Nicole Ness
Counselor, LCPC, CST (she, her)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
3 Endorsed
Let's Connect (312) 487-3971
There are a range of reasons why intimacy might feel out of reach, or why we feel disconnected from ourselves (or our partner.) Perhaps it’s all of the “stuff” you were taught about what intimacy is "supposed" to look like (and are realizing it's unhelpful.) Or residual conflict is keeping you at a distance versus creating closeness. Maybe unrealistic body standards have invited themselves into the bedroom and are getting in the way of feeling present and pleasure. Or perhaps you and your partner have been at odds with your differing relationship needs, and are feeling defeated in finding a system that “works" for both of you.
I have a passion for supporting individuals and couples in uncovering these various blocks, understanding them from a contextual lens, and navigating them in a way that makes sense for you. Other topics explored include: conflict/communication, sexual dysfunction disorders, sexual trauma, infidelity/trust repair, attachment, and ethical nonmonagamy.
I am a Certified Sex Therapist, and also trained in Perinatal Mental Health and Emotionally Focused Therapy. My approach is curious, direct yet understanding, and I tend to laugh a lot with my clients as we bring humor into sessions. I am a very active participant and fully engaged in the work you'll do in the therapeutic space.
Call or Email Nicole Ness now for a free 15 minute consultation - (312) 487-3971
Let's Connect (312) 487-3971
Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $200
- Couple Sessions $200
Payment Methods
Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Out of Network
Nicole Ness
Counselor, LCPC, CST
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (312) 487-3971
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Illinois / 180.012819 Nicole Ness
- Attended Adler University, Graduated 2016
Education and Years In Practice
Nicole Ness
Counselor, LCPC, CST
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (312) 487-3971
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Relationship Issues
- Sex Therapy
- Eating Disorders
Expertise
- Anxiety
- Autism
- Bisexual
- Body Image
- Chronic Illness
- Chronic Pain
- Depression
- Infertility
- Infidelity
- Lesbian
- LGBTQ+
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
- Polyamory & ENM
- Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
- Self Esteem
- Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
- Sexual Abuse
- Sexual Addiction
- Trauma and PTSD
- Women's Issues
Nicole Ness
Counselor, LCPC, CST
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (312) 487-3971
3 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Teen ,
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied
Age
Teen ,
Adults
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
- Emotionally Focused
- Exposure Response Prevention (ERP)
- Gottman Method
- Narrative
- Psychodynamic
- Relational
- Trauma Focused
Nicole Ness
Counselor, LCPC, CST
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (312) 487-3971