful life can be. Our staff is committed in helping you reach your goals which will lead to a more fulfilling and happier life. At exceptional wellness we are dedicated to making our clients feel that they are of top priority. We work with children, adolescents, College students, adults, couples and families on identifying and fulfilling their goals. Reaching out and asking for assistance is the first courageous step in your journey. If you are ready to take that step please contact us. We look forward to meeting you!
(908) 300-5871 View (908) 300-5871

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Adoption Therapists
Does my adopted child need therapy?
Not every adopted child needs therapy. However, many can benefit from seeing an adoption-informed therapist, especially if they were victims of abuse or neglect, appear withdrawn or disconnected, have behavioral or developmental issues (which may or may not be related to their adoption), are struggling with feelings of grief or loss surrounding their birth parents, or find it difficult to establish an identity, a challenge that often becomes most apparent during adolescence.

When should adoptive parents seek therapy?
Prospective parents can benefit from therapy even before an adoption—for example, to voice worries and fears; to reconcile infertility struggles, if relevant; or simply to prepare themselves for parenthood. After the adoption, parents who are struggling to bond with their child; are unsure how to talk about adoption or related issues, such as race; or whose child is dealing with developmental, behavioral, or psychiatric concerns can address these and other issues with the help of an adoption-competent therapist.

Is family therapy appropriate for adoptive families?
Family therapy can be invaluable for strengthening the bond between adoptive parents and children, helping the latter feel more secure in their place in the family. Family therapy can also help adoptive families navigate complex communication issues—for example, parents who feel uncomfortable discussing race with their child, who in turn feels invalidated by their silence, or a child who has questions about his birth parents but avoids asking them out of fear of hurting his adoptive parents’ feelings.

What therapy is not appropriate for adoption issues?
A discredited therapy known as “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy” or “rebirthing therapy”) should not be used to treat adopted and foster children, though it was largely designed for this population. Attachment therapy involves restraining, coercing, and punishing the child in order for them to “release” negative emotions and attach to their new caregivers—techniques that are abusive and dangerous and have even proven fatal in some cases.