Therapists in Highland Park, NJ
Entrepreneurs, high performers, and couples who feel stuck in the same stressors—this is the work I do. I help NJ entrepreneurs, leaders, and couples manage stress, anxiety, and relationship strain, and prevent burnout. My approach blends therapy, strategy, and performance psychology for practical, real-world change. Licensed in New Jersey; virtual sessions statewide. I also offer a supportive space for Jewish clients navigating heightened antisemitism-related stress. Preview my style on almost 200 episodes of the You Winning Life Podcast.
Entrepreneurs, high performers, and couples who feel stuck in the same stressors—this is the work I do. I help NJ entrepreneurs, leaders, and couples manage stress, anxiety, and relationship strain, and prevent burnout. My approach blends therapy, strategy, and performance psychology for practical, real-world change. Licensed in New Jersey; virtual sessions statewide. I also offer a supportive space for Jewish clients navigating heightened antisemitism-related stress. Preview my style on almost 200 episodes of the You Winning Life Podcast.
I work primarily with children, teenagers, and college students, as well as adult women, specializing in trauma, depression, and anxiety.
I work primarily with children, teenagers, and college students, as well as adult women, specializing in trauma, depression, and anxiety.
Lucila Lagru Hong
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, LSW
Highland Park, NJ 08904
Not accepting new clients
I specialize in trauma, complex PTSD, and attachment wounds, especially for survivors of domestic and sexual violence. Many clients come to me struggling with anxiety, self-harm, or chronic suicidal thoughts and need a therapist who won’t judge or pull away. My approach is warm, collaborative, culturally grounded, and sex-positive. I use evidence-based trauma treatments while helping you understand your patterns and build safety, stability, and connection at your pace.
I specialize in trauma, complex PTSD, and attachment wounds, especially for survivors of domestic and sexual violence. Many clients come to me struggling with anxiety, self-harm, or chronic suicidal thoughts and need a therapist who won’t judge or pull away. My approach is warm, collaborative, culturally grounded, and sex-positive. I use evidence-based trauma treatments while helping you understand your patterns and build safety, stability, and connection at your pace.
You're here because something isn't working. Maybe anxiety is running the show. Maybe OCD is calling the shots. Maybe you can't sleep, can't focus, or can't figure out why you feel stuck. Whatever brought you here, you're ready for help that actually does something.
At The CBT Center, we specialize in CBT and ERP for anxiety, OCD, ADHD, insomnia, and more. Our team of board-certified clinicians builds a plan around your goals and tracks whether it's working.
We serve New Jersey, New York, and 40+ states via PsyPACT.
We take our tagline seriously: We work together on what matters to you.
You're here because something isn't working. Maybe anxiety is running the show. Maybe OCD is calling the shots. Maybe you can't sleep, can't focus, or can't figure out why you feel stuck. Whatever brought you here, you're ready for help that actually does something.
At The CBT Center, we specialize in CBT and ERP for anxiety, OCD, ADHD, insomnia, and more. Our team of board-certified clinicians builds a plan around your goals and tracks whether it's working.
We serve New Jersey, New York, and 40+ states via PsyPACT.
We take our tagline seriously: We work together on what matters to you.
Ruth Goldsmith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, (EMDR, EFcT, KAP)
4 Endorsed
Highland Park, NJ 08904
Hi! Are you tired of being stuck in a rut or can’t get out of your own way? Do you want deeper connnections with others and with yourself? Is your inner critic interfering with enjoying life? Do you want to resolve past traumas and painful memories? Are you craving more sexual intimacy and/or understanding of your sexual self? I will work compassionately and collaboratively with you to heal and develop different patterns and ways of thinking. I will listen carefully to your story and provide your space to increase your awareness, get in touch with your emotions and provide you practical strategies for change.
Hi! Are you tired of being stuck in a rut or can’t get out of your own way? Do you want deeper connnections with others and with yourself? Is your inner critic interfering with enjoying life? Do you want to resolve past traumas and painful memories? Are you craving more sexual intimacy and/or understanding of your sexual self? I will work compassionately and collaboratively with you to heal and develop different patterns and ways of thinking. I will listen carefully to your story and provide your space to increase your awareness, get in touch with your emotions and provide you practical strategies for change.
You may find yourself ruminating on the past, fixating on the future, succumbing to anxiety and depression, struggling to fortify healthy relationships. You may find yourself internalizing complex traumatic experiences or still coming to terms with who you are and how you see yourself in this world. Regardless of the issue at hand, I’m here to help.
You may find yourself ruminating on the past, fixating on the future, succumbing to anxiety and depression, struggling to fortify healthy relationships. You may find yourself internalizing complex traumatic experiences or still coming to terms with who you are and how you see yourself in this world. Regardless of the issue at hand, I’m here to help.
Sometimes a crisis occurs and makes it impossible not to seek help. The person in crisis needs a strong advocate, a listening ear, a goal driven plan that leads them out of the chaos. I can help you see your way through this, with empathy and without judgment. My clients come in to address anxiety, depression and life transitions. I am trained in cognitive behavioral therapy, psychodynamic therapy and mindfulness. I use the therapeutic relationship to look at how patterns of interaction have developed and how to reshape/reframe behaviors and thoughts that block growth and joy.
Sometimes a crisis occurs and makes it impossible not to seek help. The person in crisis needs a strong advocate, a listening ear, a goal driven plan that leads them out of the chaos. I can help you see your way through this, with empathy and without judgment. My clients come in to address anxiety, depression and life transitions. I am trained in cognitive behavioral therapy, psychodynamic therapy and mindfulness. I use the therapeutic relationship to look at how patterns of interaction have developed and how to reshape/reframe behaviors and thoughts that block growth and joy.
I have been a clinical psychologist for more than 25 years. I have extensive experience treating adolescents and adults who are experiencing challenges with life's transitions and milestones, anxiety, depression, relationship or social difficulties, or have survived childhood trauma or more recent traumatic events. The work that I do involves a combination of insight oriented, Somatic Experiencing, Deep Brain Reorienting, and emotion regulation therapies. I also have extensive experiencing helping people with ADHD develop more effective compensatory strategies and thrive despite their challenges.
I have been a clinical psychologist for more than 25 years. I have extensive experience treating adolescents and adults who are experiencing challenges with life's transitions and milestones, anxiety, depression, relationship or social difficulties, or have survived childhood trauma or more recent traumatic events. The work that I do involves a combination of insight oriented, Somatic Experiencing, Deep Brain Reorienting, and emotion regulation therapies. I also have extensive experiencing helping people with ADHD develop more effective compensatory strategies and thrive despite their challenges.
C.G. Jung stated, "In many cases in therapy the patient who has come to us has a story that is not told, and which as a rule no one knows of. To my mind, therapy only really begins after the investigation of that wholly personal story. It is the patient's secret, the rock against which s/he is shattered." My practice involves creating a client/therapist relationship and environment where this wholly personal story can be explored and brought to consciousness. I work to create a safe, accepting, nonjudgmental, and collaborative space that will bring wholeness and meaning to the suffering that every human experiences.
C.G. Jung stated, "In many cases in therapy the patient who has come to us has a story that is not told, and which as a rule no one knows of. To my mind, therapy only really begins after the investigation of that wholly personal story. It is the patient's secret, the rock against which s/he is shattered." My practice involves creating a client/therapist relationship and environment where this wholly personal story can be explored and brought to consciousness. I work to create a safe, accepting, nonjudgmental, and collaborative space that will bring wholeness and meaning to the suffering that every human experiences.
Hi, I’m glad you’re here.
I work with adolescents and adults who feel overwhelmed by anxiety, stress, or emotional ups and downs. Many struggle with communication, confidence, or managing strong emotions. Some may be on the autism spectrum or need support building social and coping skills. Clients often come in feeling stuck, frustrated, or unsure how to move forward. Together, we work to better understand emotions, strengthen communication, and build confidence.
Hi, I’m glad you’re here.
I work with adolescents and adults who feel overwhelmed by anxiety, stress, or emotional ups and downs. Many struggle with communication, confidence, or managing strong emotions. Some may be on the autism spectrum or need support building social and coping skills. Clients often come in feeling stuck, frustrated, or unsure how to move forward. Together, we work to better understand emotions, strengthen communication, and build confidence.
Finding the right therapist can be challenging. Who would be a good match? Who has the balance of supporting you and challenging you when needed? Who do you trust? Perhaps I can be that right match. I have experience in the LGBT, athletic, military, and Veterans communities. I have experience working with adults and children from cultures across the world. I have worked with various issues including trauma, depression, anxiety, work/school/sports performance. I have a calm, friendly, interactive, supportive style while focusing on the healing power of a therapeutic relationship.
Finding the right therapist can be challenging. Who would be a good match? Who has the balance of supporting you and challenging you when needed? Who do you trust? Perhaps I can be that right match. I have experience in the LGBT, athletic, military, and Veterans communities. I have experience working with adults and children from cultures across the world. I have worked with various issues including trauma, depression, anxiety, work/school/sports performance. I have a calm, friendly, interactive, supportive style while focusing on the healing power of a therapeutic relationship.
We all need help sometimes in navigating life. You may be dealing with short-term stresses or longer-term concerns. You may be struggling with trauma, grief, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or chronic illness. You may have bigger questions about living a meaningful life. As a therapist, I work collaboratively with you to find a path forward with these and other issues. My approach to therapy is founded in respect for every client and begins with making sure that you feel seen and heard. I am also an LGBTQIA+-affirming therapist, in the broadest sense of the term.
We all need help sometimes in navigating life. You may be dealing with short-term stresses or longer-term concerns. You may be struggling with trauma, grief, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or chronic illness. You may have bigger questions about living a meaningful life. As a therapist, I work collaboratively with you to find a path forward with these and other issues. My approach to therapy is founded in respect for every client and begins with making sure that you feel seen and heard. I am also an LGBTQIA+-affirming therapist, in the broadest sense of the term.
You may be looking at this profile because you feel you've run out of options. Maybe you feel trapped in your mind and are spiraling in ways you know aren't healthy. Perhaps you feel pressure - from within yourself or from the people around you - to be "put together," but you find yourself hiding the real turmoil going on under the surface. I see a wide range of clients but am particularly seasoned in walking alongside those experiencing grief, trauma, and the complexities of spirituality/religious abuse. No matter the reason, I have a deep respect for the courage it takes to begin this work.
You may be looking at this profile because you feel you've run out of options. Maybe you feel trapped in your mind and are spiraling in ways you know aren't healthy. Perhaps you feel pressure - from within yourself or from the people around you - to be "put together," but you find yourself hiding the real turmoil going on under the surface. I see a wide range of clients but am particularly seasoned in walking alongside those experiencing grief, trauma, and the complexities of spirituality/religious abuse. No matter the reason, I have a deep respect for the courage it takes to begin this work.
I provide virtual individual counseling throughout New Jersey and Florida, as well as in-person bereavement support groups in New Jersey. With 32+ years of experience, as a social worker, I have worked in a variety of family service agencies and clinical settings, helping individuals navigate life's challenges with compassion, professionalism, and practical support. Whether you are seeking support during a difficult transition, coping with loss, or looking to improve your emotional well-being, I provide thoughtful guidance and personalized care to help you move forward with confidence and strength.
I provide virtual individual counseling throughout New Jersey and Florida, as well as in-person bereavement support groups in New Jersey. With 32+ years of experience, as a social worker, I have worked in a variety of family service agencies and clinical settings, helping individuals navigate life's challenges with compassion, professionalism, and practical support. Whether you are seeking support during a difficult transition, coping with loss, or looking to improve your emotional well-being, I provide thoughtful guidance and personalized care to help you move forward with confidence and strength.
We all tell stories to and about ourselves. The stories we tell can empower us, and sometimes we find that our stories do not serve us. At its core, therapy is a safe space for you to tell your story. As a licensed clinical psychologist, I value the story each person has to tell. My compassionate and non-judgmental approach allows me to collaborate with you, to understand your experiences and where you may be feeling overwhelmed or stuck. I will support you in the process of gaining insight, in order to facilitate meaningful change. I strive to build a strong bond with my clients, to help you feel more at ease within yourself.
We all tell stories to and about ourselves. The stories we tell can empower us, and sometimes we find that our stories do not serve us. At its core, therapy is a safe space for you to tell your story. As a licensed clinical psychologist, I value the story each person has to tell. My compassionate and non-judgmental approach allows me to collaborate with you, to understand your experiences and where you may be feeling overwhelmed or stuck. I will support you in the process of gaining insight, in order to facilitate meaningful change. I strive to build a strong bond with my clients, to help you feel more at ease within yourself.
Hi, I’m Ilan, a Licensed Professional Counselor in New Jersey. I specialize in helping adults who are navigating stress, anxiety, depression, and self-awareness. My goal is to provide a supportive space where you can feel heard, understood, and empowered to make meaningful changes in your life. Finding the right therapist shouldn’t feel complicated. I’m direct, easy to talk to, and focused on real solutions that help you move forward. My work centers on helping clients understand what’s getting in the way of their well-being, build self-awareness, and develop the confidence to create meaningful change.
Hi, I’m Ilan, a Licensed Professional Counselor in New Jersey. I specialize in helping adults who are navigating stress, anxiety, depression, and self-awareness. My goal is to provide a supportive space where you can feel heard, understood, and empowered to make meaningful changes in your life. Finding the right therapist shouldn’t feel complicated. I’m direct, easy to talk to, and focused on real solutions that help you move forward. My work centers on helping clients understand what’s getting in the way of their well-being, build self-awareness, and develop the confidence to create meaningful change.
Real healing for the real world. Lived experience meets 20+ years of clinical expertise. Let’s start your journey. You’ve been strong for everyone else. Now, it’s time to be strong for yourself.
Many people see "addiction" as just the surface, but I know that underneath the struggle with substance use often lies a heavy weight of trauma, anxiety, and family-of-origin issues. Whether you are a professional man navigating high-stress transitions or an individual tired of "the cycle," you deserve a therapist who doesn't just read about your experience in a book, but understands it from the heart.
Real healing for the real world. Lived experience meets 20+ years of clinical expertise. Let’s start your journey. You’ve been strong for everyone else. Now, it’s time to be strong for yourself.
Many people see "addiction" as just the surface, but I know that underneath the struggle with substance use often lies a heavy weight of trauma, anxiety, and family-of-origin issues. Whether you are a professional man navigating high-stress transitions or an individual tired of "the cycle," you deserve a therapist who doesn't just read about your experience in a book, but understands it from the heart.
With over 34 years of experience, I have the skills and resources to guide you toward implementing significant changes in your life. My clients seek self-knowledge, higher self-esteem and better relationships. I help them achieve those goals by creating a safe, non-judgmental space that allows them to open up and freely express themselves.
During our sessions, we will identify self-sabotaging patterns and, in partnership, will develop a plan tailored to your individual needs. Together, we will open doors and seek opportunities to enhance self-acceptance and improve your overall quality of life.
With over 34 years of experience, I have the skills and resources to guide you toward implementing significant changes in your life. My clients seek self-knowledge, higher self-esteem and better relationships. I help them achieve those goals by creating a safe, non-judgmental space that allows them to open up and freely express themselves.
During our sessions, we will identify self-sabotaging patterns and, in partnership, will develop a plan tailored to your individual needs. Together, we will open doors and seek opportunities to enhance self-acceptance and improve your overall quality of life.
Thank you for looking at my profile! You could have just asked AI how to deal with your problems and gotten a pretty good response. But human connection and dialogue is important. In addition to talk therapy I offer Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) for couples and individuals. KAP may be appropriate for treatment resistant depression, trauma, addictions, OCD and anxiety. I provide prep and integration sessions for psychedelic experiences. How about we also work on depression due to the news and current events? My mission is to assist you in restoring happiness and clarity to your life; my style is warm, practical and engaging.
Thank you for looking at my profile! You could have just asked AI how to deal with your problems and gotten a pretty good response. But human connection and dialogue is important. In addition to talk therapy I offer Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy (KAP) for couples and individuals. KAP may be appropriate for treatment resistant depression, trauma, addictions, OCD and anxiety. I provide prep and integration sessions for psychedelic experiences. How about we also work on depression due to the news and current events? My mission is to assist you in restoring happiness and clarity to your life; my style is warm, practical and engaging.
My journey into social work began through my own experience healing from trauma, which allows me to connect with clients in a genuine, relatable, and compassionate way. I understand how overwhelming it can feel to carry anxiety, depression, shame, or painful past experiences while trying to keep up with everyday life. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over eight years of experience, I provide a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can show up exactly as you are—without pressure to have everything figured out.
My journey into social work began through my own experience healing from trauma, which allows me to connect with clients in a genuine, relatable, and compassionate way. I understand how overwhelming it can feel to carry anxiety, depression, shame, or painful past experiences while trying to keep up with everyday life. As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with over eight years of experience, I provide a safe, nonjudgmental space where you can show up exactly as you are—without pressure to have everything figured out.
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Number of Therapists in Highland Park, NJ
100+
Average cost per session
$175
Therapists in Highland Park, NJ who prioritize treating:
| 93% | Anxiety |
| 93% | Social Anxiety |
| 93% | Health Anxiety |
| 93% | Driving Anxiety |
| 89% | Depression |
| 81% | Relationship Issues |
| 77% | Relationship Anxiety |
Average years in practice
16 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 87% | Aetna |
| 65% | Cigna and Evernorth |
| 60% | Horizon Blue Cross and Blue Shield |
How Therapists in Highland Park, NJ see their clients
| 77% | In Person and Online | |
| 23% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 74% | Female | |
| 24% | Male | |
| 2% | Non-Binary |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counseling
How can I find a therapist in Highland Park?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.

