Therapists in Bernardsville, NJ

Congratulations on taking the first step in beginning counseling. I understand it can feel overwhelming finding someone to work with. It is my hope to have clients feel supported and empowered on this journey. I hold a strong belief that all individuals have resiliency in their core, and are capable of taking control over their own lives. I approach counseling with people of all ages from an attachment perspective. I strive to have my clients leave each session with practical tools and new perspectives.
Congratulations on taking the first step in beginning counseling. I understand it can feel overwhelming finding someone to work with. It is my hope to have clients feel supported and empowered on this journey. I hold a strong belief that all individuals have resiliency in their core, and are capable of taking control over their own lives. I approach counseling with people of all ages from an attachment perspective. I strive to have my clients leave each session with practical tools and new perspectives.

Therapy provides the opportunity for learning how to become the person you want to be. How to better understand and manage your emotions. Learning ways to improve your relationships. Making more satisfying decisions and creating positive change. Equally important to being open to new learning is the ability to "unlearn". By this I mean there are conclusions you've reached, patterns of behavior you engage in, or "messages" you've received that are no longer valid or helpful to you now. Letting go of thought patterns and behaviors that no longer work for you is an important part of therapy.
Therapy provides the opportunity for learning how to become the person you want to be. How to better understand and manage your emotions. Learning ways to improve your relationships. Making more satisfying decisions and creating positive change. Equally important to being open to new learning is the ability to "unlearn". By this I mean there are conclusions you've reached, patterns of behavior you engage in, or "messages" you've received that are no longer valid or helpful to you now. Letting go of thought patterns and behaviors that no longer work for you is an important part of therapy.

What do compulsive eating, poor sleep, preoccupation with repetitive thoughts or images, and/or self-doubt and sadness have in common? They are all highly treatable symptoms, which are often exacerbated by life change or stress. In my private practice I help my clients grow through such times. Life crises can be catalysts for greater self awareness. I can help you learn to better understand and manage emotions in order to alleviate symptoms and lead a happier and more productive life. I incorporate a range of strategies depending on your particular situation, needs and goals.
What do compulsive eating, poor sleep, preoccupation with repetitive thoughts or images, and/or self-doubt and sadness have in common? They are all highly treatable symptoms, which are often exacerbated by life change or stress. In my private practice I help my clients grow through such times. Life crises can be catalysts for greater self awareness. I can help you learn to better understand and manage emotions in order to alleviate symptoms and lead a happier and more productive life. I incorporate a range of strategies depending on your particular situation, needs and goals.

I appreciate you taking an interest in my practice. Whether new to counseling or having had experience in the past, therapy is a courageous step to personal growth and change! I respect that each person has unique needs. With training in a variety of therapeutic approaches including interpersonal neurobiology, attachment theory, emotion theory and affective neuroscience, body-focused approaches, and transformational studies, an individualized plan will be developed to meet your goals. I am inspired by those individuals who have had difficult life experiences or challenging situations. My most rewarding experience continues to be a facilitator of growth and change in a safe accepting environment.
I appreciate you taking an interest in my practice. Whether new to counseling or having had experience in the past, therapy is a courageous step to personal growth and change! I respect that each person has unique needs. With training in a variety of therapeutic approaches including interpersonal neurobiology, attachment theory, emotion theory and affective neuroscience, body-focused approaches, and transformational studies, an individualized plan will be developed to meet your goals. I am inspired by those individuals who have had difficult life experiences or challenging situations. My most rewarding experience continues to be a facilitator of growth and change in a safe accepting environment.

Emi provides individual and group therapy in the following areas: children, adolescents, families and adults, addressing the life issues of major loss, grief and trauma, anger, stress, crisis management, conflict resolution and negotiation, self-esteem and depression. She has many years of experience working in private practice, county mental health and working with the court system. Her practice of therapy is guided by the belief that no matter what happened, all persons have the ability to show resilience, to gather strength, and to learn new skills in order to improve their quality of life.
Emi provides individual and group therapy in the following areas: children, adolescents, families and adults, addressing the life issues of major loss, grief and trauma, anger, stress, crisis management, conflict resolution and negotiation, self-esteem and depression. She has many years of experience working in private practice, county mental health and working with the court system. Her practice of therapy is guided by the belief that no matter what happened, all persons have the ability to show resilience, to gather strength, and to learn new skills in order to improve their quality of life.

Raising kids is difficult. As parents and caregivers we want to give them every advantage to help them thrive academically, socially, athletically, and mentally. With so many options and so much pressure to succeed, both parents and children need someone in their corner to help sort through what is best for their unique situation. Building mental fortitude is essential and it is often through the difficulties in life that we can actually thrive.
Raising kids is difficult. As parents and caregivers we want to give them every advantage to help them thrive academically, socially, athletically, and mentally. With so many options and so much pressure to succeed, both parents and children need someone in their corner to help sort through what is best for their unique situation. Building mental fortitude is essential and it is often through the difficulties in life that we can actually thrive.

Virtual sessions only. Do you want to create a more peaceful and happy life for yourself and/or your family? Together, we can address your concerns and achieve your goals without judgment. I have over 20 years of experience in the field working with clients of all ages and backgrounds. I am most passionate about working with adults dealing with relationship, family, phase of life and communication issues, parenting issues, anxiety, depression, grief and loss, adoption, disordered eating, generational trauma and more. I use humor and a humanistic collaborative approach to help you achieve your therapy goals.
Virtual sessions only. Do you want to create a more peaceful and happy life for yourself and/or your family? Together, we can address your concerns and achieve your goals without judgment. I have over 20 years of experience in the field working with clients of all ages and backgrounds. I am most passionate about working with adults dealing with relationship, family, phase of life and communication issues, parenting issues, anxiety, depression, grief and loss, adoption, disordered eating, generational trauma and more. I use humor and a humanistic collaborative approach to help you achieve your therapy goals.

My role is to create a space tailored to your needs where you feel empowered and resilient. I believe healing happens when someone feels able to change. I highly value my ability to adapt to each client, using a variety of techniques to best assist each person on their journey. I always collaborate with clients on goals, plans, and co-create a space that is optimal for them to be vulnerable and supported. I specialize in relational dynamics, communication, intimate partner trauma, and sexuality. I work with people of all ages by building on their strengths to address challenges.
My role is to create a space tailored to your needs where you feel empowered and resilient. I believe healing happens when someone feels able to change. I highly value my ability to adapt to each client, using a variety of techniques to best assist each person on their journey. I always collaborate with clients on goals, plans, and co-create a space that is optimal for them to be vulnerable and supported. I specialize in relational dynamics, communication, intimate partner trauma, and sexuality. I work with people of all ages by building on their strengths to address challenges.

LifePoint Psychotherapy Center
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
My approach to therapy is always client-centered, deisgned to re-connect you with your intrinsic wisdom and recognize your capacity to change. I combine an integrative approach utilizing ancient wisdom traditions with modern therapeutic modalities. By a small shift in awareness, you can end destructive habit patterns and sustain a less stressful, healthier lifestyle. As a student of Dr. Carol Look, Dr. Dan Siegel, Dr. Joe Dispenza and Jon-Kabat Zinn, Phd, I utilize EFT ("tapping"), Mindfulness (MBSR, Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction), Meditation and the patented IN-VIZION process to teach you a skill set you can use at home.
My approach to therapy is always client-centered, deisgned to re-connect you with your intrinsic wisdom and recognize your capacity to change. I combine an integrative approach utilizing ancient wisdom traditions with modern therapeutic modalities. By a small shift in awareness, you can end destructive habit patterns and sustain a less stressful, healthier lifestyle. As a student of Dr. Carol Look, Dr. Dan Siegel, Dr. Joe Dispenza and Jon-Kabat Zinn, Phd, I utilize EFT ("tapping"), Mindfulness (MBSR, Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction), Meditation and the patented IN-VIZION process to teach you a skill set you can use at home.

You lie in bed at night, worried about your child and feeling like a failure as a parent. They’re out of control, and you don’t know what’s next. Your home is in chaos. School calls all the time. Social gatherings are embarrassing, so you stay home. It’s like you’re being held hostage! It’s left your nerves frazzled and your mind in disarray. You know it’s affecting your performance at work, too. Your boss tries to be understanding, but you don’t know how long that’ll last. Meanwhile, you and your partner fight over parenting and how to see your way through this mess. The insanity has left you heartbroken, exhausted, and hopeless.
You lie in bed at night, worried about your child and feeling like a failure as a parent. They’re out of control, and you don’t know what’s next. Your home is in chaos. School calls all the time. Social gatherings are embarrassing, so you stay home. It’s like you’re being held hostage! It’s left your nerves frazzled and your mind in disarray. You know it’s affecting your performance at work, too. Your boss tries to be understanding, but you don’t know how long that’ll last. Meanwhile, you and your partner fight over parenting and how to see your way through this mess. The insanity has left you heartbroken, exhausted, and hopeless.

Joshua S White
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, SEP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I believe in your capacity to change and grow, no matter the challenges you face—whether they stem from trauma, depression, anxiety, or other difficulties. Healing is always possible, and within you lies an inner resilience and the potential for growth. As your therapist, my role is to help you uncover and strengthen your unique skills and resources, empowering you to achieve greater well-being and live a more fulfilling life. My passion is to support you in overcoming challenges that negatively impact your life. While life inevitably presents difficulties, these obstacles do not have to define your future.
I believe in your capacity to change and grow, no matter the challenges you face—whether they stem from trauma, depression, anxiety, or other difficulties. Healing is always possible, and within you lies an inner resilience and the potential for growth. As your therapist, my role is to help you uncover and strengthen your unique skills and resources, empowering you to achieve greater well-being and live a more fulfilling life. My passion is to support you in overcoming challenges that negatively impact your life. While life inevitably presents difficulties, these obstacles do not have to define your future.
Meet Our Therapists

With her warm energy and vibrant personality, Colette fosters a safe, comfortable space where her clients feel supported and understood as their most authentic selves. Colette recognizes the magnitude of challenges that impact an individual’s mental health, and is committed to helping her clients navigate both their most difficult and most celebratory times in their lives. Colette’s clients have described her as personable, thoughtful and reliable. She listens without judgement, and will challenge her clients where she sees fit for their growth. And of course, she always leaves room for both tears and laughter.
With her warm energy and vibrant personality, Colette fosters a safe, comfortable space where her clients feel supported and understood as their most authentic selves. Colette recognizes the magnitude of challenges that impact an individual’s mental health, and is committed to helping her clients navigate both their most difficult and most celebratory times in their lives. Colette’s clients have described her as personable, thoughtful and reliable. She listens without judgement, and will challenge her clients where she sees fit for their growth. And of course, she always leaves room for both tears and laughter.

Heather Lonergan is a Licensed Professional Counselor (37PC00642600) and National Certified Counselor (339695) in the state of New Jersey. She is experienced in working with adults and adolescents populations in the mental health field to include anxiety, depression, mood disorders, grief, relationship issues and trauma. Heather has worked in various settings such as inpatient/partial hospitalization/intensive outpatient program, domestic violence, adult residential and the children’s system of care. This provides a strong professional background and awareness into potential barriers in treatment.
Heather Lonergan is a Licensed Professional Counselor (37PC00642600) and National Certified Counselor (339695) in the state of New Jersey. She is experienced in working with adults and adolescents populations in the mental health field to include anxiety, depression, mood disorders, grief, relationship issues and trauma. Heather has worked in various settings such as inpatient/partial hospitalization/intensive outpatient program, domestic violence, adult residential and the children’s system of care. This provides a strong professional background and awareness into potential barriers in treatment.

Daphne Shalita
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Not accepting new clients
My ideal client is YOU. It would be my honor and privilege to help you align your life with your intentions and values. I love people, and I love what I do! I am genuinely interested in getting to know what you are about, and would do my best to help you figure out the most effective strategies to cope with your situation/s. I will offer you cutting edge treatment modalities delivered in a supportIve and compassionately honest manner.
My ideal client is YOU. It would be my honor and privilege to help you align your life with your intentions and values. I love people, and I love what I do! I am genuinely interested in getting to know what you are about, and would do my best to help you figure out the most effective strategies to cope with your situation/s. I will offer you cutting edge treatment modalities delivered in a supportIve and compassionately honest manner.

Leah Oswanski
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, ACS, MT-BC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Transitions. Grief. Loss. Fear. Change. Whether it is from the death of a loved one, divorce or marital discord, the coming out process, being diagnosed with a chronic or terminal illness, or adjusting to significant life changes: support can be a critical component of healing. I believe you already have everything you need within you to move through this. My focus is to collaborate with you in the exploration of feelings, cultivating your strengths, and creating/defining new coping skills to navigate this challenging time.
Transitions. Grief. Loss. Fear. Change. Whether it is from the death of a loved one, divorce or marital discord, the coming out process, being diagnosed with a chronic or terminal illness, or adjusting to significant life changes: support can be a critical component of healing. I believe you already have everything you need within you to move through this. My focus is to collaborate with you in the exploration of feelings, cultivating your strengths, and creating/defining new coping skills to navigate this challenging time.

Life, work, relationships and family issues can create challenges that sometimes feel overwhelming. I can help! My approach is to offer empathy, insight and new strategies, in a warm, supportive setting. The clinical practices I use are grounded in Positive Psychology and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. My goal is to help you cultivate strengths, improve functioning, enhance satisfaction in your relationships and increase your overall sense of happiness and well being. I teach strategies that make things more manageable and help you feel like you're in charge of your life again!
Life, work, relationships and family issues can create challenges that sometimes feel overwhelming. I can help! My approach is to offer empathy, insight and new strategies, in a warm, supportive setting. The clinical practices I use are grounded in Positive Psychology and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. My goal is to help you cultivate strengths, improve functioning, enhance satisfaction in your relationships and increase your overall sense of happiness and well being. I teach strategies that make things more manageable and help you feel like you're in charge of your life again!

My mission is to provide counseling to help you and/or your loved one(s) gain personal insight, learn self-compassion, and build resilience to achieve positive, long-lasting change. What you can expect based on what my current clients are saying about their therapy: 1. Gain Personal Insight – "reduced mood swings, more positive attitude." 2. Learn Self-Compassion – "Went from feeling criticized and berated to a kinder, warmer place."
My mission is to provide counseling to help you and/or your loved one(s) gain personal insight, learn self-compassion, and build resilience to achieve positive, long-lasting change. What you can expect based on what my current clients are saying about their therapy: 1. Gain Personal Insight – "reduced mood swings, more positive attitude." 2. Learn Self-Compassion – "Went from feeling criticized and berated to a kinder, warmer place."

Christopher E. Diviaio
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I'm huge on being radically genuine with everyone. You can be homeless and on welfare or a multi millionaire, I'll speak to you in the same manner. It makes no difference to me. & thus far that's been a huge part of my success as well as a major building block for my practice. As a result word of mouth has been good to me. So when you meet me for a session don't expect a three-piece suit or a clipboard that I will be vigorously writing on.
I'm huge on being radically genuine with everyone. You can be homeless and on welfare or a multi millionaire, I'll speak to you in the same manner. It makes no difference to me. & thus far that's been a huge part of my success as well as a major building block for my practice. As a result word of mouth has been good to me. So when you meet me for a session don't expect a three-piece suit or a clipboard that I will be vigorously writing on.

Are you feeling heavy with worry, anxiety, or stress? Having a therapist who is actively listening, responding, and engaged can make a world of difference - and quite literally lift the weight of the world off one's shoulders. My job is to support you and help you think through new angles on your life; to help you create the space and lightness you crave. Whether you are mourning a life you envisioned that you can no longer have or dealing with burnout from the life you do have, my priority is getting you back on your feet with tools and refreshing ways to think about the life, facts, and situations you are presented with.
Are you feeling heavy with worry, anxiety, or stress? Having a therapist who is actively listening, responding, and engaged can make a world of difference - and quite literally lift the weight of the world off one's shoulders. My job is to support you and help you think through new angles on your life; to help you create the space and lightness you crave. Whether you are mourning a life you envisioned that you can no longer have or dealing with burnout from the life you do have, my priority is getting you back on your feet with tools and refreshing ways to think about the life, facts, and situations you are presented with.

Do you feel like your child is struggling and you don’t know what to do? You aren't alone! So many parents yearn to enjoy their family life but have trouble with an overactive or difficult child. For so many parents, their home life has become a cycle of conflict, stress, and frustration that has become the norm. But your child’s behavioral challenges, whether the result of inattention, hyperactivity, traumatic stress, anxiety, obsessive thinking, or depression, are not something your family has to accept. It is possible to be better, because your child is naturally inclined toward wanting a happy relationship with you.
Do you feel like your child is struggling and you don’t know what to do? You aren't alone! So many parents yearn to enjoy their family life but have trouble with an overactive or difficult child. For so many parents, their home life has become a cycle of conflict, stress, and frustration that has become the norm. But your child’s behavioral challenges, whether the result of inattention, hyperactivity, traumatic stress, anxiety, obsessive thinking, or depression, are not something your family has to accept. It is possible to be better, because your child is naturally inclined toward wanting a happy relationship with you.
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Nearby Searches for Bernardsville
- Basking Ridge
- Bedminster
- Chester
- Far Hills
- Gladstone
- Green Village
- Mendham
- Morristown
- New Vernon
- Peapack
- Stirling
- Warren
How does your Therapist compare?
Number of Therapists in Bernardsville, NJ
60+
Average cost per session
$200
Therapists in Bernardsville, NJ who prioritize treating:
89% | Anxiety |
84% | Depression |
70% | Relationship Issues |
67% | Grief |
62% | Self Esteem |
57% | Family Conflict |
57% | Coping Skills |
Average years in practice
21 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
80% | Aetna |
71% | Cigna and Evernorth |
49% | BlueCross and BlueShield |
How Therapists in Bernardsville, NJ see their clients
80% | In Person and Online | |
20% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
88% | Female | |
12% | Male |